Palema007:
Like brothers always appreciate... Lol.
Well you can't really blame ladies for such defensive mindset, it isn't about being ungrateful but these days most guys have made little help an expressway to the "paradise ". You can't blame the lady.

Well my own focus right now, is why Op made that offer? And to think he describe her looks as "average looking " dey make me give op corner eye.

What does he want gan gan?

OP want to use style and enter the place...


He no sabi the format.

The fact is that many couples met like that.

You failed mention the discussions you claimed to be funny.
The lady is just being woke......some "nice" men are pleasantly evil!

IJEYdiamond:
Nigerians dont believe that they are people that can help without ugly motives... well experience is the other of the day...

I have met... and bro keep on the good work

Though they are still some devils in human form... nothing goes for nothing if they dash you money accidentally they must look for a way to collect it in kind... Cowardly devils...!!

If he want to be kind, there are a lot of men in his locality that work in the same axis with him that he can be taking to work. Must he be kind to only woman?

Humanoid01:
Na so dawan take miss opportunity so o, but you can't really blame her. Well meaning people are difficult to find these days, especially considering the fact that you're a stranger to her. What I don't understand is why someone would flag down a complete stranger to take a ride, considering the dangerous times we live in.

Something fishy.... Which implies she was pretending not to understand....hence she had a motive.

Your comment seem to imply that you girls already have it mind that a guy will always want something in return for an assistance render or about to be render.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

you are her type that think work toto

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

You missed the motive of the question......

Girls knows everything they re doing at every point in time...very calculative gender reason I refused to join the bandwagon of women/girls do not know what they want.

I have never have pity for female in a bad relationships.

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

she was just forming! she liked d offer u for calm down.

Minjim:
Lemme add this

Nah the oga kpata kpata, the general overseer be this.

[Women do not need your help.


quote author=blinking001 post=95928800]I don't help women. [/quote]

The girl was rude biko, if she doesn't want to be asked such questions, why wave for a total stranger for lift. Kukama be patient and take okada, marwa or bus na.

LEKKITOLLGATE:
When will guys ever learn?

A typical Nigerian man wouldn't want to help a lady without an inner motive..... don't be deceived...

Though I've never misinterpreted a man before but come on,some men are very arrogant and senseless in their approach towards women.

A guy I once met approached me with-"babe,how far,cold dey oh....make we get line na.....

Just imagine....trust me,no girl in her right Senses wouldn't bathe such type of man with all kinds of insults because he deserves more than that...

. What a funny moniker 4 a pretty girl? Reminds me vividly of endsars victims.

2dice01:


She asked the Perfect Question bro

No sane man will turn himself to an Uber driver every morning to please a lady you just met some minutes ago

Cus if she was a Male
You won't even see his hand when he wave

Na so Nigeria film dey be before you know now, dem don start to dey date

onyechez:

She entered the car at first, based on the fact they lived in the same area on the first day am sure she wouldn't have attempt to enter on a total stranger.
You're talking as if you don't know what is happening in Nigeria. Even a foreigner has told me they're afraid of Nigerians because they are ritualist and eat humans. Blame the country you are in not me.

If u are scared of such u won’t dare enter a strangers car. I can’t enter whether they claim they live close to u or not. So bottom line is she entered a strangers car so why getting scared after that?? Makes no sense. Next time she might still enter another strangers cars so what exactly is she doing or trying to do?

U can give me a lift bt only once? That’s even worse unless she doesn’t plan to ever repeat such an act for safety reasons. A ritualistic doesn’t need to give u a lift more than once to strike so how smart exactly is she

That’s my point.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

U de mind some yeye men,that's how i was walking with a lady some years ago, a guy stopped, offered her lift,i wanted to enter he said no only the lady...

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

. Your mind dey dia, oga tell her what you want from her. Mr free ride giver.

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

Someone asked a valid question
Would you extend this 'kindness' to a dude?
Of course no...
Cos even if you do,the dude would probably wonder what the heck is happening.
So..
The lady is right to ask what you want from her.
Her of all people!
Tell yourself the truth
You want her.
If she had agreed....sooner or later you will bring up other destinations you can drop her lol.
But if you are an exception and really really wanted to help her(for whatever reason) pause and consider how weird your proposal will sound to ANY woman.
You can't really blame her.

Herculex03:
Na only woman u see
Op how many times u don stop carry your fellow man for road ?

True talk

2dice01:


She asked the Perfect Question bro

No sane man will turn himself to an Uber driver every morning to please a lady you just met some minutes ago

Cus if she was a Male
You won't even see his hand when he wave

LOL,
Please help me tell the idiot

If na man naa,u no go look im face,u go just add extra speed ontop,now na woman u wan turn to her driver

It is obvious you want something from her cos you can't offer to help a guy like that!

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Sadly, you've asked the perfect question. We guys always end up ignoring our fellow men and instead give favors to ladies that will end up not appreciating the deed. I long stopped doing that and always give a helping hand to my fellow guys as they appreciate the help more. The sooner dudes realize this fact, the better for them. Dropping the mic here. Cheers

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

This guy nailed it...perfect answer to his question

Asking that question is the best way she can do because truly you were looking for something if not how will you as a lady who thought of seeing a God sent to give her a lift turning to something else. A lesson is learnt guy
Never use what God gives you as an instrumental opportunity to take what you want from human being like you.
Remember, Jesus is coming very soon

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

When una see woman una body go they shake any how, they make offers anyhow

tosinhtml:
Wow congrats, please share your I.V, so some of us can at least attend the Wedding.

Congrats again & God bless your Union IJN. Amen.

What's wrong with you. Please grow up

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Choi nkea atokwam bulshit... Hahahahahahahaha

pocohantas:

I trust you are. Nigeria is a hard country to be nice. Sometimes I see kids trekking long distances to school, I feel like helping them, but mehn...I don’t wanna be lynched for being a ritualist or paedophile.

This reminded me of the day some kids all aged below seven confidently walked into my sitting room and asked me to put cartoons.

I wanted to say NO but seeing their happy innocent faces and knowing what saying NO will do to them, I said okay and told them sit down.


My dear, I switched over to kiddies channel, opened my door and went outside to stay. I was there until their moms returned.

I cannot come and explained what I never imagined

Humanoid01:
Na so dawan take miss opportunity so o, but you can't really blame her. Well meaning people are difficult to find these days, especially considering the fact that you're a stranger to her. What I don't understand is why someone would flag down a complete stranger to take a ride, considering the dangerous times we live in.

women do not see that as dangerous.

Mvena:

Na so Nigeria film dey be before you know now, dem don start to dey date

Hmm
Let's say you are the girl
What will be your response when he said he will come picking you up everyday?

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Best comment, let him answer us.

Ugo4hotish:


LOL,
Please help me tell the idiot

The guy na soldier oo
No call am names