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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Originalsly: 11:34pm On Mar 10, 2021

How did you become her lover? Did she hand out her number to you while she was dating someone else? Or did she start giving out her number to every Tom, Dick and Harry who asked for it after she was in a relationship with you?
If the first.... why are you complaining now?... it was good for you so why worry if it will be good for others? You should know what to expect. If the second.... most likely she finds you boring.... conversations that are not interesting to her... and worse... no sense of humor. Do you ever make her laugh as the faceless guys on the phone? Check yourself.

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by JohnOkolo: 11:38pm On Mar 10, 2021

Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?

A friend of mine tried this same attitude towards me last month. In quote ooo "A Friend"
She was picking random calls whenever I see her off after work and I spoke about it and she changed her attitude. Next was her stopping and talking with a guy while we were walking to get her a bike home. I gave her space immediately she spent 5 seconds with the guy waited for her to finish and the stupid kept wasting my precious time.

So I walked back, spoke to her harshly, told her she was full of shit, lowlife, cut the earpiece she was holding that she said belonged to someone else, and promised to slap her on a major road, and spit on her to make her feel how stupid and worthless she is.

She kept malice for a week, I apologized to her for the threat of violence. The stupid told me she felt she did nothing wrong and I told her she was more than stupid and apologize to her for been with a lowlife shit.
Fast forward to today, we are still friends but more truthful to ourselves and I know if I ever chose to see her off, she would not dare disrespect herself like that ever. If not it won't be a threat of violence, I will dish her a slap and spit on her face and will care less about what human rights or human left feel cus they only think without proper judgement of emotional and psychological trauma a Man goes through been friends with the Sluts we meet in life

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by rajiedreez: 11:41pm On Mar 10, 2021

Qatar2022:
You deserve what you get because you're stupid, you're asking us what you will do , she cheat on your face

how do you know he's stupid if you've not been stupid too before now. Must u always insult

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Realfrankie(m): 11:41pm On Mar 10, 2021

Give us her number let us confirm from her

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Aguilar(m): 11:42pm On Mar 10, 2021

internationalman:
Girls who do this are mostly teenagers and early twenties..

To date girls like those na wahala. You go correct them tire..

Simple solution is to look for a female friend to fake call you and pour out loving words to you with the phone on loudspeaker while she listens in the conversation. But pretend to be feeling uneasy by asking her to stop that your girlfriend is around that you love her too much and you don't want to ruin your relationship with her.

Secondly fake a WhatsApp chat with another person masquerading as a girl. Make sure the picture on the profile is prettier than your girlfriend's. In the chat make sure the person pleads with you to leave your girlfriend for her with promises of doing anything for you just to date her.

Let your girl see the chat but only accidentally..

This used to work for me like magic. You should see how my girl then was feeling insecure wanting to know where I was all the time.

That's how I restored my power in the relationship then.. Relationship is game of emotion and manipulation.

You get time omo ditch the biitch

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Kizazz(m): 11:42pm On Mar 10, 2021

Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?

So you want me to tell you that you are dating a community pussy abi

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by 99thEnemy(m): 11:44pm On Mar 10, 2021

ABANGWABOI:
#ILMOVON #Attitude #Bliv

Pls make sure you wash her pants and bras.. Continue serving her breakfast in bed.. You are a real man...

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by openmine(m): 11:48pm On Mar 10, 2021

internationalman:
Girls who do this are mostly teenagers and early twenties..

To date girls like those na wahala. You go correct them tire..

Simple solution is to look for a female friend to fake call you and pour out loving words to you with the phone on loudspeaker while she listens in the conversation. But pretend to be feeling uneasy by asking her to stop that your girlfriend is around that you love her too much and you don't want to ruin your relationship with her.

Secondly fake a WhatsApp chat with another person masquerading as a girl. Make sure the picture on the profile is prettier than your girlfriend's. In the chat make sure the person pleads with you to leave your girlfriend for her with promises of doing anything for you just to date her.

Let your girl see the chat but only accidentally..

This used to work for me like magic. You should see how my girl then was feeling insecure wanting to know where I was all the time.

That's how I restored my power in the relationship then.. Relationship is game of emotion and manipulation.

U sabi

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Kriss216: 11:52pm On Mar 10, 2021

CaveAdullam:
1. She carries on with such activities because she's juxtaposing you with other men in order to ascertain the one that can fully provide her all her needs, tolerate her excesses and give her a leeway to do whatever she wants. This is called spinning plates.

2. Other men serves as her sources of livelihood. In cases where you are unable to provide fully for her, she has simps who will corral around her at her beck and call.

3. Other men are her plan B, C, D... should in case she has finally exhausted you and desire to seek for fun elsewhere.

4. Jealousy. Yeah, she wants you to see her worth, how other men glamour over her and if you don't sit up and do the needful for her as per her demands, she will exit the relationship.

Be prepared, because anytime soon the relationship might hit the rock. So, it is better you braze up for any upcoming premium tears. An ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure.

What do you do? Reverse all the games she's playing as analysed above and watch her ponder helter skelter. She knows you love her so dearly and she's using it as a yardstick to exasperate and tickles your rough edges. Whether by pretence or flat seriousness, you must project an "I don't care attitude" towards her. If she knows that you got other options(plates, women) rotating around you, she will at least come to proper senses.

Lets I forget, she's not yours, it is just your turn!

Thanks.

Glorious.

Can I marry your brain, sir?

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by openmine(m): 11:54pm On Mar 10, 2021

CaveAdullam:
1. She carries on with such activities because she's juxtaposing you with other men in order to ascertain the one that can fully provide her all her needs, tolerate her excesses and give her a leeway to do whatever she wants. This is called spinning plates.

2. Other men serves as her sources of livelihood. In cases where you are unable to provide fully for her, she has simps who will corral around her at her beck and call.

3. Other men are her plan B, C, D... should in case she has finally exhausted you and desire to seek for fun elsewhere.

4. Jealousy. Yeah, she wants you to see her worth, how other men glamour over her and if you don't sit up and do the needful for her as per her demands, she will exit the relationship.

Be prepared, because anytime soon the relationship might hit the rock. So, it is better you braze up for any upcoming premium tears. An ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure.

What do you do? Reverse all the games she's playing as analysed above and watch her ponder helter skelter. She knows you love her so dearly and she's using it as a yardstick to exasperate and tickles your rough edges. Whether by pretence or flat seriousness, you must project an "I don't care attitude" towards her. If she knows that you got other options(plates, women) rotating around you, she will at least come to proper senses.

Lets I forget, she's not yours, it is just your turn!

Thanks.

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by addictiv(m): 11:55pm On Mar 10, 2021

give out your number to women

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by extremelygolden: 11:56pm On Mar 10, 2021

internationalman:
Girls who do this are mostly teenagers and early twenties..

To date girls like those na wahala. You go correct them tire..

Simple solution is to look for a female friend to fake call you and pour out loving words to you with the phone on loudspeaker while she listens in the conversation. But pretend to be feeling uneasy by asking her to stop that your girlfriend is around that you love her too much and you don't want to ruin your relationship with her.

Secondly fake a WhatsApp chat with another person masquerading as a girl. Make sure the picture on the profile is prettier than your girlfriend's. In the chat make sure the person pleads with you to leave your girlfriend for her with promises of doing anything for you just to date her.

Let your girl see the chat but only accidentally..

This used to work for me like magic. You should see how my girl then was feeling insecure wanting to know where I was all the time.

That's how I restored my power in the relationship then.. Relationship is game of emotion and manipulation.

You are wise!

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Ferdinandu(m): 11:57pm On Mar 10, 2021

Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?

Simple You are still not enough but she has to hold you tight while looking for the greener pasture. If you find her as a big catch you can also stay and also be looking for your own greener pasture. NB please this is very very important if you have to stay else you will die of heartbreak and jealousy, just learn to treat her also as option 2. No 2 if she is not that a big catch, dump her silly ass and enter the next available bus.

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by CheedyJ(m): 12:02am On Mar 11, 2021

Simple thing, just start giving out your number to ladies too & ensure to do it in her presence.. Note; make sure the ladies are more beautiful than her...

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Lexusgs430: 12:04am On Mar 11, 2021

Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?

Till you marry her legally, she is a free agent.......

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by kosiebe(m): 12:05am On Mar 11, 2021

Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?

You're a fool

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Angeldemon: 12:08am On Mar 11, 2021

She's seen you finish and doesn't see anything worth respecting in you anymore because you've allowed her cross every line.
The fact you are still calling her fiancee shows you don't even have any sense of dignity for yourself. That is a toxic woman. You would be shocked she doesn't even see you as fiancee & if she does she's only keeping you just for wife status. She will over-surely LovePeddler around with confidence.
Break up with her as fast as yesterday.

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by KBdownloads(m): 12:09am On Mar 11, 2021*

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Sniper101(m): 12:12am On Mar 11, 2021

...she's still testing the waters ...she's still exploring her options ...she's still not putting all her eggs in one basket
you get my drift ?

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by ayusco85(m): 12:16am On Mar 11, 2021

internationalman:
Girls who do this are mostly teenagers and early twenties..

To date girls like those na wahala. You go correct them tire..

Simple solution is to look for a female friend to fake call you and pour out loving words to you with the phone on loudspeaker while she listens in the conversation. But pretend to be feeling uneasy by asking her to stop that your girlfriend is around that you love her too much and you don't want to ruin your relationship with her.

Secondly fake a WhatsApp chat with another person masquerading as a girl. Make sure the picture on the profile is prettier than your girlfriend's. In the chat make sure the person pleads with you to leave your girlfriend for her with promises of doing anything for you just to date her.

Let your girl see the chat but only accidentally..

This used to work for me like magic. You should see how my girl then was feeling insecure wanting to know where I was all the time.

That's how I restored my power in the relationship then.. Relationship is game of emotion and manipulation.

I believe you brother, u are a true bro thumbs up.
Our bro in chief Barney Stinson will be proud of you.

Your last sentence is so true man, no fucking cap

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by skedy1(m): 12:19am On Mar 11, 2021

HappyCreative:
Why are you still with her?

Are you insecure?

If you know you deserve better then leave.

Sure babe

You deserve a drink

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by skedy1(m): 12:20am On Mar 11, 2021

Zaheeddudu:
It happened too me also. D best tin ,is to do as if u dont care for her anymore

Buy deep down, you still care.

So who's deceiving who?

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by reason1man: 12:22am On Mar 11, 2021

Till you marry her, brother you are just one of the chykers

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by olamide0147: 12:23am On Mar 11, 2021

Handle the issue the same way you handled Nigeria matter

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 12:28am On Mar 11, 2021

Jodha:
Communication is key in a relationship...call her..sit her down and make her understand how uncomfortable yhu are with what she's doing...

Op, people do this. Don't do this.
Dump the bitch!

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Goldiness: 12:28am On Mar 11, 2021

Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?

She is not sure of you, that is why she gives out her number, marry her if you mean business, and she will stop

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by andycom(m): 12:36am On Mar 11, 2021

Qatar2022:
You deserve what you get because you're stupid, you're asking us what you will do , she cheat on your face

Don't mind the SIMP

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by raphy(m): 12:46am On Mar 11, 2021

This guy self no sabi how to be man.

Oga drink agbo Bleep her till she beg you to stop ..just forget about the other guys act like u dont care u can do same with girls so she can be jealouse.

When u see her phone ringing in your presence Bleep her suck her melons finger well dig her well she will even forget to pick the call.

Be a man stubborn girl are many just use your dick n teach her sense.
Dont jus stnd like wood another guy will help you bang her kitten
Dont forget to thnk me with mulla.

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by alizma: 12:49am On Mar 11, 2021

Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?

If you don't want an avoidable broken marriage or you don't want to die prematurely or you don't want both, RUN NOW

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by ogbonti: 12:52am On Mar 11, 2021

hmhameed:
Cease her phone or smash it against the wall. Sebi it's because she got phone that's why she is giving out her number. She is an olosho in the making

na that time you go know say one of her client na Kanuri RSM with long facial marks and enough koboko for Abati Barracks wey no dey hear COME grin

Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by showafrica(m): 12:53am On Mar 11, 2021

Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?

See the kind person u dey call fiancee, guy u get mind oo. Since na u dey fuxkkk for now, continue the nakking while looking for a wife material. That lady no send you self, she just dey manage you pending when her type shows up. No follow woman enter un timely grave ooo. Delete that fiancee thing, just take her as Bleep mate

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