abbeyboy2o15:
Here again with epistle of love.

What's your sign? I wanna know what love issssss & I know you can show meeeeee

lodphil:
U r on point.We are thinkers and most of us are pragmatists,u know deep-attachment and heavy-duty emotions kind of alters sense of perception and logical reasoning,which is not really appealing to the Aquarius individual.

Aha! Have you ever been in love or are you capable of it? I ask because as a human we all crave love, right? But some of us don't know how to express it. We expect
you to just know. If we're with you it means we love you, so why do you need all the romantic gestures? I guess it's a flaw & needs to be worked on. Or maybe it requires a partner that encourages it because imo, our sign needs to be taught how to love. We can't do it on our own because most times we aren't even in the moment.Too busy thinking about this or that to be really present.

abbeyboy2o15:
what is this unnecessary covo here now.

OK, I'm out of your thread now, boss
You just got taken off as the guest of honour on our wedding

Peezie07:

What's your take on Capricorn I'm curious.

They're boring lol. Sorry

lodphil:
meaning we aquarius men are " beyond salvage".Funny enough a lot of ladies still find us attractive,not b4 they get burnt shaa.

Yeah, that's because on the surface aquarius can be very likeable, friendly & funny. The problem is with deeper feelings. That's where aquarius fails imo. They don't like deep attachments & heavy-duty emotions. You're not alone though. The women get attacked too because apparently we're mean, cold & cheats Not true, at least the cheating part because personally, I'd rather break up...even if I'm insensitive about it but at least I'm not fake. I'm brutally honest. I guess that = mean to some people or whatever.

Dab2mydick:
lol.. Now u gonna make my head burst... OK nah, thanks sha... Though am looking forward to ur wedding, hopefully before the year runs out... And for now,

Be safe dear...

Awww, thanks You too. Do take care.

lodphil:
hahaha! U a right shaa,I could be really cold when I want to be cos am quite calculative;But on the other I could be fun to b with and very unpredictable.

I'm sure you're bags of fun. Just not dating material In fact, aquarius people are NOT dating material. Full stop. They're only good as friends imo. Aquarius men have the most haters than the women though lol. You're known as the douchebags of the zodiac Check out youtube videos about aquarius men & see the angry outpour from females who got served the ice treatment

teejaypee:


Gemini right here!

Nice one

searchng4love:
...... 20/20 hindsight.... You shouldn't read my posts at face value...

Who's the guy whose pic you keep posting? Is that you?

Dab2mydick:
then we can make things workout dear.. And another thing, I hope you are not part of the "he's too caring, and too good to me, and I can't be in a relationship with such guy" cos I am that type of guy, and I talk alot ooo, and am a Romanian too, so u can easily tell am a romantic type.. Very very!

Just kidding dear..

Now here's the deal, work more on ur patience babe.. Don't be in a hurry to end things with him, but rather plan on making things fine and perfect again between u two, make that sign obvious that u wanna make things work... But biko, jaw, and please.. Don't ever cry while doing these ooo... Just stay on the safe side while showing these signs..if the guy no be mumu, he'll understand ur body language lol and adjust to it... But if things keep getting worse, and all he does is get into paradise and fail to notice the "in thing",


Abeg, over-dump his 2inch Dick and dab2mydick lol

Don't mind me, but just dump him if that be the case... SHIKENAH!

LOL, you're adorable.

lodphil:
Punky am Aquarius,leave searching4love and come let's get married ASAP.

Ha! I'd never date another aquarius. Someone needs to bring warmth into the relationship & aquarius can be cold. So, no thanks Libra or gemini is a perfect match. I just don't like librans though.

searchng4love:

I don't believe in it.

That means you are a libra Sigh. This common law is over before it even started

searchng4love:

Unless you're libra

I'm not a libra. I'm an aquarius. Please, don't say you're a libra

searchng4love:

I've always carefully avoided your posts on that matter.... veer cula

Why? Just tell me, please...

Dab2mydick:
I still find it hard to belive what u wrote up there... (bolded). there are women/ladies who fought for what they believed in, and made it work out with their partner who on the other side, isn't a serious type.. At least there are relationships like that, that ended in marriages and a happy home.

U know the saying that goes like —-——-—behind every successful man, there's always a woman. That doesn't only apply on the financial aspect of the guy.. No! Being responsible's also involved, knowing how to change a bad guy to a good guy plays a role too.. But I guess u don't have that time to go through all that ..

Buh a woman can actually make the unserious turn a serious type and achieve greater things together with him... Babe just dream big like MTN and he'll learn to treasure u like his salary during these hard economy times...

Don't talk again ooo.. Just say u have heard me and that u'll be more careful and put in more efforts, I wanna attend ur wedding babe.. So, endest of story building lol

LOL, what a nice post! Wedding bells are already ringing a few threads below

On a serious note, I lack patience & staying power in relationships. That I know. But I'm very caring/loving...when the guy is.

searchng4love:

Don't also believe in that...more interested in temperaments per period...

Dude, just answer the question. Please.

abbeyboy2o15:
so you want to turn the thread to your dating line abi.

When me & him get married, I'll make you a guest of honour because we met on your thread How about that?

searchng4love:

Not looking for a wife..... Common law partner.... Fun person who has a drive...honesty non negotiable... Sizzling sexual interests.

Interesting. I see some similarities already

What's your zodiac sign? Just curious

searchng4love:

So we'll know it's more about thando amigo

I guess so. You didn't answer my question. What's wife material to you? Do you know?

searchng4love:

No just wanted you to keep yours too...you know that flat you bought....

Hmmm...

I can fux with that. Less complications & yada yada.

searchng4love:

Punkyv....yea but as common law partners if possible a watertight prenuptial

LOL. So you distrust me with the money?

searchng4love:

Common law partners.....kein marriage.... Too much drama....

What are you saying? Are you telling me you don't wanna get married? Let's do vat n' sit then

Dab2mydick:
hmmm.... And what happens while in marriage, cos marriages do have issues sometimes, would u toss the man aside and move on to divorce him rather than find ways to make things work with him

Siincerely u are really a strong lady, but am not sure I cant handle you lol , u MUST care about my feelings too, although I can't out of the sudden start keeping distances from the person I so claim to love.

PunkyV dear, what I've deduced from what u wrote up is that, u still yet to meet a guy, who's capable of spinning ur world around, show u the true definition of true love, who would make u go wild and crazy about him, make u feel so loved and important... But u may find it hard cus u seem not to fully open up ur heart to a willing guy, although there're so many many guys are players this days, but u should definitely be able to see through a guy and know who's serious about u and who's not, but only came for the cake in between the beautiful roads to London cos u are a beautiful lady, so u likely to face more of the unserious type... And Only then can u apply the "toss aside and move on thingy"


When I fall inlove, I do with my whole heartheart but always ready to let go even though it's hard

Hahaha. I'm probably the most caring person you'll ever meet. I'm very loving too but like you said, maybe I haven't found someone that meets my deep level of devotion. I love 100%. I'm intense & tend to want it all because I give my all. That's where the problem begins. Maybe other people are capable of loving 75% or whatever. But I cannot do that. With me it's either 0 or 100. End of story.

Kondomatic:
I don't understand nigerians anymore. A true christian is the best husband material till eternity. That we abuse christiany doesn't mean that christianity has changed meaning. Who wouldn't like a husband that's humble, loving, protective, faithful, caring, understanding etc like Jesus? Isn't christianity about taking after Jesus?
A true christian loves his wife as christ loves his church. Most Church goers aren't christians.

Well, maybe if he also looks like TV Jesus Long flowing hair, a 6 pack, a long robe & nothing underneath it

searchng4love:

Just the kind of perspective I need.....

Let's get married then

What do you consider wife material qualities?

When he's responsible, considerate & can communicate effectively. I'm not into that church guy thing but I wouldn't like a guy with weird beliefs, like Satanism. He must just believe there's a higher power. He could be Jah, Jehova or the Jesus. I don't care. Just nothing creepy.

Dab2mydick:
oh girl... I've watched most of ur comments on relationship related issues here on Romance-land, and u gave this same advice abou moving on... Dats wicked!

If u decide to move on without getting to know wats up with the funny behaviour from the guy, and he ain't ready to let go but just busy or sumtin else(sumtin positive) is taking the time, he will return and found out u left just like dat... How do u think he'll feel

U are always ready to move on shaaa... I don't like that, it doesn't fit In all situations of a relationship. I'll tell u something, there are some pple u can NEVER do without. I am an example of such guys, u would always wanna hang around

LOL @ the last part.

Well, that is not true that I ALWAYS advise people to move on. Most of the time, yes. And that's because people share stories where there is an apparent problem with the person they're dating.

Also, I never outrightly say, "leave him or her". Because that's not my decision to make. I understand that there're emotions involved in every situation. Personally, I can be very cold & pay no attention to my own feelings or someone else's when a situation is getting out of hand. I just wanna cut ties & get done. But that's just the way I reason sometimes. Hence I stressed out that this situation got ME thinking. Not to mean I want everyone to go around disregarding what they feel because I can.

Anyway, now back to your question. TBH, I wouldn't care how he feels. I'm not an unfair person. I give people plenty of chances to correct shitty behaviour. I talk a lot But when I notice they're not doing anything about it, then that's when the other side of me creeps in. I'll just toss them aside & move on because I don't like someone giving me a headache.

Dab2mydick:
I feel for the lady though... That guy is NOT the only guy in the whole world, I wish could put him aside and move-on


Buh if she applies my method, the guy will fall for her again... Am a genius

LOL, so you're now NL's very own Dr Phil?

You suggested she plays along, what exactly is the point of that?

This thread actually got me thinking myself. Sometimes it's better to just take the initiative & move on without waiting on someone else to give you the go-ahead that may never come, to avoid hanging on a string. Because some guys are just too coward to tell you when they no longer wanna be in the relationship, so they pull all kinds of shìt, hoping you'll read between the lines & sign your own walking papers.

Dab2mydick:
he just ain't put up enough courage to tell her to move on.... He still wants her, but wants to let go.. Hence scared to brake the news to her..



Mixed feelings

What a jerkwad thing to do.

Dab2mydick:
fine! So wats ur advice to the op since u disagree with mine

OK, give the man's perspective. Why should she let go? What could be behind this change in communication? Because to us it means MAYBE he's lost interest, is bored with her, etc. If those are the reasons, then why isn't he telling her to go have a nice life? Cowardice?

ganaziah:




Yeah......that's just the summary of how it feels like.

I know girl, trust me.

Like they say, just let him be. Even though it's unfair to you to be left hanging & to be dancing to his tune. Because that's exactly what it feels like. It's a circus, you're the clown & he's the ring master because things happen on his pace. Which is BS. I'd say just drop him but I know it isn't that cut & dry.

Dab2mydick:
but op is NOT ready to let go...

Let go of what when there were no issues according to her? That's the crazy-making part about this behaviour. You, the person on the receiving end, you get fed up with it & start thinking of ending things. But then again you get confused on what exactly to do because breaking up over "nothing" sounds a little ridiculous. It's much easier to let go when someone point blank tells you to go kick rocks. But this right here is confusing because you don't know what the problem is. Period.