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Themaingate:
It's 700mb and it's HD and I posted the link before now

Pinkiedearie:
We await the arrival of THE lovely being into this world!!!

*safe passage!!

de2oye:
I am a Yoruba man and I got married to an Ebira lady from Kogi state about six years ago. The marriage has been blessed with 2 sons. We lived happily together in the same city while my mother Inlaw lives in another part of the same city, as such we used to visit her together occasionally.

Sometimes last year, my wife told me she want to go and visit her mother Inlaw and I permitted her to go. Accidentally, I had a an unusual call from my office and I decided to branch and join my wife there since my office is just a stone throw from my Inlaw's place. I didn't inform my wife. As I got there, I requested for her phone to enable me make an important call since I've run out of power on mine. She was reluctant to release the phone and I could easily deduced that all is not well. That makes me go further and I to check her chat history. I was amazed and find it difficult that my wife of six years is having an affair with a much younger guy she's older than for at least five years. She started begging me that she can explain, explain what?. I was totally disappointed and confused, I left the place immediately and told her not to even bother coming to my own house again. The funniest thing was that I know this particular guy to be our Neighbour and he used to come to our house and I do give him money at times because he's a student. While all this was going on, the mother Inlaw was not around.

I decided to call her on phone and tell her what happened because the father inlaw was out of the country as at the time of the incidence. The woman pleaded that I should come back and I obliged, the first thing she did that really surprised me was that she started talking to her daughter in their local language known fully well that I don't understand a bit of it and both of them can speak both Yoruba and English fluently. What could she be telling her daughter after I showed her the chat history because I didn't release the phone since that's d only evidence I have against her. I was really angry and rose, I frankly told her that when she's ready to talk to me I will come back, she realized her mistake and refuse to allow me to go. I later left her there and decided to tell the father on phone. He pleaded that I should please allow her back into my house with d kids and I allowed them back only because of the innocent kids and the fact that I respected the man so much. Since then, we 'be never be in good terms again; I mean myself and the mother because she's not happy with the involvement of the father. I decided not to go to their house again except if the father is around.

About 2 months after, the father was around and he tried to settle the whole issue and I decided to let go. To worsen the situation, there was a particular day I went to their house on my way back from office, I was with my mother Inlaw and I asked about one of her relatives who was sick, the answer she gave me was that she didn't know his whereabout which I know she's lying and still keeping the malice. Since then I stopped going there and I have made up my mind not to ever visit her again. Kindly advise, I'm I wrong here?

repogirl:
guy, the tori is loooong.

The girl was very hard working and very nice so at first it was the guys they would send packing, then she became the wiser and faked pregnancy for the last guy. When they found out it was fake pregnancy, they sent her packing but the guy (only God knows if na juju) rented a one room apartment for the girl where he kept going to see her from time to time, until she now said she was pregnant again. I dunno if na real the second time but I doubt it cos I didn't hear any news bout d baby.

Na d tori be dat.

morereb10:
To Cut the story short:

1. She is bitchy
2. She is 43 and am 28
3. She is constantly reminding me of what she did for me
4. She is always saying I know she don't love sex
5. She is constantly shouting on phone
6. She has three kids already from different fathers
7. She lie a lot
8. One of the bf she told me she had before that she so cherish which always baf her and treat her like an angel turned out to be a lie later.

I can go on and on but let me stop here. What do you think guys, am confused.

morereb10:
To Cut the story short:

1. She is bitchy
2. She is 43 and am 28
3. She is constantly reminding me of what she did for me
4. She is always saying I know she don't love sex
5. She is constantly shouting on phone
6. She has three kids already from different fathers
7. She lie a lot
8. One of the bf she told me she had before that she so cherish which always baf her and treat her like an angel turned out to be a lie later.

I can go on and on but let me stop here. What do you think guys, am confused.

stenmikas:
Everyone believe VIRGINS are holy.
Even those who aren't virgin behave more mature than them,they are the ones who engage in masturbation.
I will like to hear your views on this.



NOTE:This post is not meant to discourage the virgin or castigate the OP.

kennygee:
With Good Lawyer this lady can win a mumu case like this o.

fissie:
Who made these rules? Even the greatest men have been known to love unapologetically. Not letting a woman know how deeply you care might make her become really insecure and probably create bigger issues. Pretence never helps anything. Being vulnerable is what most men are scared and i think it is wrong to assume showing how much you care would make you feel taken for granted.

msmon:
Why do ladies often abuse, name-call or even cause a guy after a call?

It's a common act amongst ladies that they call suitors several kind of name after a call which I find very appalling.

I was at the motor park yesterday afternoon when a lady (she's not so beautiful ooo) received a call, she turned to her friend immediately after the call and said 'oloriburuku yen lo tun pemi yen ooo (that unfortunate guy called again)'. They didn't stop there, they both started calling and describing that guy with several names...

...and it something I have noticed about ladies overtime.

I hope one lady will have the audacity to tell us the rational behind this act.

Cc: adeh39, politricks, orijin101, lalasticlala, holatin

fissie:
I was going through one of the popular blogs when a male colleague of mine who is also a friend bent over my left shoulder from behind to catch a full glimpse of my computer screen. I was reading an open letter a husband wrote to his wife and I was taken by its sentimental nature. The author of the letter shared details of how great his life has been since marrying his wife. My friend joined me in reading and got really irritated in the course of reading it that he hissed loudly and spat out that the man is such a sissy for loving his wife so much. - See more at: http://www.covenantrelationships.org/#sthash.554YhzoJ.dpuf

Has it suddenly become a crime for a man to bare his feelings for his wife to the world?

repogirl:
Op be careful, some house girls are looking for greener pastures and some okay family to stick themselves to. I know one who kept having affairs with every male relation that came to stay in the house. To the extent that she faked pregnancy for one of them, twice.

Be careful ooo.

oghale23:
She just summoned courage and asked me if I love her. I barely know her, she just came to help us last year ending. She is fair and looks good and fine and above 21, but I told her no. I don't love her, I just see as a friend. I don't want trouble, I don't want to mortgage my destiny on the altar of premarital sex. God will not be happy with me at all. It is better I say no than to let it develop into something else.

If it were you what will you have done? Be sincere

Twaci:
Are u calling me ugly?