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I am still a student of the Redpill but nowadays, I take things with a pinch of salt.

That's another huge lesson I learned from the Redpill movement.

It has opened my eyes to see beyond the veil of society and I have practically added it to many areas of my life.

I've learned to think critically on issues and make decisions. Redpill made me to start asking a lot of "why" questions instead of accepting regular answers that explains really nothing.

I'm not where I want to be with women yet but each time I look back at my relationship with women, I know I've certainly come a long way.

One of this is my drop dead honesty in a relationship. Never afraid to say my mind or how I feel about any issues concerning my woman.

She knows this and appreciate it as I'm no longer the 'yes babe, yes babe' and 'I like it babe' type.

I call her bluffs, because if I don't no one else will.

There are many benefits to redpill and if I will advice any man, I'd say swallow that pill and you'll never regret it.

But you also need to understand that there are toxic redpillers out there. Those ones who were hurt or emotionally damaged by women.

What these redpillers teach is pure and sickening hatred towards women.

That's not redpill.

Those types of toxic redpill can easily start making you hate women or not even render them any help in life.

Please in your redpill journey learn to separate chaff from the real thing, and more importantly, GO FOR REDPILL BECAUSE YOU WANT TO UNDERSTAND THE GAME and not because you want to get back at a woman.

As such, if you are in the Redpill journey and have no business with women or cant get women to love or stay with you then you're really not a redpiller but a woman hater.

The aim of redpill is to open your eyes to the game and make you a better player and not an outside observer.

One of the best redpillers on this forum is ubunja and I recommend his thread but unfortunately he deletes them after sometime.

I have come across lots of misconceptions about the Redpill movement especially it basic aspect on this forum.

People who don't even understand the basics of the concept posing as teachers and spewing errors.

I would have love to set some of these things right but I can't in a single post or even in hundreds of others.

One thing you should know is, a real redpiller doesn't move from post to post shouting SIMP.

He proffers solutions. he wants the man to understand his mistake, learn his lessons from the burnt hand and move on.

Moving on to a redpiller doesn't mean he should quit the relationship as most people often think, it means 'go back to the drawing board and re-strategize'. Replay that game until you win or loose so many times till your heart is clear that you can't win her and then, only then should you move on.

How does a man who wants to learn how to play a game, quit the same game the first time he is beaten?

Most toxic redpillers tell men to leave a lady at the slightest provocation because she's not "worth" the trouble.

No woman is worth the trouble but we love one particular one at one time and if we don't stay with her then we suffer that broken heart.

Redpill is here to help you build your women and not tell you to give up on them as soon as they rock the boat a little with trouble.

Like I said, many wrong redpill thread. Very few teachers here understand the real concept of redpill.

My advice is: love your woman but love her with your eyes opened. If she misbehave don't pat and praise her, cut her warning, make her see reasons and ensure she repents genuinely before you give her a warm embrace.

Any thing less than that and you are really not in control of that relationship.

That's a summary of redpill by the way

This year makes it my third year with the Redpill journey and so far, I'm glad I took this direction.

I see a lot of monikers attacking the movement but never bothered because no publicity is really a bad publicity.

I tend to spend less time on redpill nowadays than in my earlier beginning because most newbies today are quick to become teachers and have brought so many errors to the Redpill doctrine.

For the sake of this, I wish to reiterate the fact that redpill is not HATRED FOR WOMEN.

It is consciously knowing that dating between women and men like life in general is a GAME.

Both women and men are players in this game. They have equal chances and rights. If you SUCK at the game or LOOSE the game, you shouldn't blame the other players, you should LEARN how to play better.

That is the Redpill. It wants you to UNDERSTAND that LOVE, ROMANCE and everything in between is a game.

Women play this game CONSCIOUSLY. They would actively manipulate, cajole, beg and open their legs to win in this game.

While men play with their hearts. Men want to believe that love comes naturally.

But it does not.


Redpill teaches you to love a woman but do so with your EYES WIDE OPEN.

But above all, NEVER TREAT YOURSELF LIKE SH*T just to get a woman to notice you.

See yourself as a king. Set standards. Let her WANT to meet those standards.

Don't treat her as a QUEEN while you put yourself in the servant position.

As such, a redpilled man will never accept any bullsh*t from any woman regardless of how pretty she is.

He calls out her bullsh*t and calls her to order. Make her accountable for her actions and LEAD her when the need arises.

SIMPS are incapable of this. This is because a SERVANT does not tell a QUEEN what to do or how to behave.

SIMPING puts you in that servant position and removes all the control you have in a relationship.

backbencher:
The abolition of slavery was not just 'lincoln'

It has a very long and interesting history..and I'll leave that for you to find out. For now, I'll point out that religion played a role in abolitionist philosophy, and many abolitionists were moved by religion.(Many slavers also used religion arguments...see the division of the Baptists in the USA)

Even Brazil, which abolished slavery in 1888, did so because 'they were the last nation in Christendom to have slavery'

Good morning.

For a better view...read this book

For the Glory of God: How Monotheism Led to Reformations, Science, Witch-Hunts, and the End of Slavery
Rodney Stark (EPUB). Its not a christian book, FYI.

I know and agree with you that ending slavery wasn't just a Lincoln struggle.

What I beg to differ is trying to pin it on Christianity like it was the Christians who actually orchestrated or fought the fight against slavery.

That aspect is a lie.

Some Christians may have participated in it, but it was not the Bible teaching that pushed them to it.

Rather, it's the brewing religion of humanity that all humans are equal and therefore should be free.

That's the pushing factor not the religion from Isreal that sanctified owning slaves

emmykingzy:
Oga, I will give top 3 or more scientists from America that where highly committed christians. The two go together and can also go separately.

I'm waiting for that top 3 that are Christians.

As a side note: religion offers nothing to the progress of science other than ethics and morals.

If science want to clone a human being to harvest organs, the only take a religious person can offer is "is this right or wrong".

That's all you can find in the togetherness of religion and science.

backbencher:
They do.Slavery was abolished partly because some religious people did more than cry about it



straw-man. Just like me saying atheists want to get rid of all the religious by genocide.



Many religious people didn't do that in history

Obviously you don't really know many religious people.



Many religious people have been moved by religion to right wrongs and fight for standards and rules and regulations.Some just don't make mouth and say 'religon made me do it' same as some atheists doing good don't say 'atheism made me do it'

Please let;s be guided.

First of all, slavery was never abolished because of Christianity.

That's a huge fact lie.

When Abraham Lincoln took up the campaign against slavery, the congress members in support of slavery actually were able to prove that it is right and just for a human being to buy and sell another human being.

Guess how they were able to prove this bro?

Of course via your holy Bible.

Is the 'uprightness' of buying and selling slaves not written all over your holy book?

Didn't your God gave humans the right to buy and sell slaves? To own the slaves and their children?

To win his argument, Abraham Lincoln turned not to the Bible but to humanity and science. Using the universal principles of fundamental human rights that all humans are born free and should be free.

So, stop lying about where freedom from slavery came from.

emmykingzy:
Not all of China and Indians worship idols. There are about 70million Christians in China. But you failed to note that China's and India development started when the opened their economy to Christian Nations like Britian, Germany, USA,Russian and so on.
The Top Christian Nations in the world are USA,Germany,Denmark,Britian,Brazil etc. I rather live in any of these Christian countries than stay in China or india.
Note, that China and India are developing because of their United and collective mentality to develop their nation irrespective of their beliefs.

Stop blaming the church. There are equal number of Muslims in Nigeria.

Nigerians, government need to develop that positive mentality to develop this country.

They are secular nations please let's be guided bro.

Christianity has nothing to do with the development of these nations.

Science does.

In the medieval ages, the popes were notorious for killing scientists and burning books that contradict the Bible because at that time, the government was in romance with the church.

It was much later they got separated.

Christianity rode on the progress of science it sought to kill, not the other way around

emmykingzy:
Oga, don't mix idol worshipers with true Christianity.
The Israelites sacrificed animals on altars not to idols/Baal. Those that sacrifice to idols were killed. That was the Old testament/ covenant with God.
Christians already have a once in a lifetime sacrifice which is Christ sacrifice and so don't need any animal or human sacrifice to worship their God. So, it's not the same thing.

In the old days (and to this very day, lots of jews still do it), the isrealites offer animal sacrifices to their God.

Just as our forefathers did.

The only difference is you seem to think the isrealites God is the only true God. Our forefathers think differently.

But the concrete fact is that they both offer animal sacrifices to their gods, to any observer there's no difference between these two gods.

Secondly, you speak of human Sacrifice like Jesus was not sacrifice on the alter of your God.

Now you boast in this human sacrifice and say the aim is to save you and forgive your sins.

Do you think your forefathers if they ever sacrificed a human being to their God, have no reason for doing so?

If then both gods received equal human and animal sacrifices, why castigate the gods of your forefathers?

Most isrealites today will mock Christians not because they hate you but because they can't stomach the fact that their God who despises other gods for receiving human Sacrifices in turn later accepted one in your so called New testament?

Do you not see the hypocrisy?

backbencher:
That's why God has given us the tool of 'accountability'. Sad that people don't use it.

God gave us a tool called accountability?

It's funny how it's not from the church people learn how to set up committee to investigate issues but from the world and worly government.

If its were up to the religious fellows when there's a mishap, all they say is 'it is the will of god' or 'these are trials from the devil and it'll come to pass".

And then they actually sit it down and wait till they are either comfortable with the loss or get something better.

It's only science and worldly government that investigate and seek to find the cause, actually blame someone for the mishap and then proffer possible solutions on how to prevent it in the future.

Please let's be guided

backbencher:
Well, God expects people to do the right thing at all times.

And his innocent children get punished in his house for what they know nothing about?

I'm sure the engineers are alive to this very moment.

I'm also sure hundreds of others are glad they were not in church to worship him that faithful day.

Sha this no be my bizness

backbencher:
We count on developers to 'protect us' by obeying God's law by

1.Doing a good job on the building...as emphasized in scripture (do your work as if you are doing it for God, colossians 3 vs 23 Of course if you are doing something for God's glory you do your best.)

2.Doing a good job so that others are safe in the process...therefore thinking of others first (and taking care of our 'neighbor') as seen in the Good Samaritan...above ourselves.

3.By upholding the commandment not to kill...by doing a good job too.

lolz.

Then what is the point of God in all these if the fate of his children lies in the hands of developers?

And as a side note: a developer doesn't need to obey any religious rules to construct a strong church, what he needs to obey is the laws of simple engineering.

The way these guys are aggressively sending me DMs on WhatsApp eh.

This is like the fifth message I'm receiving this week all on the same topic: UPDATE.

It's like oyinbos are no longer falling in love with yahoo Boys so they have decided to come local.

Sha, be careful out there, dont send money to anyone without an escrow not even with their 'real' face or identity cards.

These scammers have no shame.

These warnings is mostly for the papas and mamas here.

zedman1:
The internet only made you think these things started today bro. People have been dying in scores, by different means, not just in Nigeria but all around the world, not just today, but thousands of years before we were born . Going through history, almost EVERY GENERATION has claimed it's (younger) population are the worst to have ever existed, yet the world has not shattered to bits owing to the notoriety of it's inhabitants from then till date. That's been the ways of the world. It's only the internet announcing it louder now bro. Think am.

Lol

Every generation seems to think they live in the worst times and in the end time.

Every generation has the end time signs

backbencher:
Some would blame God now for the deaths

But the thing is, God has said many times that we must obey rules and regulations, and the fact is , the builders and developers did not obey rules and regulations on building a safe building and as a result, this is what has happened.

If God came and saved our backs everytime a badly built building collapsed, we won't grasp the importance of building houses and other types of buildings properly because God will save our asses when the buildings collapse

So, blame the builders and developers and everyone directly involved in the construction. They so did not do well. See the results of their sin.

if we are to count on developers to protect church members, then what is the difference between believers and unbelievers?

emmykingzy:
If not , you would have been one daft illiterate in an unknown hamlet worshipping poorly man made idols and sacrificing animals or humans to them in the name of religion.

isn't this what Christians do?

Didn't the isrealites sacrifice more animals to their God than Africans ever sacrifice to idols?

Don't Christians claim that Jesus, a human was sacrificed to their God for their sins to be forgiven?

What really is the difference?

Highman56:
Dbull song sweet pass essense

u de whine my nipple?

Pastor righteousness can't decide if he should view or not

If the time entity was removed, then he didn't really pause the time.

Pausing time is a concept you can't explain because the human mind is already used to been in a place where there's always a 'before' and 'after'.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why must you give them?

you're stewpid.

Why won't you give money to your parents when you have?

I don't care about the chances he has. My vote will be for him.
Can't vote for another clueless leader again

Jonathan should learn from Gulder ultimate search.
Simply because people are mentioning you doesn't mean they want you.
Compared to Buhari, you are better.
Aside that, we'd rather not have you back in that office.

They are gone sir.

You didn't synchronize them

Greatpeter:
Not save, no abortion pills is save.
The future effects is devastating.

Don't just open your mouth wa wa and talk rubbish.

Abortion pills are safer than the alternative which is giving birth.

The only reason why people think abortion is unsafe is because of irrational people like yourself who would rather believe and spread rumors.

It's never concrete facts

Ghabz:
I know, what can i do?

check the number for truecaller.

If e bring name, search the name for Facebook

You no try o.

Goodlyhrt:
Late last year I submitted my application at one big private school in my area as a computer teacher. I was invited for interview and all which they said they'd call me back.

Yesterday they now invited me to resume at the post. I met the principal and we talked about terms. then we got to salary. Can you imagine that I was to take 6 classes for just 25k. I begged for at least 35k so that I can be motivated enough for the work. But lai lai baba no gree.

Baba was harping about me not being qualified enough to earn higher than that. Wait! se na certificate go come dey teach the students abi? I weak.

I know that I am in need of a job but I can't come and kill myself What for now??Writing lesson note and all for six senior secondary classes

I japa.. No be me and una!

lolz

I taught four classes for 5k a month.

I just left secondary, was very passionate about getting the students to learn.

The standard in the school was just so low, I pushed myself to ensure my students became the best.

But it was really hard getting only 5k per month while creating note for 14 topics every week for primary 5.

And then notes on 3 subjects: maths, agric and basic science for jss 1-3. It was hell.

Anyways, I later left when I got admission for medicine.

The proprietress then thought I was leaving cos of the pay, so she offered to increase it.

I did try sha. Cos when I met them, they couldn't solve 5 questions in Ugo c Ugo but when I left, the least person in the class can answer up to 24 questions correctly from any where in the textbook.

RedMac:
Definitely she will open a salon... She will definitely also go back to school... Am just so confused... I feel the target set before me by my two elder brothers is what is making me think she's low in status...

I may keep her and fly her out with me, cause my brothers have it in mind to move me out since their wife's are out there...

so your brothers marry nurse and doctor, so you wan marry nurse and doctor not even because of anything else but because of what you feel your parents and people around you will say?

No one really gives a f*ck bro. I don't see anyone jobless enough to sit down and gossip "his two brothers married nurse and doctor but he the useless one married a nobody"

And if they even talk, should that be a determining factor in choosing a partner? Na them with you go de sleep for the same house.

Personally, the last thing I'll consider when choosing a girl is what anyone else will think.

Contrary to most people's belief, abortion is safer than giving birth.

If she cannot take care of the child or if there's no hope at all, then she should consider abortion.

If in the early month as I suspected, then she should use the two pill methods as that method is safer and less painful than the one pill method.

If there's any complications, which there shouldn't be any, seek medical help without any fear.

This is because it's impossible to tell abortion from miscarriage so no doctor can take you to court unless you tell them yourself that it is abortion.

Time is important too. So she should make up her mind as soon as possible.

Please only consider abortion when the future is bleak with no help of raising the child.

Abortion is still safer than child delivery

chrisxxx:
Ohaneze should realize that Igbo people most dreaded wing is IPOB. It is their greatest bargaining power. Those who like violence never like equally or exceedingly violent people. Fulani dread IPOB. Instead of rubbishing IPOB and delineating from them keep a studied silence. Don't accept don't deny just keep aloft.
In Nigeria today only a miracle will make an Igbo person president. Therefore there is no essence feigning political correctness. If Igbos can't gain Nigeria you ought not to lose an inch of your land.

it's so worrisome to see how the educated southerners are quick to deny their own for selfish interests.

Fighting for the cause of southerners is a waste of time because in the end they will sell you when the time is right.

Boko Haram and herds men have killed more, maimed more people and displaced more people than ipob, but no Northerner has ever spoken against them or outrightly denied them.

But come to the south where ipob who wants to fight for the people are made enemies of the people.

Let them keep begging the north for the imaginary power the north has over them. It's so hopeless to see a powerful group of people begging those who have nothing to feed them with their own resources.

Plastic bottle of Coke went from N100 to N200 and will rise again after this tax.

Does this government ever understand that companies don't pay tax but it's citizens who eventually pay off the taxes?

Why taxing our income, taxing the food we eat and for every transactions we make?

Please nairalanders which one is dbull on this one.?

Which one wey him dey ontop?

EruditeSupport:
Come on man, would you tell escrow you're doing illegal trade? How do you expect them to know? There are secrets I can't even share here. Please Bleep off!

no you don't tell them.

Which is why no escrow will accept large funds without collecting "know your customers" documents from you.

You are a cheap scammer