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HRHQueenPhil:
I suggest u join a group
Christian groups in church or college
Ask Lagos matchmaker as well
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U can also post it here saying u are over there and need a friend
U can even make a flyer and post it on the college wall...crazy but it cld work for u and be fun
U will laff at last

That church part is hard oh but I’ll keep it in mind. Thanks

Amanee:
Wetin concern me with dating when I'm chasing the bag, abeg

Those of us don’t have bags to chase are chasing relationships instead

Goddyss:
I learnt that ladies in these western countries have no problem approaching or asking a guy out. In order to avoid embarrassment or insult, is it advisable to wait for a woman to make the first approach when in public places like spa or library?

Bro, from what I can tell, what you heard is not true. How many guys can come here and say a white girl has shown interest in them? In general, women like to be chased and the western women love it more.

Regex:
Well, it is usually awkward meeting them face to face on the street as you can end up with a minor. Good thing most of them will let you know they're minors whilst other wouldn't for the fun of it. I would advise against meeting any girl on the street unless your university environment, even at that, one has to be careful and walk away when they tell you they don't want to talk to you.


The best place is using Instagram to actually meet ladies but be rest assured you can't wife anyone you got from the street (Instagram) cause the street she will return, do not be weary.


If you are looking for more serious thing, go to your university library and hook up with the girls there... For those girls, academically inclined and are homely.

If you are looking for the career minded fellas, look for the spa/bar around you (not club) and hook up with the ladies there... You should be there 8pm and above.




But I am not in the dating thing. Make I first find my feet as I can not see my legs.

I agree with everything you’ve written and I’ll try to work with it too. With the whites you can’t tell the minor amongst the young adults and most of the girls I see are mostly tik-tok girls, their age screams 14-16. Reminds me of the guy in the UK caught trying to groom a minor. Very funny video. Thanks for replying. I pray your hustle works out for you.

icon8:
I suggest you change the topic to “Socialising” tips, rather than dating. Not sure any of those men and women you tagged up there is still in the dating game

Okay,i’ll do just that

Lexusgs430:
Dating apps plenty nah....

yes but it is frustrating in non English speaking countries. Nobody will swipe you right here

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Could we get a larger audience?

The purpose of creating this thread is to give people who succeeded in leaving Nigeria to other countries the chance to share some dating and socialization tips and for those who are interested in traveling out some day, you can read and gain information from this thread. Socialization is a basic human method of navigating and surviving their environments. Drop stories and tips, whatever useful tips along with the country you’re currently residing in. Also provide answers to questions like, would it be better to go for the local citizens or other foreigners as regard relationships. All forms of socializations are welcomed including marriages, friends, business partners and booty calls .

I have been in Ukraine for 4 months now and I must say it has been a little challenging for me in the aspect of socialization mostly due to the fact that I am not fluent in the Ukrainian language. The local Ukrainian girls here are pretty and always well dressed but I don’t know how well they react to black guys so I have been quite timid to dive into that water yet. The Africans here especially Nigerians all seem a bit closed up and introverted and are mostly active on Twitter and Instagram but don’t seem eager to hang out with their fellow Nigerians in real life. The other nationalities like the Arabs and Indians seem to have formed a pack and you’ll always see them in groups hanging out together. Maybe I suck at socializing but I would like to hear you from you guys. I hope we can keep this thread alive so others can learn from it.

NB: This thread was created for fun and to share knowledge so no holier than thou or sadists are welcome.

I see you buying a laptop and robbing gullible whites of their money in 3 months while constantly jamming to the hit and viral song “ las las school na scam”

This I have seen.

My daughter. Do not make shakara for that young man if you’re not interested in giving him what he wants. I closed my eyes just now and I went into a trance. I saw that you eventually gave up the cookie after 7 months and after he dealt with you with dongoyaro, monkey tail and burantashi, you came out of the room bow legged. This I have seen

My son, it is the Iord’s will for you to hawk condoms under the bridge. You’ll make so much more than a doctor and a programmer. Don’t forget to pay tithe to the Iord. This I have seen

My brother, as I was ministering to the Iord just now,I had a revelation *speaks in tongues” ,you need prayers because the enemies want to take your manhood through a bl0w job that you will receive this week, the lizard symbolizes familiar spirits who are monitoring you *speaking in tongues intensifies* , the snake swallowing the lizard signifies that a higher witchcraft has collected your matter from the familiar spirit and they want to finish you kpata kpata through a bl0w job just as the snake suck the lizard’s head . I don’t know you before but for this to be averted, come and sow a seed and I will pray for you. This I have seen

And the windows of heaven were opened and I saw Pep lifting up a champions league trophy to the sky next season,I don’t know Pep before neither do I watch football but thus saith the Iord of host, this too will come to pass. There is a terrible curse on Pep and for it to be broken, he needs to donate 40% of his monthly salary to the Iord. This I have seen

Thus saith the Iord of host,a blue team shall win today,this team has an English player and also a German player in it and there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth from the opposition team. Stake your mother on this and see the power of the lord. This I have seen