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byvan03:
Lol, you will know when you meet your replica. I once saw a cousin's wedding video and noticed instantly that I am her look alike, I never met her before.

Lol.. I can never know except someone tells me.. is it weird?

.. very funny. .. I can relate with that of breaking glass... will simply say 'who kept this glass here'


I love that of 10 ways to be a pro dad

EfemenaXY:
Let's say for the sake of this argument, I have no religious afflictions.

How're you gonna level with me?

We can never level.. That's why I told mindful earlier that we are on two different paths hence can never agree but she insisted I told her why I find adultery wrong. ..... so I did...

@mindfulness, I agree with your last comment on my post...

Mindfulness:
We can agree to disagree and yet exchange our views in a friendly way. If we all agreed all the time, it would be boring so let us continue talking if you don't mind. Why is it morally wrong to date a married man, someone enlighten me please.

As a Christian, I believe adultery is wrong. .. Can a woman/man commit adultery alone? No.. so when you take part in a crime/wrongdoing, you become equally responsible. ..

Mindfulness:
Nigeria is a non-polygamous society now?

Who says it is morally wrong?

They are selfish and I am perfectly ok with people who deal in their own best interest. Nothing wrong with it.

You are getting it wrong here. Byvan said that she can do whatever SHE considers right and in response to that I said that it is the same way of thinking the ladies have who date married men. Once again, WHO SAYS that dating a married man is wrong?

It is anyone's right to throw themselves at my spouse. I can PERFECTLY understand why they would want to
By the time my daughters are grown up and ready to date people, they will decide on their own what is best for them.

Her problem is not the married man. Her problem is much bigger than that and she will take it from relationship to relationship no matter if the man is married or not if she doesn't figure it out.

Because?

You don't see anything wrong with dating a married man??
I see we are on two totally different paths hence we can never agree on this matter. . So let's agree to disagree

The special one is now the specialist in failure. .. buhahahahahhahahba


PRIDE GOES BEFORE A FALL!!

Mindfulness:
The ladies who date married men JUST LIKE YOU do what they THINK is right.



The lady can never be as guilty as the husband, if anyone is guilty at all, BECAUSE the girl owes you NOTHING. She doesn't give a damn about you and your marriage and it is her RIGHT.

Her right? I don't get it... we all know dating a married man in a non polygamous society is morally wrong, so why propagate it?

So many of these ladies intentionally throw themselves at married men.. You hear them say; married men are more caring, they're already made, they are gentler and all sorts of rubbish. ..

Please, we should try to uphold what's right and shame evil.. Dating a married man is very wrong! !
If we can say these mistresses do what they think is right, then we can also say boko haram, ISIS, our corrupt politicians, eeeettcc also do what they think is right..afterall everyone's got a reason for an act!!
What is wrong is wrong! ! If we continue with this 'right' thing, so many evils will be excused! !

I hope you'll say it's the girl's right when a lady tries to sleep with your husband. .or tell your daughters to date married men afterall it's their RIGHT not to give a sh! T about the men's marital status. ..

Also, alot of people here condemned a woman on another thread concerning her relationship with a married man... why didn't you cheer her on and tell her it was her right?

I will apportion more blame to the husband but the mistress isn't blameless!!

lolaxavier:
Very funny.

Not funny oo... can one really say how he/she looks?

I guess the people in question were able to know they looked alike because of their beards. .

I won't even know my lookalike when I see her because I can't say exactly how I look...

Chaiii... I can really feel the happiness

I claim my double blessings too, Amen

What's she doing in your parent's house when you haven't married her? She went there to get assessed?
She has even stayed for 2months. Chaii
The most painful thing is that after everything you may not even marry her, you're already having doubts and asking us if she'll make a good wife.. smh

Anyway, talk to her about her hygiene.. it's for her own benefit too.. Cleanliness is next to Godliness!

Also, please try and fulfil the marriage rites.. biko..

Happiest birthday Jamean sweetie. . May God grant your heart desires

Lovely pic @singlefade..

Friedplantain

Please, don't leave your job yet since you have no assured alternative means of income... You can stay in your job while working out other alternatives...if any of the hustles clicks or starts bringing sustainable income, you can then leave.....

Your wife and kid can remain in your village while you get someone to squat with in Ibadan(just find a way to manage). You can go visit them every weekend. ..with time when things get better, you can be together again..
Or if there's any work your wife can do in your new location to generate substantial revenue, she can come along....

All d best...

She should free that man, she's already cheating on him emotionally by developing love feelings for another man, sooner or later she will cheat physically!

One man's food is another man's poison indeed... many women are looking for such principled men that won't cheat/abuse/disrespect. ... them.


However, how is it possible for you not to have developed love for this guy despite all his good qualities? What is it that triggers love in you exactly?

Cc Frisby

Greycious:
B4 u start saying its not how far but how well....pls i'm already aware of that notion. D motive behind this thread is to get the idea of what age a normal Nigerian, living a normal Nigerian life should posses his/her first degree.
Btw, i'm 23 and i finshed few weeks ago. I'm i late, on time or ahead of time cos sm1 said i'm too young to start going to offices with my certificate...lool
tnx 4ur honest replies. Cc lalasticlala

You finished at 23 an you're calling yourself young? By the time you finish nysc you will be around 24/25...Then you'll know you're very old because you'll see graduate jobs that require maximum of 24 years old. .access bank, oanda, NSE et al..

Don't feel so special, people finished at a much younger age.. some people got their Doctorate degrees at 25 and even lower!!

However, age is only but a number. . It doesn't stop you from reaching your goals if you're determined!

Jadonjack:
I really dnt knw how to be smart in dis nw.. My absence not quickly announced may cause the company some fortune

Tell them it was an emergency hence you couldn't provide the required notice. ..

Except you want to be stuck in that job or the interview invite isn't from a better company, you really have to find a reason...

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ..... Good post...

Come to my bar and collect one bottle of fanta

No, it isn't enough to conclude ....

He may or may not be cheating. ...... You have to get a clearer picture before you accuse him....

But the truth is that you never trusted him....

lilmax:
a real man can help when needed

Good... To answer you, a real woman can be independent. ..

Mindfulness:
And if he can't or doesn't want to, do we call him unreal man then or transvestite?

... yeeeaahhh...

According to lilmax, a real man should stand for the truth when his wife can't cook, hence a real woman should also stand for the truth too

lilmax:
so a real woman is not independent?

So a real man can't do chores/housekeeping?

lilmax:
a real man must stand for the truth, if her cooking is not enough he has the right to tell her

Same way a real woman must stand for the truth. .. if the man can't provide enough money for the house, she has the right to tell him...

A real woman also has every right to want to marry a rich man/a man that can provide enough finance, same way men want to marry a woman that can cook/do housekeeping

Jeeezzzz... how could the doctors abandon patients!
Who knows, some may have even died.. so pathetic. ..

God help us...

I really pray he finds help... Times like this I wish I had money..

Why do people hold on so much to the negative?

So because you've read a lot about failed or unhappy marriages, yours will be like that?

So the happy marriages around you can't motivate you? Or you know no happily married couples?


Anyway, for me, marriage remains one of the best thing that happened to me.. the love my spouse showers on me, no other can..

Most Nigerian doctors have no regard for human life except when it involves their relatives. . They see dead bodies everyday, so what's the biggie ...

So many times they prescribe useless drugs just so they make money. ..

Na only God dey save person for this Naija. .

However, I won't fail to say there are still good doctors and I say kudos to them...

Continue to RIP, Chaz B

Op, once he carries his stuff to go to the sitting room to sleep, carry your own pillow and follow him. Lie beside him... if he gets up, follow him

Also try to spice up communication, make the house lively. .
Go out together, see movies together, play games together etc.. you need to rekindle that love/togetherness. ..

Remember Love should be nurtured, else it dies. ..

toluayo93:
I really need help. tomorrow is another war zone. as small as 20mins can be. it is the most frustrating period ever all I do is scratch my thighs down n up. that I won't be able to coordinate myself
PLS HELP

Try using hot or warm water for bath and see how it goes.

It happens to me when I use cold water or have malaria. ..