They are so lucky that this disaster happened during this administration, atleast Osinbanjo and Sadiya will give them Tradermoni loan of 10k to restock their stores.
She doesn't have to be cheating but being rude to the extent OP describe shows disdain n in a relationship if a woman can show that extent of disdain it is beta to be excused. OP should apologise for slapping her that is totally wrong. I am willing to bet it is beta OP excuse her to a reasonable extent n if she comes around they'll own a more fruitful union than pleading of doing Mr Niceguy.
This is so far you are with 9ja lady.
grossintel: You're welcome, don't listen to those saying you should free the babe, she's cheating blah blah blah. Every women is a cheat to Nairalanders, I know say you fvck up, are you easily irritated these days? Cause some times when my girlfriend stays with me for a while she becomes super annoying. She'll leave me hungry and be watching that yeye Z world, when I turn off the TV she will carry phone and start pressing. If no be say I dey gentle na better slap, but I just overlook those things. Living with a woman is a whole new level, please learn to control your temper and watch how you talk, I believe that's why she talks back at you rudely. Don't conclude she's cheating yet, when they cheat they are usually super nice trust me.
If a lover can te you to your face that you are a fool as a an African man bro apologise for the slap n let her. It will only get worse unless she come around to apologise not for anything really but she is now emboldened to disrespect you. My advice again apologise for slapping her n let her go. You are free to mark my word she's not for you.
Canada2021: Good Morning Nairalanders, I know I deserve your reproach and insults but please help a brother out.
I have been dating my gf for 3 years now. I met her in my final year in school and ever since then we have been together, though we have minor issues but we make up.
She came to visit me for some few days because of the close proximity of my House to her place of work. I made sure i pampered her and treated her nice. I noticed that she speaks to me anyhow lately, I have been keeping my cool.
She closes from work around 6pm, so last night I called to find out where she was and d way she responded was quite rude, telling me that i am adding to the holdup stress. I called her again to find out where she was and she still gave me the same attitude.
She came home around 9pm, I was expecting her to apologize for the way she spoke to me rudely on d phone. She just walked in without even saying hello, picked up her phone and pressed it for almost 30 minutes, picked up her brush and was on her way to the bathroom when I accosted her. I asked her if she feels i am a fool because i have been bearing her excesses, the next thing that came out from her mouth was that I am really a fool.
At that point I lost my temper and slapped her, she retaliated and it resulted in a fight. I tried begging her later in the night but she said it's over. she left my house this morning and she blocked me online and tru calls.
I am a very calm person and not violent but I just lost it yesterday, I dont want to lose her. I just wished I had acted different.
please i need ideas to apologize to her because she said she will report me to the police if she sees me around her.
My brother God as given you the brain ro raise your daughter anyhow you desire, leave those that chose to raise theirs like this alone. Libe n let's live.
Kaycee54321: Bullshit. Any man content with that kind of false worship is a piece of crap. I will never treat my wife that way and I'll never raise a daughter that will lick the soles of another human just because he has a penis.
All you wrote here is rubbish Nigeria will contravene anything they want n still blame the govt. I stated earlier all this contravention is a source of income for the state but the foolish governors we have do not take advantage. When an fool who contravened town planning layout are made to forfeit such properties with additional bill to offset cost of such demolish or jail time with hard labour no one will contravene the plan.
The wickedness I carry in my heart is what is implemented abroad where you are dream off and require Nigeria govt to meet up their standard, you should also be made to pay the consequences they face.
WenysAD: Let me just be plain with you concerning Ur response
First.. I'm not sure u even know about the place cos if u did, u would know those places are company ESTATES built before u and I were born and definitely would have gotten the approval from the govt before being built Secondly... If u had a working govt, there wouldn't have been a contravention of town planning layout as u put it Thirdly.....with this wickedness of heart u carry, I'm certain u will not be given even Ur village People to govern and therefore need to change such mentality Fourthly..... What u wish for others is what I wish for you cos a time will come when something will be more important than Ur life or lives of those u care about
Oooops: This is long overdue. I wish it is brought to Nigeria too. But remember to also kill thieves, kidnappers, looters, corrupt politicians. Kill prostitutes, kill yahoo boys. Inshot kill all your citizens. As una nor get sense reach Homosexuality is wrong, but does it deserve a death sentence?
Foolish people make me sick. People are born crippled, with migraine n all sort of anomaly across the globe. They seek solution, remedy to their shortcomings not dictate they should be accepted like that and start corrupting other to accept them in that manner even to an extent enticing straight people to join their ridiculous act.
I wonder those of you sympathising with this idiots are blind to their excesses. In the USA now gay is being promoted like a norm with a gay or lesbian always in their movie soap or whatever. What is a normal about being a gay or a lesbian ? If your father n mother were one would you have ever made it to Earth ?
respect80: In as much as I don't support gay or homosexuality, I think such penalty is too harsh to impose on them. And to think that some people ain't born that way is a mere blindness to the available scientific knowledge. Welcome to Africa where people make conclusions without experiment.
drips8: I don't support gay people but that punishment is extreme.
but the aggressive way the foolish gays n lesbians have been promoting themselves is not extreme. Some of you just come on NL n type rubbish cos hand de scratch una.
Don't kill yourself over any promise. You'd have give her if you have the money but you do not, there are many who have n won't help a soul.
Just carry on you dealing with the lady anytime she ask you about the promise just let her know you dont have the power to help right now that you promise to keep to your promise though. She might chose to distance herself from you giving the opportunity to renegade on your promise. Shift make I shift na this world.
The road is more important than the lives of any one who contravened the town planning layout by the govt.
If I end up being a governor I will make sure such houses are demolished n the owner made to pay triple for the demolition n waste of time. That will ensure no one build on pre planned road.
WenysAD: And then people should lose their homes and lives. Can't an alternative route be looked for or built or an underground means of transportation??
Don't tell me the road is more important than lives, properties and shelter of the residents
Ibos don't do ritual they are all saints n Catholics.
Orjioorji: can you please prove that some of the children were used for rituals ? If we talk or rituals and human killings we know the region to ask . so keep quiet instead of condemning the crime you bring a whole tribe into it just like Sahara reporters , shame on yoruba Muslims.
This is not a reflection but criticism. OP you should have titled your article as the KILLINGS OF AKPABIO. Shebi you papa de there when Akpabio was killing all those you listed.
Till date no governor can compete or rival the achievements of Akpabia expect Fashola yet you are here wailing. It took Rawlings several killings to put Ghana on the path of sustainable development. If all the devils Akpabio killed is what it takw to bring about the few development Akwa album witness along with rescue of citizens of that state being freed from house boy n housegirl jobs in Lagos, God in his infinite mercy should give any governor to slaughter more of those vagabond to pave way for my enduring development like the state witness under Akpabio, even if am the one that need to be slaughtered. So OP you n your father can keep wailing cos I know you are sponsored by the devilish party the PDP but development must be entrenched all over Nigeria. Both Britain n the USA were both involved in slave trade n they are both beta for if today so if political leaders must perish for the growth of the state so be it.
Na teenage exuberance de worry you. Girl de send you up n down like fool you come NL de lament. What more do you need to know to understand she's either cheating, planning on cheating or simply dig someone more than you ? Anyway you will learn not to waste your time on such girls, we have all been there.
Chop your own make you comot, use your head n stop being sissy.
In other word the toad should be left in it bad state.
WenysAD: Please which of the Ijegun are they talking about? Cos if it's the one at Satellite town, will they destroy people's houses to expand the roads for dualization and they should remember that's a highly residential area they have destroyed and put people's lives at risk
Just because the court made a couple of right calls does not mean they can miscarry Justice elsewhere
That’s not how it should work! In fact sprinkling truthful judgements in Certain areas is part of the grand plot to deliver made up rulings that ultimately favours APC
If your entire tribe wail till death it won't change or stop anything.
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krendo: Fact remains that there is nothing Supreme about this court led by Tanko
This court has no morals, it reverses precedence it has set in recent past with reckless abandon
They have even appointed a political spokesperson
I have never heard a political statement or response from the Supreme Court until this moment. Rather the court had the confidence of the people and through its pronouncements and landmark judgments was the moral force for Justice whether during Military Dictatorships or Civilian Dictators.
Tanko’s Supreme Court is an extension of Buhari’s Presidency.
Note this when Anarchy comes it will befall all man. As you continue to make it pointless to go to court, know that you simply invite the Wild West!
Orjioorji: This Tanko has no shame i swear, the office you are occupying today was given to you by coup where you rape the judicial institution and disvirgin the NJC to be where you are today , Tanko you are a criminal.
and you have some of your foolish tribesmen liking this comment with all the financial allegations again Onoge ?!
I am sure none of your generation dead alive unborn can ever meet up if I chose to put you to the test.
Nizguy: Coming from someone whose lineage is still suffering from poverty... U sound pained and with this, even ur generation to come won't be successful