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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Kingosytex(m): 1:08pm On Jan 09, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

Although as a real niggarrr I don't want anything marriage....Your choice.
Baby mama sure me die
Because marriage na scam

But if you must marry niggarrrr

Don't marry more than one wife


Fixed

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Liposure: 1:21pm On Jan 09, 2021
You are not alone bro. If i have my way i would marry in multiples like king solomon, but you know women and their wahala (dem no dey ever gree 4 demselves)

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by abosede93452: 1:32pm On Jan 09, 2021
In this harsh economy you want to marry more than one wife? Well it's your life. Fire on
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Bennysam: 1:40pm On Jan 09, 2021
Your life your decision
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Michelle55: 1:45pm On Jan 09, 2021
Goodluck my brother

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Karleb(m): 2:21pm On Jan 09, 2021
Marry one for Lagos, marry another for Abeokuta.
Alternate between the two cities every month.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by milky3(f): 2:24pm On Jan 09, 2021
so, what advise do u seek bayi
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by emmyN(m): 2:37pm On Jan 09, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

Go ahead if you have the economic means to cater for both and their children. Nor be the one wen you go rich today and poor tomorrow o. Also, whichever one you marry first, seriously let her know from the outset, even before the relationship starts, that you are polygamous, so she weighs her options and know whether or not to commit. Even after letting her know, if during the course of your courtship, in one of those lovey-dovey moments, she asks you if you are still interested in going the polygamous route, abort! This is for your peace of mind and that of your family.

The second wife coming in wouldn't be a problem. She already knows what she is getting herself into and so should fall in line. On your part, you must be strong willed yet flexible. Giving them both equal dose of attention. Of course this only happens in ideal situations and favoritism may show up at one point or the other, but you must make this as minimal as possible.

Good luck.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by habsydiamond(m): 2:42pm On Jan 09, 2021
Do u need advice b4 u put ur hand inside fire... The only people that can advice u are the polygamous people. Na dem fit tell u how their house be... We can't tell u any shiit

Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jan 09, 2021
One woman - one problem
Multiple women - multiple problems + daily drama.

Better abort that mission my guy if you want to enjoy your life.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by phenzy(m): 2:52pm On Jan 09, 2021
You no longer believe in true love but you want to MARRY lol not even one but two. You re just a confused fellow. You better make both of them your babymama if you no believe in true love.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jan 09, 2021
fati2001:


FOLLOW YOUR HEART
will u b his second wife ?
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by RAGEofFIRE: 10:06pm On Jan 09, 2021
undecided
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Originality007: 10:07pm On Jan 09, 2021
undecided

Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Penboy: 10:08pm On Jan 09, 2021
When people are looking at how to create value with their singlehood, you want to marry more than one wife?!

Dyou have up to 100 million in your account? Or na 100 thousand naira salary you wan use feed them?!

Them go born children for you?!

Bros.. Abeg wise up o.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Coldie(m): 10:08pm On Jan 09, 2021
I see nothing wrong with polygamy.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by TheRedpillguy: 10:09pm On Jan 09, 2021
Marry as much as possible. You will be saving women. Cus even all men marry a woman. They will still remain 2million. And women don't mind

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by adexeli(m): 10:09pm On Jan 09, 2021
You're living in a fantasy.... It's possible to love two different ladies equally abi... Just don't come here lamenting when yawa don gas oh cheesy

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by InTheMiddle: 10:10pm On Jan 09, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.


You don't need anyone's advice. Follow your heart young man.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by georgeakins: 10:10pm On Jan 09, 2021
It is not a bad idea,. But ensure they are employed and they must not live on the same premises.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Dollanaira: 10:11pm On Jan 09, 2021
Do it
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 10:11pm On Jan 09, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.
You remain a GOD SENT to LADIES.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by whoelse1(m): 10:12pm On Jan 09, 2021
Oluromantic:
Me weh come from polygamous background, I no go advice make you marry 2 wives o no matter how much you get money. Forget education, I no wan call you mumu. Who tell you say education dey avoid charm in women...see mumu o. You just wan use your life play game.

Now that you've grown mature and decisive. Get a woman that you're compatible with and groom her to your taste. Let her know your firm standards and stick to her. A good woman will not only respect you, she won't be able to look you in the eye when she offends you.

Two wives no be solution. Once you marry two, the desire to marry the third and fourth will grow in you and your poverty will advance

Leave the mumu... You'll cry LAS LAS�

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by iramure(m): 10:12pm On Jan 09, 2021
As a married man, I have come to realise that marriage is a scam, no true love without money, marrying 2 wives is better. Most women are troublesome, very stubborn. If they are two, they will be well behaved

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 10:13pm On Jan 09, 2021
How does education stop wickedness, charm, or not?

Your choice, so far the parties know what they are getting into.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by stubbornman(m): 10:13pm On Jan 09, 2021
Mad people full this forum oooh..... sad sad

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by gassbee: 10:13pm On Jan 09, 2021
Too much weed

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by izibili44: 10:13pm On Jan 09, 2021
slimjohn2k5:
Go ahead
yes I concor go ahead
It's your life.mk it 4
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by humilitypays(m): 10:14pm On Jan 09, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.
dont marry 2, marry 3 or 5, always make it an odd number.


if u cannot marry one wife pls dont marry 2, instead of marrying 2, marry 3

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by seunak2016: 10:14pm On Jan 09, 2021
@op I understand how you feel but in the old age, you will definitely pay for the actions. hope your children take care if you when you are old. why not married one wife and you can just have girlfriend outside without interfere with the wife at home

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by allanphash7(m): 10:14pm On Jan 09, 2021
Go ahead bro
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by kanmi4gold: 10:14pm On Jan 09, 2021
You are nursing evil that will later consume you in your heart,you better regig your thought and put your head straight,one correct wife can give you paradise on Earth if you choose right.My two Kobo

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