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TheSonOfMark:
Emotional-blackmail-laced hogwash.

Any woman who initiates physical assault on any man should have her limbs broken if it comes to that.

Curse me out, nag if you want to, I'd take it without flinching but if you hit me, I'd leave you bleeding.

It's self-defense after all.

Unprovoked attack to a woman is a way to know a mad man..

But when a woman is attacking a man physically with or without a weapon, she must have seen them as equal in strenght.
She is obviously ready for a fight, thus should the man still walk away?

I just do not know why they keep up with the emotional blackmail.

Peachess:
What happened to walking away? That's the best thing you can do. The truth is that most people needs anger management classes. From the way you talk (type) it's obvious you're abusive and you're trying to generalize the issue just to make you feel good that all males are like you. I've seen males faced with worse situation than the one you mentioned but they never raise their hand on anyone, they just walked away.
Females are not puppets or toys you own and can mishandle it. That's why I'd always advice female to attend martial arts classes for the purpose of self defense. Remember there's a this line between life and death, you'll know walking away is the best option when you beat someone daughter to death.

This is what i was trying to avoid. Can we not just read things straight up and not trying to be judgemental, you are actually judging me. This is not a MAN VS WOMAN thread, if for anything, it is simply correcting a misconception.

Everyman is a potential wife beater including myself but SELF CONTROL while other positive factors are a constant is what keeps most people in check.

Apart from experience, people write based on observation and that was my motivation for this. You cannot just point fingers at me when you do not even know my first name. That is not fair, i am a social scientist and observation is my way of gathering knowledge.

You keep talking of walking away, as if it is that easy. I stated above that, apart from the wife, this men are facing some other challenges, they are 2 minutes away from snapping. You skipped that and picked the one that tickles you the more.

Stop the emotionally induced response(Did you eeven read the disclaimer?), you are bringing me to tears.

coolh3ad:
"Any man who tells you that he will never raise his hands to touch you is a full blown liar. I do not have time for all the hypocrites and beta males that will flood this thread, deep down they know what i am saying is the fact!".

Mr Oga - I say that all the time and I mean it because it is a vow I made never to hit any woman. I grew up seeing my dad hit my mum like 5 times in a week. It was something I hated with a passion. I boiled with rage anytime it happened. So I made up my mind never to do that I would rather walk out on the lady.

My younger sister (the last born) still uses this against me anytime I use style tell am say "I will give you a dirty slap" out of annoyance. She will tell me jokingly " I know you can't hit me jor".

Don't even say I have not been "over tempted" or dared to do that. I have been pushed to the limit oo but If it's a lady, Bros - I walk away oooo.

I don't know of other guys o but for me oooo. I can't and I will never do that.....NEVER EVER......

We are still saying the same thing.

It is not that you cannot hit a woman, you only made a vow not to because of experience. Which has increased your level of self control and extended your elastic limit

blizard44:
You actually made sense.

A rational man or woman would remain sweet until pushed.
That he's not all hell on you is solely because you have been sweet on him.

It's human nature.

All those folks shouting 'real men ' upandan are simply delusional.

My brother, I really got tired of that anthem.

Fake men everywhere, where are the real ones then?

You stated it already, you have to be sweet to also get a sweetheart. Garbage in garbage out.

Respect

Mhizkel:
Some women are actually wolves.

I can bet something for certain!

Some people will come for your head just for stating the simple truth.

It is great to see a lady thinking logically and not emotionally.

Mhizkel:
And what if it's the case of self defence?
I'm not saying it's right for a man to hit a woman, but some women use that as an opportunity to explore.
You see them making use of sharp objects whenever an argument occur between them and their partner.

If you noticed, I actually did not want it to be a man against woman issue. Emotions will run too high. Feminists and self righteous individuals will have a field day.

This is why I came in from the male perspective.

But my sister, in the case of self defense, blood MUST flow!

MhizzAJ:
A man that doesn't speak out when u offend him but bottles it up is a very dangerous man...I strongly agree

I see no reason why a man should hit a woman no matter what

Some men just lack self control..They should know when to walk away from situations that will bring out the beast in them...

I agree with you totally!

A frustrated man will not always walk away, the only thing he has now is his PRIDE AND EGO!

This is why i stated "Guys, just pray you do not find a problem that will make you snap and ladies pray for someone who can actually take alot of heat!"

I will be posting some oversight info here

DISCLAIMER: This post is not in any way advocating for domestic violence, but it is a measure to protect my lovely sisters from impending danger from a warped understanding of the male species.
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Most domestic violence are not as a result of the wife’s behavior, some men just snap under pressure and the first or even only person to vent on is the wife, so let us not accuse the woman of been a causative factor.

NB: No one should hit anyone no matter the sex, but rules were actually made to be broken!

So I was just laughing seriously hard as some people, especially guys came down hard on this young condom smelling cadet on this thread (he slapped his girlfriend after discovering in a bizarre manner that she was cheating).
https://www.nairaland.com/4126915/girlfriend-smelled-condom-down-there

I decided that it will be a great time to dismantle the stupid stereotype of “a real man will not touch a woman”, i am here wondering who then are the fake men?. If you keep believing that, then you can believe that money falls from the sky.

Any man who tells you that he will never raise his hands to touch you is a full blown liar. I do not have time for all the hypocrites and beta males that will flood this thread, deep down they know what i am saying is the fact!

From Barack Obama, your Pastor, that your male role model, all the hypocrite males on the internet especially nairaland, your father even that so called marriage counsellor who kicks against it… They are all potential wife beaters and they are all real men to the core.

So I want you to step back today and look at your boyfriend, fiancée, lover and husband, then come to the realization that he may actually beat you blue-black someday.

The reasons why he is still in his best behavior is that, you are playing your cards well, he has full security (mentally, physically and financially) and he has a long elastic limit, not just to your tantrums but to life's challenges generally, lets hope all those constant remain that way.

THE GOOD NEWS
The truth is that, SELF-CONTROL has a major role to play here but also the woman has a minor role too. (I am not going to cast any blame on women here).

Most of these male have a huge reserve of self-control and most times it never runs dry.

Every man has an elastic limit and fuse length, at a stage, different factors, conditions and even environment can decrease his elastic limit and that is where problems arise.

STAY AWAY FROM THIS TYPE OF MEN
The following type of men will beat you mercilessly at any slight mistake, so try to avoid them. While no man is exempted from the wife beating intersection, this ones have no control over their SELF and EMOTIONS:

- A man who has invested heavily in the relationship, even more than you has a high tendency to beat you.
- A man who loves you too much to the point of obsession and jealousy will hit you, because he wants to correct you.
- A man who worships you too much can flip the switch on you someday.
- A man who is trying to protect his ego from constant deflation will crack your cranium.
- A man who is jobless and depressed may want to put all that frustration on you.
- A man that does not speak out when you wrong him but he bottles it all up, my sister "ABEG" RUN!!! etc.

Guys, just pray you do not find a problem that will make you snap and ladies pray for someone who can actually take alot of heat!

"There is a beast in every one (man and women), it grows everyday and feeds from our pains and anger, one day it will loose it shackles. Tame your beast!"

SOURCE: All Men Are Potential Wife Beaters - Ladies, Do Not Be Deceived Ever Again!

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cc: lalasticlala, mynd44

You sent me a PM.

you can follow up with a response from me. Check your email

I guess they felt it was filled with tales with no fairy

Look for an Anglican lady or leave the Anglican Church.

There is no confusion here.

But why should church be a factor in marriage? I am always confused.

Is it that, you guys serve a different God?

MUST READ:
All Men Are Potential Wife Beaters - Ladies, Do Not Be Deceived Ever Again!

You are not smart... But purpose driven.

Why not create a blog and put up all your writing there. They will start to earn you some money soon.

I write for foreigners but now it is better to claim my intellectual property.

A blog will also increase your Value and you will earn more when you get consulted and hired.

Work smart.

Total nonsense...

You are supposed to send or say all those to him and not US!

you are not ready to get him back.

How will you have first class and still be looking for job.

The knowledge from the First Class is meant to be utilized and exploited.

So are you telling me now that you will work as a..
Sales manager or rep
Customer care agent
Office attendant.

You obviously did not deserve that class, LA cram LA pour.

Go and do graduate assistant!

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No but...

It fixes her probability of cheating at 1 (I.e. it will happen, only her moral compass and ability to keep her emotions under check can prevent it).

80percent of the friends will be male and if she is a slay queen, her inbox may be getting flooded at 7messages per hour.

You see, it is only a matter of time till she comes across a guy she fancies, one who is daring and adventurous... One who can push the limit and tickle her inner core.

Since, she is in a long distance relationship with your friend. Then tell him to be worried but ready to move on.

Tell him to be strong and happy, definitely, like a bird, his girl will fly someday with all the reasons I stated above.

Right now, all your friend can offer is affection, concern and doubts

PS: this still does not make her promiscuous.

magodoro:
Thanks a lot for this opportunity, bro. You've really been doing a great job here. Thanks and God bless.

My question...

I've this Amazon affiliate niche site I set up in March 2017.

The niche is 99% untapped by affiliate marketers and has thousands of monthly search ( I used Google keyword planner). The only result you get for almost all it's keywords are from ecommerce stores and sometimes, the manufacturers. I've yet to see any blog with a product review on the niche.

Presently, I've published 6 articles of 1200 — 2000 words long each. But I'm surprised that I still can't find my site on over 100 results when I do a Google search on the keywords.

But I'm sure the articles have all been indexed because my Yoast SEO plugin says so, and whenever I copy and paste any of my topics in Google search box, it appears in the search results.

To be sincere, just yesterday when I checked the stats, Google Analytics shows that I've had 11 users, 25 page views, and 4 organic searches in the past 30 days.

My major concern now is, why am I not appearing in search results?

Note: My DA and PA are higher than most of the (mostly ecommerce) websites that appear on the first page. I, however, noticed that they are aged. Some are up to 12 years old.

Magodoro

You will have a hard time appearing above those e-commerce sites.

Google uses search intent to rank site too...

"jogging shoes" a buyer keyword is different form "how to clean your jogging shoes".

Stop competing against amazon and others.

Use "best" and "reviews" in your post to change the intent.

Also, backlink is king.

Koolking:
How does this help the frontpage? SMH for Nairaland moderators. Too juvenile to manage a public forum.

I thought I was the only with this notion.

You are the author of confusion.

You actually sat down and composed This?! did it not confuse you

This same DPA guy on this thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/4118262/woman-battered-husband-way-church

You guys need to see this thread,

When Should A Man Hit His Woman? The Fact About Relationship Abuse And Assault!

It is supposed to be great but it is too risky.

I studied that too, but your luck maybe different.

Mental transgenders.
Pride.
Selfish interest.
Lack of focus.
Financial disability.
Misunderstanding.
Need for adventure.
Naïve individuals.
Misplaced priorities.
Trust displacement.

I call this, baiting the fish!

This are the kind of thread lalasticlala should push to the front-page. Not because of the topic alone but the comments from everyone.

It's okay to think you are intelligent but most times, where your's is ending, the other person's is taking off.

Intelligence is meant to be rubbed off on people, you don't force it. They have to validate you or you will sound like a broken record.

While it is great to sound your trumpet, having people sound it for you is more rewarding.

OP, great post, the crave for sapiosexuality is ingrained in all human, it is a genetical selective trait. You are only amplifying an age old method of reproductive selection.

This makes the animals in us leap out, we seek out the best of the gene pool so we can survive. We are just higher animals.

The human brain still has the cavemen instinct in its recess. We seek intelligence for survival. You don't want your offspring dying off because they cannot hunt or can't tell a zebra from a tiger.

I just love you all, this was really great.

So when your friend decided to start a friendship with a female, his brain did not tell he is planting the seed of romance?

Did he also forget to realise that his wife was supposed to be his only female friend?

PS: Any hypocrite that forms here to say male and female friendship is normal, medulla fall on you.

The case is simply, he has to start reconnecting all the disconnection with his wife.

He needs to tell that lady about his wife, the longer he waits, the situation aggravates. She will not fail and this is the price for your gross stupidity.

FIX THE WIFE LIKE THIS
leave church and prayer first, go back to the base and start to build love.

Stop complaining to your wife, start showing excessive love for one month... Gifts, dinners, money, concerns, take her out. Suffocate that woman with live and attention.

Everything you have done for and with that girl, debit for your wife.

If you do not see the fire in her eyes again, come back here and call me a bastard.

Your wife is not feeling you love again because you have been showering it on another lady.

Guy fix your home or DIVORCE!

PSS: For not been man enough all this while and also lying that it is your friend, monkey pox fall on you

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There is no trick, one of those trick though is...

Getting backlinks and that is what you are interested in.

So I think you are the one doing the tricking.