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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by vickydevoka(m): 8:26pm On Nov 17, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Narrow approach. What of the ones d guy broke up with deceutfully? Or d guy died? There are so many factors that may lead to a lady being unmarried at age 30...But silly men prefer the narrative that suits them better.
I love ur ass. My Vaseline don finish self, make I check my soap, if en don finish na saliva get me
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Successdude(m): 8:27pm On Nov 17, 2020
SmartPolician:


I'm afraid this is NOT true

One major problem that guys face is financial challenge. You have to feed yourself before adding a wife and child. There are no good jobs out there and opportunities are limited.

Also, there are many ladies who challenge guys every second. They call themselves feminists. No guy will possibly marry such ladies. Funnily enough, they are all over the places - especially among the educated females

In conclusion, no matter how flirtatious a guy is, he will get to a point where gets tired and want to settle down. If the worst comes to the worst, he will ask people to help him look for a decent girl to wife.

Ohoo ... U even found yourself mentioning "decent girl".

My dear it borders on sexual purity. (As in, be a virgin or genuinely be seen abstaining further if you aren't) ..

Sexual purity amongst ladies is the hidden issue and trust me it is hidden, yet has its head rasing at all sides of bad events they face.

WAS IT NOT FEW WEEKS AGO on social media LADY WAS LAMENTING THAT SHE NEEDS RECOMMENDATION ON CREAM TO USE TO TIGHTEN HER VIRGINA and make it be new.(That she had told her fiance that she was a virgin but she isn't.)

Question : why do you think she hid that from the man initially if she wasn't afraid of the after effects of him knowing ? And do you think that fear just came ? No no, think it again : suitors must have left her because of that... That she had to as a matter of urgency looking for recommendations.

Love from a man to a woman ALWAYS gets affected in relation to the number of sex partners she says she's had before.

But the best bet would in that case (where she isn't a virgin) would ONLY be if she creats that impression that she is genuinely changed. Infact until a woman gains trust from a man, there's a big problem. Cos just a little thing as seen speaking with her ex, it could raise down the roof.

(The presence of slayqueens does more harm than good to the feminine gender. You can imagine it adding the more "sexual objectism" to female gender.

And ladies freely discussing sexual stuff without reservation , and even commenting on posts like "do you like big dicks?" has become a permanent stain on them.)

They haven't known yet the extent of these. The only means was for them to keep that virginity or totally and as a matter of urgency, abstain from all form of sexual impurity if they aren't. This is it.

Most men are ready to be baby daddy(subtly saying they now see women as sex and reproduction objects alone and not a bride You RUSH a bride. you liken her to a flower u wanna pluck. But when it has turned sth else, where would u find that rush ?).

A quick reflection here : Ned knew Chika Ike and also Regina (but never got married to one and chose the one he atleast calls virgin)

But we still find these myopic girls mistake the self-inflicting problem of the act of cohabiting as being a "bride". They still get their boobs pressed in public and ass squeezed by the same men to prove the sex objectism ( chioma and Juliet Ibrahim) ...

This is the manifestation of the " hidden" effect of they being as sex objects.

And it doesn't stop from being so especially even as it is 21st century. This has come to be natural and does not change. Remember the few weeks issue I told you about a lady seeking recommendation.

And even in old days, it can't be said that money was the problem to get married : it doesn't mean there was more wealth then or anything... So everything remained : the men still have to hustle now, which is, they still doing what it's been in olden days, now. They still having to be responsible for the family....

But the women who are home builders and expected of sexual purity have entirely sold a different opinion about themselves in this times.

So now it keeps them at the receiving end. Infact they must have to prove a point of abtenance at least before you as a man must start considering .
It doesn't mean others ain't that of concern but e nor reach anywhere compared to ladies now seen as easy sex points. So she has to prove she's not, before she'll be considered.

That's the major issue that's lying on now.


Or have you forgotten how Ned nwoko prided in the "virginity" of his wives ??

This is a billionaire.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by luminouz(m): 8:27pm On Nov 17, 2020
pozehnani:
It's not as of there are no men to marry them but the thing is the ones that are coming for them are not up to standard but the ones that tick all the boxes are not forthcoming. This life is just somehow.

Baby girl, don't kill yourself. Maximize your singlehood because even the marriage itself is not an easy task. It's a lifetime load of responsibilities and duties that only the fittest can survive.

My twin is married and I see how she stresses to keep the homefront in order and still manage her business. Even with hubbys support, the stress is something else.

With marriage, you lose yourself, your time, your leisure and "freedom" only to regain it in old age when you're too frail and weak to do anything or have fun again. So enjoy your simglsingl while it lasts.

All I see is that you aren't married, the twin narrative is to what,make us think you are better off? grin


Come here,lemme marry you.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by vickydevoka(m): 8:27pm On Nov 17, 2020
pozehnani:
It's not as of there are no men to marry them but the thing is the ones that are coming for them are not up to standard but the ones that tick all the boxes are not forthcoming. This life is just somehow.

Baby girl, don't kill yourself. Maximize your singlehood because even the marriage itself is not an easy task. It's a lifetime load of responsibilities and duties that only the fittest can survive.

My twin is married and I see how she stresses to keep the homefront in order and still manage her business. Even with hubbys support, the stress is something else.

With marriage, you lose yourself, your time, your leisure and "freedom" only to regain it in old age when you're too frail and weak to do anything or have fun again. So enjoy your simglsingl while it lasts.
Most of Dem end up in a brothel

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by 21cents: 8:28pm On Nov 17, 2020
womenareapes:
why won't them be no men? undecided

no men would want to marry a 1000 diameter blackhole undecided


when there are young you will see those ape forming "he is not my type" "must have 6figure"
blabla bla, but once there are getting old even goat will be a suitable candidate for them to get married to!

you see! the problem with Naija women is that they lack common sense!
dey think just by having a hole and two grape they can rule the world but little did they know that this world is be ruled by men.
When you tell them "It's a man's world", they scoff at you. because as dem no get sense, dey couldn't read meaning to that statement.

las las a man is a god on Earth. no vagina people can hold us to ransom.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Nobody: 8:28pm On Nov 17, 2020
JAMO84:
ISLAM IS THE SOLUTION FOR HUMANITY
Islam the terror of modern world.


You can shove the Islam into Muhammad's asshole

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by igala1(m): 8:29pm On Nov 17, 2020
Isaiah 4:1 is at work
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Wickedfact: 8:29pm On Nov 17, 2020
luminouz:

Lmaoooo

You no well aswearugod. I don laugh taya

My brother, may you not marry a woman that fights like a man. Na Federal SARS go dey separate una fight. But I actually warned that guy.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by authority2006(m): 8:29pm On Nov 17, 2020
That's why we advocate polygamy

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by vickydevoka(m): 8:29pm On Nov 17, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Wahala no dey finish. If you approaching menopause and no husband, go for artificial insemination and have babies naw.

Must no husband deprive one from procreation? Nawa
Artificial insemination na free?

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Nobody: 8:30pm On Nov 17, 2020
honestly every woman deserve a husband in order to be happy but most of them are too arogant to admit .

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Nobody: 8:30pm On Nov 17, 2020
If you are a single working-class lady below the age of 33 hit me up if you want something serious.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by jayaim: 8:30pm On Nov 17, 2020
U keep hailing ur religion & there is nothing to write home about it. I will rather be an idol worshipper, than to be a hypocrite quote author=JAMO84 post=96148373]ISLAM IS THE SOLUTION FOR HUMANITY[/quote]
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by worldclass68(m): 8:32pm On Nov 17, 2020
[quote author=MISSCONGENIALITY post=96150936][/quote]





I no come get how my own parents come make it happen.... although I'll give 80% of the credit to my mom Sha....she's too strong.
Not like girls of nowadays slaying up and down, even I dey fear for my sisters.....

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by BusinessCity: 8:32pm On Nov 17, 2020
Nuttella:
Some of them are suffering from spirit husband and the demon won't let them marry.


True
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Dreadlock69(m): 8:33pm On Nov 17, 2020
E shock you eee dun they wey I eat wedding rice
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Herkim(m): 8:34pm On Nov 17, 2020
babesiosis:

Or you meant to say it is a CURSE to humanity...The largest scam in human history.

You suppose to ask how , why etc because you don't know anything about Islam .
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by masteroguns(m): 8:34pm On Nov 17, 2020
True talk,,even me getting maried scared me alot.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by FanOfMyself: 8:35pm On Nov 17, 2020
Web2020:
I am still looking for the portion in the bible that specially state that a man is entitled to one wife. God original plans for man is to marry more than one wife if you would be able to care for them. The white came and plant their culture here and called it God's plan for men. Abraham, Joseph and others married more than one wife. That is the only solution to this single ladies issues o
I know where it is written in the Bible. lol... but it is parabolic and not to be translated literally. But the funny thing is that something similar to that is happening right now in our society. For instance, women are either directly or indirectly wooing men these days and all that.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Dareajii: 8:35pm On Nov 17, 2020
Tell your elders to reduce bride price, heavy list from extended family and amend culture rules pataining to marriage and see what happen next

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by boluena: 8:36pm On Nov 17, 2020
Marry??
When you people don turn to slay Queen. I wonder d kind lesson u go teach ur children. Corruption, pollution from generation to generation. Yet dose who cannot even handle the family right, one will be paying high bride price on them without a good value to be expressed in family affairs

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by vickydevoka(m): 8:36pm On Nov 17, 2020
Wickedfact:


Your mother knows why she's crying. She is protecting you.

The problems with girls from Imo is that even when they behave like animals, there is no one to report them to so as to correct them. Their parents support them and their animalistic behaviour. Even some of the parents are worse than animals.
Imagine doing naming ceremony and none of the husband's people is around and the wife's family see nothing wrong.


U re right to some extent buh not all. My neighbor in shop from Anambra marry a very quiet imo gal buh I write now de don't stay together again. De mother of de imo gal is deceiving de gal to be packing all de money in de shop n be bringing it to Dem. Wen de guy noticed it he asked de wife to leave dde shop n go to de other one since he has two, she refused n pack her load n left. Marriage way never reach one year o

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by ifeanyiakom(f): 8:36pm On Nov 17, 2020
Hold catholic church responsible,they should free those priest to marry abeg undecided undecided

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by vickydevoka(m): 8:37pm On Nov 17, 2020
Wickedfact:


Your mother knows why she's crying. She is protecting you.

The problems with girls from Imo is that even when they behave like animals, there is no one to report them to so as to correct them. Their parents support them and their animalistic behaviour. Even some of the parents are worse than animals.
Imagine doing naming ceremony and none of the husband's people is around and the wife's family see nothing wrong.


U re right to some extent buh not all. My neighbor in shop from Anambra marry a very quiet imo gal buh I write now de don't stay together again. De mother of de imo gal is deceiving de gal to be packing all de money in de shop n be bringing it to Dem. Wen de guy noticed it he asked de wife to leave dde shop n go to de other one since he has two, she refused n pack her load n left. Marriage way never reach two year o. With 4 month pikin

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Oteikwu1(m): 8:37pm On Nov 17, 2020
Fussion1000:
Any working class lady that ready to be 2nd wife should DM me pls.
believe
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Nobody: 8:37pm On Nov 17, 2020
Beverlyjean:


People that can't afford to pay rent will affired freezing eggs....really??

What do you want me to tell her?…
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Nobody: 8:37pm On Nov 17, 2020
Mywd:


Mention them please.... Let me learn too.. I know a lot tho

We are not under pressure to born or to marry to even leave ur father house self
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by BusinessCity: 8:37pm On Nov 17, 2020
simplesearch:
What do you expect when most ladies eat and drink fornication during their menoflow. A lady btw 30 and 35 must have had 2 to 3 serious suitors, but because they get sex whenever they choose, they assume marriage isn't that serious business and can be contracted whenever they want. The few wise and faithful ones in the exception bracket who allow God to direct their footsteps will always have it good no matter what!


Please I beg you in the name of God change the suitors there to 20 to 30

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Burstit(m): 8:37pm On Nov 17, 2020
JAMO84:
ISLAM IS THE SOLUTION FOR HUMANITY
Here on earth, and to be continued in paradise with fresh 72 virgins. Clap for urself
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by yomi007k(m): 8:38pm On Nov 17, 2020
Nazgul:

MFM is worse. I went there for singles deliverance last year, thinking I'll catch one fine Smalley. Men if you see hanty and grandmother's coming for singles deliverance in fact I don't think I saw and girl in her 20s.

After day one I just japa

Fisherman spotted. Tuale oo grin
Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by Openbusiness: 8:38pm On Nov 17, 2020
I dey tell you, by the special grace of God, when my sons grow up if any girl they bring home doesn't look like this type below, na me Soro Soke 1 of Lagos go scatter d bastard relationship.....nonsense! My generations must get sense by force angry

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