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Our national rugby team is affectionately called Die Bokke (Springboks). I'll call these ones Die Bokkie (slang for GF, sweetheart, honey, etc)

Is he a Mr NL contestant? He's hot

He's probably trying to read his own palm to see if he is going to win or not

bitchcrafts:
Hmm... I can relate to that a little cos I've been incapable of keeping a relationship much longer than 6full moon myself . The drive to keep it burning just stops coming lol...I believe their will be light at the end of the tunnel tho, you'll soon sit your adventurous ass somewhere

LOL, I just got aware of that recently, btw. And I am doing my best, now that I know, to cut people some slack. I've realized that maybe I'd never find the kind of romance I have in mind.

Do you also get the feeling that you wanna be loved a certain way? Because that's what kills it for me. I have an idea of how I want it to be but get dissatisfied because nobody does it the "right" way & I don't feel like telling someone how to do it because I feel the "right guy" would just know. You know what I mean? So relationships become a, "Head I win, Tail you lose". Basically, a no win situation for either party involved. It sucks big time.

I've had long-term relationships though & I always end up resenting or hating the guys I date because they never feel like the perfect fit, for failing to meet my unspoken expectations. It makes me feel like I'm selfish & self-centered, which I probably am

Targaeryian:
Not cool at all.

My cousin was about to propose to her when he found out.

She still doesnt know he's aware.

She stole from a cashier's box at her friend's boutique unaware that there was a surveillance camera so everything is on record.

My cousin is pretty heartbroken.
He keeps saying that he now understands how small amounts of money kept vanishing in his house whenever she visited him.

I told him to call it off but he wont listen.

Says he still loves her.

Wow. I don't even know what to say. Well, if he plans to still go on with the wedding, then he better have a lawyer ready or a lot of money in savings to bail her out with for when she gets arrested. Or he could get her some help. Sounds like she has issues. Stealing from friends is not cool. It could ruin his reputation as well.

Ebuka2016:
u sure?

Yes.

bitchcrafts:
Sounding too strongly opinionated and principled I usually wonder if the kind of men you allow to come into your life are supermen sort of... That the only man that could wife u would be Eros himself

LOL, you can say that again! I usually feel very disappointed in love TBH with you because I have very high expectations + a tendency to put people on a pedestal when I 1st meet them. At 1st they're just perfect & all I ever wanted Slowly reality sets in & I start seeing them for who they really are (which is rarely ever up to my standards)...that's when the disappointment sets in & I get an overwhelming itch to next them & keep searching. I guess I'm idealistic about
love.

Targaeryian:
Not a cool n suave high-rolling bank vault swindling outlaw.

More a purse and wallet pinching and robbing from family low-life

Not cool.

bitchcrafts:
Your voice when you said Loser sounded strained AF

Ha! No. And here I was under the belief you knew me well My opinions come on too strong but I usually feel "whatever" because I couldn't care less in reality.

fados4sure:
Op You don't know what you want & you need to take time to know what you want b4 you can roll


My lovely PunkyV you are sighted

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amakoro:
they are celebs

So?

I still don't get it. The same way I don't get when people buy old clothes for millions just because some celebrity wore them.

Why, why, why does God give wealth to stupid people?

bitchcrafts:
An opportunist is not a loser honey pie. Get overit

Depends on personal interpretation. That to me is a loser in capital letters

LOL, get over what?

Ebuka2016:
u wicked sha abeg follow me bak

I did. Follow you back, I mean.

He needs to give that money to me

I just don't get the obsession some people have with celebs. What will Kim & Kanye be doing in bed that's worth millions to see? I wouldn't pay even R1 to see their sex tape because it's just sex.

bitchcrafts:
What if he's not a loser and you're just one out of the motorcades in his glorious delegation

That to me is synonymous with being a loser, taking advantage of people because you know they care.

Well, it doesn't really sound mean if you have your listening ears on. That's nothing short of a confession. He doesn't see a future with you. Big deal. Whatever.

The relationship would end there for me though, even though I don't do my acts of kindness to gain favours or whatever. I do so because I care. But I still wouldn't let some loser take me for a ride. Saying that means he doesn't really care for me, so he can piss off. The skies won't shudder & fall because of it.

No, you feel you're no longer in control of THE SITUATION. When people are double-crossing others they usually feel smart & invincible.

I don't know what to say to you as I don't feel any sympathy for the situation you've gotten yourself into. You can either be the good person you perceive yourself to be & let one of them go. Or like the forked tongued serpent you've been so far, double-dealing, you can sssssssspeak your way out of it. Your choice.

This doesn't even sound real

[quote author=hagmond1 post=47233372][/quote]LMAO. My look exactly @ "beautiful".

Still a sweet post though

Well, I like OUTLAWZ Depends on what he is stealing Is he like the guys in the Fast & the Furious or Tom Cruise's character in Mission Impossible?

No lowly thieves who break into homes & mug people for me.

Babzilla:
Of course its not all girls sadly you cant tell at a glance who is the real deal

That's where the "studying" comes in Come on Babz, I'm sure you've been in the game for a while now to know some of the signs of unserious people.

Babzilla:
Word Sistuh! right on the money.... You will do a these and much much more it wont stop her from screwing around and you wonder WTF the bítch be looking fo'

LOL. Wrong! The operative word here is "woman", not bìtch or girl. Real women have self-respect & won't be caught bed-hopping like a flea because they've "studied" men. So they become very picky about the kind of men they associate themselves with.

World peace?

They say it's a dog eat dog world after all. So if dogs are now hugging, we must be getting closer

The eyes & of course height (tall). I have a thing for guys with crooked teeth as well. I don't like perfect people. I like unique, odd & different. So the more imperfect he looks, perfecto!

Awww, you have the cutest smile ever!