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If you have seen the movie “Squid Game” then you will know that contrary to the hate given to character Cho Sang-woo, he is actually the secret fantasy of most if not all women. He is ruthless, does not give a fvck about anyone but himself, he is focused , a risk taker, manipulative, animalistic and will do whatever it takes to survive including having blood on his hands. To the average woman, this is alpha survival traits. Goes to show you how the average woman’s mind works. These are the same women that crush on serial killers.

ProphetJeroboam:
Women do not respect men who give out their resources freely without it being earned. Resources can be money or time. When I ask for my money, they take the manipulations further with “so you can’t dash a girl money, you must be a very stingy man to your girlfriend oh” “I know you have money na, you can’t leave common 50K for me” . I’ll share a story to explain the implications of leaving borrowed money for a girl who is capable of paying back.

A girl I had a platonic relationship with and lent some money went about telling people I can’t refuse her when she asks me for stuffs and she can take whatever she wants from me because she has her hands wrapped around me. This was the same girl that bluntly told me to date her and break her heart just so she can have a chance to “flex” with me and I laughed over that statement. After I lent her money and didn’t want to make things awkward by telling her to pay up, our interactions changed, she kept giving me mono replies and forming for me. All this while I was just laughing because I knew what was happening. When I had enough of the joke, I just sent her my account number with no messages attached. Woke up to my money in my account. I ignored all the warning signs and it almost cost me my reputation. Boys exhibit same behavior but girls take it up a notch. Especially when they start thinking you’re sexually attracted to them and that’s why you can’t demand for your money. This makes her lose respect for you because she did not earn that money. It makes you no different from the simp who sends her 50K to eat bread and egg. A man is respected when he holds his resources sacred. Remember, if women think you’re stingy then you’re in the top 1%. You’re doing something right.

Skepticus:
Exceptions don't invalidate the general truths. ProphetJeroboam was unto something about the manipulative whims of women.

Women do not respect men who give out their resources freely without it being earned. Resources can be money or time. When I ask for my money, they take the manipulations further with “so you can’t dash a girl money, you must be a very stingy man to your girlfriend oh” “I know you have money na, you can’t leave common 50K for me” . I’ll share a story to explain the implications of leaving borrowed money for a girl who is capable of paying back.

Read the last paragraph on second photo.

Funny.

Carchoice:
What makes you think ladies see the money as “borrowed” ?

People that are always at the receiving end?, they can never take it serious when you lend them money. When you know how hard it is to get someone to lend you money, you’ll always want to refund it to make up for next time.

Borrow, lend, loan whatever English you call it doesn’t work for women. Borrow her 20k, tomorrow a simp like me dashes her 50k for doing nothing. She automatically sees you as less and despises you because you are asking her to refund ordinary 20k.

Lol. Even the girls that you’re not even remotely attracted to will still want to play by this script. It’s disgusting to me. I don’t care if she sees me less oh. She will see you even more less if you don’t demand for the money she owes you. That’s how women get pimped. The woman owes the pimps money and the pimps makes her cough it out. He doesn’t care if she has to go sell her body. Just give me my money b*tch. If you don’t ask her for the money then she’ll think you let go because you’re attracted to her and thus you risk becoming a man who can’t stand up to women. Women respect men who call them out on their bullshit. You owe me money then pay up b*tch! This is how it should be brothers.

Why do all girls play by the same script when you lend them money? It’s funny because you always know what’s going to happen and it still happens. 100% of the time they don’t want to pay back. Is it something they learn from other girls like them and they pass down the skills?

Martinez39s:
You guy has been doing well, but the important question is, what is his end-goal? Is it that he is not interested in anything with her or does he want to fuçk her or what? It's either of the two. What is his end-goal?

Having a defined end-goal will ensure that he doesn't go astray and it will put him in a position where he can be properly advised, relative to his end-goal.

NB: If he just wants her to keep chasing or being interested till god knows when (that is, he thrives and basks in her doing the chasing and all that), then he had better stop. He is unintentionally putting himself in the realms of emotions and, if care is not taken, he might gradually fall for her withdrawal and distancing without knowing, except he is smart about it and he is just toying with her for the sake of it. Let him just live his life; there should be no competition on who can play hard to get the most or on who can get the other's attention. No need to start flirting with other girls to send a message to a girl (no man should do this, I can explain why if you don't get); if he must flirt with other girls, let it be that he is doing it because he wants to. He has nothing to prove to anyone.

I hope you grasp what I am trying to convey.

I agree with your input bro. Like I mentioned before, he only noticed her when he realized she was free sex but it was too late. You are right about him falling for her due to the withdrawal of attention, the fact that he thinks about her and what he should have done differently points to that. It’s all mind games and it’s one she’s winning. I advised him to cut off contact completely. He showed her she wasn’t sh*t before and she was blown away, showing her the opposite will do the opposite. It’s psychology. He fvcked up and he must live with it. He’s a reader here by the way. Our newest member of the TRP.

Winnerautomatic:
You overrate the importance of women my friend. You can be 100% successful without playing all the women games.

There are many ways to success and being a high flyer in-terms of education is one of them. Infact making it via the education route may even be the easiest and least physical way of making it. All you gotta do is stare at laptop screens and get paid millions @ month end.

Again, anyone who says you can’t be rich by working for someone else is a big liar. Most of my colleagues are worth upwards of 100M and counting.

There are many ways to financial freedom but a 2.1 or first class is definitely one of them ( if you have good interview and aptitude test skills).

All my exploits were just with a 2.1. I can’t imagine what i would have done if i had a first class.

I earn 7 figures monthly all because of my damn 2.1 and of course God’s grace. There are many more like me and many more that even out earn me. Never believe anyone who says good grades is not a meal ticket. Such statements are usually put out by bitter people who either didn’t go to school or graduated with bad grades.

Back to your question about women, we attract who we are . If you attract bad women, 9 times out of 10, you’re a manipulator yourself.

You might say, how about nice guys who get played by women?

Answer is, most times the niceness is usually an act of manipulation and the women can see through it.

You can’t be real and nice because to be real is to be selfish. To be real is to put yourself first. Its just natural instinct of self preservation.

If you’re still in school or job seeking, i could teach you some tricks. If you’re neither of the two and way past that phase then i apologise

You have written well. Education is important and I agree with what you have written up there. I only replied to that guy to discourage him from stopping guys who come here to ask for opinions and advice. We are our brother’s keeper. Currently I am doing exceptionally well at my current level(currently a medical student) and I hope to become better. Thank you for offering to help with useful information. It would be nice if you do share with some of our brothers here who may be interested in learning from your wealth of knowledge, I myself included.

Saviolamemphix:
Have being in dat situation b4, d moment i started catching feelings for my ex she just use me catch cruise. Tell ur friend to move on.

I posted something related to my post weeks ago. “A slight dip in frame and a woman will not hesitate to make a fool out of a man she once held in high esteem” Women are constantly fighting to flip the table on men who have power over them. That is why they constantly throw shit test and frame test. If you reject a girl then be man enough to leave her rejected because if she notice that you want her after rejection , she will want her pound of flesh for the rejection you gave her. Nothing bruises a woman’s ego more than rejection. Could you elaborate on this story between you and your Ex? You called her “my ex” so you guys dated, how did you receive your L?

DeusMagnus:
first of all, what's your guys intentions with the girl? Wetin your guy want from the girl?

You know that feeling of missing out on p*ssy that was available to you on a platter of gold. I told him he misses her attention.

Emmynator:
You see the thing about game, is picking the right moment to play a card, if a girl gives you green light, you shouldn't play hard to get for too long, especially if you have the intention of taking her. Just like most women do, they don't give in too early or too late, desire that is not responded to, will reach a peak and begin to slump, it's that peak you should be aiming for.

That being said, she is trying to move on, and you can't blame her, so far she has learnt restraint in his absence, but she hasn't gotten over his presence, that's why she does those things.
The guy is at risk, because if he wants to get it to work, he will now be the one doing the chasing, he fvcked up. He's about to enter her frame, he went from hunted to hunter.
Your advice seems counterproductive, she's already loosing interest, why make her loose it more, now if he doesn't want her, that would have been perfect.
I think the best course of action for him, is to count on the flame she previously had, and give her just enough attention to get her back on his timeline, if she takes it fine and good, he can seal things up, but if she doesn't then he should move on, he must never chase her.

You and I are on the same page bro. I told him, he is not in love with this girl, he doesn’t really want her, he misses the attention she gave him and her obsession with him. He misses the ego boost. I advised him to let go completely and focus on other girls because this case seems dead to me. She wants him to chase her now and if he makes the mistake of doing that, he is finished. She will NEVER take him back if he chases her. Since he is not desperate to get her, he should maintain frame, flirt with other girls, women want what other women want. Maintaining frame till the end is key, if she wants to go then let her go. He already took two L’s by inviting her over twice and she declined. Now he must save face by dropping her completely.

Winnerautomatic:
Like TarOrFeeek said, having a 2.1 or more does mean soemthing in Nigeria or the western world.

There are lots of people who are from disadvantaged homes that were only able to cone into wealth with a good result

There are still many companies you cant get into without a 2.1 or above in Nigeria.

Im using myself as a case study

Note that a 2.1 does not mean you should not have good interview and aptitude test taking skills of else you may not use that cert

I never said education is useless. I am only opposed to the notion that having a 2.1 or a first class is ticket to a successful life. The reality is that the success and achievements of successful men is built on the backs and sweats of the 2.1’s and first classes. In a world that is largely gynocentric, being successful should go along with knowing how to deal with the the women folk because when it comes down to it, it is them and the world against you.

TarOrfeeek:
Face your studies
Graduate with a 2:1 or better
Get a good 6 figure salary
Work out and socialize

You'll know what I've done for you. Chasing hoes when you're supposed to chase grades is not a good thing.

As this is good advice. It doesn’t relate to the matter up there. What most of you don’t understand is, you can face your studies and be one of the most successful man alive but not knowing how to navigate through life’s bullshit and being unable to steer through social situations makes you an inept man no matter how successful you are. This is the foundation of the redpill. There are men who are capable of juggling their work,education and social life perfectly but once in awhile they need a little guidance because it is only us men that have each other’s backs. Generic advice like yours do not help the situation. Refrain from giving generic advice like this to our brothers who come here looking for guidance. I will give you a list of the most successful men who have had women trouble, some of them would have avoided it if they had confided in their red pill buddies. Dangote,Otedola,Bill Gate,Jeff Bezos,Cristiano Ronaldo,Prince Andrew,Bill Clinton. Most of us here may not be as successful as these men,sad reality but true also their super successful lives didn’t make them immune. I laughed at 2.1 gp grade like that means Jack Sh*t here in your country or you think the western world gives a fvck about your second class upper or first class. Not everyone here is struggling to attain social status and a redpiller would know the higher your social status,the more you’ll be faced with sh*t like this. I made it clear that I advised the guy up there to get rid of his scarcity mentality, that was my input. If your input won’t contribute to the post then don’t give it at all. Thanks again for your input bro.

My RP family, I would like your input on this matter. What would be the best course of action? I don’t want to give advice solely based on what I feel is right in my eyes so I would like several inputs. I want inputs from anyone who wants to contribute.

A girl I’ll call F chases after a guy I’ll call M, she calls all the time, texts all the time, basically begs for the guy’s attention and literally sets up a sleepover meeting at the guy’s house but the guy plays hard to get, doesn’t give attention and cancels on her sleepover meeting. All of a sudden, she stops begging for attention, gives hints that one of her female friends advised her not to get worked up over one guy as there are lots of rich guys out there who will spoil her. Now the thing is, she withdraws over texts and calls only as she doesn’t call anymore and text once in awhile to ask for random information about school. She is always the first to reach out to said guy In public literally every time, she walks over to him first all the time, smiles sheepishly and can’t maintain eye contact. She is receptive to touch and wants to touch the guy’s face, arms and sit really close to him but the problem is she has refused two invitations to come over. Most plausible thing should be to ignore her as she’s basically sh*t testing. I advised said guy to hang out with more chicks and let her see this because all of this is happening in a school environment and women usually come around with this method. I also advised him to not respond to her usual random school questions she asks once in awhile as this would push her to desperation. Give me your inputs in this case guys.

Fiscus105:
There is a thin line between rape and consentual sex.

If you deliberately drug woman with intention of have weird sex with her, it's rape, if you have sexed a lady 100 times before, you can still accuse of raping her, if she is not consented the next time you meet.

Oga, many of these super stars and celebrities are forcing woman for all kinds of sex ....in the name of my fetish with woman...

Hope u know forcing in legal term is another word for t rape!

so you’re saying there’s verifiable evidence that Mendy forced or drugged her and she isn’t just looking to shake him down for some millions of pounds?

Who is conversant with the whole Benjamin Mendy story? I heard some chick he hooked up with turned around and is suing him for rape. There’s even video of them having sex in the shower and she was all giggly and didn’t seem forced in the slightest.

SkyFlint:
Thomas Shelby is NOT a Red-pilled character.

He is merely cunning, ruthless and Machiavellian. Plus, he is very competent at what he does. Though these qualities can be an indication of TRP-awareness, they are not exclusive to TRP. Successful CEOs/entrepreneurs possess similar characteristics.

Now, back to why I said Thomas Shelby is not a Red-pilled character. He married a professional who.re (Lizzie). Not just any who.re, but the same who.re he prevented his brother from marrying.

He became a hoe's retirement plan. That's GROSSLY anti-TRP.

Oswald Mosley, on the other hand, could be considered a Red-pilled character.

mehn! Spoilers! I haven’t gotten to that parts yet.

Meedon:
Mine is Cory Hardict from Brotherly Love.

I’ll check out that movie.

DieRich5:
Tommy Shelby way broke rule for Grace and dats mk him more redpill but he's make the right decision to marry her sha

Anyway mine is Ragnar Lothbrok ND I will add James Bond too

If you observe the way he handled the whole Grace matter, personally I was impressed. He seduced the sh!t out of her and she lost concentration. I’ll check out Vikings too.

Give me your top red pill movie character guys. Mine is Tommy Shelby from peaky blinders and Harvey Specter from suits. So far so good, Hollywood hasn’t ruined them completely yet.

All I want to know is if Ronaldo’s goal is a tap in.

Kingcalls:
Ur mates in other countries are trying to use their abilities to use votes to throw away bad governance...u are here telling us about accidents and efforts just to make pere win thru votes....all of una de crase for head

Which country Dey hold election now?

BrentFord please put the final nail on the coffin. Liverpool should not leave here with any point!

Check for underlying conditions that might slow down healing. Like diabetes. You need to do a full blood test too.

Skepticus:
ProphetJeroboam, Dizzysh and some other monikers (I can't remember now) that started dropping deep red pill nuggets in recent months, give me (and other older regular monikers on this thread) the "morale" to keep pushing the red pill. Sometimes, it gets tiring having to "argue" blue pill crap that some folks spill here for whatever reasons.

Your perspectives are always refreshing. I like the fact that the red pill awareness/knowledge for men is deeply understood and well articulated by folks like you.

I am devoted to spreading the redpill amongst men because I started as a first grade simp when I was introduced into the dating sphere and I suffered for it. I’ll share my story here soon for everyone to read and know that this world is not a friendly place for boys and men. Thank you and all other contributors to this page.

Miracood2:
i didn't collect her number. only FB username.

haven't DM her, cux I'm not the texting type.

and the admiration i have for her dropped already. cuz i already think of her as a normal friend.

She will most likely come back for the attention you have denied her, if she doesn’t then move on.

CAPSLOCKED:
EXCUSE ME WHILE I CHIP IN SOMETHING "IRRELEVANT" HERE, REGARDING THE ISSUE OF MASTURBATĮION. I'VE BEEN READING FOR A FEW DAYS AND I HAVE THIS TO SAY, FROM AN IRRELIGIOUS, FREETHINKING AND LOGICAL POSITION.

FIRSTLY, IN THE REAL WORLD, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH MASTURBATĮNG, ESPECIALLY HEALTH-WISE. THE LEADING CAUSES OF ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION AND OTHER ISSUES RANGE FROM BAD HEALTH HABITS AND DIETS. NOT PARTICULARLY MASTURBATĮION.

IF YOU SAY YOU'RE RED-PILLED AND STAND AGAINST MASTURBATĮION THEN TAKE IT FROM ME THAT YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING.

A SECTION OF THE MEDIA ASKS WOMEN TO EMBRACE "SELF LOVE", TO MASTURBĄTE AND PUT THEIR URGES IN THERE OWN HANDS.
THIS SAME SECTION CONDEMNS MASTURBATĮION FOR MEN, HEREBY ASKING MEN TO PUT THEIR URGES IN WOMEN'S HANDS!
IF A MAN GIVES HIMSELF A HAND JOB IT'S CONSIDERED INAPPROPRIATE, BUT IF HE GETS SAME FROM A WOMAN'S HANDS, IT'S GOOD?
COME ON FELLAS, DON'T BE FOOLED. THIS IS TO ENSURE YOUR CONTINUOUS DEPENDANT ON WOME.

THIS IS HOW NEARLY EVERY WOMAN YOU KNOW OWNS A LOVE MACHINE BUT A MAN CANNOT OWN ONE WITH PRIDE BECAUSE HE'LL BE SPAT ON AND RIDICULED FOR BEING "A WEAK MAN".

AND THIS IS NOT EVEN ABOUT HAVING GAME OR NOT.
ENCOURAGING MASTURBATĮION WILL SAVE THIS WORLD FROM A LOT OF PROBLEMS.
IF WE ENCOURAGE IDĮOTIC RAPEY MEN AND PEDOPHILES TO MASTURBĄTE, WE WILL CURB A BIG ISSUE PLAGUING OUR SOCIETY.

IF MORE MEN MASTURBĄTE, IT'LL SAVE THIS DYING GENDER WHATEVER REMAINS OF THEIR SELF-WORTH WHEN FEWER MEN THROW DOWN THEMSELVES AT THE MERCIES OF NONSENSE WOMEN JUST FOR SEX.
YOUNGER MEN WILL MANAGE THEIR FINANCES TO AN EXTENT, AND BE SAVED FROM DISEASES WHEN THEY CHOOSE SELF-PLEASURE OVER HUNTING RANDOM GIRLS. THEY'LL ALSO BE SPARED FROM MANIPULATIONS AND HEARTBREAKS, AND UNCOUNTABLE PROBLEMS THAT ARE ADDRESSED HERE DAILY. HOW CAN Y'ALL BE SO MYOPIC?


YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO STAND AGAINST MASTURBATĮION DUE TO HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT IT, BUT JUST KNOW THAT YOU ALSO CAN'T EXERCISE YOUR OPINION AGAINST IT AS AN "ABSOLUTE TRUTH" BECAUSE YOUR "FEELINGS" ARE NOT LOGIC, AND ARE MOSTLY INVALID.

TO CONCLUDE, EATING, SMOKING, DRINKING, ENTERTAINMENT, MASTURBATĮION, SLEEPING, SIMPING, CAN ALL BE ADDICTIVE, AND ADDICTION IS A BAD THING.

True. This is the reason why a woman will show pictures of her various arrays of vibrators and you’ll see various comments hailing her and calling her a strong woman who don’t need no man or dick drama. A man is ridiculed if he admits to jerking off because he is viewed as a man with no access to pussy thus a weak man and society frowns on weak men. Personally I think sex and jerking are the same thing. The only thing is sex is perceived to be more enjoyable because it’s not gotten easily hence it spikes us with more dopamine than jerking off which is readily available. The key is moderation. A man who has sex daily will exhibit the same physical characteristics of a man who masturbates daily but society will demonize masturbati0n because men are taking matters into their hands, literally. I have friends who have girlfriends and they boast about having sex 10 times a day, this is the equivalence of jerking off 10 times a day. Women know they are the gatekeepers of sex so they know it is their job to determine how often a man will get laid, they hate when you take this power away from them. The only thing excessive masturbati0n will do to you is make you fatigued and feed you cheap dopamine, if you’re able to cope with this then by all means, jerk away. Don’t allow society lie to you. Your body, your choice. A h0rny man is an irrational man and society wants you to stay h0rny because the irrational man is a tool for work hence why the porn industry is making it big on the back of sexually repressed men. The same media will tell you how watching porn is healthy but masturbati0n is deadly. Ever wonder why you think clearly after an orgasm? In all things, moderation is key, the human body is designed to handle only so much at a time and excessive abuse of it is harming your body.

Miracood2:
when i told her i liked her, she was stunned for some mins, and her breathe became heavy,

**she said her head is just blank and she doesn't know how to respond, i pressed for an answer that's when she started narrating "the i have a bf* shxitt.

*I'll be leaving sch in some days now, and it will be long before she sees me again.

Great. I’m assuming you have her phone number. Resist the urge to constantly text and call her while you’re away from her. Maybe once or twice is enough and it should be widely spaced. Try to focus on other girls so you don’t think too much about her.

Facemask:
The Cyprus you are talking about is known as KKTC, also known as Northern Cyprus. Which is far different from the Cyprus we all see on BBC and CNN


I lived in KKTC for about 3yrs. I lived in gazimagusa, very close to EMU. The country is strictly Controlled by turkey and very expensive. Racism is high there, food very expensive, house rent..don't even go there
...some landlord charge in dollars, for 3yrs there I no sleep with woman cuz they were expensive to hire. An our naija girls eyes don tear

I wouldn't advise my enemy to go there.... It is not abroad

Naija girls eyes dn tear as per they collect higher?

Miracood2:
like i stated b4 we started talking about 2 weeks ago, we stay in the same lodge,

last week she requested i escort her from our lodge to inside sch, i did we jisted

yesterday she requested I escort her again. I did

while coming back,

Me: babe I like u

Her: OK. its normal to like someone

Me: Babe I believe u know what I'm trying to pit across.

Her: no, make it clear.

Me: I feel for u, I've grown some feelings for u.

Her: smiles** I don't know what to say.

Me: babe just say anything, and let it be a positive answer

Her: let's talk about it later. and why did say u need positive answer?

Me: because u can either say something positive or negative.

then I persuaded her to say something.
after some mins, she told me she already has a bf at home, and she doesn't want to cheat.

then I told her to come up with something better and I told her we will talk later. (because a guy that has been asking out for about 2yrs now, stopped her and wanted to continue toasting her or God knows what.?

any advise ??

I just saw this update. You shouldn’t have told her outrightly that you like her. Girls can’t handled that weight and while she was busy enjoying the moment of her being wanted and needed, she was trying to push you to the zone of that guy who likes her so she can milk you for benefits without having to reciprocate feelings. All girls are the same bro. Watch, next she will give you false hope just so you can be around her, why? Because you are that guy who wants her. You should have worked on her sexual side, not her emotion/feelings. Ask her out to see a movie then invite her over to your lodge and seduce her. Half of the time, the boyfriend story is a lie designed to make you wait around and hope she will break up with the boyfriend or cheat on said boyfriend with you. If I were you, I’d proceed to ghost her and act indifferent. Get with other chicks too, she will see this and may rethink her decision. Next time, go for sex before thinking about relationship. Most of these girls just want to fvck and forget about it. If you had fvck first, you’d rethink your decision to be saddled with the responsibility of having a girlfriend.

Miracood2:
I'm tripping for this girl that lives in the same lodge(in sch) with me but diffrent blocks.
I've known her for months now, but we started talking about 2 weeks now. she talks very intelligently.

and sadly my heart beats when ever i see her.

I'm bout to ask her out this evening.


its been long i felt like this for any girl

Approach her with confidence. Do not overly famz with her when you see her. She would want the thrill of sneaking in and out of your room without people around you knowing so it would be in your best interest to stay mysterious and chill. Go straight to the point, if you beat around the bush, she will sense your lack of confidence and relegate you to the position of an admirer. Whatever you do, do not treat her like she’s some Beyoncé , treating her like a Queen almost never works. Dress well, smell nice, approach her, be funny but don’t be a try hard , ask her out to see a movie. Don’t underestimate the power of being funny. If she declines then let her be, do not be an orbiter. If she declines, Plan B is to go for the easy targets around your lodge, she will see this and it will most of the time increase your value in her eyes and may cause her to have a rethink. Women want what other women want.