CalliDora1:


What's the gain in having sex with someone you're not married to? Youll only lose.

You guys seriously need to change your mentality.

Tajbol4splend:
You don't ask your woman for sex, you seduce her to make her ask for it, shikena

blinking001:
Is it just a coincidence that most if not all Nigerian women always blame Rape as the source of their first sexual encounters? Op that girl is a bloody liar....a woman knows if she's gonna have sex with you from the very first day you two meet so stop deceiving yourself OP......that girl is only trying to prolong the sex thing so her value in your eyes increases...she's a manipulative biitch..break up with that type of woman for your own peace of mind...its obvious that she's playing mind games with you.

Alexaonfleek:
I don't know where they brought you alfa males from!!!!!!!
In a [/i]good week[i] you have at least 3 rape threads where girls of under 15 are raped by MEN.
My only prayer for you alfa males is that may God not allow the terrible things you say about women here be the fate of your female relatives.

justosee:
we know when it is real real

mashad:




You have to be game to know if it's real real

Philipmighty:
Is She Telling Me Truth, Please Your Advice Are Been Needed, I'm Confused

Guy's please I'm confused here, there is this girl i started dating last year December, she really loves me and i know that? Have asked her of sex for sometime now, but she keeps telling me she is not ready for that.

Her story goes this way that she was raped when she was 7 years old by there neighbour then, and the guy was arrested and later realised after much pleadings from his people, and ever since then her mother have been so closed to her even up till now due to the rape experience, and more over she also told me that she has dated three Guy's before me, and they all broke up because they are all after sex, and she is not ready for that, and now after, talking to her, showing her true love, making her to believe me that I'm different from other guy's out there, and she has now agreed to give me sex when next we see, only on the condition that whatever happens, I shouldn't leave her, no matter what even if she gets pregnant for me, but the truth still remains that i don't actually need the sex, i just what to know if she is telling me truth.

But the problem now is this please how will i know that she is telling me the truth, that she has never had sex ever since then, as I'm yet to trust her on that aspect, this rape experience happened 12 year's ago.

How will know she is telling the truth, cus I'm ready to find out the truth by all means

Please help a niqqa brothers

Sorry for the long write up!

DaInferno:
i no come this world only to observe. some people make things happen, some wish things happen, and some don't even know wtf's going on. Some people don't learn unless you chirp in an idea- the worl

Philipmighty:
[b]Is She Telling Me Truth, Please Your Advice Are Been Needed, I'm Confused

Guy's please I'm confused here, there is this girl i started dating last year December, she really loves me and i know that? Have asked her of sex for sometime now, but she keeps telling me she is not ready for that.

Her story goes this way that she was raped when she wa[b]s 7 years old by there neighbour then, and the guy was arreste[/b]d and later realised after much pleadings from his people, and ever since then her mother have been so closed to her even up till now due to the rape experience, and more over she also told me that she has dated three Guy's before me, and they all broke up because they are all after sex, and she is not ready for that, and now after, talking to her, showing her true love, making her to believe me that I'm different from other guy's out there, and she has now agreed to give me sex when next we see, only on the condition that whatever happens, I shouldn't leave her, no matter what even if she gets pregnant for me, but the truth still remains that i don't actually need the sex, i just what to know if she is telling me truth.

But the problem now is this please how will i know that she is telling me the truth, that she has never had sex ever since then, as I'm yet to trust her on that aspect, this rape experience happened 12 year's ago.

How will know she is telling the truth, cus I'm ready to find out the truth by all means

Please help a niqqa brothers

Sorry for the long write up!

valentineuwakwe:
what truth again do you want to know? some who was rape at age 7 and dated 3 guys afterwards. then you want to know if the hole have expanded or not..
is it sex you came for or true love?
just belive her.

PRETTYPRINCES:




When we tell them no sex before marriage they become angry, we want to keep our virginity it is still them that will not let us breathe. And yet afterwards be shouting 'i can't marry a none virgin'. Men are just confuse.

Sunkyapogee:
your bf? five minutes? aaaaah

Philipmighty:
Is She Telling Me Truth, Please Your Advice Are Been Needed, I'm Confused

Guy's please I'm confused here, there is this girl i started dating last year December, she really loves me and i know that? Have asked her of sex for sometime now, but she keeps telling me she is not ready for that.

Her story goes this way that she was raped when she was 7 years old by there neighbour then, and the guy was arrested and later realised after much pleadings from his people, and ever since then her mother have been so closed to her even up till now due to the rape experience, and more over she also told me that she has dated three Guy's before me, and they all broke up because they are all after sex, and she is not ready for that, and now after, talking to her, showing her true love, making her to believe me that I'm different from other guy's out there, and she has now agreed to give me sex when next we see, only on the condition that whatever happens, I shouldn't leave her, no matter what even if she gets pregnant for me, but the truth still remains that i don't actually need the sex, i just what to know if she is telling me truth.

But the problem now is this please how will i know that she is telling me the truth, that she has never had sex ever since then, as I'm yet to trust her on that aspect, this rape experience happened 12 year's ago.

How will know she is telling the truth, cus I'm ready to find out the truth by all means

Please help a niqqa brothers

Sorry for the long write up!

blinking001:

First of all...rape isn't perpetrated by a particular gender only, on the contrary men are also victims of rape...the difference is that men aren't allowed to voice out their concerns because they'll be termed weak by the fem-centric society....

Alexaonfleek:
Between a woman your age and yourself,answer honestly
Who is more likely to get raped?
Do you really think women are also allowed to voice out their stories?
Just a glance at this thread alone and you'll get the answer to the second question

CalliDora1:


What's the gain in having sex with someone you're not married to? Youll only lose.

You guys seriously need to change your mentality.

pocohantas:
Everyday on frontpage there is a thread of a minor getting raped. Yet when these girls grow and share their experiences, same men will call them liars.

I have said it before, any NIGERIAN man that tries that with me, even if it costs me my life, I will find him and KILL him in the most gruesome way possible. Then I go home a fulfilled woman. Ediots. I don’t blame you lots, I blame the women reporting to police. If many were like me, people would be waking to y’all mutilated bodies on the streets.

blinking001:
Is it just a coincidence that most if not all Nigerian women always blame Rape as the source of their first sexual encounters? Op that girl is a bloody liar....a woman knows if she's gonna have sex with you from the very first day you two meet so stop deceiving yourself OP......that girl is only trying to prolong the sex thing so her value in your eyes increases...she's a manipulative biitch..break up with that type of woman for your own peace of mind...its obvious that she's playing mind games with you.

mattmogan88:
Op, I v heard this same story from 3 different ladies girls, I don't know what they gain from it.

All I know is that IF YOU ARE NOT KNACKING YOUR GIRLFRIEND, ANOTHER PERSON IS DOING IT believe it or not.

CalliDora1:



You think or believe she's lying to you? Are you a virgin, Sir?

Look, if you love a woman, you'll go ahead and marry her. Using her past to determine the workability of your relationship is only being ridiculous because you yourself have a past and prolly so many body counts. Except you don't truly love her then drop it and move on, instead of digging up faults that are best left in the dark. Remember, curiousity killed the cat.

She may even be saying the truth but my own in all these is that you guys should shun premarital sex. E get why.

Poseidon000:

[s]If you're so incensed by rape cases, why don't you become a bastion of justice by seeing to the latter that female victims get justice, even if you're unable to do it in a grand way, smaller ways like offsetting their legal fees and joining or creating 'right' group will also suffice.

Instead, you're here prattling fuckshit like a white imbecilé whose wit has been eaten by rabies. As if we(nairaland guys) are remotely responsible for your troubled childhood, to warrant being embroiled in your vapid recrimination.
BTW, yapping about the awesome gruesomeness and mutilation you'll visit rapist with, is inutile just as futile, cos they're all phantom claim with no teeth. I say so because as a criminologist and penologist, the first thing I see in people is their 'propensity,' and you - pocohantas, you don't have the chutzpah, If not, I would've offered to mobilize and give you all the recourses you need to put it into practice on behalf of rape victims; you know, like a kinda sexual robinhood of sort, cos i have a special place for rapists in my revulsion. but then again; you're only catching online cruise, using rape as a veneer to spit nairaland men[/s].

Sixfeetbelle:


Average Nigerian man: As a child, your pvssy is too small to accommodate a preeq so there's no way it did any damage on you since it wouldn't fit. Besides, if it happened years ago, you should have forgotten about it by now. Adults, as a rule, hardly remember stuff that happened to them as children[/i]

It doesn't matter how you say it or what you say, it doesn't matter how angry you get over their insensitivity, the truth remains, the average Nigerian man hasn't been exposed to the rape events like their female counterpart and will mostly never see it the way it truly is. That rape is not merely just a 'tasteless, boring sex'

pocohantas:


Anger because I said I will KILL a rapist. Oga, I said what I said. I will gruesomely murder any man that tries that with me or anyone close to me. Who gives a fck about your NIGERIAN JUSTICE? One that enables rapists and tells them to apologize to the girl’s parents.

Why e dey pain you like this? You are scared of losing one of your own? I am sure you have never been this pained by rape stories. Once again, I said what I said. You can come confirm, whether your last seen on Nairaland won’t be the day you attempted it. Toor!




Can’t you see how that one up there is angry?

Me wey no kuku send them. If not that I have an active conscience, I will be knocking them down for sport. Nonsense

Do you have a gun to kill a rapist

Ikillbrokehoes:
Do you have a gun to kill a rapist

seanwilliam:

The people wey still the reason proper no plenty for this NL again, meanwhile... If you're a man, you gotta act like one, even if you gotta fake it

pocohantas:


Who told you I planned using a gun? Where is the fun if he dies in few seconds? Nawa!

Ikillbrokehoes:
Which weapon are you going to use then? or you will use your teeth to bite off his dick right?

pocohantas:
Everyday on frontpage there is a thread of a minor getting raped. Yet when these girls grow and share their experiences, same men will call them liars.

I have said it before, any NIGERIAN man that tries that with me, even if it costs me my life, I will find him and KILL him in the most gruesome way possible. Then I go home a fulfilled woman. Ediots. I don’t blame you lots, I blame the women reporting to police. If many were like me, people would be waking to y’all mutilated bodies on the streets.