Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,165,299 members, 7,860,730 topics. Date: Friday, 14 June 2024 at 03:06 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic (10212 Views)
Why Are So Many Nigerian Girls Going Into Hookup / How Many Nigerian Women Can Do This (graphic Image) / Yahoo Plus, Handkerchief, Ritual Sex: Many Nigerian Female Students Walking Dead (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (16) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 11:14am On Mar 10, 2021 |
pozehnani: Please what is the definition of marriage? So u mean a man who choose u above any other women, also that pays ur bride price cannot tell u anything ? Wow. anyways, wait for dangote to marry you 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 11:15am On Mar 10, 2021 |
EMEKUSBOY9: I'm not being bias at all. Why is he listing things that women don't have? The points he listed like sperm and fatherly care, women have eggs and motherly care. They cancel each other out, right? He was saying about men providing sex. If a woman isn't there that isn't happening either. He has not really stayed anything of value. One of his points is that men are secret keepers? Women keep secrets too. Just admit that men aren't as necessary as they tend to give themselves credit for. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by BigJoe19: 11:26am On Mar 10, 2021 |
HappyCreative:Lol, it's enough. We agree men are useless |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 11:29am On Mar 10, 2021 |
HappyCreative: Then if you want me to admit that men aren't as necessary as they tend, then don't get married If you dnt get married i will take what u are saying serious |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Jessepaid(m): 11:39am On Mar 10, 2021 |
HappyCreative:like I said before it is pointless trying to reason logically with a woman.. for no woman no matter how educated can never think like a man... Now you don shift topic because I said you husband is the head and you can never be equal to the head.. My wife will work... I like educated women Your father might have been an okada, however I am not and will never be End of discussion |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Jeon(f): 11:41am On Mar 10, 2021 |
EMEKUSBOY9:now you are talking. |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 11:43am On Mar 10, 2021 |
EMEKUSBOY9: That doesn't mean that men are not needed. Some men just seem to demand respect where it isn't earnt. Some men believe you should respect them just for being a man which I don't understand. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 11:45am On Mar 10, 2021 |
Jeon: We know all this things, we are no kids. People just want to drag things. The gospel truth is that not all men and women will get married to good spouse. So what u do now while single matters 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 11:49am On Mar 10, 2021 |
Jessepaid: So you are saying that no woman is logical. Why would you want to marry one then? The man is only the head of he delivers what is required of the head of a house. Why would the man be the head if he is not providing? He can't just be the head because he is a man. That's not how it works, but a lot of men think it is. They just seem to think because they are a man, they should automatically be given respect. Why should your wife work if you are the provider for the household? My father isn't an okada, but thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 11:50am On Mar 10, 2021 |
HappyCreative: then next time add " some men" because am a very sweet and responsible man. In between, is even biblical that men are the head of every family, if u understand this principle you won't find it hard to get a good man, and your marriage will be sweet as your heart But if you want to go against the bible then God will run from you, and leave u to be your own boss 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 11:55am On Mar 10, 2021 |
EMEKUSBOY9: God point, we should take all parts of the Bible, and not just pick and choose the ones to suit ourselves. Amen. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by EJanni(f): 12:26pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
Qatar2022:if you think men enjoy sex more than women, then you must be a joker. Untop that na dem dey suffer past come lose money untop. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by EJanni(f): 12:27pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION: Yet you can't live without them? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Nobody: 12:28pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by EJanni(f): 12:32pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
[quote author=Uncle93 post=99753946] Well you have a good point there. But it only relates to few people like you! 90% of Nigerian women offers nothing but their body, cooking and children and expect to marry a made man who provides everything in this world for them[/quote If you think cooking and taking care of children is easy, d o it for one week and come back here to narrate your experience. Do you know how much cooks, nannies, potters etc are paid every month, yet women do this free of charge. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Uncle93(m): 12:34pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
[quote author=EJanni post=99766373][/quote] Chillllllll ! Some men gets house helps for thier wives or has a family member supporting with house activities.! Na every woman dey stress? |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 12:50pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
soulpeppersoup: I've got no chill? I think I'm pretty funny actually |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by goodnewscliff(m): 1:06pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
HappyCreative: U should understand how the world works... Men re always richer The richest woman today got her money from the ex husband.... A man and a woman in this world can NEVER BE equal or u are dreaming!!!! Men are natural heads for both man and animals... The richest strongest smartest sensible and Everything is always the male.The man is always greater..... Am sorry but thats d truth...... If thats d problem,, then it cant be solved House chores.... I dont get.... How many house work do we actually have How long does it takes to just cook clean Every bachelor does this so i don't see what big deal is here.... A woman does or achieves chew gum nd be looking for independence or drag headship... Cos dats d tendencies i see here.... Men re different tho |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Connected1: 1:07pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
HappyCreative:Wow An Army General can be killed here with keyboards, what a nice forum. |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Uncle93(m): 1:08pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
[quote author=EJanni post=99766373][/quote] Chillllllll ! Some men gets house helps for thier wives or has a family member supporting with house activities.! Na every woman dey stress? |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by goodnewscliff(m): 1:10pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
[quote author=EJanni post=99766373][/quote]Maybe ALL BACHELORS ARE PIGS and dont cook or clean.... For crying out loud... The excuse women give for house chores is really becoming annoying..... Seriously!!! I dont really want to go practical here |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 1:14pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
goodnewscliff: You're second sentence is a lie. It is not in every case that the man is richer. So if you do it as a bachelor, why can't you do it when you're married and your wife is earning more than you? I don't see what the big deal is. You can't admit that woman can be richer and better than some men? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 1:16pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
Connected1: But when you see 'Nigerian women are useless' all over this forum, you'll be keke'ing along with them though, abi? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 1:17pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
goodnewscliff: Please, go practical. Explain yourself fully. |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by goodnewscliff(m): 1:17pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
HappyCreative:D only thing a woman may do in my home is cook..... I like my stuffs taken care off myself nd i been doing that for years... A man dat can't take care of himself is useless.... Cos i dont know what spiritual housechores d women re complaining of nd its becoming annoying... If i do more of the housechore cos me no like dirty nd i provide more than 95% ,, what would now b ur excuse as a woman? |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by Lucyspa: 1:20pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
Jeon: Are u yoruba? |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by goodnewscliff(m): 1:20pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
HappyCreative:Women can be richer but in a general case, the man is always richer.... Me no lazy at all.... Nd i like it when my things are arranged properly..... THIS DOESN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO ME BEING PROVIDING FINANCIALLY..... its just me even tho i have a wife!!!!! ... Y should i be creating a thread for it?? For the record bezoz wife was once d richest woman in d world immediately after d divorce... She got her money from ex husband..... Tho shes d 3rd richest as at now |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 1:20pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
goodnewscliff: I wouldn't have any excuse. I will do 100% of the housework of the man earns 100% of the income, but often that its not the case. Would you disagree? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 1:23pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
goodnewscliff: If you want your things arranging properly, surely it would make sense to do it yourself would it not? |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by goodnewscliff(m): 1:27pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
HappyCreative:If i do most of these so called house work,, WHAT WOULD BE UR EXCUSE AS A WIFE LETS SAY I REALLY EARN A LOT !!!! |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by goodnewscliff(m): 1:28pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
HappyCreative:Thanks..... What use is d woman to me then.... Cos dats my situation right now |
Re: Why Are So Many Nigerian Men Toxic by HappyCreative(f): 1:31pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
goodnewscliff: But let's be real, you don't really earn a lot. If I want something done a certain way. I would do it myself. I wouldn't tell someone else to do it just so a can have a reason to chastise them if they do it wrong. Also it wouldn't be must of the housework, would it? It would be the thing that you like having done a particular way. 1 Like |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (16) (Reply)
Have You Ever Been Insulted By Your Partner? / Why Being A Side Chick Is Better For You… / If You Are A Masturbator Or You Masturbate , You Will Be Poor Forever !!!
Viewing this topic: 1 guest(s)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 71 |