hisgrace090:
To be born in north Korea seems a great punishment.

Because that's what the media has told you? Have you ever lived there before? Be smart!

JubiOmeiza:
OBI PHONE CALL TO ATIKU
Obi: Alhaji it's me. You have not been picking calls. Alhaji you are busy abi?
Atiku: Obi I have been on the phone some American diplomats. They want to know what happened.
Obi: Oga, how far with the North na... I don't like what I am hearing. I thought you ....
Atiku: Obi we are doing well. We are not doing badly. we shall win Insha Allah!
Obi: Oga, I have delivered the southeast. I have done my part. I told you.....
Atiku : Well done Obi. But you know your zone is buttered bread. It is not like this my zone where I have to confront this man whom they see as a god .
Obi : Oga did you say buttered bread? Buttered by you? Oga you see my people say....... after a race the miles are counted. Oga I told you we were wasting useful time and money in Dubai. I told you ...... Everyday... blueprint.. blueprint... blueprint!
Atiku : Obi what are you insinuating? Haba! These elections are not over. The prophetess said I would win. I trust her. Bishop of Winner told me same thing ......I trust them. Apostle also told me I will win. ........
Obi: Alhaji, so did they tell you you would lose Yobe and Borno woefully? Alhaji I don't know why you made me enter this trouble.....
Atiku : What trouble is that? I made you my running mate. Other people wanted it. you should be grateful. Did I collect Kobo from you?
Obi: Alhaji I am a businessman. If you knew you weren't ready you should have told me. Didnt you tell me you will win Adamawa easily. That every worker there is your employee? So why are you struggling to even win your state? Its embarrassing Alhaji. Where are your workers Alhaji?
Atiku: Obi look Obasanjo is calling me. The last time he called me he was shouting on me on the phone. I don't want to take his calls again. That is a man wh couldn't even win his local govt area for me talking to me like his houseboy. Was I supposed to rig the elections?
Obi: Alhaji I warned you about all these people. Look at that bigheaded one from Kwara who didnt allow anyone come near campaign funds. These are the people you relied on Alhaji. A man who couldn't even retain a senatorial zone his family has possessed for 40 years.
Atiku: Obi honestly I am shocked. Wallahi.....
Obi: Alhaji beg no vex oo. What happened to all that our crowd in Kano? I told you when you guys were kwankwasying up and down. I told you not to trust these people with red caps. They were the people that told you to keep me out of the north. Now what did they do for you?
Atiku: Obi wallah you are right...
Obi: Alhaji I don't know what to do know oo. I am a businessman. I don't want these people to put their eyes into my business oo. Please call Bishop Hassan Kukah and General Abdusalam. Tell them to take us to the Villa. So we can tell this man it was all politics and he may forgive. ......Let us go and congratulate him ooo
Atiku: Obi! It's too early na. We must keep hope alive
Obi: Which hope?... Hope from northeast or hope from Kano and Kwara? .........
Alhaji if you wont do it, n'aha Chineke, I will call Buhari myself and congratulate him. I cant come and sink with you. I am still young oo.

Nigerians & hypocrisy.. This article is filled with lies & it is crap!

DaySpringer:
There are different aspects of Life. Different Categories of people. Different needs, different desires.

It is not everyone that goes to the University that comes out with a first class, Some will come out with a Second Class upper and some with a second Class Lower degree and some with a third class degree.
You can write all the articles you want but people will always have their preferences. Some like to watch educational shows and some like to watch shows like Big brother Nigeria.

Understanding the differences in human nature and capitalizing on them by giving different groups of people what they want is the key to becoming Rich.

Immorality is imbedded in the very core of this society and the thousands of churches in the country and the Preachings everywhere have done little to change it.

Your article is not going to do anything about it either. You know this, but still wrote it anyway. Same way someone like you will still write another one next year, At the end of the day, you all will just be attention seekers pretending to not be in touch with reality.


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Exactly! But Nigerians & our hypocrisy always want everyone to be zombies & live exactly the same way as everyone else.

Friend01:

Islām is not dogmatic in the sense that you understand it.
It is open to criticsm not some unquestioned religious views fixated upon personal opinions.
Like everything in. life has it rules and principles so. is Islām, saying dogmatism defines Islām is not really doing justice to this religion .

You are open to ask any question that makes you think the way you do about Islām.

I'm not being specific to Islam alone. I'm talking about all religions.

Friend01:


Contradiction in Christianity is well documented, but in Islām? It has being a challenge the Qur'ān has thrown at those who are willing to take up this challenge.
Just show us one contradiction in the Qur'ān to disprove Islām and I will stop being a Muslim.
We have being waiting for over a millennia and over four centuries yet, not even one man has being able to do that.
You can try if you wish.

Religion on a general note has so many contradictions. Stop excusing Islam. I respect your religion & your views, but I'm just saying. There are so many contradictions, biases & religion is full of dogma. You're expected to not question anything.

Usually the people of all religious sects don't see the biases. If they did, religion would not be causing as much division as it causes in the world today. Like I said, I respect your views but I'm just being open in this discussion.

I agree with the thoughts of the OP. Religion is just so confusing & it is full of division. All the religions in the world believe their religion is the one true religion & that you shouldn't associate with people from the other religions. Then, I ask : "Where is the love? " Is that what your God (or God of your religion) teaches you?

Let's be clear here, I believe in God, I do believe very much in God but I've started to question so many things about religion as a whole....there are too many contradictions in religion. In fact, I don't believe in religion.

davibid:


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Dangote, personally I’ll say he’s a traitor & an as*licker, he happens to be one of the people who literally stabbed GEJ at the back; I say so because during GEJ term in government Dangote was named richest in Africa because a lot policies were made to favor him but regardless of the pampering he got from GEJ he never rallied nor campaign for GEJ but today, because PMB is a Hausa man like himself he’s shamelessly declared himself an APC member.

His plans are to monopolize the Nigeria economy but he & his principal will fail woeful come 2019

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#KINGBID

Leave your story. Dangote has been the richest black man anywhere in the entire world (not just Africa) for a long time..... long before Jonathan became president. Say something new.

This man is a shame. He has almost no traits of leadership.

kimbraa:
Nigerian actresses and their infectious stupidity. They only take new photos when they just bought either a handbag, car, clothes, hair, and then their foolish followers will start praising them without asking basic questions like 'If that's all that's expected of them'. Some girls want to be like them and that's why someone who earns 15k would want to wear a hair of 50k. They don't have much to offer their followers.

They'll soon come and say I'm hating 'cause that's the language they understand.

The only thing you have to offer fellow Nairalanders are your judgmental character & hypocrisy.

kimbraa:
He's a Yahoo man.
You were feeding and clothing him while he was waiting on one maga to pay.
He's a one second man, not even up to a minute.

Shebi, this same Churchill was the same man you were goshing about before and after marriage? Una no dey hear word! I pity those girls that follow the likes of her and Toke Makinwa.

Bleep off. Who told you you will have a happy marriage? You people just judge other people anyhow as if you're God. Comot here.

Tamarapetty:
Wizkid for the sake of your kids, just send them money! And stop being a KID!! you're rich na. Smh

You talk like you don't have sense. So cos one person said something,you've just automatically believed it without knowing whether it's true or not?

NairalandFAYOSE:
pardon my blunders.
I was aware she has a baby before we met but still continued the relationship because the baby is with the father. she told me it was a mistake and the guy's family doesn't support their relationship. so they went their different ways while the guy kept the baby.

when we started, I found out she's humble, hardworking and she's everything I ever wanted in a woman. so we got married 4 years ago and have a 3 year old son and 2 beautiful twins (just 3 months old).

now the problem started when she went to church and her ex brought her 7 years old daughter unannounced. that he's married now and can't continue taking Care of the girl.
she called me from church and told me. immediately I told her not to bring a child thats not mine to me. she now took the baby to her mom and came home to meet me with my kids.
she has been begging me since to allow the baby in our home because the mother gave her 3 days to come and take her baby from her.

nairalanders pls I need your advice on this. those it make sense that I take the baby while the father is out there enjoying his life.

You sound so annoyingly selfish. She's your wife but her child is not your child?

Lol....many women say this, but in reality, when the time comes, they start saying they're tired after just 7 minutes. I've seen this happen time & time again.

Patrioticooduan:

This is why it is good to read and analysis critically. Are yot okay at all? Is America an indigenous country or a country of immigrants? Why do love comparing yourself to America when you are far different? Ethnicity is defined by skin color in America because it is occupied by immigrants from other continents. In Africa, Europe, and Asia, it is ethnicity is defined not by skin colour but by your language and culture.
Use your brain!

Exactly,you need to read and get more knowledge before showing your ignorance. Thank God you just acknowledged that America is a country of immigrants which means you have accepted that America is far more diverse than Nigeria. Those immigrants, do they all have the same cultures and/or language? You can imagine a country where people from every country in the world from all cultures,languages, creed/religion etc all live without the kind of bias & tribalism we have in Nigeria & you're telling me rubbish.

Patrioticooduan:
Split Nigeria.
Oodua Republic for Yorubas.
Biafra Republic for Ibos.
Middle belt for minorities in the North.
Niger delta Republic for minorities in the South.
Arewa Republic for Hausa and Fulanis.
Nigeria is too diverse. Nigeria is more ethnically diverse than Europe. Majority of European countries are split alone ethnic group for a reason. This is to bring peace and progress to the continent.
Nigeria will not work in the next hundrend years.
A indigenous country with such immense diversity won't work. Even Croatia is dominated by an ethnic group known as Croats. Germany is dominated by ethnic Germans. Poland by ethnic Poles. Netherland by ethnic Dutch. England by English. Greece by ethnic Greeks.
Split Nigeria

You're silly! Is Nigeria more ethnically diverse than the United States of America? The problem is that you mentally lazy folks hate to think about solutions so when you face a problem,the only thing you think about is to destroy,break-up,etc.

haywire07:
I understand the girls or maybe married girls were extremely stupid.

But their point was a bitter fact. That despite the social media hype of celebrities and their show off lifestyle on instagram, they are actually not as wealthy as they always portray .

You're as slow as the girls, sadly.

okerekeikpo:
Old Olosho pls go n marry infact come let me manage u

Old fool like you, go and get sense. Intact come let me manage & slap sense into your empty skull.

Adefemiaderoju1:
At 43yrs without husband can someone please remind me what she's celebrating again?

Go and kill yourself...idiota!

Typical Nigerians & pretence.

mayweather145:
what about trump, the American president.... he is 72..... to me its not based on age. but on intelligent initiatives to move the state forward !

...absolutely!

Acjohn:
White Nigerian indeed. Make I hear say he wan contest election na then he go know say he never be Niger talk more of Nigeria

If he's popular, he can win. Afterall the guy is Nigerian. He even did his youth service too....whatever is there to qualify him that he doesn't have?

farano:
Smh...beauty without brains. That's why I love myself, I'm beautifully made , talented and intelligent

If you were intelligent, we would have been the ones telling you that you're intelligent instead of you telling yourself like you're doing now.

id4sho:

Women are built for comfort and Men are built to make way.
I've learnt something big from you.
tiri gbosa for you
Barman, give am one chilled ORIGIN

Thanks my brother.

AUTOCRATIC:
If anyone has blamed you or insulted you here, don't be angry with their opinion.... You left your job to satisfy Her and show you love her, that is one of the best risk one can take for her partner but in your own case it turn out to be something else.

Call your wife and bring back the memory of love you have shared in the past, let her know how much you love her and how much you will like to make her happy for the rest of your life. Let her know the reasons you and her have to leave your life without external influence..

In other words, try and study the kind of person her father and mother is, try and know who she is closer to among them, and who she takes order from,try and know who she is closer with among her siblings. You can talk to anyone of them that is of more rational opinion but before that, speak to her one on one before going for second plan,.best of luck bro

Great advice!

winningwinner:


Thanks for this, but I am truly disappointed. I married her with all my heart. We swore for better for worse; for richer for poorer. What's happening now is not what I bargained for. What's next for me. Advise, please.

My brother, don't be mad at her. Like I said in my earlier reply to you, women are built for comfort and anything that jeopardizes that starts to put them on edge...unknowingly. That does not mean that a woman will not support you when you don't have money. As a matter of fact, there are women out there who will ride or die for men who have no money but after sometime, they start to lose their focus either because of fatigue, what their friends are feeding their minds etc. It's usually not always intentionally for such women to turn their backs on theirs guys...it's just that the pressure unknowingly starts to get to them at some point & that's why it's important that the man sees logically enough to know that his woman may have more money than him or she may not even have, but he shouldn't worry about her own money but worry about being able to at least provide the basics for her.

I guarantee you, your wife may still very much love you,it's just that pressure's getting to her & she doesn't realize it. Sit her and talk to her, tell her your dreams,ambitions & visions & ask her to support you in achieving those for both of you and your family & then do all the other things I advised you to do in my last reply.

Stay strong & focused.

winningwinner:


Thanks a lot, but how much money will I be able to make now that will bring back the usual love my wife had for me? Will I be able to satisfy her in anything again? I actually need to dislodge her father and start marrying her as my wife or else I take a far journey away from home.

My brother, don't panic. It can still be solved. Thankfully, you and your wife are still together. First and foremost, women are built for comfort & so when anything changes that, they become agitated....they usually don't even realize that.

Men on the other hand are built to make way. You don't need to make all the money in the world for your wife to love you or start respecting you. She just needs to see you take charge. How can you take charge? First & foremost, cut your father-in-law's influence off. How can you do that? Start looking for a job. Preferably,look for a job outside the city where your father-in-law lives. If you can afford to relocate your wife & kid(s) with you to the new city, do it....if you can't afford to do that, be the only one who works in the new city but make an arrangement to always see your wife and kid(s) weekly, fortnightly,monthly or however you deem convenient for your family.

When you can do this, your wife will see effort & if she loves you and she's reasonable she will support you and even fight for you against her parents' control.

Another option is if you have some reasonable savings from the monies your father-in-law has supported you both with, try to start a really well-thought business & once you start that, stop collecting monies from them. The bottom line is that you should cut off your father-in-law's financial support to you. I am sure that the support he offers you may be from a good heart, but that also cuts your own influence in your own home & increases his own influence in your home.

Stay strong, brother.

itsCornie:
Used to admire her beauty till she had a failed marriage

Fvck out of here. So , because her marriage crashed, she's now ugly? Or she has automatically become a bad person? Grow up!

haaaaaaaaa:
All your mates have stopped breastfeeding, you are still there showing of your silicon jugz. I pity your grandchildren.

You're daft!

kristonium:
Where is our value?
Those who acted subtle porn on international TV become celebrity yet the graduating students in Nigerian universities are never given recognition or rewarded!
Can you now see why Nigeria is where it is today?

Fvck off with this your overbeat whining.