Kondomatic:
Just act like you don't care. He will be the one to initiate a chat if he's still interested in you.

But isn't this unfair to the, OP? I mean the waiting until HE is ready. Why should communication be on HIS terms & when HE feels like talking again? This I don't understand about (some) guys. It's like they don't get how frustrating this is.

If he's going through personal stuff or whatever, then he should just tell her to give him some space. She's not a psychic & it's justifiable that she's taking it personal because he's not letting her in on what is actually causing the change in communication. The poor girl is probably thinking she's the problem. Guys really need to communicate better.

NevetsIbot:
hey... Doesn't Idris look perfect? He doesnt have k-leg or crooked teeth buh you still digging him. Foul play

LOL. He's an exception

bitchcrafts:
While it's not a sin to me that a lady lost her hymen before taking the vow, I still don't like this notion I have quietly canceled out. What's in a lady's virginity really? Does it add any value; morally or status wise to the man popping it? So the thing for me is, if yo keeping it, keep it cos yo moral standards dictates so! I mean, yo marriage isn't going to the best of them all after all most times, its usually going to the chosen of them. So, keep it for him if u are with that orientation its not to help him or for you to gain any respect or favor. IMO, anything sex is just to calm the hormones weeping like a saxophone!

Hahaha. Touché

bitchcrafts:
Nobody would mind popping that cherry and even poking it all out if possible. If your huzby is the first man in yo life and you gat other things going for you with that, he should love you. BUT Don't ever make the mistake of expecting love back in return, love because u love and keep your virginity either to obey God's ruling or because you want it that way. Danke! Punkyv isn't it?

LOL, of course! Honestly I don't see the importance of being a virgin until you get married because you're not going to be immune to all the marital problems that other women face eg. infidelity, etc. It's not like it'll make you a good lover either So whatever. To each their own principles.

Personally, I'd rather be cheated on by a jerk whom I know got me as 2nd hand goods, if you will. Just imagine keeping yourself for that "special" someone, only for them to treat you like you were nothing a few years down the line. Must be heartbreaking.

bitchcrafts:
It wouldn't be better . Don't say that haygain! I love pusses . Pusses vanilla flavored my specialty . Dou like the smell of vanilla too?

Ha! I don't know.

I don't think virginity matters one bit in today's society.

Yesterday I was watching a show called, Happily never after. The bride in the show was a virgin when she met her future husband. They got married. Went on a honeymoon, had sex, etc. A few years later, he met someone else at work. Their affair grew & they started having sex. He developed some kind of a sexual obsession with her & decided to murder his virgin bride to be with the 2nd girl that wasn't even a virgin when they met.

In summary, being a virgin means nothing once the novelty wears off. Nor will the fact that you were a virgin before you got married hold a failing marriage together. If your virginity is important, then remain one for life because when you lose it, then you become just another average female with a vjj. Nothing special.

bitchcrafts:
Well, if those r too much to ask, then , things like committed relationships ain't meant for me... Too bad I don't do guys, there r fellas who r just that; good looking and always looking good.

Are u serious about the stretch marks? Eww, having thunderbolts on your skin like it's some tats ? weird things like that? cmon its a human being not tigress. Did I forget to say I love tats on women esp the fair species?? ohhhh... sugar bites

Hahaha. Smh. You're something else! Yeah, It'd have been better if you were gay

bitchcrafts:




Simple too, just be good looking and always be looking good. Danke!

Need I say I'm a sucker for high IQs too? I'm not saying you have to go von Savant on me cos that kind induces this kinda phobia that makes me doubt if my dikc will ever be able to rise up to u, the real deal is I like the knowledge exchange symbiotic, as in do me I do u ... then, will yousee the talkative , toned down sarcasm side of me... talk about long chained conversations lovely and soothing like lullabies giggles

Hehehe @ just be good looking & always be good looking. Isn't that expecting too much? Still laughing at your comment about stretch marks. To me they're like tribal marks. A tigress that has earned it's stripes

bitchcrafts:
I am joking about the teeth anyway so NVM, we're safe

Turnoffs ? No turnoffs ideally but if you're gonna be chubby, be chubby moderately and make sure u have a good most appreciably hour glass shape, if yo slim , let your slim make sense, I don't like spaghetti personally. Halitosis should not come near me neither should enviably numerous stretch marks and rashes. But if u have pimples not chronic, you're still welcome, it could be your body's response to stress. Pls don't have a fat nose, yam legs that looks perfectly incoherent with your torso, you can have thick kissable lips but pls make sure its not dark like the bark off mahogany. If your teeth cannot be sparkly white, pls let it be neat to the sense of sight at least. overlapping sets of teeth is a no-no for me tho, get them removed before I know you and make sure u burn every evidence you used to rock em. That's all about physicals my dear . You?

Loooool. I don't even know what to say to your list. Hilarious! You sound very picky.

Well for me, I'm not very choosy physically. It's all about a person's behaviour because I'm kinda sensitive So being an inconsiderate douche, etc, will definitely put me off slowly. I'm a simple person I guess.

bitchcrafts:
*rolls eyes* OK. then, I love being gassed up tho esp. by a girl I fancy.. but not soo much as making me believe I can fly without parachute or jump from a tall hill without putting on the life jacket oh.. it makes me feel I'm sorta in control and doing it right and in return , I do it better if u kwim

LOL, gotcha

Did anyone ever tell you that you have a good nose? This chic did!

Nice nose. May you find love.

bitchcrafts:
Awww.. u don't really have to go down babe , I'm yo lover not yr lord.. picks her up and kisses her forehead

And as for the missing teeth, I'll have them filled up with diamond .. imagine waking up to a diamond kiss every morning?

So long as it's not gold I guess That I also find disgusting, gold teeth.

What are your physical turn-offs in a lady, crafts?

menstrualpad:


I am.

Dreamer.

bitchcrafts:
Of course, you're a she and most of y'all won't understand how it feels when you're the Pygmy among your fellas so far he meets up with yo standards... Anyway, thank you for the ego boost dose, yo such a daarrling ykno

Not trying to gass you up lol. That's a really good height. Tall but not freakishly tall is what I call it

bitchcrafts:
Wow! my friend who's into aquaculture will find this interesting.

back to our wahala, so you're saying I'm icky ? Thank u! ... I'll find someone else who'll see me as an ambrosia! ... Storms out ta thread...

No, come back! *grovels*

You really have missing teeth? Eww lol

bitchcrafts:
Yass. Stuck on 6 . Shortest Nigga in my circle

6 ft tall? That's not short at all. That's a hot height

bitchcrafts:
uhuh! I thought u love us odd looking? c'mon I got like 2-3 missing already to fighting for love. If u tag along, I won't mind losing the rest just for u

On a more serious note, how could consuming fish be responsible for such gross wipe out when its not acid? or is snoek fish some slangs for something rather odd? - like ganjah?

I like odd but not icky lol.

No, snoek is a fish popular around the areas I mentioned. Not sure why but eating it too much rots the teeth, which is why some people have missing teeth. Especially the Coloured people.

bitchcrafts:
My all time celebrity look alike of all time ... if not for the height advantages he's slightly got over me, I should be his worst nightmare cos I got my lower lip pink

Why am I going this story teller? I need to get you laid asap

LMAO. You look like him!? Niiice. How tall are you?

bitchcrafts:
Fling sounds nice tho

Hahaha @ those teeth. Now if there's one reason I wouldn't date a person, it'd be missing teeth. We have a lot of such cases here in SA. Particularly people from the eastern & the western cape. Eating too much snoek fish messes with their teeth.

Idris for breakfast, lunch & dinner. I wouldn't let him out of my sight!

bitchcrafts:
I still don't know why we're not dating already

LOL, why aren't we?

That relationship wouldn't last a minute because we have similar negative traits Good as a fling maybe

menstrualpad:


ok ...now i know why you act special...your brain has some bubbles in it, innit?

You will not voice opinions anyhow.

And who is going to stop me? LOL, this is a celebrity thread so let me use one of their favourite lines on you right now-do you know who I am?
You're wasting your time if you think you're going to tell me what to do.

I would. Why not? It'd give his face character & that warrior look I like

KINGOFJAPAN:

It's not just sex oo, it will Kim and Kanye having sex .

I'd rather watch a zebra & a giraffe do it, over them

menstrualpad:


you are really annoying me now. if you don't understand something y not kip kwayet? must you always disturb with your 2cm head lookin like OppieKoffie brownies?

Take a page from your own book & put a sock on it ! What do you take me for? A parrot? No, I have my own opinions & I will voice them whenever I feel like it. Tough if you don't like it.

Quite frankly, I couldn't be arsed!

Well, this may actually last...until her heart attack.

They both look happy, which is nice I guess. Proof there's someone for everyone out there no matter how you look.

Been sitting here starving myself. It's time for that double cheese burger & hopefully Mr Right on the side with fries

bitchcrafts:
Wow! y'kno , something tells me you've been over pampered with love either as from when you were a kid till yo this grown by parents or you have had this bf you so loved and had held in such high esteem his standards now forms the basis of your grading guys lol or maybe you feel too much i.e you're so sensitive ykno when the love coming from yo significant other starts waning however slyly. The big guess however is that you've read too much romance, you have this basic high standards stuck up in your head that are literally feats too high to keep up with for a human being. The latter being what I'm currently fighting myself, coupled with the foremost illustration; my mom esp. is one hell of a lover! . So, these girls I've been meeting even after possibly giving their best shots still don't matter deep down.

It has been affecting my general life in some ways tho, cos I still have so many adventures in mind I want to live with that perfect girl ykno and my life even though quite occupied with quite copious to-do's still sorta feels boring and empty, and as a result I find it very easy going kaboom over even the minutest irritations smh and you know what? I feel im still too young for this cos I'm just twenty something. So,people have suggested I go get a girl friend not girlfriend but it's like I've always been unfortunate; We always end up fukcing after a few coupla dates and in a few weeks complications sets in cos she feels we're now a subject when I actually am feeling NO-THING! . Cycle of my life. So right now, I've decided to develop new habits and widen my horizon; I already registered in a library I'm gonna start frequenting come next week God willing.

LOL, this almost feels like a therapy session. You really opened up!

I'm not sure what to say but I kinda get what you're about. Maybe someday or soon, you'll find the right direction or whatever it is that you're searching for in life. All the best

Not bad. Something screams P Diddy about the 2nd pic though

Is this a ploy to get people to check yours out? Because I just did! And well...

Babzilla:


With Punky therecis always a "but"

LOL, but he does have hair like an owl. Just being honest.

Well, she noticed so it must be a big deal to her, hence he did what he did. He must know her weak points. Serves her right!

ayooladee:
feed your eyes he is the cutest no doubt

Wow! He's truly something!

Not too crazy about the owlish hairline he's spotting in the 1st pic though.

Otherwise..