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Obi2saveNigeria:
When I say that most of you are wallowing in ignorance and self-deceit, you just proved an example. I have bought personal lands at 2 million that doubled in value in less than 2 years! If only you're not deep in multidimensional poverty, I would have shown you lands in Owerri where you can buy and it will appreciate by extra 2 million within 2 years! The fact you're shocked about something that is common over here shows the depth of poverty you're operating from.

I have not seen any village in the SE where houses still have rafia roof. Such things only exist in the poor sadwaste region. Most of our villages are actually more beautiful than your so-called cities. The sort of Lekki house buildings in our villages can only be found in your most exclusive GRA's where only 1% of your elite can afford to live. If you doubt me, I will bring pictures and shame you!

Your cities are nothing but glorified slums while the villages are still in stone age.

You are the one projecting the situation you are in on me lol

It is actually poverty stricken people like you that usually first call others poor.

You are really very delusional lol, if it is that easy to invest in your region and make profits why the hell are your people trooping out of it to other places to invest like it is a war zone ?

This idiot really painted sadeast like everyone is rich there and there are no poor people, it is poor people like you that is stealing the new niger bridge railing and wanted to make FG to shut it down.

Sure you have few areas here and there where drug dealers built alot of empty mansions and that's it, i have been to the East and poverty is a very common knowledge there that's why most of you can't survive there.

Obi2saveNigeria:
No, land in the sadwaste is worthless and doesn't appreciate. So, it doesn't make sense for one to invest his money in it. If it's not Lagos and parts of Ogun that is close to Lagos, then forget it!

Someone that buys a land for 10 million in the East and in two years, it appreciate to 12 million has made profit of 2 million. Another person that buys land in sadwaste at 500 thousand and in two years its value becomes 530k makes no economic sense!

That's why derelict houses and rusted roofs are still everywhere in the sadwaste like shrines. You can't buy land 10 million and allow a slum on it.

Gully erosion and red Sand will probably swallow that land after 2 years in the East.

The last time i visited the East, i can still see houses with rafia roofs and apart from the capital the rest are backward villages with no roads and good infrastructures.

The south west is still the most developed economically in Nigeria and SadEast the most economically backward, no land there is going to increase 2 million in 2 years, place where people run away from like a barren and war torn region.

Obi2saveNigeria:
Land is dirt cheap in the sadwaste. With 500k you can buy land in any of their rusted roof slum cities. But how many of them can afford 10 million to buy just one plot in the Eastern cities?

Their problem is largely poverty mixed with ignorance.

And why should any one spend 10 million on a barren land in the East when you can get a much cheaper and bigger one in the west as a Yoruba man ? does it make sense to you ?

SoSuave News


Don Juan,

Here is some great advice from the SoSuave forum on when you should and should not give women gifts:

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Giving gifts early in the relationship sabotages what you're trying to accomplish.

Gifts send a couple of messages.

(1) You agree that she is a prize and that YOU are trying to woo HER.

(2) You are trying to compensate for some lacking on your part with gifts.

(3) You are attempting to buy her affection.

As a side note, you should be aware that if you buy flowers, gifts, et cetera early in the relationship, then you damn well better make sure that you buy her flowers and gifts for every other trivial event or holiday that comes up.

She will begin to expect things on Valentine's Day, Sweetest Day, birthdays, Christmas, May Day, Saint Patrick's Day, Veterans Day, Arbor Day, Boxing Day, April Fool's Day, Your Three and a Half Month Anniversary, Her Dog's Birthday, and so on.

And each time you'd damn well better make sure that your flowers or gifts are BETTER than the ones you gave before, or she'll think you're getting cheap.

Let's just not fall into that trap at all.

It's appropriate to give gifts on the following occasions, PROVIDED THAT YOU'RE IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP AND HAVE BEEN FOR A WHILE.

(1) Birthday

(2) Christmas

(3) One Year "Anniversary" (do NOT celebrate monthly anniversaries)

(4) Valentine's Day

(5) Special event such as graduation

You may also give flowers when they are not expected just to surprise her and make her think you're wonderful. DO NOT over do this. Maybe once every three months or so.

DO NOT send her flowers when you have f**ked up. I know this sounds crazy, but sometimes a girl will purposely start an argument just to get flowers from you when you apologize (even though it's her fault). I've seen it done. Not pretty.

In addition, giving flowers when you've messed up just confirms in her mind that you were a jerk. When she receives the flowers, she will not think "sweet guy" she will think "a**hole".

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I'd like to thank Giovanni Casanova for this great advice.

Some great tips on when you should and shouldn't give gifts to women.

Remember, excessive gift giving frames you as the pursuer and her as the prize to be won over. When what you really want to communicate is just the opposite.

Good luck!

Allen

Sosuave.com

nudemetube:
They are good for wife they won't cheat on you

Most of the cases of low sex drive in women is because the woman have no reasons or urge to satisfy the man or the woman is actually not that sexually arouse or attracted to the man.

This actually happen when a woman know without a doubt that you are in love with her and you don't have any other women around and you are very loyal. The battle would have been completely won to her and she won't have the urge to go that mile to satisfy you sexually but when they know there is still a competition and some women may still be around you and they are not sure of your feelings for them they will try everything to win you over, that's women for you.

It is even worse when a woman is a wife to a loyal husband and she know it, she may grant the husband sex out of obligation but won't go all the way to satisfy the husband.

For sexual satisfaction women need competition anxiety and a man that can make them feel sexually arouse, the two conditions must be met to continue getting sexual satisfaction from a woman.

InyinyaAgbaOku:
Oga, even a smaller Lagos has a larger developed area than the bigger Ibadan.

Oga, stop the delusion , Nnewi , Onitsha, Obosi, Oba, Awka have far better looking houses than this dungeon called Ibadan.
Oyo is also bigger than Israel , does your size nonsense still work ?

Just agree that the west has stunted and regressed development. Your towns look like they are stuck in stone age .
The Easterners renovate their abodes regularly, copy that. The 50s are too recent for this decay your towns keep showing

You must really be blind

Ibadan is more developed than any where in the East

You are actually the one with a big problem going to a forum full of racists and nut jobs and only a fellow nutjob like you wil take them seriously.

Those people wouldn't even support anything good from the US government they are mostly trump supporters, racists, gun activists and maga nutjob

Workch:
Looks better 40 years ago. It means that place is not progressing.

You can see it from the decay in infrastructure and serenity

The second pictures have more buildings and the roads are still good but not many people can use their eyes very well.

Igbo only see coloured roof and the paint of a house as a sign of development.

Ibadan is still more developed than any of your hole in the East, the registered businesses in Ibadan alone is more than 3 south east states.

WildChild00:
The ancient city of Ibadan

Yoruba people are now putting the old parts of Ibadan to good use.

Check all the recent Yoruba movies on Netflix most of them were shots at these ancient part of Ibadan to showcase Yoruba culture and history and it is paying off.

Nice2023:
U just copy one place and paste...show us the real Ibadan.

Abi u want me to show u.

This is also Ibadan


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32VZT99kUQE


Ibadan is as big as Anambra state, Apart from Onitsha and some few places in Anambra how many places have any sign of development in Anambra ?

Ibadan as a city is bigger than Lagos state not every part of Lagos is developed, so it is also understandable that Ibadan have some local areas, you guys would even bash Lagos state your bitterness for Ibadan is expected.

IconicR:
Between getting rid of men all the time and taking your time to get the right one for a lasting purpose, which one is more sensible for a lady. If we are to go by your rules/belief/assertion then you won't know when you start accumulating body counts as a woman because of your quick acceptance of a man into your life.

Life is a game of luck.

Even if a man chase you hard to get you it still doesn't mean he will be the right man for you, he may just waste your time and disappoint you at last at the same time a man you just sleep with on the first date can really be your man for life.

You just have to keep your eyes open for some good characters, values and principles in men. Don't just go out with any type of men.

Date only men that value loyalty, respect etc and men that are kind to people around them. It will be very hard for those kind of men to just use and dump you if you don't disappoint yourself.

IconicR:
Well, this is coming from a man so I don't expect less. You guys don't value what you get easily.

Only a worthless man wouldn't value a woman that treat him with respect.

Any man that don't value a woman because he win her over easily is not worth being with in the first place, he is just an immature playboy and that woman should be glad she get rid of such a useless man.

At the same time chasing a woman so much can also have the same effect on some men, they will resent that woman for giving them so much troubles and lose interest after she agreed especially if her characters is also not much to write about.

Fifthaout:
You better start going close to live fire to know how it will feel like when you eventually get to your final abode

Typical brainwashed sheep

i wonder how many of you would even be christians if your fake god didn't threaten to burn you for eternity if you disobey him?

It is just like me coming to your house and threatening to punish you forever if you don't do what i want, it is good when your fake god do it but i will be a criminal and a Devil if i do it to you.

Your god is a Devil and he doesn't exist, It is just human invention to control brain dead sheeps like you.

IconicR:
Yes, some ladies do want their intended man to chase them with all their mights, it tells you how the person really want you in his life. Hope you want her for something meaningful else please stay away from her life.

Because of how special they are ? like she is doing the man a favour by being with him right ?

A woman that want you to keep chasing and keep toying with you just to feel special is not worth chasing, that's a very big sign of an entitle woman that will think you should use all your life to serve her to show you love her without giving you much in return.

Op should run away from women that think like this guy, there are woman that will fall in love with you moment they see you why the hell should you waste your time chasing a woman that may not really like you in the first place ? The ball is in your court.

Mhizzard:
Sometime in march of this year i asked girl out but she rejected me,i really disturbed her though...presently the feelings is still there maybe cus am seeing her every time,my question is that can i still shoot my shot again..

You are heading to a pit fall if you keep chasing her.

There are hundreds or even thousands of women that will show high interest in you if you will just approach them.

Move on, it is not worth it.

Myer:
Tell me, when last did you experience Peace and Joy?

I have always been happy and I don't believe in your fake god.

Typical brainwashed sheep, even this dead pastor did not have peace and joy despite all his beliefs in your fake god, your god couldn't saved his two wives and sister from dying or even saved him from dying untimely too.

Go and ask the richest billionionaire in the world that don't believe in any god if they are not having peace and joy.

Triplerg:
If you are an apostate, leave those of us who believe in God/ religion alone. Nobody cares about your agnostic views. Do your thing make I do my thing.

Tell your fellow brainwashed sheeps to stop quoting me

donmik:
I rebuke you in the name of Jesus.
I collapse your deceitful structure in the name of Jesus

Keep deceiving yourself lol

Your god did rather watch me masturbate than to listen to whatever you say, brainwashed mofo

dalass:
Please Waka pass then


E no too hard

My reply bothers you because you know there's truth in it, you are the one that need to waka pass i was'nt replying to you.

ComeToJesus:
Na people like you dey shout "Oh God, help me" in your last days..

And how many people have your pathetic god helped when they cried for him in their last day ?

Many people died every day and suffered even after calling to your fake god for help but he did rather watch people masturbate than to prove he exist or help them.

Myer:
You raised very good questions.
I pray God reveals the answers to you the easy way and not the hard way.

Typical brainwashed sheep

The hard way like this dead pastor that his sister died an untimely death, lost one of his wives to plane crashed and another one to cancer while he died untimely in a US Hospital himsel.

yeah he learned the Hard way that there is nothing like God.

Yankee101:
Repent
God still loves you
As broken and hurt as you are

Your God can keep his pathetic love to himself or save it for pathetic people like this dead pastor that believed in him, too bad he did rather watch people masturbate or monitor who sin against him than to help him when he was still alive.

What's the difference between your God that threaten to burn people for eternity for not doing his biddings and wicked criminals, thieves or kidnappers that threaten to kill you if you don't do their biddings too ?

You worship and call one a God for threatening to burn you for eternity if you don't worship him but i'm sure you would curse any criminals that threaten to hurt you if you don't do their biddings too.

See how brainwashed you are, your God is a Devil

Kingosytex:
At the bolded, does it mean that you who doesn't believe in God will not die?
Una dey amaze me with una reasoning I swear.

I will die one day but with my brain still in intact and not lost to an imaginary sky daddy that doesn't exist and religion created by men.

What is the essence of all those fervent prayers to stop misfortunes and destroy his spiritual enemies, when he lost two of his wives to an untimely death and died an untimely death himself.

If really there is a God that would let those things happened to someone that worship him like that then he is not a good God, he is worse than the Devil. I will never bow to such a pathetic God.

Too bad you guys have been brainwashed.

Abifarin16:
The way a man meats his maker is irrelevant, the destination is of more importance than the means. John the Baptist was beheaded, does it mean God didn't love him to allow his beheading? we will go one day somehow.

I hope you get cure one day

I don't believe in your pathetic book call Bible full of rapists and murderers.

ppogba:
Funny enough, people like you have parents making supplications to God in one form or another on your behalf.

How does that concern me lol ?

I can't stop brainwashed people from paying to their pathetic God on my behalf.

You think people that misfortune befall every day don't pray or have someone praying for them ?

This dead pastor lost his wife to a plane crashed and lost another wife to cancer later then later died himself at the age of 67 to probably a sickness, all his prayers to prevent misfortunes are all for naught or his God must be probably wicked, deaf or dead or doesn't exist at all.

Too Bad his God couldn't save him.

I'm sure he died in a US Hospital instead of Jesus to heal him from whatever illnesses he was suffering from. He did rather watch people masturbate.

Religion is only mean to brainwash and control people, many christians don't want to be christians out of their own free will they are just afraid of hell fire.

A God that threaten to burn you for eternity if you don't do his bidding is that a God or a Devil?

MessiahOfAfrica:
The Truth is that Nairaland can actually pay content creators using The "Subscription Model" like the way Quora Operates.


Seun could help integrate Content Lockers To Threads so that Content Creators can Lock PAGE 2 of Their Threads whilst having PAGE 1 Provide Great Value to The Audience.


Different Subscription Plan can be awarded to these Content Lockers which Creators can chose from.


Then, Nairaland can get 30% Content Revenue from Every Content Lockers - Unlocked !


Seun could do this if he actually feels the need to Empower People with Great Contents.

This will really Help for Good.

Quora system can never work in Nigeria
Nigeria is a very poor country.

Nairaland is also limited to Nigeria unlike Quora that's international with many members in European countries and US that don't mind paying some small money as subscriptions.

tommy589:
Forget this thing.

We lived through Abacha and survived the sanctions. Our reserves was $3 billion dollars when interim government was pushed aside. With sanctions, he raised it to $10 billion and dollar was stable through his 5 years.

The Western sanctions pushed him to alternatives. This led him to discovered China as an industrialised nation and became the first African leader to give China their first major project, the modern railway construction in Nigeria .

Democracy is good when not expensive to maintain. But this presidential system will kill Nigeria.Do you think it is because they love Nigerians that they go into politics? Someone that has no record of been charitable in his life will now spend billions to become governor or senator, and you expect him not to recoup his investment

The west did not really sanctions Nigeria then, they were even the one that helped abacha to stashed away most of the money that he looted in their country because they were confident they could killed him at any time and they did, the west will take an harder stance now because no Military leader will be stupid to still be in touch with the west when he know they can assasinate him at any time.

China is still not much of a threat to US back then and the situation between Russia and European countries is very hostile because of Ukraine issue, the west will not take lightly the biggest black nation tilting toward China and Russia.

Nigeria reserves today is 35 billion dollars and it still not doing much to stabilize the naira. The reason why just over 10 billion dollar can stabilize the naira during Abacha era was because there is also very little need for imported goods the technologies and industrial revolution was just starting, no mobile phones, internet and all these obsessions with foreign goods and technologies and industrial development was still minimal. If you can own a car then you are among the richest in Nigeria unlike now when there is so much needs for foreign products and technologies, Nigeria population was also lower.

Nigeria can never survive under the Military in this era unless the west decided to look away, which they wouldn't they would rather prefer Nigeria to break to several pieces and smaller nations than to leave it like that and let it be an ally to China and Russia.

Kenneth4u205:
The just want to deceive us so that we will start oshala from first half .so that we will lose . Oshola should start from the bench if we really want to win

Keep deceiving yourself.

You would be the first to start blaming the coach if he didn't start Oshoala.

Asisat can still put pressure on their defense only a stupid team wouldn't extra mark Oshoala and let her roam free, the question should be do Nigeria have a better striker than her? or is she injured ?

Football is not that easy to predict, Nigeria still don't have a better striker than Oshoala, not using her will give England more confidence and take pressure away from their defense.

I see so many Nigerians with low IQ wishing for the military to take power in Nigeria but Nigeria may not survive under the Military, apart of the restrictive freedom and dictatorship the hard stance the west may take against Nigeria can destroy and cripple Nigeria.

USA and UK and other western countries can not afford Nigeria to be under the Military rule as the biggest black nation on earth and because of the influence of Nigeria in Africa and the current situation of world politics, can Nigeria really survive the economic sanctions? we are not as strong as Russia and our biggest markets for our crude oil and other products we export are also in Europe.

The current economy situation Nigeria is facing would be child play compare to what Nigeria would face if the west decided to hit us with their sanctions hammer. Naira may as well trade as high as 3000 naira per dollar and all these japa crew will no longer be able to leave Nigeria easily unless you want to go through the sea, the west will withdraw their embassies and even the Military can easily issue an order against migrating out to other countries especially if you are highly educated and skilled professional.

You see Nigeria's government trying to stop doctors and other health workers from leaving Nigeria recently but they couldn't but if Nigeria was really under the military rule it would only take a single order, not to mention Nigeria would be blacklisted by the west for investments and many Nigeria's government assets in UK and US and Europe would be confiscated, they would also withdraw their companies and investments from Nigeria, i forsee the Naira trading as high as 5000 naira against the dollar by then.

Nigeria may barely survive with the help of China and Russia but I'm 100% sure the economic situation of Nigeria would be much worse than now. This is no longer the abacha era where Nigeria population was lower, with little technology and industrial advancement and without much agitation and insecurity, military government in Nigeria may as well be the last stroke that will finally destroy Nigeria.

One thing that many people don't also know is that it will be much easier for South East to secede from Nigeria under military rule, when all their politicians looting their money are out of the picture, they will be more united in their fight for Biafra.

The last thing holding this country together is democracy, i'm 100% sure Nigeria can't survive under Military rule.

ganisucks:
This is what Aisha Yesufu said to an opponent who told her to never ever think of trying to be a minister


https://twitter.com/AishaYesufu/status/1687924249799827457

How are you always this delusional baffles me

What happened to all your predictions and permutations before and after the Election ? "Inec would never announce Tinubu", "The North would betray Tinubu", "Buhari don't like Tinubu", "Buhari sent Army to Lagos to cage Tinubu and his boys". It all failed at the end but you are still on the same shits lol Keep being delusional.