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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by friendl: 12:54am On Mar 11, 2021
Remember kenny rogers lyrics ,..



Know when to run ,...you better count your money when sitting at the table ,.....
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Navalsadiq(m): 12:56am On Mar 11, 2021
Ur still calling her your fiancee.
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by AFONJACOW(m): 12:59am On Mar 11, 2021
I will give you my number so you can also give to her grin grin

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by ogbonti: 1:02am On Mar 11, 2021
Seriously OP - you are seeing doom ahead and you walking into it with your 2 eyes opened. Dump this girl before you collect HIV and Herpes together - You no go take advise now until it is too late - You surely have inferiority complex - even if you are ugly and broke, common man have some pride, fvck her crazy and walk away with your pride intact as a man because she will surely walk away from you and you do not want to play catch up- walk away and anytime she come beg u, wear raincoat nack am- open her purse and collect all the money in it and use it to eat and drink - when she is leaving do not escort her, treat her like trash and she will regain her senses- if she doesn't - no wahala, let her go - with the way you are sulking right now - You do not have a game and she can smell your desperation to wife her up 100 miles away - terrible display of weakness - Anyways, most importantly think of your health ooo - value your life, enuff said!!!! grin

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by 9jaRealist: 1:03am On Mar 11, 2021
Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?

You’re obviously not secure enough in this relationship to get married...
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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:39am On Mar 11, 2021
Offpoint1:
Me as long as I'M GETTING LAID, nothing concern with behavioursgrin
simple

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by gbagyiza: 1:39am On Mar 11, 2021
internationalman:
Girls who do this are mostly teenagers and early twenties..

To date girls like those na wahala. You go correct them tire..

Simple solution is to look for a female friend to fake call you and pour out loving words to you with the phone on loudspeaker while she listens in the conversation. But pretend to be feeling uneasy by asking her to stop that your girlfriend is around that you love her too much and you don't want to ruin your relationship with her.

Secondly fake a WhatsApp chat with another person masquerading as a girl. Make sure the picture on the profile is prettier than your girlfriend's. In the chat make sure the person pleads with you to leave your girlfriend for her with promises of doing anything for you just to date her.

Let your girl see the chat but only accidentally..

This used to work for me like magic. You should see how my girl then was feeling insecure wanting to know where I was all the time.

That's how I restored my power in the relationship then.. Relationship is game of emotion and manipulation.

What! Na really game master u be.. but a true relationship that will lead to marriage should not go this direction cos it will be disastrous when you become husband n wife.

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by ehissi(m): 1:45am On Mar 11, 2021
Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?

Warn her to stop. If she persists or debates it marry someone else
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Basher8583: 1:47am On Mar 11, 2021
Michelle55:
Ndo my brother.. Trouble no dey finish for our kontri. Just bear with the babe until she feels okay because I can tell you she's not okay now. E get as her body dey do her, by the time 2 or more guys don succeed in visiting Jerusalem, e go clear for her eyes and you can have your woman back by then. I pray heaven grants you strength to wait it out.

What kind of nonsense olosho advice be this. Did you hear him mention the girl is his fiancée.

Chairman you know what you gotta do. Let her go. It's obvious you are the one forcing marriage on her. She is not ready. Don't let your heart be broken needlessly as the signs are already there.
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:06am On Mar 11, 2021
Women like this will never hear word, just have a new chic by the side and stop giving your present GF so much attention, if she wants to be for the street then so be it.
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by DedeNkem: 2:28am On Mar 11, 2021
Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?

She's still hunting and she neither loves you nor respects you.

You better dump her now while you can!!
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by bigcasava1(m): 2:29am On Mar 11, 2021
Just know that she will go behind you and fuvk them
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Unrated900(m): 2:33am On Mar 11, 2021
As you claimed

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it


Don’t you work that you are always together in all this so called places You mentioned

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by LogicalZubby(m): 2:48am On Mar 11, 2021
BadRadio:
You have trust issue and u are brave enough to advertise it?

see... u dont need to care much about what a woman does, so long u dont have plans of getting married to her and even if u do then stop the moment she does what u dont like...

I hate it when guys get themselves worked up over women.

Getting worked up over love instead and their's nothing a about it.
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by timisquare82(m): 2:56am On Mar 11, 2021
She's from the street so the street she shall return to
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by meobizy(f): 3:07am On Mar 11, 2021
I won't say what you should do but will tell you what I would in such a position. Fiancée dey finish for market? If yes then keep her. If no then find another. I'll change her without a second thought. Rejections are like every other loss in life — the first two are world ending — third and further feel like mosquito bites.
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by MASTERMIND04(m): 3:12am On Mar 11, 2021
The writing is on the wall. She is not your property. Some guys sef
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by loswhite(m): 3:24am On Mar 11, 2021
internationalman:
Girls who do this are mostly teenagers and early twenties..

To date girls like those na wahala. You go correct them tire..

Simple solution is to look for a female friend to fake call you and pour out loving words to you with the phone on loudspeaker while she listens in the conversation. But pretend to be feeling uneasy by asking her to stop that your girlfriend is around that you love her too much and you don't want to ruin your relationship with her.

Secondly fake a WhatsApp chat with another person masquerading as a girl. Make sure the picture on the profile is prettier than your girlfriend's. In the chat make sure the person pleads with you to leave your girlfriend for her with promises of doing anything for you just to date her.

Let your girl see the chat but only accidentally..

This used to work for me like magic. You should see how my girl then was feeling insecure wanting to know where I was all the time.

That's how I restored my power in the relationship then.. Relationship is game of emotion and manipulation.
lol all this stress just to restore power in relationship....lol

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by azeezengr(m): 3:24am On Mar 11, 2021
Your wife is a very good marketer! If you are into FMCG, she is an asset, if you are into showbiz, she will adds value to you. Meanwhile , if you looking for a quiet relationship devoid of distraction, you need to change your fiootmat
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Maski87: 3:37am On Mar 11, 2021
Very dangerous, some if these Nigeria men know how to get any woman the want
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by bluefilm: 4:13am On Mar 11, 2021
Alexgman1:
[s]My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"Pls what should i do?Warn her seriously?Quit the relationship? OrContinue to observe and keep quiet?[/s]

Dammit!!!

Never knew a guy can actually be this insecure.

Well, I guess that's one of those detestable things about SIMPs.

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Bahamas95(m): 4:23am On Mar 11, 2021
OP you deserve to be tied down and flogged with koboko to receive sense.






Where's this mumu OP?........Come here!

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Bahamas95(m): 4:24am On Mar 11, 2021
OP you deserve to be tied down and flogged with koboko to receive sense.






Where's this mumu OP?........Come here!

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Sleekfingers: 4:26am On Mar 11, 2021
Alexgman1:
My so called fiancee is fond of giving out her number without stress or restrain to any man who ask from her. I noticed this anonying and dis-respectful habit since last year December.

Different people (male) will call her anytime and mostly late in the evening or midnight and she would still pick their calls in my presence, talk softly, smile and even laugh out loud at their jokes and sweet words.

She has given out her contact to guys on facebook, on the streets, in the vehicle, eatery, church, place of work, market, you name it and they disturb her every now and then because of her extreme fairness, beauty, elegance, prettiness and sexy shape. I have endured and tolerated so much for long and am loosing my patience and value for her. All that comes out of her is; "Am i jealous?"

Pls what should i do?

Warn her seriously?

Quit the relationship? Or

Continue to observe and keep quiet?




dey there dey ask wetin u go do......your girl na shareful giver......like they say , givers never lack.......
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Comedian2019: 4:54am On Mar 11, 2021
Go and work hard, make money and stop monitoring her. Otherwise, it will end in premium tears.
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by LordIsaac(m): 5:11am On Mar 11, 2021
OP... Trust me, you can't keep such. I managed one like that for about 5years with constant fights. As I speak now she's pregnant for the highest bidder. That was a woman I gave my entire life for.... Run while you can o. She will cry and manipulate you. But even if it will involve police, she must go. It was police that separated us last last.

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Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Foolishmasses: 5:35am On Mar 11, 2021
Where are you? I owe you two crates of Budweiser



internationalman:
Girls who do this are mostly teenagers and early twenties..

To date girls like those na wahala. You go correct them tire..

Simple solution is to look for a female friend to fake call you and pour out loving words to you with the phone on loudspeaker while she listens in the conversation. But pretend to be feeling uneasy by asking her to stop that your girlfriend is around that you love her too much and you don't want to ruin your relationship with her.

Secondly fake a WhatsApp chat with another person masquerading as a girl. Make sure the picture on the profile is prettier than your girlfriend's. In the chat make sure the person pleads with you to leave your girlfriend for her with promises of doing anything for you just to date her.

Let your girl see the chat but only accidentally..

This used to work for me like magic. You should see how my girl then was feeling insecure wanting to know where I was all the time.

That's how I restored my power in the relationship then.. Relationship is game of emotion and manipulation.
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by ikorodureporta: 5:35am On Mar 11, 2021
That one na public property cheesy just like corn wey dem plant for roadside..


is either you show seriousness by paying & impregnating her or you flee, or just remain one of her clients
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Wittyglam(f): 5:39am On Mar 11, 2021
Have you spoken to her about it? Ask her what her motive is by giving out her number. Let her know you don't like it. Some people enjoy talking to people on the phone no matter who that person is, someone told me she enjoys it.
If all of this doesn't work maybe you should reconsider.
Check this for more amazing things, you might be lacking this in your relationship

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DnxqNDEnxC8
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Jeferious: 5:46am On Mar 11, 2021
mathong:
Sit her down 2 to 3 times max, know really if she's aware of what she's doing...

Some girls are like your 5year old kid in imagination.

*He just asked for number nothing else

*It's only calls nothing else

*I don't have anything doing with them just calls

These mostly are such childish girls response

Correct her like a child, and watch again, but pay attention to her response to you coz not all are worth giving another chance!

You've lived with her, you should know her better hence your heart should have the answer even before you ask

I don't subscribe to this kind of thought at all. A girl is not a child. Stop diminishing responsibility.
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by Yeyenairaland(m): 5:56am On Mar 11, 2021
Zaheeddudu:
It happened too me also. D best tin ,is to do as if u dont care for her anymore

U hurt yourself the more


Just get some balls and take a bow!
Re: My Fiancee Likes Giving Out Her Number To Men, What Should I Do? by naijakissleave(m): 5:59am On Mar 11, 2021
internationalman:
Girls who do this are mostly teenagers and early twenties..

To date girls like those na wahala. You go correct them tire..

Simple solution is to look for a female friend to fake call you and pour out loving words to you with the phone on loudspeaker while she listens in the conversation. But pretend to be feeling uneasy by asking her to stop that your girlfriend is around that you love her too much and you don't want to ruin your relationship with her.

Secondly fake a WhatsApp chat with another person masquerading as a girl. Make sure the picture on the profile is prettier than your girlfriend's. In the chat make sure the person pleads with you to leave your girlfriend for her with promises of doing anything for you just to date her.

Let your girl see the chat but only accidentally..

This used to work for me like magic. You should see how my girl then was feeling insecure wanting to know where I was all the time.

That's how I restored my power in the relationship then.. Relationship is game of emotion and manipulation.

Bros, you got me laughing grin� with this your line: “This used to work for me like magic“

You never jam ogbologbo girls with beauty. My kind of person believes that there are other sensible girls with good ethics in relationship out there. As for the present one, I will just treat her as if she doesn’t exist to focus on my hustle so that when next she sees me with her replacement; she will be jealous that my new babe is more beautiful than her. This one no be mouth I dey make, it happen for real. Many of them stayed away because my eye � no failed me as the last lucky one leads to marriage.

I no dey regret with emotions to lose babe during when I am single. Once I see what I don’t like and she fails to adjust or mends her ways. I dey discharge them without them knowing. They will only know when they found themselves at the middle of the river.

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