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Datboredberri:
Exactly!

Maybe he's an introvert or antisocial...

Going out is always fun!

I'm an introvert..

But my girl will think you're crazy if you tell her that

dawnomike:
That looks very normal to me though... I like such outings of gisting over a meal coupled with the fact that you don't just invite any Tom, Dick and Harry to your house without knowing much about them.

Also, I really don't consider it proper for a lady you just met to just show up in your house... That's too forward

I quite agree with your point.

But if a girl agrees to come over, you should know that we've e done enough 'knowing' sha

Personally, I've never been on a date before.

I just don't understand why we need to talk over food.

Most times, I get a girls number, we talk on phone, chat and if I invite her over and we do the do, I either call it quit or talk to her about relationship or moving things forward with her.

Most girls don't seem to have any problems with this. I can't even remember any girl having problem with it.

So why do people do all these dates of a thing? Some guys will even be talking about first date, second date and when it'll be alright to hold or kiss the girl.

Seriously, it all looks very strange to me.

Maybe I'll try it one day but I dey too broke now sha.

So, why do you go on a date? I mean the food date

That one say she love me and we break up that same night

I come de wonder weda na break up sex she come do.

Datboredberri:
Men take it by employing political thugs... Raiding villages and murdering people... Rigging elections? Etc...

Men don't take... There was never any opposition...

You fought yourselves...

Women on the other hand have been forced to fight...

Again... This applies to Black men...

They do nothing... Are liabilities... But want the world to be responsible for them... They think the West owes them...

which ever way men take power doesn't matter.

What matters the most is that men would rather work for power than sit down, fold their hands and wait on you to spoon feed him with power.

He struggles to get it even when it cost his life like many Ukraine men are going to die to keep their community.

Like monkeys, Women just can't sacrifice their banana for a bigger bunch of bananas which they haven't seen.

They can't work for something they don't see its direct benefit for themselves. Not even taking care of their own children if it has no direct benefit for them

odinson1:
We are taking about Achievements and productivity,you are talking about Black men being treated badly in White communities. They don't relate my dear.

White men built White communities,Black men built Black communities,women did neither. That is The summary of what I've been trying to say

guy e dey weak me o.

They just don't even know the difference between race and gender. Some feminist we have here.

Datboredberri:
What are you talking about?

Black men are treated worse by the international community...

Negative stereotypes, police brutality, murder victims of racism...

Black men are mostly uneducated... Unemployed

you vomit too much trash than is possible for one mouth

Abi you get two mouth?

When we talk about black men, you guys conveniently divert it to black Americans who are not up to 1% of the black race.

People who do not know their origins. People who were slaves.

It's important to know that as strangers in a strange land which black Americans did not conquer, they will forever be stereotyped.

Think of the isrealites in Egypt. The isrealites did not conquer Egypt, rather they were segregated and enslaved.

Now think of the Romans in Isreal at the time of Jesus, the Romans conquered the isrealites and so even in the homes of the isrealites, the Romans were kings.

You simply don't understand social dynamics and so speak so many foolish things at the same time.

While I would have loved to expand on this topic, I will not because we are talking about gender and not racism.

We are talking about men and women, not about black and white.

How come in an argument of gender equality, Nigerian feminists always introduce racism.

And they do it so proudly like they are white.

They laugh and mock black men proudly saying they are inferior to the white. But in the Era of slavery, both black men and women were sold, tortured regardless of their gender.

But hey, the way our "woke" feminist reason is just mind numbing.

Secondly, the world is a free stage where anyone brave enough can rise up and take it.

Fortunately, or rather unfortunately, bravery is a never a feminine trait. Very few women ever posses what it takes to become a leader or even ambitious to the point of sustenance.

Such women are rare. Rare as water in the desert.

There has never been anything to stop women from working equally as men other than the mythical rope around their necks.

Men took over the world because they were brave enough. And even when men were ruling the world, they are subjected to constant trials to test their bravery and ability to lead the pack.

They fight constantly, negotiate constantly and make marriages to keep themselves in power.

They were never given these roles. Power is never given, it must be worked for and taken. When taken, it'll be tested through fire and combat again and again by others who feel they are better leaders.

This is the stage of the world, let the one who feels the cap fit him, rise up and take it.

But no, feminist will rather not work for it. A feminist want all men and women to stand aside while she is crowned empress of the universe.

She want everyone to bow down to her not because she's anything or worthy of anything but because she's a woman and women should be given titles.

Life doesn't work that way. If you want to be president of Nigeria, go into the midst of people competing for that position, fight every single one of them and when you come out victoriously, then you've proven your worth of being called a queen.

Any other thing aside that, then you are just a slayqueen

Frank2021:
I am in love her because I feel happy and cool with her unlike my girlfriend.

then what you did is better.

It's better you know where you stand and where she stands.

Men like Bobrisky are called cross dressers.

They are men who have chosen to dress and behave like women..

The aim of this act is: 'to gain all the benefits of another gender without taking any responsibility of your own gender'

Think about Bobrisky. He's a man posing as a woman. He gets female benefits like free olosho money, free rides, attentions and all the other perks women enjoy from men he could deceive.

But as a man, most men will never give Bobrisky the kind of harsh treatment they will give to a fellow man. He'll never be easily drafted into a war should the need arise.

So in essence, as a cross dresser, he gets all the benefits of women but none of the responsibility of being a man.

This is similar to feminism. They want to be given equal status as men. They want to be appointed as CEO, earn salaries as high as the heavens and lead the home.

But like women, they don't want to work for these things, they want to be given. You see them always telling you that women should be given a chance.

The presidential ticket should be given to a woman, women should be employed more. They forget that men work hard, compete with other qualified men for their position and men are never given anything but they take it.

And when push comes to shove, feminist will withdraw their equality stance and shameless agree to the assertion that women and men are not equal.

Even this post is a testament of feminists blaming everything including death for their own failure except themselves.

No man is low quality. Regardless of how weak a man may look, in the midst of women he'll still be better than their queen.

Like I don't understand what was actually your intention with the girl?

uvie66:
the thing weak me...a man should decide who to associate with, not cajoled or coerced... this is like sleeping with a woman under duress!!!!

True bro.

Russia is literally raping Ukraine right now

Dollywood:
Ohhh. You say freedom of choice, that's "Free Will". So, they have the free will let the West to pose threat/danger to their country?. Putin simply told them Ukraine if they still pursue their interest in joining NATO, it will cause national threats to their country, and if that happens, they will be consequences. Ukraine thinks they can do whatever, including screwing your neighbours because you have the right to. That is where power comes in play. Russia is showing them the stuff they are made of, and they feeling the heat rn. If Ukraine joins the NATO, someday Russia might be brought to her knees by the West. Putin knows what he's doing, he's not a mindless monster or beast that goes around massacring innocent people. In press conference, he said Ukrainians shouldn't allow the West to make them lose their lives thinking they are doing what is right.

Putin is a mindless monster alright. No doubt about that.

If the west was as mindless as he was, we all will probably be bathing in radiation from atomic bombs right now.

Aggression is never a show of power. Putin might have what it takes to battle any nation but so do the west and the result of such wars would be so catastrophic that there would be no winners.

With that out of the way, why will you say a sovereign nation has no right to associate with whoever they want to?

Russia can sanction them but has no right to tell them what they can or cannot do.

That's the one thing the west has learned a long time ago. If they feel an enemy is crawling closer, they simply offer you a better deal or place sanctions on you.

Putin right now is killing innocent people. What is more sanctimonious than a human life who he'd probably killed hundreds of?

And if he was such a master strategist as some of you would rather believe in your delusion, how was the west able to crawl to his back door and he couldn't even get any country in the west to partner with him?

Of course, he's mindless monster and a psychopath.

Mrlance15:
So my mindset is the reason why I hated her and the sex afterwards? I'm still regretting.

oh, you think sex holds some mysterious hate potion that made you feel bad towards her?

Your mindset about sex is the problem. Not the girl or the act.

Sex is just sex. You attach all other meanings to it and that could make you feel bad or good after it.

Think of a Muslim eating pork. The pork is just pork but the Muslim feels bad after eating it, while a Christian brother might swear it is the best meat in the world.

The difference is mindset.

Mrlance15:
I created this account for anonymity, I am 26, and I lost my virginity very recently, I stayed a virgin this long because sex wasn't my priority, I was chasing money and education, I had several opportunity but it just doesn't feel right, even when I was in school I do sleep over at my girlfriend's but I never touched her or make a move.

It was alot of pressure then because I was the only Virgin in my clique, when my friends discuss sex I just say stuff I learnt online just to contribute and not feel left out, they all believed i am a pro who have had sex many time, I never told any of them that I am a virgin because they'll mock me, I was so troubled that I vowed to loose my Virginity this year, getting a girl isn't hard for me as I am average looking and doing a little well financially, I have dated girls in the past and I didn't attempt anything sexual with them, one even came to my place one morning, joined me on bed and tempted me till I got an erection but I didn't make a move still, one even left me because I didn't try anything sexual with her, I didn't know it was her reason until she told me five months after we broke up,

Fast forward to when I met the girl I lost my virginity to, we clicked so fast and within a week it became a serious relationship, at first I told her no sex, she pretended like she doesn't want sex too, until one day she came around and we were cuddling and she started touching me, asked me to lay down and she was kissing my nipples and bitting my ear, so I got aroused, lost control, when I tried to take her clothes off she let me, her bra same thing until she was stark naked, so I dived in without protection, it happened so fast and I wasn't even enjoying it, it was way different from what I expected because I have fantasized about sex alot,

After the sex, I became gloomy and filled with regrets and fear, especially when I started having muscle pain the next day with serious tiredness, I thought I have contracted something, so many things going on in my head,

First problem is, why did someone like me who is always careful make such a mistake having sex without protection, I was so scared of STDs but I wasn't thinking when it happened,

Second, she's not a virgin, she is a pro when it comes to sex she was only pretending at first, I felt used, I felt stupid, then I asked her about her period, something I should have done before sex, she said it's fine but I still don't feel relief, I just hurriedly put on my clothes and asked her to leave, she just looked at me with confusion, put on her clothes and left, then she chat me up in the evening, and mentioned the sex, that was when I realized that I suddenly hate her and I hate myself for same reason, I have been avoiding her since then, my only thought so far was, "shey na the sex sex sex people dey hype be this" it's not worth it at all, if you're still a virgin please cherish it and don't loose it until you're married, sex is overated.

Sorry for the long read.

egusi is quite delicious.

But it's dependent on the cook.

Obviously with the way you talked, your mindset still need a lot of work before you can start enjoying sex.

Dollywood:
Bleep sake, they neighbours. Ukrainians are basically Russians that departed, and created their own state. They fully know joining the West would create national threats to their neighbours, the same motherland y'all came from, and you think that's cool. Russia and the West are like Cat and Mouse, and if you they call their neighbour give an enemy an opportunity to cause national treats to them, like putting a fuckin' gun to Russia's skull. Ukraine just be doing pity face when they are fully aware of what they doing.

you talk too much trash sir, respectively.

If Russia doesn't want Ukraine to join the west because it'll compromise its security, then it should offer them a better deal than the west.

The west didn't hold Ukraine at gun point to sign any document. They simply offered them a good enough choice.

Russia can offer them better but Putin would rather play God and force the people to accept his way.

There's something called human rights, clearly some of you still haven't come to terms with freedom of choice.

Putin is not a God to tell Ukraine who or what they want to do with their resources, land mass or people.

Dollywood:
Ukrainians are no match for Russians. I mean, we all know Russia mean no harm. Don't join the fucking West. Simple. Y'all neighbours, it's like some betrayal shit, but doing it pathetically.

how do some of you vomit so much garbage?

Who made Putin a God to tell Ukrainians who they can or cannot associate with?

darediamond:
And the true owners of NATO can NEVER GIVE THEM ANY "better deal". You think Britain-controlled USA love anyone truly?

If that deal is not good enough and the Ukrainians are still taking it, does that not tell you that Russia is offering them worst or nothing at all?

DoggoneDogg:
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What an excuse for cowardice.

You want to be in control but you literally lack the balls to do what it takes to be in control.

A joker.

typical of feminist.

They want everything handed over to them.

Positions, work space, wealth, they want it all given to them without ever working for it

pol23:
The WEST being what they’re….
They want to make example out of Russia ,they want the rest of the world to know you can’t go against them and win.
They doing everything they could to make Russia suffer.
Well,let’s see where this ends.
Putin is ready war any of you and maybe all of you put together….
Russia against NATO,victory isn’t certain… but even America will be reduce to the size of Gambia Economically.
Russia might go to oblivion truly,But this western guys will learn the hard way.
I hope all Europe has prepared to start using firewood and start trekking in Darkness…. Another option buy oil and Energy elsewhere,the distributor selling to Africans will easily sell to Europe… suffer don kuku master us here….
Well,oil price will skyrocket and the whole world will feel it… naija fit gain from that though.
The more the sanction ,the more the destruction in Ukraine…
Sadly,poor Ukrainian have to pay for this…
Russia will surely be affected by all this sanctions,but at the end…one thing will be registered in everyone’s mind…. Russia isn’t a puppet to anyone or some association of past criminals.
Pray for Ukraine.

this has nothing to do with the west.

The west did not force Ukraine to join NATO. They did not force Putin to go to war.

Stop saying TRASH

Winters23:
Initial gragra

Once Putin brings Ukraine back in the fold all these sanctions will be dealt with appropriately.

The west should understand that RUSSIA IS ready to burn our planet to the ground if NATO/USA don’t disband their so called “defensive alliance” against one Country.

The real bullies here is USA and nato, everyone is focusing on reactions while forgetting the actions that led to it.

Russia is ready to burn our planet to the ground and then you mentally perform a gymnastic and suddenly believe the west is the enemy?

Wetin some of una de really smoke abeg

goodheart01:
U can see how foolish the mad man is

swears.

To me he's not only mad but suicidal.

People think NATO is not reacting aggressively because they are scared of Russia.

But any aggression can lead to atomic wars which will have no winners or losers but destruction of civilization and probably the whole of humanity.

Putin is seriously mad and a lot of his supporters here are delusional about his power.

If anyone is being prudent in all this, it is the west and the rest of the world.

War is no longer profitable.

The best war is war of offering better deals to your neighboring countries.

If Putin expand to Ukraine, he'll still have neighbors. What's to stop those neighbors from joining NATO if NATO gives them a better deal?

Well I guess he'll keep fighting everyone of them till the whole world comes under him.

No be only temple na shrine

This one dey craze sha

War is no longer profitable.

The best war is war of offering better deals to your neighboring countries.

If Putin expand to Ukraine, he'll still have neighbors. What's to stop those neighbors from joining NATO if NATO gives them a better deal?

Well I guess he'll keep fighting everyone of them till the whole world comes under him