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Alright then. I've saved your number on my phone. I'll get back to you when the need arises. Thanks once again. |
Creativity at it's peak. This is simply mind-blowing. Do u have an office in nigeria? Are u on bbm? Pls your phone numbers and bb pins should be made available on your profile. Thanks. |
No one is perfect. We all have our flaws and short-comings. However, we can't run away from the truth. The pastor did absolutely nothing wrong by his actions. Most times, we try to justify our wrongs and quote different verses in d bible just to buttress our baseless points. The fact is, most verses are contextual, but unfortunately, we generalize it. Our heavenly father, Jehovah God is a God of discipline. He gave us his commandments so that we can know our rights from wrongs. The do's and the don'ts. It has been emphasized severally in the bible how sexual immorality is despised by God. All other sin is committed outside the human body, but to fornicate is to sin against our own bodies. I'm sure the couples in question knows the rules of the church but decided to do otherwise. God's mercies abounds in our lives and it is by His grace and Mercies that we are not consumed. Unfortunately, we are abusing the grace which God has given us. That everybody is doing it, or that pre-marital sex is now a norm does not make it right. I read through different comments and I realized that people are getting the whole thing wrong. The pastor is not suggesting that the criteria for marriage is for the couples to be virgins. A person who has lost his/her virginity in the past, repented and became a born again christian can be lawfully married in the church provided he does not return to his old ways and does not get involved in pre-marital sex. The pastor is only doing that which is right before God. Friendship with God is enemity with the world. Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. But we should not be blind to the truth. I'm not trying to be self-righteous here. I've my flaws, and I'm imperfect too. But then, we should strive to do that which is right and acceptable before God. Pre-marital sex has been and is still a sin. Let's make a conscious effort to desist from it. Thanks and may God bless us all, Amen. |
Beautiful topic. Eye-opening comments. Well, life isn't all rosy. Unforseen circumstances could put a person in a disadvantaged situation. Here are some useful and vital tips on this issue: 1. Seek the face of God, pour out your heart to Him. Tell Him to direct ur path. Let Him understand your plight. Tell him you can't run the race alone. ( This could last for a couple of hours). 2. Take out time to plan your budget wisely and prudently. Differentiating your needs from your wants and setting your priorities right. 3. Buy more of vegetables, crayfish and less of meat and fish. This way, u'll still look fresh and healthy regardless of the reduced quantity of meat and fish in your meals. 4. Troubles don't last forever. Behind every dark cloud, there is a silver lining. When there is need for clothes, our Okirikas and bend-down select clothes come handy. What you should be concerned about is how well-nourished you are, not necessarily how expensive your ward-robe is. A cheap Okirika cloth would look good on someone with the right skin, charisma and attitude. A mal-nourished person would still look impoverished no matter how expensive his/her outfits are. Please, don't get this twisted, high quality clothings are good, but your body well-being is what matters most. 5. As for making your hair, ( for the ladies), re-touching your hair would keep it in good shape for a couple of weeks. Here, weaves come handy. Especially when you want to go out for an event, and you don't want the world to know you are going through some financial issues. 6. Conclusively, don't transfer aggression on your kids whenever you are tensed or agitated. Reassure them as much as you can. This way, their self-esteem is sustained. Discuss whatever issues that is bothering you with your spouse, when the kids have gone to bed. Some kids eavesdrop though. Lol. |
Wooooooooow! Why am I not surprised? She deserves it. Congrats girl. |
dplomaticVal: Annie ıs surly and discourteous, and not an easy-going type as she portrayed herself to beThanks to you. I just learnt some new words. |
Christian musics are highly inspiring. Singing praises to God from the depth of our hearts is 1 sure way of making our heavenly father happy. I listen to gospel music more than anything else. Gospel musics tune your heart and soul positively. It also has a therapeutic effect especially when one is down spiritually. Gospel music all the way.....God is awesome and worthy of our praise. |
fewj: I don't do it, but I've benefited from the gesture a couple of timesLol. |
specialguest: I rarely offer strangers a "lift" however on the few occassions i did, i made sure i used my instincts before picking them up because i can smell danger from miles away. A funny incident happened to me last month. i was right by my car unlocking the door to get in and this guy pulled up beside me in his car and asked me if i wanted a ride! Lolz i replied yes and i also told him to help me fold my car and stuff it in his boot before he can pick me up. I wonder what he was thinkingLmao. Are you kidding me? Maybe he was awed at your looks or sumfin. Lolzzz. |
[quote author=tosh_acer]Why not? I do help strangers on they road.[/quote/. Hmmmmm, don't you consider the risk involved? |
Hey everyone, there is this trend I've noticed in our roads and high-ways. People leave car parks and would prefer to stand along the road, just to get free ride. With the menace and frequency of crime and kidnapping, I think it's a very risky thing to do. It's however common amongst ladies.(I'm a lady) so please don't eat me up for speaking the truth. What's your view on this? Can you carry a complete stranger along the road or express-way all in a bid to help the person? |
Op, sorry to say this but you seem to be a nag. What happens to forgiveness and letting by-gones be by-gones. Yeah, I know it's not easy to get over hurts, but I strongly believe that with time, everything will subside. I dunno your wife in person, but I inferred that she is light-skinned and very pretty. She is conscious of her looks thereby allowing it get into her head. You can't dispute d fact that you're married. It's better to make your marriage work than been a divorcee'. I also noticed that you are making us believe you are without flaws (perfectionist). However, there are 2 sides to a coin. Are you a "practising" christian? If yes, then I'll enjoin you to look to God and continue to be good to your wife. Mehn, she should have a conscience. I believe with time, everything will turn around for your good. Whoops! What more can I say ? #life and it's vicissitudes#..... |
This is a wake-up call to everyone in general but to ladies in particular. It's funny how beautiful, complete people laze around idly while the ones considered handicap are breaking records. Personally, I'm fully inspired. And to think that she is such a cutie. God is awesome..... |
feeling so sad right now. Life is indeed Vanity! R.I.P Goldie. |
not for africans especially nigerians. Funny, God has blessed us with the gift of longevity. There are certain mysteries that science can't explain. Although, i hate to admit that late meals gives rise to belly fats. Lol. |
Sweetlemon: Abi o!Yeah......you can say that again!! |
oyestephen: Its babyish, fake, irresponsible and morally wrong. It has no justification whatsoeverSo, what are u saying in essence? What if they don't own a car? Should they trek? Some things are just unimaginable abeg. Let's be realistic! |
It's not a must, rather it's a necessity. You don't expect the couples to trek down to the venue of the wedding all in the name of been frugal. I don't think a right thinking person would hire a ferrari or phantom for a wedding when u're just an average income earner. It's unfortunate that the couples were embarrassed in this manner. Personally, I see nothing wrong with hiring a car for a wedding. That is why it is good to make deals with reliable car hire companies. Mehn, wedding is once in a life-time affair and it's necessary that everything falls in place. |
Good move by NBC. Mehn, take banana or whatever is such a crappy song. First time I watched the video, I was of the opinion that it should be banned. #happy now#. |
I trembled at the sight of the gigantic structures that surrounded me. Joan raised up her hands in surrender as one of the unwelcome visitors pointed a gun at her from behind. She was scared to death and could barely look at me in the face... Hey! You! Without wasting our time, bring out your phones, laptops, ipads, tablets, and any gadget we may find useful! One of the robbers who seemed like the gang leader ordered with a gun pointed right at me. Tears flowed down my cheeks as I reached out for my handsets and a mini-laptop. With my head bent and knees quivering, I handed them over to the guy who was ordering me around. Is this all you have? He asked me. I sensed the anger in his tone and pleaded for mercy. Yeeeee....s.s si..r, I stammered. This is all I have. Please, don't hurt me. Here, you can have all the money on my purse, just take anything you want, but please don't hurt me.... My friend! Will you shut up your dirty mouth and get down to business! A second man ordered. Now, where did u keep all your money? Don't mess with us. If you co-operate with us, we will co-operate with you, simple! With trembling hands I reached for my purse and handed it over to them. My head was facing downwards all through. I couldn't even dare to look at them. They opened the wallet, took out all the money that was in it, about N10,500 and threw my Atm card at me. Wetin be your pin? The second man inquired while the other three ransacked my ward-robe, reading table and even my kitchen. I could hear the clattering but I knelt down motionless. Ehm....mmm. The Atm is expired. You can check the date to confirm. For some seconds, there was silence. Joan stifled a cry, as she knelt down beside me. What! You think say na play we come play? Abi you dey craze? Wetin you dey do with expired Atm? Eh? And you call yourself under-graduate. Terror, abeg teach am small lesson. Before I could plead for mercy, a thunderous slap rounded on both sides of my cheeks. For some seconds, I was dazed. I couldn't even think straight....tears flowed ceaselessly down my cheeks. If you pull this sort of funny stunt next time, you might just be killed. Ehm.... Migraine! The gang leader ordered, take this girl to the other room where her neighbours are. Migraine? Wtf! I thought rather to myself. Joan was led to one of our neighbour's room while I was made to lead them to yet another room. Without wasting much time, they quickly reached for the cell-phones and the money they found. They dragged us to the room where our neighbours were gathered and warned us not to draw any attention to the hostel. Within a few minutes, their footsteps were barely heard. After a while, we heard the sound of a car driving out of the hostel, and at that very moment, everyone started talking......we have been robbed! |
Knock! Knock! Knock! Is anybody in? Gift? Please are you in? The voice persisted. I was still lying down on my bed, too tired to stand up after reading all through the night a book which looked more like an encyclopedia. I closed my eyes tightly and hid my head under the pillow and used it as a covering over my ears, all in a bid to ignore whoever it was that knocked ceaselessly. Gift? Are u there? I heard the person's voice once again after some seconds of long silence. Gosh, why is she still lingering there? And who could that be? I mumbled to myself. After thinking for a while who the caller behind the door might be, I somehow realized it was my neighbour Joan who has been calling. I noticed an unusual calm in the atmosphere that morning. The whole place was quiet. It was about 06:45am in the morning. Well, maybe my neighbours are just as tired as I am. Who wouldn't? When our semester examinsations is just around the corner. After hesitating for some time, I reluctantly moved closed to my door and reached for my keys. No sooner had I opened it when immediately, the door was forcefully flung open by a 5-man gang with hoods over their head, scary mask on their faces and a gun in hand........ |
Wow! Have actually been looking forward to this. Seun, I'm sure I ain't alone on this. You inspire me with your innovative skills and a willingness to be daring. Talk about Mark Zuckerberg and I'll show you our very own Oluwaseun Osewa. Thank you so much for coming up with something this wonderful. Nairaland is a place to relax, have fun, have a good laugh at the numerous funny posts and replies without any hard-feelings, ( that's for me anyway, dunno bout you guys). Thanks once again Seun. God bless you real good. |
[quote author=coal_coal]Best response so far[/quote]Thank you so much. I'm flattered. |
BarryX: I strongly believe in the principle of " what would be, would be" . Most of us who were day students cannot boldly say we were better off. I remembered vividly how I would always cry to my parents to send me to FGC Warri or preferably Ijanikin to be a boarder, and my Dad who for reasons best known to him felt I would lose my intellectual prowess (1st position student if you know what I mean) and BOOM I was "outpositioned' by a boarder student who joined our class in second term . The onus then lies on me and my loving mum to convince the dude to alter the strong convictions he had towards dormitory students but HUUUSAIIII! I left secondary school a "dayer" still love boarding school ( not the ones highlighted by the OP though) and would consider it ceteris paribus for my unbornI had a very similar experience save for the fact that my contenders weren't boarders. I really missed not been a boarder, dunno y.....when I have my kids, I would gladly send them to a mixed boarding school just for them to be independent at an early age. |
Well, personally I think d main reason why parents send their kids to boarding school is for them to learn some basic survival instincts the hard way. IMO, parents should debrief their kids about the challenges they will face as boarders. Kids should be made to understand that nothing good comes easy. I admire boarders a lot. They are usually smarter and well-organised than their counterparts in day schools. It's pathetic that kids pick up bad habits as they interact negatively with their peers. I believe the best way to combat this issue is for parents to create a loving relationship with their kids. Been a strict disciplinarian and no-nonsense parent isn't always the solution. Rather it draws your kids further away from you and makes them even more secretive. They are therefore compelled to be gullible and vulnerable to their peers. Another issue of utmost importance is a need for kids to be educated on sexual matters just before they enter the stage of "puberty". Teenagers are often very curious. They want to explore at the slightest opportunities. A child should be made to understand that the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. Personally, I don't subscribe to the single boarding schools stuffs. I'd prefer the mixed school system anytime anyday. Lesbianism and homosexuality is rampant in single schools compared to mixed boarding schools. The mixed system allows healthy interactions between the opposite sexes, although not in all cases. Good moral upbringing is a necessity in raising up a child. The fear of God should be instilled into the lives of our kids right from infancy. I really don't subscribe to extreme discipline, although correcting a child with a few strokes of whip will bring him/her to reality. Finally, committing the affairs of the kids to God and doing what is right as a parent will go a long way to impact positively into the lives of our kids. |
sleekch1c: Confess ur sins to God and leave the past to the past. Simples.....some truths are better left where they belong. Why dig up a can of worms?What happens when your past catches up with you, eh? Once you are out to build trust in a relationship, it's necessary to be open-minded and honest. I believe sincere love conquers all. Not this facades of sexual relationships we call love and dating nowadays. You can decide to confess your sins to God and leave the past to where they belong. To each his own. |
@op, to answer your question, I'm gonna rephrase it to "how much of your past should your spouse know"? Well, for individuals who are ready to walk down the aisle, there is every need for openness and honesty. It's pathetic that the essence of marriage is rather superficial than in-depth. Most times, we are carried away about how fly and glamorous the wedding would be without thinking deeply of the challenges of marriage. What I'm trying to say here is this: without trust, understanding and tolerance, a relationship is bound to fail. No-one is perfect, hence it's necessary that we get our minds prepared for worst and unimaginable stories. Before you seek to know the truth about someone, you should be prepared to handle whatever it is with maturity and wisdom. Why should one get critical and judgemental when you ain't righteous yourself. Fine, you may be nice and without "blemish" at the moment, but don't be too confident, lest you fall. |
[quote author=tem_tem]Some things are better left unsaid...just keep it to ur self, if he or she finds out, then u'll figure out how to deal wt it.[/quote]Situations like this is one of the reasons for divorces nowadays. It takes a bigger lie to cover an already existing one. For how long do you think you can go on 'dealing with it'? |
Wow! What an interesting piece we've got here. Thumbs up Ops, u're truly a prolific writer. You've got all it takes to succeed in the world of literature/writing. Thank you so much for this wonderful, thrilling, entertaining and suspense-filled write-up. God bless you! |
Wow! Funny I never knew it's value when I was little. I remember now how I complained about the odour. Never knew it was this useful. I'm soooo calling my mum right away to get me some.@ Cinnamon, shea butter is pretty kool on ur skin. Can I mix it with vaseline cocoa butter cream? Thanks... |
albacete: all dis 4 me? God will CONTINUE to fill ur cup. U shall not lack.Tanx sweetie. Yeah, prayers is never too much. We need more of God in our lives. Have a fun-filled celebration. |
Unmerited favour, unlimited breakthrough, long life and prosperity shall be your portion in Jesus Name, Amen. The blessings of God will overwhelm you to the extent that His praises will not cease from your lips. May God bless the labour of your hands. May He grant unto you a discerning spirit. This new year 2013 is going to be a remarkable year for you and your family in Jesus Name, Amen. Happy new year dear. |
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