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I can't stay off the internet. Not for a whole day and I know this is the same for a lot of peeps here too.

But buying data is really eating deep into my monthly budget.

I buy data up to 5-6k per month. 1k monthly data doesn't even last me up to a week and that's with a lot of managing on my part.

I can't keep up with this as a student. No be only data I get to buy.

Recently I switched from regular data to social data on glo. So far so good.

I now buy N100 social data which is 500mb. This can only be used for whatsapp, Facebook and Twitter (WTF data, that's the plan name by the way)

I then buy another N100 data for browsing strictly on opera mini (opera data)

So in a month I spend roughly N400-N800 as against N1000 to N5000.

This social data is quite OK for me as most times, all I do is check whatsapp for class updates and twitter and I browse nairaland mostly.

From real men we are now going to extra men.

Nothing wey SIMPle Adamu no go see for feminist gate o

Igipt gon drown in the tsunami

jericco1:
We know who herbalists are na

oops... You should have closed your eyes when you got to that part since you already knew it

Chikpat:
You will need deliverance to be totally cut off from the effects of those herbs.

do you even listen to yourself? Why didn't you come and say this while I was ill?

That's common knowledge na.

Nollywood made us believe a lot of useless things

And the worst aspect, while watching those movies as kids, you hear people saying "it's things that are happening in real life that they are portraying"

Now kids are bringing those things which are fiction to reality.

But now is not the time to cast blame. You can't blame Hollywood for gangster in America. We shouldn't blame Nollywood.

We need better education and more values. Our society sadly has put money first, second and third

Takeit2017:
Hi everyone
My story

Fast forward to early this year

I met this Yoruba girl... Na person way never jam wahala na him thy broadcast English

Meh this Yoruba girl get mind tell me say make we break up...

The same girl that fell sick nobody could take care of her.... I pity her took every dam responsibility upon my self as a struggling guy hustling to make money I see add another wahala ontop my head... I spent close to 20k when she was sick... Not only that she still no get where to stay.. But I turn mr. Nice guy overnight took her to my office staff house to stay with me ...gave her everything she wanted... One thing led to another she fell Inlove with me. No I fell Inlove with her..another thing led to another we started dating living as couples...my intention was for her to stay a little while pending when she see another place wey she go rent. I was blinded by love.....all the whole Alfa male way I dey form before ..., die by fire.

I dey always notice her calling one particular number.. But as gentle guy I cool not until when I decided to check her phone while she was sleeping... This girl dey into 4years relationship with another guy she even they beg the guy make the guy no leave am say she go die... WTF

I no fit bear am I comfront her and she said that the guy is her ex that the guy is married blah blab blah .. To cut the story short

I promised to send her 20k to complete her house rent money

So yesterday I sent her 10k and I told her I will send the other 10 tommorow

This girl called me early this morning telling me that we should break up that me I no of her 4years relationship that we should go our separate ways.

Why she no tell me say make we break up yesterday Shebi my 10k for still dey with me

Please make una advice me cause I dey boil right now she must return my 10k

her relationship with you was for convenience.

Not love.

BTW, when helping someone not just girls, always think about it. Are you helping because you like them and want something in return or because you just feel like it?

Helping because you expect them to fall in love with you is the way of the simp man.

And because you didn't get the full return from your investment you are now crying upandan.

Brotherly next time help because you want to help or ensure your terms and conditions embedded in your helping package is made clear to both parties

There's too much power at the center. It makes the governors behave foolishly because they are afraid to challenge it.

Let's remove the power from the center

athaliya:
Pray tell how I sound selfish

wait make I make money like you first

athaliya:
Been reading alot of "rules" lately online and I laugh to myself because obviously, some people are just making noise online and not ready to do what they brag about but let me indulge them a bit.

I'm talking about the "What is she bringing to the table" gang aka Redpillers

According to them, women only have a v*gina to offer in marriage or a relationship and All Nigerian women are broke hoes (God bless their rich mothers wherever they are).

So let me use myself as an example now...

I founded a limited liability company about 3yrs ago and an NGO about 2yrs ago, been working for about 9yrs now and built my income to about 7 figures monthly. I foot my bills and that of my younger ones myself.

So say I get married to a guy who earns 7 figures too (cus I have realised that broke guys are too much drama ) and I have agreed to split the bills in the house 50-50.

I hope he knows that the cooking, sweeping, laundry and dish washing will be split 50-50 too?
Infact we would have a time table for domestic chores.

On days that are not my turn, I will lazily wake up by 7am, do absolutely nothing except eat the food cooked by my husband, dress up and zoom off to work while he has to dress the kids up for school and drop the kids off at their school before going to his office. After work, I will eat dinner he cooked and go to bed (he must finish his chores before coming to bed)

Unless he's ready to pay for a chef and a maid (we will split their salaries )

Did I just mention kids? Lolzzzz, who will carry the pregnancy? Haaaaa, my work is as important as his own ooo, 9 months is alot of time to be fragile, how will I keep paying my bills and contributing to the family? We had better hire a surrogate and split the bill as well. It shouldn't be more than 3m for everything.

Now the baby(s) is here, who will nurse them? We have to split it as well, I will be considerate enough to always make sure I always pump fresh milk into bottles, but we are buying 2 baby prams, when it's his turn he will take the baby to work as well, or we hire a nanny and split the bill as usual 50-50.

Other things we will split:

1. Children school fees? We'll split it 50-50.
2. I get to give them their first name while he gives them their last name...
3. His friends and relatives need my permission to come same way my friends and relatives need his permission to come.
4. Anyone that comes to our house to stress me will sleep in the police station

Any gift he gives me or mine will be given to him or his as well on a similar day with a 20% interest.
E.g he gifts me N5m on my birthday, I gift him 6m on his birthday
He buys my mum a car worth 10m, I buy his mum a car worth 12m

No gift to my family, no gift to his family.
How he treats my mum during omugwo is how I treat his mum during omugwo or he gets a maid specially for his mum and bears the cost alone.


Doesn't this home sound ideal? No cheating, no liability...

in order to sound posh, you ended up showing how selfish a relationship with you could be.

Anyways na men wey De do love is blind go get your back

Kobojunkie:
Your wife has a masters and has been jobless for 11 years. Does she even harbor desires to obtain a PhD on top of what she has so far, or are you the one making that decision for her to obtain a PhD as well?

You want her to explore her "potentials" but why aren't these "potentials" explorable with the masters she currently has?

If she don't want to go abroad for PhD,and assuming it is her desire to begin with, what is wrong with paying for her to obtain one right there in the country?,

or what even made him think she wants to work?

Some women are okay been housewives. Thats as much achievement as they want in life.

But is she not tuface's baby mama or we should start lying to ourselves?

Op no go kee yourself o.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]I just want to know why he sent me one in the first place[/color]

He probably made a mistake.

He probably wanted to toast you.

Or want to keep tabs on your posts.

But decided against it

Because he reconsidered.

You are probably not worth the stress

The trouble a relationship with you will cost him is probably not worth it

Or he felt guilty.

Nothing more

The only problem I see here is why you are asking this question?

Why do you care if a married man cancel his friend request or not?

Datboredberry:
Yet. I. Am. DELUSIONAL TO FEEL THAT I AM Your. Target.

All fixed.

Have a wonderful night

Datboredberry:
I date girls too...

What's your problem? You still carrying a grudge? Self-acclaimed alpha who can't handle a little confrontation...

Stop being a sensitive bit** and move on...

I wouldn't be surprised if you're a yahoo boy too . Your kind are everywhere...

you bore me

Another woke madam is ranting.

I date mostly boys (na chicken you wan date before?)

Im liberal.

Madam we don't care. Just STFU!

Candidlady:
Happy birthday pretty princess...girl child a blessing to the world




God knows why he took the first... Who knows what the boy coulda turned into

Itrust your judgement God


Happy birthday to the light of the world

At bolded

But if it's abortion?

Let's face the truth. As a man I want to provide for my family. I want to give her everything he talked about and I have no single care if she wants to sit down at home all day long.

But my house must be clean. My food must be ready. My clothes must be clean and my kids must be mine

And the respect and submission must be there.

But today most women want the enjoyment of free money and without the little suffering of house chores and submission to the authority taking care of them. Sha na men wey no De look well De marry those kind ones

ScarlettDolly:
I just got out of the shower

so wetin make we do?

Does it matter if chinedu packaged and sold you a tokunbo iPhone at the price of a new one?

Harrykn:
The boyfriend abi Wetin dem call am fit no see road like this guy sef and e Dey spend money join. Holy holy holy

lolz

She probably told him that they should keep themselves till after marriage

Shortys behave funny at times

hekola:
Please experienced guys in the house.. there's this girl i really liked but she told me she has a guy.. fast forward this year she has visited twice and we had sex, and she's still telling me she has a guy.. should I continue enjoying her pussy or be careful?.iam not spending any dime on her,, in short she knows I am a broke guy.

Lolz.

If you like the sex and won't mind if she sleeps with other people at her own convenience, then you can continue with her.

Some girls actually want guys with no string attached.

Chances are she likes you but can settle with you either because she doesn't want the trouble of relationship (too many troubles in rs btw) or there are other benefits.

But if you want a relationship, then deny her sex and force her to make a decision. This will end in two ways; she'll either start ignoring you (and you’ll lose the sex but at least you know where you stand and free to move on) or you just continue with the sex and remove your mind from relationship.

By the way, I've been in this position before. But I no really want relationship as I already have a good girl before.

But she told me she just doesn't want any string attached because she doesn't like relationships wahala. Same with another of my girl.

They just wanted the sex and comfort once in a while. The comfort of Lying down naked in bed with another person is something some girls cherish.

Please use protection always. You're just one of the other guys she's f*cking.

That sh*t is addictive bro

but you really did it on the street?

These guys no get any ambition apart from politics?

Let them give other people chance na

Mali players should come and borrow weed from Naira Marley

Not like there will be any outcome o. Just formalities.

insidelife22:
arms crossed

Not waste your time. Nothing go comot

Reminderz:
I already told him he lacked comprehensive skills.. don't waste your time on him. he's just off point

he whines too much almost like a woman bro

Nonexisting:
All these vaginarians with male monikers trying to teach men how to live as men as simply deceiving themselves. If a vaginarian wants the love of a man, she has to earn it. I don't hate them, I just hate their evil manipulation and especially the guts with which they do it. I don't love them either because the experience I got from doing so was expensively horrible. Now, I simply avoid getting entangled with them after doing my sole business transaction with them which is sex. If you think not loving that evil gender people is stupid, try loving them but don't forget to come back and tell your ugly story someday. Simps shout love is a beautiful thing in the morning and in the evening, they shed tears like Will Smith.

let's check something from this your post:

Women are:
1.Vaginarian
2.evil gender

You hate their manipulation and their guts.

Anyone loving them is stup*d

All these and then you proudly say you don't hate them?

Bro, you're still a simp. But here's the thing, you're a simp with your eyes wide open.

All you need now is to learn more.

Manipulation and having guts is all part of the game.

TarOrfeeek:



Not only are you Dr. Game Theory

You're now Prof. Red Peel PhD.




Bros, carry your BP scarcity mindset gerrout from my MT abeg

signs of an empty head: name calling.

Do you even understand what the scarcity mindset is?

Bro let's talk, so everyone can see who is really empty.

I too like dis nigga sha

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram


Na to de DRAG d WEED 24sc



LOCK am 4 inside 1 BUNK



WTF MAN