₦airaland Forum

Na Rufai start the war.

Na Rufai end the war

Na Rufai pay indemnity.

About the Rufai Oseni Issue, Lagos State has Fined the Arise TV Presenter #70,000, and this is my candid opinion about the whole saga.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=53u0FNqGWB4

Another Wahala oo.

Tolu Ogunlesi don talk say Atikukate and Obidient na Husband and Wife.

Problem e no dey finish ooo



How would Tolu assert that Atikukates and Obidients are Husband and Wife Having Simple Marital Issues.

Obidient people won't be Happy with Tolu Ogunlesi on this one.

But digest it and give it a thought.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DGFbmbdjm7M

Another Wahala oo.

Tolu Ogunlesi don talk say Atikukate and Obidient na Husband and Wife.

Problem e no dey finish ooo



How would Tolu assert that Atikukates and Obidients are Husband and Wife Having Simple Marital Issues.

Obidient people won't be Happy with Tolu Ogunlesi on this one.

But digest it and give it a thought.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DGFbmbdjm7M

Another Wahala oo.

Tolu Ogunlesi don talk say Atikukate and Obidient na Husband and Wife.

Problem e no dey finish ooo



How would Tolu assert that Atikukates and Obidients are Husband and Wife Having Simple Marital Issues.

Obidient people won't be Happy with Tolu Ogunlesi on this one.

But digest it and give it a thought.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DGFbmbdjm7M

Another Wahala oo.

Tolu Ogunlesi don talk say Atikukate and Obidient na Husband and Wife.

Problem e no dey finish ooo



How would Tolu assert that Atikukates and Obidients are Husband and Wife Having Simple Marital Issues.

Obidient people won't be Happy with Tolu Ogunlesi on this one.

But digest it and give it a thought.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DGFbmbdjm7M

About the Rufai Oseni Issue, Lagos State has Fined the Arise TV Presenter #70,000, and this is my candid opinion about the whole saga.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=53u0FNqGWB4

Sam Omatseye really Murdered the Obidient Movement and it wasn't funny at all. Here is my most Candid View


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3IPDcSk4JQ

Sam Omatseye really Murdered the Obidient Movement with his Obituary article in the Nations Newspaper and it wasn't funny at all. Here is my most Candid View


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3IPDcSk4JQ

Sam Omatseye really Murdered the Obidient Movement and it wasn't funny at all. Here is my most Candid View


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3IPDcSk4JQ

Sam Omatseye really Murdered the Obidient Movement and it wasn't funny at all. Here is my most Candid View


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3IPDcSk4JQ

Sam Omatseye really Murdered the Obidient Movement and it wasn't funny at all. Here is my most Candid View


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3IPDcSk4JQ

Why?

Ugly

He didn't pay for the lunch

He paid for Wisdom

Wahala

Uneasy lays the head that wears the crown

We are getting there

There is some Sense here

Make Dem condemn the train sef

Hard times ahead

What is Gumi's post in Nigeria?

Is Amechi now Minister of Sports?

1stGenAmerican:
It takes a really dumb Nigerian to not know the difference between First Generation American and Native American .
If both of my sides descended from slaves I would still be proud. The slaves on my maternal side were traded for mirrors and liquor by their own people in Africa, arrived in chains, fought and won for their freedom, then fought for and won their Civil Rights, all in a strange new country. What’s your excuse for the lack of progress in your homeland?

Americana. Rest abeg. I'm done with you.

Since u think of urself as one that holds the keys to America.


Make urself feel good Americana. It's ok Akata

[quote author=1stGenAmerican post=112679691]Truth hurts, right? [/quo


If only you knew your True Story.


You are not one bit close to being 1st Generation American.

You just want to make urself feel good and feel among.

You are most likely a decendant of a negro slave..


1st Generation American are in South Dakota and can never be on Nairaland.


If I were you, after today, I will never use this deceptive moniker on Nairaland again. Ever again.


You aren't deceiving nobody but yourself.


Daalu. 1st Generation Slave

[quote author=1stGenAmerican post=112674703]You were more of the problem that that woman. You fell hard for a 35 year old total stranger, paid for her ticket to Nigeria, and lodged that stranger in your bed for 3 weeks while sponsoring everything.
You stayed in a relationship with this woman who you speak ill of (and even planned to marry) for 2 years. 24 months long months. We know it didn’t take you 2 years to see who she really was but you still stuck with her, especially after admitting that she made you feel emasculated and inadequate. Do you realize what you told the world about yourself?
[/qu



It's my true story and I'm not timid about it. You can live with it.


The problem with girls like you is that you want to create that perfect picture where perfection doesn't exist anywhere in the world



1st generation American. I see this thing drives you people crazy. Real Americans don't get fricken one bit about the whole American bullshit.


You had to add the "American" thing to your moniker


Go get the back seat mehn.

PeaceJoyLove:
Travelling with F1 visa is the antidote to issues like this. How can you open your eyes and want to marry a 29 years old with 5 children from 3 men? You are in a relationship with the girl, the 5 children, and their dads. Where do you find these kind of girls....they are so many out there. They are like the useless ones in Nigeria (equivalent version of the girlfriends of Nigerian park workers called agbèros...those ones who sell alcohols packed in sachets). Na so bro! Even...listen na...which responsible father will start threatening his futher son inlaw that girls call police on men. The father is probably useless or the man is an "arrangee" dad.

The lies going about in the US is that girls must tame African men..lol. and from the news I read daily, it seems even good ladies there are falling for the lies....but the good ones always regret it. See, when a good lady tries it, she herself will be exhausted.

It takes a lot of over-confidence and over-spoilt with no future ambition to come to Nigeria, sleep with a man in the same room for weeks, and then start threatening the man with police while still Nigeria to the extent of arranging with a man to act like your dad and threaten your host. It is so dumb. And that's the kind of girl you both fell for. Na waooo. If you had arrange yourself well, you wont fall for such. Not possible. Can you fall for a girl selling alcohols in sachets in Lagos' parks? Not possible na.

Guys! Your stories emphasized one fact: there are still good guys here, cos if you guys are really bad...see...the choice of playing along is there. But you chose to dump them because you want peace of mind. I am happy that there are still people who value their self esteem. On the other hand also, I do not blame boys who go ahead and play such girls. It is like the girls think African boys are too weak. Lol.

Anyway, most good girls are made there. If you want to choose a responsible girl (at least one who isnt like the ones described by these men here) go to school. Go get bachelors, masters or phd. But I know that this advice is like rubbish talk to many..lol..why? Most dont have the money to go to school, they still use student Visa to enter, and they always dissappear. "So, why wont you meet street girls when you are also street boys. You hustle out and you do security or cleaning job...tell me how you can easily meet a girl who is not street when you are also a street boy? What is the probability that those bus conductors out there will marry working class girls in Nigeria? Who marry the alcohol sachets sellers in bus parks?

Go to school and join different clubs there. If you are good, contest for positions there - International student union positions, book clubs, sport clubs, games clubs, etc. All the friends you have there are points of connections. The chances are high that you will meet a reasonable lady or man if you are in this circle. If you are going for phd and you are over 30 or oven 40 and you are a widow, single or divorced, you will most likely meet a good single mother with one kid, divorced, widow, or even a single girl without any child. No girl with a good career will have children with different men. It is not possible. She knows it will affect her career, so it cannot happen.

I believe you can still meet good girls even over the internet if your writing ability is high. If you are smart and you can make good conversation, you will meet good girls. It is simple... dull people cannot make good conversation. They are the types who will say my post here is an epistle. Lol. So, if you start talking with a girl, she will run away or you will get bored if she is not good upstairs and vice versa.

Goodluck to you guys!

When you have things working for you, it's easy for you to think other people are lazy or don't want to school or something.

Do you think it is easy for an international student with no form of scholarships or sponsorship to cough out whooping sums of dollars to school in the most basic college in America?


When things are working for you, don't presume it's because you are good at what you do, sometimes previledged ad fortunate people think the lesser priveledged people are unfortunate.

Fingers are not equal u should have heard severally..

Some of us have too much self respect to fake and get student visa only to end up not schooling after the visa.

There is absolutely nothing wrong if you think you found for yourself a decent girl and then she starts to show indecency and you decide to cut ur losses and shut down.

Tinubu train is moving oo

Pakwel:
Guy. You see my name abi ? (Pakwel) it only takes a bottle of rum and weed to forget a woman. A wise move for any Nigerian. Buy houses for Africa. Buy things in case she Bleep up. You no loose. I love my girl oh. But I ready for any mugu way won use me play

Talking about buying a house in Africa.

God bless me small I get my own personal house somewhere in Naija oo.


Guess wetin my woman dey advice me... Say make I sell my property. Say na small thing. Say when I reach America, I go make money take buy double that one. I just dey reason for my mind say this one think say she catch mugu.

womenareapez:
as you pulled out, didn't she start throwing insult and swears on you?

Omo, it was a real sad ending for something that started out so promising all lovey dovey. Lasted 2 years. She visited me here in Naija.. all of the promises, the plans, the hopes and Aspirations washed down the drain. Not a place to be. I was mentally exhausted. Physically drained.

Plus, na that Time Covid dey kill them for Yankee. Was scared to death.

It was also around the period an American Police knelt on the throat of a black skinned guy for over 9 seconds with a full blown able bodied man not being able to breath till he died. ( heaven rest his soul)


I look my skin, black as charcoal, I dey go face racism, Covid matter been dey hot added with an Abusive woman with sense of entitlement.

Broda. I Run. I run for my dear life.

I want to live to a full ripe old age, why marry a grand mama of 35 years when fresh 22 year old graduate kpekus full everywhere for Naija, it was bad business for me.

Generally ehnnn. In every part of the world. Na women gain pass for marriage oo.

So I have decided I will marry when I'm 55 years old to a 25 year old girl.

I can not kill myself oo

Mehn, no be small persecution I face oo.

Pakwel:
Guy. It's not all of them oh. My fiance nah American. I sent her morter and pistol .last two months. This girl dey cook African food like crazy. She dey do any food you like

Just wait till you go there na. Na hin you go know say All-Over and Over-All no be the same.

No full blown African Man that values African Culture and Traditions would tolerate these girls one bit

They have Aculturised to western cultures, in the West, the Woman is the King. The western Society is for Women.

Look at the Jonny Deep story going on.

Look at Will Smith with his fame l, good looks and money, one woman that is obsessed with Tupac wants to shatter his life.

Look at how Kim Kardeshain keeps divorcing husband like say she dey change cloth.

This is their culture.

The Man never wins. It's impossible.

These women will frustrate the living day light out of you



Did you hear of the medical Doctor African Man in Texas that took a gun and shot his wife and two daughters before shooting himself?

Ask urself, what level of depression would push a man to commit such?


Brother, you never Jam Woman wahala, pray not to Jam it oo.


A girl that doesnt look back, that has no conscience, can set you up and it's her own story they would believe over your own story, devil bless you, you have kids and a court case comes up, you pay child support all your life.


My friend's mother in-law told me that if my friend dares contemplate to leave his wife, that it's Child-suppourt they would use to ruin his life.


Not all that glitters is gold oo.

If some of these guys abroad tells u half of what they are going thru ehnn, u will prefer to eat ur egusi soup in peace in that ur village here in Naija.


Anything that takes ur peace isn't worth it.

Obinna666:
I swear to God , sometimes i dont even know if its just a thing to get traffic for the site

Seun would allow this site go to the trenches. That's why the site no longer thrills me like it used to.

Before in 2009 I opened my nairaland account I could literarily die here but these days, I open only maybe once in 3 months

TaminaliaCatapa:
I don’t blame her. If not for the bad leaders in Africa, why should any African man think of marrying an African American who is probably:

1. Lazy to work and on various government schemes like EBT, unemployment

2. Very rude, impatient and dangerous (could burn ur car, docs or even use a firearm on you)

3. Loves eating only cheese, and other unhealthy “burgers”, they consider our spicy goat/catfish peppersoup as nasty.

4. Can not cook shit.

5. Will call the police on you at will and may land a child support case on your head.

6. Again very rude and have no culture, hence will disrespect your gentle parents.



If u don’t wanna kill your parents, don’t marry an African American.


I’d rather marry from another African country than settle with any African American.

Not sorry!

What u wrote here is just pure truth.

Most of these African American girls have finished prostituting their bodies abroad, nobody to marry them abroad, they want to hide from their past and want to marry a fool who can't stand his ground to question them. A simp

I was dating a 35 year old African American girl from Chicago oo..

35 years old girl that told me she was a Virgin. I just noded my head. This one don see mumu. 35 years old virgin in America

Once you marry this kind girl ehnnn. You will here story of your life. I made you whom you are. I brought you to this country America and stuffs like that.

Next thing she start drama oo.

I Paid for her ticket to visit me in Nigeria.

We stayed 3 weeks in my house on my bed no knacking because she say she be virgin. Me Kuma was avoiding y because I knew it was a trap for me. I didn't want to show any form of desperation cos that was their own plan.


Never one day cooked, only eat out. Na bottle water sef she dey use wash teeth, expenses wan kill local boy

She tot she was deceiving me not knowing she was deceiving herself.


Next thing oo, a 35 year old girl not married says to me she was doing me a favour by marrying me :d

I just weigh my options, this one wey I never leave Naija, she wan turn controller general.. I cut my lose quick quick. Swear for her and her Papa.

Imagine, her father had started to tell me over phone that American girls call police for their husbands oo and I'm like is this what an African American father is already instilling in his 35 years old unmarried daughter?

I read in-between the lines, saw the writings on the wall and concluded to myself that a Lion in this African Jungle is better than a dog in the American city.

Africa is not Hell and America Is not heaven.

Hustle here till u can travel there on your own terms.

Once a man here married them there, you have signed slavery contract for life.

You see the problem, they just want to feel superior and special and that won't happen with any man over there like the Korra Obidi ad her husband story, so it's better they come here to look for a fool and dindinrin they would rule over.


I felt so inadequate in the relationship that lasted over 2 years oo. I felt like the woman and her the Man.

It was a fiance Visa kind of arrangement K1. At the point she had submitted documents to USCIS United States Customs and immigration services to pull me in.. I opted out even tho it was a very hard decision for me and I'm thankful for the peace and rest of mind I enjoy today

I felt like a commodity that was about to be bought off of a shelf from a store.

These girls are stack evil.

Don't let prevailing harsh economic realities in Nigeria allow you jump for such trodghan horse offers. It's actually moving from Frying pan to � fire

It looks sweet, but on the inside is death.