Rashelany: Is it your blunder?.. Hater oshe.. from your post i can deduce that you one of them special-less haters.. By the way thats his selling point and am sure you dont have one.. Thank you
kingreign: Hello everyone, yesterday, i had a client who called me for an urgent appointment in Bwari, along the Dutse-Bwari expresswa, Abuja. I saw some fruits placed on a table beside the expressway in front of the Customary Court complex, Dutse, Abuja and decided to stop and buy some since i was hungry. A young boy came up to me and sold some apple to me. I chatted with him and he told me he is 14year old and had completed his primary school in his state (i didnt ask about his state of origin), and how his parents handed him over to a guardian to come to Abuja to start secondary school but the guardian brought him to abuja to be a fruit seller on the expressway exposed to dangers of harsh weather condition, dangerous high vehicles and other unfavourable conditions rather than taking him to school. His spoken English wasn't excellent, he seemed smart yet calm, he told me his name (which i have forgotten). I decided to ask him for permission to take a picture of him. I had to leave him so as to catch up my appointment. Reason i brought this here is so that kind hearted people can go there verify his story and if need be help this young teenager and many more disadvantaged people off the streets instead of being in where they ought to be. Cc: human rights activists, Kind people, philantropists, kindhearted Nigerians, TeHN pls.
You want people to help him and you forgot his name in less than 24hrs. Let that boy hustle he could become a millionaire fruit seller or importer in future, you'll never know. His destiny could be anywhere. He can read and write and express himself in English,That's Education.
There are millions of unemployed graduates roaming the streets.
Goghelpme: I am a regular Nairalander with a different moniker, had to open this new one for privacy reason.
It is with heavy heart I write this, I will try and give details as much as I can. I have been dating my girl for about four years now (my first and only relationship), she is going to 28yrs and me 31yrs (3 & 1/2yrs age difference). We are both devoted christians.
It all started with my elder sister telling me to start praying for God to reveal my wife to me (I was 25 then). Personally I got my revelation/conviction of her being my wife about a year later I also involved some minister friends (advice on my revelation), and took about another one year later before we started dating. No sex until marriage rule agreed (it has been tough sticking to that especially for me as a man of my age but thanks to God).
And so the Journey began, we became best of friends, great lovers we are just the perfect Couple, plan and execute every targets together, Sponsored ourselves to finish our education (me weekend part-time, she open university). I supported her financially as best as i could, even once postponed payment of my school fees to pay hers (without her knowing mine was due, thank God my school later had strike) because she is managing a teaching job.
Her mom has not been in support especially with the fact that I am not a "big boy" but her father maintains a neutral ground (although he loves me so much and I am closer to him than his two sons). I am the only male among seven children, One of My elder sister (the same one that initiated my prayer) never approved of her because she doesn't feels okay with her spiritually and warned me.
Fast forward now, I have been able to buy the consent of my family, informed her dad of my plan to bring my family to begin the marriage process and now here comes the issue.
Although on my own I have had revelations personally informing me of her family having spiritual issue but being blinded by love I never took it serious. Now my best friend went out to see a prophet and was told that in my fiancee's family (her mother's side) they have a problem that anytime they get married (the females) they pass through a phase of mental instability. In reality am aware the elder sister whose family am close to just recovered from hers after over two years. I was aware of the sister issue but never knew it was a family routine. The revelation of my friend made me to remember her mother's sister had serious sickness (not mental) that lasted over a year after she married.
Now am in a fix, I love her so much, a greater part of me is willing to take the risk with her but my greatest fear is this; if this routine is not broken, can I be able to face the fact that I knowingly drag my future daughters into this mess?
Advice please!
Note: am not the prophecy freak person, never for once consulted a prophet myself and I tried avoiding it in this case.
Cc: lalalasticlala
You can take risks with you life but never takes risks with the lives of your un born children.
Festivalofholi: *****My neighbour usually sends her children to come charge her phones and rechargeable light in my house at night. She has two grown up daughters: one is around 17; while the other is about 19. The older one is very fair and beautiful, and i've been eyeing her for a while now. She is very shy wenever i talk to her in public, she cant even look at me in the face. I've been waiting for the perfect moment wen she will come to my place to charge, just me and her alone in my room so i can chyke her. The younger one is not beautiful and she's a little underage, so i'm not interested in dat one at all.
****But dat there mother, i dont know wots wrong wif her, she always sends the younger one to come to my place to charge- always. Why does she behave like dat? She doesn't suspect dat i'm eyeing her daughter, so i wonder why she never sends the older, beautiful one to my place. I'm confused, wot could be the reason??
If you don't have the answer to your question, then you are a FOOL!
Dannyxy: I saw a thread, about forgiving a cheating spouse bla bla ba(no time 4 long story), but i notice something, and that's what prompted me to open this thread... Most of the women said they would forgive,but the opposite was for the men, and as a guy i probably would nt too... So the the big question is, why is so easy for women to forgive cheating? Nd it's so hard for men to?, is it natural thing?, or where we just configured liked that?
Women are more castigated during break ups. People automatically blame them.
ayinqus48: Have being having small issues with my girl friend for some months now, what I notice is she have a male friend she is so into, that she don't mind hurting me just to protect the guy...... am so confused now because she is still doing everything she does for me before, yet she makes phone calls daily with the guy and delete all her chat with him anytime she is with me
Dude relationship is a one way street. She has to be everything to you and you have to be everything to her.
Don't ever hesitate to Dump a lady that's into another guy. Develop some Ego.
coldcandy: Pls I am in a serious problem and I need urgent advice. I am basically a one-woman man but in between I often sample a lot before settling with the right one. therefore I have encountered all sorts of scents/smell/odour from the female organ: the fresh flower smell, the rotten fish smell, spoilt tomato smell, bad egg, hydrogen sulphide and the putrid one like hydrochloric acid. Recently, I met this beautiful girl and we advanced to the bedding stage. in an attempt to drill into her well of pleasure, a terrible odour hit my nose. naturally my JT went flaccid and I was in a fix on how to explain the sudden drop. she concluded I wasn't man enough to keep it up! That is why I am seeking for this advice: How do I tell her that her VG is smelling without offending her? Ladies pls help a brother.
Smelling Vagina isn't a always sign of uncleanliness. But if she has spent all day busy without time to shower,then she would most likely have a smelly Vagina but its just normal,its same with us Guys. So when next you want to have sex make Sure she has freshened up. If the smell is still there, there is no point telling her she probably knows already,rather make your research about the situation and get a solution before talking to her about it. If you don't find a solution continue dating her till you do. My best ever relationship was with a chick with smelly vagina. I used to lick it Before banging her to shreds.
tribalwarlord: My other neighbour is crushing on me... He even calls me late nights and he always says he calls to hear my voice but he hasn't told me he loves me... What do you think...