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Izecson3D:
This is 2015 too, its her duty.. They might be rich as well. But if she doesn't ! Who will??

Who shared the duties please?

I want to also know, why is suffering always associated with Nigerian wives? If you don't 'suffer', it looks like you're lazy...

Imagine the pic you posted, you're saying kudos to her! She's a true African woman, bla bla bla.. Instead of finding a way to help her..

There was also a picture posted on here sometime ago, a woman riding a bicycle with one hand, then supporting the big drum on her head with d other hand... People were saying that's a true African woman, so hardworking. .etc...SMH.. God help all of you!

I wonder what it takes to be a true mother in Africa? 'Sufferhead'

Let the girl travel home for a weekend or two so that your wife will realise her usefulness.Then talk to your wife about how she treats the girl. ..

.if after this, she still doesn't treat her right, please send her home... I hate ill treatment esp when undeserved. ..

ITK.. You know more than the owner of the company. . What a sweet reply from your boss...

You didn't like the humiliation he gave you but you were fast in pointing out his 'mistakes' in front of everyone rudely. .

He saw your design already but decided to do what he thought was best for his company, so what's your prob? Abi must he follow your drawing?

You already did your job, you should hv allowed him to do his!

So happy for you. .have always known you and how anxious you were to get a job... congrats. .


Now Nnamdi can have food to eat from his papa

There's no miracle if not to give your VERY BEST in the subsequent semesters.

Study harder and pray!!

I will advise him to pay off the remaining amount of money so that he can have full ownership of the land. .Once, he acquires the land, he can sell it off...
How is he going to do this? He should seek for someone willing to invest in real estate. .

The person will give him money which he will use to pay off the remaining amount he owes after which the person pays him the balance(amount he has paid so far) and then acquires the land...

Do you understand?

What are the terms and conditions of the business?

Couples should be aware of each other's financial capability. .. I wonder why ur wife should be hiding her salary ..

Maybe she doesn't trust you. ..

Not cool generally esp as you ain't ok with it. ..

Op, you should have left, then allowed him to beg you for days.. that way, he'll see you're serious. ..
He's just blackmailing you emotionally with tears and stuffs!

His case isn't a mistake at all, he planned and executed it...

I really wish you the best, do whatever you can to feel better. ...

yomi007k:
Its easier said than done.

When u don't trust someone, u lose respect for them n u don't really care about their feelings anymore.

They had an aggreement and she DELIBERATELY broke it. The man had good plans for the future but selfishness won't let it mature.

*The wife shud accept whatever comes her way*

Period!

Really? What's the essence of forgiveness in marriage then? Is the husband perfect? Doesnt he annoy the wife too? If we keep getting back at our spouses when they err, marriage will be a battle ground. ..

Yes, the wife is wrong but cheating on her is way overboard. ..
What happens when a bigger issue comes?

Sorry, but I think the man had always wanted to cheat!

ElDeeVee:
Nothing for you

Nothing for me and you've been looking for me?


Lol, I'm here now

ElDeeVee:
I've been looking for you

Any goodies for me?

eipreel:
Trust me, you'll be the first person I'll invite because I'll surely need those beautiful pieces of advice you give

hmmmmm ..... I forsay.....

I knew adeoti01 was playing with my lil mind, naughty boy

veave:
Why do people marry then want to wait for a period of time before giving birth. Eh op?...

Both you and your husband should have as well stayed apart until you are both financially okay before getting married.

Why Marry then start waiting?

Two of una sef no serious....

Mei kunu!!! Mei kunu!!!!....

Kawo mun kwalba daya zem sha...

People delay childbirth for a number of reasons na... school, work, finance..etc... some just want to flex for sometime before kids start coming. .. People have right to choice..


Op, you and your husband are at fault here... how could you connive with your husband's people to go against your agreement with your husband? Those relatives of his have no respect for your marriage, you caused it though. ..
If you needed a change in plan, you could hv talked with your husband instead of going behind his back...

Then, your act isn't a justification for your husband's infidelity. . That single mistake just brought out what was already in him... He has no excuse whatsoever. .

The person that needs a huge dose of forgiveness is him...just because of a lil disagreement, he's already misbehaving. . Mtcheeeew. . Not ruling out the wife's attitude but how has cheating helped to resolve problems?

ElDeeVee:
Welcome back

Have always been around

You stay in one bedroom apartment and you're bringing visitors? Then, you vacate your bedroom for the visitor?... are you ok?

Can't you get a sales girl from your neighbourhood? So that the lady can be coming from her house instead of staying with you... must the sales girl live with you?

Please, pack back to your bedroom before they chase you to the corridor

I can only stay in a long distance marriage if my husband is in another country(which will probably be temporary). .. we can't be in the same country and live separately. ..one person has to move..

Job will always come but true love (assuming your husband is) is hard to come by....

It's a matter of choice! Your family or your job! For me, family first.... one person has to move, we must live together! !

hayorzzyzx:
Go to your local channel!!!

AIT precisely

Btruth:
Try AIT local.

Thank you, have no local cable...

Happy watching, I hope Naija wins....

No channel showing it on dstv..

Goodnight everyone and good luck to Naija...

The ancestors will fix it

Question!

You permit a person to change himself into a woman yet won't allow 'her' do things women do... what's the need then?
Confused people

ayo4lahanyahoo:
Hi Folks,

I've been trying to solve this circumstantial puzzle about paying dowries. Religion and customs states that the parent of the bride are entitled to recieve the dowry, but what happens in a case where there is no parent, relative or guardian? Do I pay to the church or what? Pls help!!!!!!!!

pay to the church for what reason? Go and pay to the motherless home, they brought her up.. They're her family. ..

adeoti01:
Doubt not... If not true, no need for the news...the lady took me aback sha..
So soooooooooon

Wow!! No invitation

Eipreel, Na so you dislike us reach?

I hope dstv shows this one... waiting! !


All d best eaglets... God bless Nigeria!

tyconcepts:
Exactly what do men want??
.

Men want respect and the feeling that yeah, they're in charge! Which to me is totally ok, as they're supposed to be the head of the home(more like a team leader)...

What I don't support is rubbing your headship on your wife who you're supposed to be working together with!

lilmax:
This proves Most Nigerian women are weak and ballless, always playing the victim card


Just imagine, you have your own money to buy whatever you want to

Just imagine this nonsense "* Heaven forbid I own a car or a house for the
same aforementioned reasons. The only place I
can live till I marry, is my parent’s home.".......this proves my point,instead of getting what they want,they are here zombieing to the society

Sorry sir, you have made no point!

It used to be prevalent in the olden days, things are a lot better now...

There are really good men out there now, I can testify. ..

What are you guys discussing here , is eipreel married for real?

I doubt though. .

Overflowing testimonies since this week!! So happy for y'all... despite our economic situation, God still does HIS things. ....

Who's next?

lilmax:
males got 100% right,men can walk up to any girl on earth

Females 90 % under probability except they go to the male directly, thats why most don't get the tall,dark,rich and handsome at long last

They can walk up to any girl but it's totally up to the girl to either accept or decline. ..


However, my query is why would a lady be insulted when she says she wants to marry a rich (or atleast a comfortable) man?
Whereas men always check whether the lady is a 'wife material' as regards her home keeping skills...

If a man is supposed to be the financial pillar of a home while the woman takes care of the domestic chores.. isn't it logical that while men check for 'wifely' attributes, women should also be concerned about the men's financial capability?

Na today? I have received countless of those messages but mine's always Agip. ...
There's an employment and he didn't see his relatives to give the offer..how generous

The sad thing is that people will still fall for this especially now that there's an ongoing graduate recruitment in Shell ..

The easiest set of people to scam in Nigeria are job seekers and those struggling to go to obodo oyibo (AKA abroad) because most times they're desperate. ...

Be wise people and always provide any info that may be useful in arresting a fraudster!

lilmax:
it depends


Are you speaking from a feministic point of view? If yay,then there is everything wrong with it

I'm not a feminist... so do you agree with my statement?
Don't a woman have every right to choice just as men do?