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Politics / Re: Sheikh Gumi: Bandits Require Money, Land Compensation To Stop Killings by Preferito(m): 11:20am On Nov 10, 2021 |
I listened to news on VOA Hausa this morning on how bandits are billing communities in Sokoto state. The billing ranges from 2-3 million and each family must have someone who farms for the bandits. If it were local news outlet that reported the news perhaps Government might deny it. But it came from the stables of Voice of America and the locals were even interviewed. Obviously we are running a parallel government. |
Politics / Re: Nigerian Bar Association Reacts To Raid On Justice Odili's Home by Preferito(m): 7:42pm On Oct 30, 2021 |
If all the bar operators in Nigeria form an association, what name will it be called? 1 Like |
Politics / Re: UN 35% Women Inclusiveness: Women Throws Support To Yahaya Bello by Preferito(m): 4:41pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
No matter how much he tries to appear like a saint his bad deeds and misdeeds will always ooze around him. |
Food / Re: The Change In Prices Of Foodstuffs In Nigeria (Pix) by Preferito(m): 4:44pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
RiceProducers:You are the unlearned one here. From 1999-2014 we had 3 different administrations and whatever increment was gradual such that we didn't feel it. But how can one man's clueless lead to such astronomical increase is prices of EVERYTHING. And to make matter worst everything is in contrast with the promises he made. 5 Likes |
Crime / Re: Bandits Kidnap 90 Passengers In Edo, Intercept GUO Luxurious Bus by Preferito(m): 9:25am On Oct 21, 2021 |
Abimbola29:When I was serving in Anambara state (east) I do take PMT vehincles to Abuja and their route is from Anambara - Delta - Edo - Kogi - Abuja. |
Career / Re: Bad Money Habits And How To Break Them by Preferito(m): 1:48pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
I have mastered all these discipline but my only challenge is that whenever I save up I usually invest it on things that makes me lose them such as forex trading. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: How Many People Realised Twitter Has Left Nigeria Behind And Moved On? by Preferito(m): 7:21am On Jul 26, 2021 |
thebosstrevor1:The reason why twitter is not on the list is that Nigerians now visit the website using different locations. So therefore the traffic will be credited to those locations and not Nigeria. |
Family / Re: Man Slumps & Dies After DNA Test Showed He Is Not His Son's Biological Father by Preferito(m): 12:46pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
This is pathetic. Things are really getting out of hands. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: N-power Batch C: How To Get Your N-power Reference ID by Preferito(m): 1:22pm On Jul 06, 2021 |
These whole procedurals is taking time. Before you know it 2023 will be here and that's all. |
Romance / Re: Did Your Ex Finally Come Back? Kindly Share Your Experience. by Preferito(m): 10:09pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
africandictator:Don't be certain of what you are not certain of. 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: Love Is Ruining My Life Please I Need Advice by Preferito(m): 3:35pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
To be honest she sees you as the 'to keep' type of man. She will love to have a thing with you but she does not currently have your time. Maybe she is seeing some other men which she cannot resist. Usually after she had seen it all she will fall back to you. Now it's left for you to decide whether you want to be a back up plan. This will help you to make a solid decision. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Buhari Launches WADA, Says Drug Abuse Deadlier Than Insurgency by Preferito(m): 9:33pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Buhari loves anything pertaining to war |
Crime / Re: Video: Usifo Ataga Corpse! Dead Body Of Super TV CEO Emerges Online (Graphic) by Preferito(m): 2:45pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Harddiskng:This comment should be taken serious by every one. If she really acted in self defense, then it means there was a struggle between both of them. But at the end of the day she does not have a single scar while his body is mutilated. It's very obvious that she was the one who attacked. |
Career / Re: Working In A Hotel For 6 Months Now: My Experience. by Preferito(m): 8:13am On Jun 26, 2021 |
AgentGoat:Not again. This narration is no longer applicable to our present days. I've seen many innocent men ending up with girls having uncountable body count. Same applies to innocent ladies also. A wayward person knows how to clip an innocent person. This is because a naive will easily fall for any act of love display due to their inexperience. These wayward guys and girls can easily manipulate an inexperienced someone and they will succeed in it. Really kARMA is asleep. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Crime / Re: CCTV Footage Of Chidinma & Usifo Ataga At Restaurant Before She Killed Him by Preferito(m): 4:40pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
FiverrTutor:I'm not a marriage counsellor to either approve or dissaprove your decision. But according to the law of our land anyone up to 18 years old is already an adult and can be held responsible for their actions and inactions. Thus a girl of 20 years old can serve your purpose inasmuch as she is consenting. |
Crime / Re: CCTV Footage Of Chidinma & Usifo Ataga At Restaurant Before She Killed Him by Preferito(m): 10:03am On Jun 25, 2021 |
DonroxyII:So you are blaming him for having sex with a 21 years old girl. I wonder which of the sense organ you use in reasoning. FYI adulthood begins at 18. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Babafemi Ojudu: Buhari Will Complete Tenure Despite Calls For Removal by Preferito(m): 7:43am On Jun 23, 2021 |
Babafemi Ojududu |
Properties / Re: The Making Of The "4 Bedrooms Contemporary Style Duplex" (2 units) In Anambra by Preferito(m): 1:58pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
spyder880:It will make the walls to crack right? 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Everywhere Is Quiet Now Since The Discovery Of The Bodies Of 11 Soldiers by Preferito(m): 6:24pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
But the army kept denying the fact that their men were killed. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Preferito(m): 7:18am On Jan 03, 2021 |
sapphiere:Hope you know that 2 baba was already having those babies before marrying Annie. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Who Remembers When This Soap Opera Was Hot On TV? by Preferito(m): 1:11pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
The most hated character was Walter because of his bad energy.... 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Who Remembers When This Soap Opera Was Hot On TV? by Preferito(m): 1:02pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Tloc:Yeah, she died of cancer some years back. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Closed by Preferito(m): 8:12am On Jul 22, 2020 |
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Romance / Re: . by Preferito(m): 6:12am On May 19, 2020 |
flokii:This is not a matter of being virgin or not. This is a matter of not saying the truth. If she had told him that she was not a virgin it still wouldn't change anything from the love he has for her. What sense does it make for her to say that she took her virginity by herself? 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Preferito(m): 6:05pm On May 14, 2020 |
Ybaby:I must confess that you are extremely irritating and boring. You kept talking about infidels and Bible since yesterday. Are you not creative at all? Can't you think of another way to approach people's response to you? I'm sorry to say this, but you are not bright at all. 9 Likes |
Family / Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Preferito(m): 2:39pm On May 14, 2020 |
Xisnin:You must be mentally retarded to quote me this way. Do I know of your existence? I expressed my view and if you are not pleased with it you can simply shove your own view down your as* 4 Likes |
Family / Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Preferito(m): 6:19am On May 14, 2020 |
tunmiluabi:Do not allow women of easy virtue to draw you down. These feminist will emotionally blackmail you. They will make you believe that your wife's actions and inactions are all your fault. Does your marital vows centers around your provision alone? What happened to the love that bonded you together. You were never wrong and do not allow those foul mouthed women to justify your wife's actions. No man is praying to be down but this is something that can happen to anyone on earth. Even Job being the most righteous man on earth during his time of temptation was asked by his wife to commit suicide because of the pain he was in. But he held on and things changed. Marriage is a real "for better for worse". Things will not always be rossy. Oga, if the remaining women on earth are these ones who are blaming you up and down then there is no reason to remarry. Our purpose on earth is to serve God and not to die over a woman. 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Preferito(m): 11:11pm On May 13, 2020 |
Ybaby:I see. Your gaze is solely on material things. 35 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Preferito(m): 11:02pm On May 13, 2020 |
Ybaby:Please can you stop quoting the Bible upside down. What it means is that any man who does not provide. It did not say a man who is providing but it's not enough. Being a man does not mean to be a slave to a woman. Would you rather prefer your hubby to go into crime in order to provide for you? 38 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Preferito(m): 10:25pm On May 13, 2020 |
Ybaby:Wow! This is so disheartening. Love has really waxed cold. But I think the type of foundation given to the youths of nowadays is what's causing this. The Bible stated that the woman is an help meet to the man. This means that when the man is incapacitated she should be able to augment him. She should not compound his troubles. I see no reason why a woman will be troubling a man because he is trying unsuccessfully. Had it been that he is not trying at all then she could have charged him up. Before exhibiting any nasty behavior towards your husband you need to remind yourself the reason why you married him at the first place. To be honest men are now an endangered species and all these things gives me cold feet towards marriage. Why can't the women of these days be like our mothers? I started hawking since I was in primary 2 all the way till SS3 along with my older siblings because my dad was trying unsuccessfully. But there was never a time I did see my mother insult him. Neither was she in any way ever promiscuous. We were in it together and we pulled through. Why can't the women of these days have the will to build with their husbands? This reminds me of the popular quote that says it is only women and children that are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved base on what he can provide. May God order our steps in the right direction. 60 Likes 8 Shares |
Family / Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Preferito(m): 1:15pm On May 13, 2020 |
Ybaby:But this does not justify her infidelity 6 Likes |
Family / Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by Preferito(m): 8:19am On May 13, 2020 |
What I can deduce from his story is that his wife left no room for reconciliation because she was not remorseful for her actions. If she had shown remorse she would have called her family as well as his family and confess to them. They would have been the ones to reconcile them. But she seems to be enjoying her escapades and not willing to soft pedal. So there is no need for the OP to be fighting a lost battle. The best option for him was to move on and never to look back or give any chance of coming together. In most cases women like this will only remember their husband when they encounter a disastrous ending in their life. Thus they will begin to reminisce when things was working well and they would wish they can turn back the hands of the clock. But I love the fact that you have genuinely moved on. Don't rush into another relationship. Take your time and look before you leap. Also try and keep your mind open as much as possible so that you will not be shocked by human actions or reactions. 41 Likes 2 Shares |
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