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Good for them both... NOTE... Not every woman can control her jealousy/anger when she sees her husband with another woman.
Warning!!!.... Ladies stay off married men.
Warning!!!.....Men know your wives before you do your nonsense.

I hate men that hit their women...these men have this mindset of "I am never wrong" but then some of these women actually enjoys it when their man beats them up.

I overhead one telling her friend one time that she loves her guy because the guy shows her more love by buying her things and taking her out anytime he beats her up and I was like really!.

On the other hand let me say the truth, some women truely deserves to be beaten because they have bad mouth and lack respect for their husbands.
I know one of my aunty like that, she is so stubborn and has this so much disrespect for her husband that some times I just wish the man could beat her up sometime but she is very lucky she fell into the right hand.

Still I throway salute for all those men that never raise their hand against a woman even with our bad mouth and annoying attitudes. And for those that sees it as their right to beat up a woman any time she messes up, God go judge una.

Sometimes I just get so ashamed and provoked seeing my fellow women danced naked because of money. Some of them even dance naked for their son's agemates.
Nigeria music has gone sour.

Afonjanightmare:
This OP, sorry but you are a FOOL!!!

You said you are a young man but married a second hand woman lolzzzz, with your young age you could get the best of best women but you chose a second hand woman, you won't regret it now but later, how on earth would someone sensible marry a woman that has given birth for another man? I wonder if this story is made up cos it sounds stupid. How on earth did your family accept this woman in question, I'm sure you fought them, I weak for you o!!!!!!!!!!

Sir it is not a big deal for a young man to marry a young single mother. Did the lady impregnate herself? Is it Not a man like you that did that to her...it could have been any one of your love ones, so you would prefare your single mother sister get married to a man with kids or stay on unmarried than for a young man without kids get married to her?... She made a mistake of loving the wrong man and that is just it. If she could see the future she would not have been a victim of an irresponsible man. So please let the young man be afterall everyone cant think like you.

Sir I will advice you leave things the way they are now because as long as that boy's father is still alive and doing well, the mother won't have inner peace until her baby papa acknowledges his son, and if the boy is already answering your name when that times comes, it will hurt you more because the boy the world used to know as your son is now answering a different surname and that will give you much more heartaches.
Just let go of the name thing besides why do you even have to worry yourself about another man's son bearing your name when you have started having kids that will carry on your name.
But if you feel bothered so much about it, have a talk with your wife but don't insist the boy should answer your name because the boy's father is still alive and even your wife will shock you when the tussel for the boy begins. Women reason like people on weed sometimes.. Smiles.

My sisters husband is really annoying. what should I do?.
Since my sister started living with this man it has been starvation all her life.
The man used to work at wharf Apapa, but it was either he said there is no ship today or no work tomorrow. And then he refused to do any other work except that one that was not reliable until finally he decided to quit the job.
So he has been jobless for the past five years without going out to look for a job except to go and smoke then come back to ask for food which he didn't drop money for.
The children don't go to school unless my sister hussle and gather up to pay for that particular term still he does not care. Sometimes he will just lie down on the bed until the wife prepares food which may have been bought on credit. And after eating he will start calling my sister names. That she is a begger and a debtor. And other times he beats her up.
When the kids cry for food he either beats them or tell them to go and meet their mother. The kids have all dried up because of starvation.
My sister makes hair but it is not every time she has customers and even when she does she can't make more than two hair for a day because she has to do other things. Everyday she either complains of chest pain or headache.
This is a man that is living in a free house, use free light and water but cant provide just food, clothing and pay his children school fees.
The painful part is that the kids are brilliant but because of the one term on and one term off in school they are gradually becoming dull.
Sometimes when I look at my sister and the kids I just weep for them.

If only I have enough money I would have rented an apartment elsewhere for my sister and the kids and look for a good job for her because the place where they are living is too expensive for them as in the standard of living there is too high for her.

So please I sincerely need your advice on what to do. Also please if you have or see any job vacancy around that isolo or Ejigbo where the pay is a bit ok please email me at Beatricefame@gmail.com.
I just want my sister to have a good sustainable source of income so she and her kids can have a good life.
But still I will like to hear your opinion and contributions as to what I can or she can do ease her self of this punishment call husband.

brownsugar23:
it not possible for bankers to go on strikes in the country if e happen i go naked bath for bathroom

You never ready be that

The bible say, for we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers in high places.

Nevertheless humans are the principalities and powers we speak of when they become transform to carry out their evil activities.
The devil use humans as his agent to do his work.

Even Jesus himself had to command the evil personality in peter to get behind him by addressing peter as Satan she he said " get thee behind me Satan".
Have you asked yourself why Christ rebuke peter when he ought to have just prayed for peter.
Christ knew the devil want to use peter to stop his mission somehow so he had to stop the devil by rebuking the evil principality and power using peter.

Now, some of you here criticizing churches praying for their enemies to die, can not tolerate your fellow human when they offend you, you are always quick to slap back, fight back , and even wish evil on the person. Are you not an hypocrite for doing that?.

Some of you have been crying for jungle justice on the badoos and bokoharam killing people because you all fear for your lives. Why not pray for them?.
Yet you criticize the one praying to God for vegeance .

It is not compulsory for you to kill your enemies for you to live, you can let them kill you for them to leave and God will give you your reward in heaven that is, if you will even make heaven.

@Op
First of all ask yourself, what love is, then may be you will get the answer you seek.

Love is something that covers multitude of sin.
No one is without a dark past not even you.

Your story is similar to what happened to me and my fiance but he forgave me and even love me more than he used too, not because it didn't hurt him but because he loves me he decided not to even worry himself about it. Instead he told Me never to mention it again and that I should try and forget it. And then he told me the most important thing is the fact that we have now decided to be with each other again till the end and never to repeat the same mistakes we made before.

@OP, do you really love her and does she loves you as much?. if you answer is yes then take her to the alter.

I want to believe he is one of those troubling the peace of that environment (Ajegunle).
They fight for stupid reasons there by causing tension and terror in people's life .
Some times they move in gangs and before you know it, they start using cutlasses to drive people into their homes and shops in other for them to steal things.

Some many of them have been killed during these fights but still those that are lucky enough to be alive never learn their lessons from the death of others instead they will want to avenge the death of the ones killed thereby leading to many more deaths.

If you see the up coming touts, they are not more than, 13, 19 in age. They have inherited the legacy of their elder brothers. If you see them you will weep for Lagos state and Nigeria at large.

I don't pity them because " na fly wey no hear word go follow dead body enter grave"

Nevertheless ifz this one is innocent may his soul rest in peace but I very much doubt he is because they only kill themselves.

Although the Government has a part to play, their parents have the greater part to play in the lives of these ones.

I want to believe he is one of those troubling the peace of that environment (Ajegunle).
They fight for stupid reasons there by causing tension and terror in people's life .
Some times they move in gangs and before you know it, they start using cutlasses to drive people into their homes and shops in other for them to steal things.

Some many of them have been killed during these fights but still those that are lucky enough to be alive never learn their lessons from the death of others instead they will want to avenge the death of the ones killed thereby leading to many more deaths.

If you see the up coming touts, they are not more than, 13, 19 in age. They have inherited the legacy of their elder brothers. If you see them you will weep for Lagos state and Nigeria at large.

I don't pity them because " na fly wey no hear word go follow dead body enter grave"

Nevertheless if this one is innocent may his soul rest in peace. but I very much doubt he is because they only kill themselves.

Although the Government has a lot to do to reduce this killings, still the parents of these ones has the great

Mehn....that road is not good at all. I travelled that road from Lagos to abuja, and we nearly finish the blood of Jesus inside that vehicle because the road kept bouncing and we were all scared.
That road is the worst of all the bad roads i have ever seen
God will help us

I thought they have stopped the 28 days allowance

Please I will like to know how much federal ministry of industry, trade and investment pay starting from O level to BSC level

50! I don't believe it. #showusyourbirthcertificate.

olamidefatoye:
Your credentials would be checked, oral interview would be done as well maybe written too. Just prepare yourself and read more on current affairs and also about the ministry you chose.. Actually, I don't think there will be much to be done .

Thank you sir.. Someone told me so too

She is an idiot for carrying a child she doesn't want for good night month only to throw her always after birth. Nevertheless I blame the stupid man that got her pregnant the more because if he had accepted the pregnancy, the girl/woman may not have thought of such evil in the first place.

Leopantro:
considering what I'm going through, I totally understand why he did it. you get to a point in life that death is considered bliss. pray not to walk in those shoes.

My dear what do you think you are going through that could make you do such.
I have a friend who has lost his brother and father this year. I also have another one, who begs to feed herself, children and even her lazy husband. I have another one who has enough money but don't have a kid to spend it on.
What about me, I am living by Gods grace.
There is nothing too difficult for Jehovah God to do..Never forget that.

Jesus Christ is my favourite
He passed his message across with parables. He was the most broken among men.
He was humble and and has great wisdom.
He did miracles without stress
He was generous
He never condemned nor looked down on any.
He never took any glory for himself instead he gave all the glory to his father in heaven
He said so many touching things.
He was very good at answering questions especially the Pharisees questions.
Above all he is my favourite because he understood mortals and their weakness better than mortals them self. He was and is still ready to forgive at any time no matter your sin for as long as you still breathe.

Her breakthrough is a rare one
Destiny can be delayed but can not be denied
I envy her for good
Baba God please single me out for my own miracle

I will like to rock my natural hair too but the wahala dey too much most time. There is a length the hair will grow up to and will just refuse to grow further instead it starts pulling . now you have to barb it off to start growing a new one again.

And you can't make all styles with it unless you attache something to it.

Pls help us maintain our natural hair by suggesting any treatment that can make our hair grow longer and healthier.

For your mind na fair girls you dey follow, yo u know no say her real complexion identity na black... #Bleaching things trending

slawomir:
like I will always say those of us still alive are alive because we are lucky not because of the grace of God as some people believe.
and because we are lucky today doesn't mean we will not die anymoment from now
for everyday we live we are faced with more than two hundred ways to die

And don't you know that it is by the grace of God that one becomes lucky?... That's why God said, I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy.

SmartyPants:
I'm interested in hearing what the "youth" will do differently. The same youth who are engaged in yahoo yahoo or another set of youths? The same youths engaged in cultism or another set of youths? The same youths cheating their way through exams? Or another set of youths? The same youths who wail of unemployment but cannot start one little enterprise of their own. Are these the youths who will create policies to solve

Nigeria's unemployment crisis?

Please let me know.

Just see how low you think of your country sir
Just see how much you have condemned yourself already...even if you can't find any virtuous person in the whole of your family, it does not mean they can't be find in another family.

If you are a father, you have failed your children
If you are a youth, you have failed this generation and above all you have failed yourself.....I feel so ashamed for you.

aby1976:
Where were you when Jonathan was busy allowing them to loot our reserve that should be used to control dolar? Pls park well

Guy you never still wise up

pressplay411:
When will Lai Mohammed get it? Nigerians will call you a Liar when you tell the truth and a Hero when your robbing them blind.

He should stop telling us the real state of the economy, that's not what Nigerians/Wailers want to hear.
They want to hear stupid and empty promises like their hero from Otuoke

Feed Us Lies and We Will remain Loyal - This should be in Nigerian National Pledge.

Guy your eyes never still open?

What goes around comes around

We must learn to condem what is wrong in this country...apostle suleman did nothing wrong by saying what he said.
Our people always say, if silence will not bring peace then speak up for peace sake. There is also a popular saying that , if you want peace go to war.
How can a particular religion deem it fit and righteous to kill people of other religion without a second thought and also causing troubles for the whole world. Who the hell do they think they are?... Islam should be deleted already from list of religion or the radical once should be burnt alive together with their sponsors and supporters.
Nonsense religion.

For the peaceful Muslim I am sorry for my write up but majority of you also don't condemned your brothers when they do wrong and that makes you even with them.

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A lot of you are here talking trash...so it is right for Christians to be murdered without any retaliation but not the other way round?

Even if the apostle said it, he is not wrong. What have these people they murdered done to them?.. Are they not also someone's father, mother and children?... Why do the non-christians(Muslim especially) always think less of the Christians. If you can't love them as people from another religion why not love them as human.

We must also not forget that violence is in every man. If one chooses to stay calm for peace to reign, don't take them for being weak or foolish. He is doing it for himself and for you.

There are some fight we must fight for ourselves in other to defend our natural rights since the constitution is no longer respected by those who made it and those who should enforce and obey it.

I have a dream that some day Nigeria will be greater than America.

When a dreamer wakes up to reality, he has woken up to the truth therefore cannot deny it.

Tinubu made a wish and it came to pass, now he wish he never made it.

I have a dream, that one day Nigeria will become greater than America.

We are here complaining, come 2019, another baboon will still be voted in by the same you.