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Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by greggng: 4:03pm On Mar 07, 2021
RealGboy:
Men these days is somehow.. I don't understand what has been happening.

I meet a lady and we begin to vibe well , we also share pictures then boom she wants a video call , but as soon as I receive the call and we see each other clearly she immediately hangs up and block me thereafter without saying a word..
Does this happen to only me ? I'm really confused. .. why is this happening,?


You might be very ugly person ....beautiful ladies don't like ugly men ...
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Martinez39s(m): 4:03pm On Mar 07, 2021
As pansophist said, your looks (and background, probably) didn't match the preconceived ideas she had about you. Before the video call, you were probably running smooth talk and exuding alpha vibes and consequently, she probably pictured you having a sexy, masculine figure and some class only to see a stark opposite on video call. grin

Try to improve on any aspect you can.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by SeriouslySense(m): 4:04pm On Mar 07, 2021
Well said.
pansophist:
How you looked on live video call didn't confirm the idea/or delusions she has about you, and the reality staring in her face during that call was painfully contradicting, hence the ghosting. No hard feelings, but humans by nature will do things that won't make them look unethical.

Do you expect her to tell you that you're ugly ? it's far easier, less conflicting and non-confronting to just ghost, instead of being honest, hurting your feelings and you haunting her with guilt for being so superficial. Coming out directly like our blunt uyaiIncomparabl, to tell that you're ugly doesn't put her in a good light. Perhaps she must have presented a facade of someone attracted to the personality, and how she likes you for who you are lol grin

Welcome to the game bro. If you're dishonest with yourself, reallities wont be, and you'll know what realty think about you by how people treats you. If it's happening always like you said, then it's time to take a hard look on the mirror and brush up your life. Loose weight, hit the gym, eat healthy and go to the dentist. Refine yourself and it would stop, then you'll be the one doing the ghosting. If you pick anything from this, it should be that women want a certain kind of look to have a good personality, not a ugly one. wink

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Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by SeriouslySense(m): 4:04pm On Mar 07, 2021
well said
Zzor:
I do that a lot,infact I will never relate well with someone I haven't seen their pics and immediately I see someone via their pics I will be able to tell the kind of person they are and that determines if I should cut off or continue, major reasons I don't attend much to my DM,I can't relate with a faceless person. So maybe the way you look portrays a lot of negative things about you hence your experience
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by juman(m): 4:05pm On Mar 07, 2021
If you look like normal person they would not run away from you.
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Mar 07, 2021
Zzor:
I do that a lot,infact I will never relate well with someone I haven't seen their pics and immediately I see someone via their pics I will be able to tell the kind of person they are and that determines if I should cut off or continue, major reasons I don't attend much to my DM,I can't relate with a faceless person. So maybe the way you look portrays a lot of negative things about you hence your experience

When are you planning to get married? Hahahahaha you go block guys taya.

Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Mar 07, 2021
You too ugly ! Simple grin grin grin

Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by SenecaTheYonger: 4:06pm On Mar 07, 2021
RealGboy:
Men these days is somehow.. I don't understand what has been happening.

I meet a lady and we begin to vibe well , we also share pictures then boom she wants a video call , but as soon as I receive the call and we see each other clearly she immediately hangs up and block me thereafter without saying a word..
Does this happen to only me ? I'm really confused. .. why is this happening,?

Babalawo don use your beauty do money for you.

Give and take
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by LikeAking: 4:07pm On Mar 07, 2021
The ladies blocking you how fine are they?

OP, forget them.

Everything na format.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Ghostmode2two(m): 4:08pm On Mar 07, 2021
RealGboy:
Men these days is somehow.. I don't understand what has been happening.

I meet a lady and we begin to vibe well , we also share pictures then boom she wants a video call , but as soon as I receive the call and we see each other clearly she immediately hangs up and block me thereafter without saying a word..
Does this happen to only me ? I'm really confused. .. why is this happening,?
Show us your picture and your cassava..
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by adisaaowala: 4:09pm On Mar 07, 2021
Lovethaa:



Hi dear

Hope you good . Just checking on you

Haha grin

This one dey find free punna for NL
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by SeriouslySense(m): 4:09pm On Mar 07, 2021
Such has been torturous for you, rejection doesn't feel good, but at least they were honest.

I suggest you should know what kind of man they are looking for first, if you do not meet a lot of their criteria, there is no need to have a video call if you don't have the stomach for rejection, this may be more healthy for you.

Also let the lighting be good, be clear to see, and camera angle should be right, look clean, friendly and easy to relate with.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Le2money(m): 4:09pm On Mar 07, 2021
Dey do audio calls with them, and whenever dey want to come, fix appointment around 9:30 so dey won't be able to go back same day.....I know something nice will apen over night....Thank me later grin grin grin


RealGboy:
Men these days is somehow.. I don't understand what has been happening.

I meet a lady and we begin to vibe well , we also share pictures then boom she wants a video call , but as soon as I receive the call and we see each other clearly she immediately hangs up and block me thereafter without saying a word..
Does this happen to only me ? I'm really confused. .. why is this happening,?

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Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by OfficialGaGa(m): 4:10pm On Mar 07, 2021
Feddytune:
you look broke and poverty stricken... plus ugly and ugliness is contagious, guess that's why they blocked the diesese

it is disease..... not diesese... If I call u olodo now .. u go dey vex... u wan form savage, yet u get "diesese"
weldone....
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Traininghub(f): 4:10pm On Mar 07, 2021
Feddytune:
you look broke and poverty stricken... plus ugly and ugliness is contagious, guess that's why they blocked the diesese
Quite rude and mean things to say, really. This is inhumane.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by miraculousGod(m): 4:13pm On Mar 07, 2021
if u had made the video call sitting inside a fancy car she wouldn't have blocked you. Most of the ladies you meet online are looking for rich people that they will extort, so if you appear like an average earner, they would block you, some are even looking for elderly men. I normally advise people to avoid online hook ups.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Mar 07, 2021
Nobody ugly o, just become wealthy and you will understand
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Akalia(m): 4:14pm On Mar 07, 2021
Valenciabaddie:




Don't take out your personal problems on me . find sth to eat okay. it is well..
You are really in dire need of attention.
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by inioluwaDaniels(m): 4:14pm On Mar 07, 2021
If dis is really u @ poster den forget u already av answers to ur problem

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Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by KanuSE: 4:15pm On Mar 07, 2021
greggng:



You might be very ugly person ....beautiful ladies don't like ugly men ...

Except evening newspapers or if the ugly guy is loaded.
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by ScamHunter: 4:15pm On Mar 07, 2021
RealGboy:
Men these days is somehow.. I don't understand what has been happening.

I meet a lady and we begin to vibe well , we also share pictures then boom she wants a video call , but as soon as I receive the call and we see each other clearly she immediately hangs up and block me thereafter without saying a word..
Does this happen to only me ? I'm really confused. .. why is this happening,?
God wants to save you from disaster. Your own go come.
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Kingstanding: 4:16pm On Mar 07, 2021
Jeon:

when money is involved.

we still have some ladies that go for handsome even though you are broke.
. And they will be fucking rich ugly guys as a part-time lover.
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by emerged01(m): 4:16pm On Mar 07, 2021
Don’t give me attention,once you give me you will fall. Na me go even block u if you no meet up. That was when I was the world.
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Jeon(f): 4:17pm On Mar 07, 2021
Kingstanding:
. And they will be fucking rich ugly guys as a part-time lover.

ur option though.
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by biggy26: 4:18pm On Mar 07, 2021
Zzor:
I do that a lot,infact I will never relate well with someone I haven't seen their pics and immediately I see someone via their pics I will be able to tell the kind of person they are and that determines if I should cut off or continue, major reasons I don't attend much to my DM,I can't relate with a faceless person. So maybe the way you look portrays a lot of negative things about you hence your experience
He didn't say pic, he said video call.
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 4:22pm On Mar 07, 2021
Feddytune:
you look broke and poverty stricken... plus ugly and ugliness is contagious, guess that's why they blocked the diesese
My fellow bad mouth nairalander. Your own bad mouth pass my own abeg. This is wickness cheesy cheesy
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Toks2008(m): 4:23pm On Mar 07, 2021
Valenciabaddie:





really contagious..... broke is still manageable but that disease called"ugliness" cannot be tolerated

I don't blame you.. Just thank GOD that the DNA that formed your face gave you your pretty looks.

I don't ever blame anyone for looking unattractive cos it's not their fault... Its just nature

People like us have accepted our ugliness and we have nobody to blame.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by pharmagba: 4:24pm On Mar 07, 2021
RealGboy:
Men these days is somehow.. I don't understand what has been happening.

I meet a lady and we begin to vibe well , we also share pictures then boom she wants a video call , but as soon as I receive the call and we see each other clearly she immediately hangs up and block me thereafter without saying a word..
Does this happen to only me ? I'm really confused. .. why is this happening,?

Show me a clip of your video, l may have the answers
I'm a forensic expert
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Isokoson1: 4:24pm On Mar 07, 2021
Feddytune:
you look broke and poverty stricken... plus ugly and ugliness is contagious, guess that's why they blocked the diesese

If you no get anything to say abeg shut up...
Nah human being way God create you dey call disease

Even if him ugly no call him names...


Make him touch money that same girls go wan lick his Ass

Receive sense
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by vinceendowed(m): 4:26pm On Mar 07, 2021
RealGboy:
Men these days is somehow.. I don't understand what has been happening.

I meet a lady and we begin to vibe well , we also share pictures then boom she wants a video call , but as soon as I receive the call and we see each other clearly she immediately hangs up and block me thereafter without saying a word..
Does this happen to only me ? I'm really confused. .. why is this happening,?

Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Mar 07, 2021
make we see ur picture?
e be like say your worworness no get remedy
Re: Why Do Ladies Always Block Me After Seeing Me On Video Call? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:27pm On Mar 07, 2021
Ikillbrokehoes:
Yes it is

Did I ask you? cheesy

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