₦airaland Forum

Majesty33:
well, the damage has been done..

You can easily say that. As a man and especially a man in Africa, the physical consequences are not visibly on you.

Majesty33:
I had good intentions and to be candid, a 23 years old lady is old enough to get married.

You would have done your investigations without sleeping with her.

patomberekpe:
Please if you people does not have something to preach please leave the pulpits, there are those men who took their sisters virginity or close relatives, and some men have dis virgin more than 10 women, should they marry them all, Please all these nonsenses coming from the pulpits is killing the Church, You people should preach more of repentance and Love Peace and coming to God,

Hmmm, as they dis virgined so many women and they can’t marry them, the consequences will fall on them, simple. Every adult will see consequences for actions.

Majesty33:
How about a clueless virgin with no hope, future ambition, senseless and only love to eat sumptuous meal, dress well and wait for another time u have cash so that she could eat and drink as she want. Now tell me , will u settle for such person because u disvirgined her?

Why did you sleep with a person you consider senseless in the first place. You know you cannot settle for her, yet you settled for her brand new vagina.

Don’t help her, don’t help her….

So just because of your own insecurity or because it won’t favor you, you will dim someone’s potential or light for life. Eh, you’re also wicked too then. Your women shouldn’t make it, just so you can be boss for life. A marriage sustained by failure in the life of one person is just a master and slave deal.

Then you guys think God is from your village, HE is not. A woman you don’t help can still make it on her own, ungrateful or not. If it is her destiny, even with intimidation not to go to to school or others by you, she will still make it.

If you are rattled by your woman’s success, you’re insecure. The best thing is to do what you can afford to lose out on, not deliberately being the devil that won’t let her succeed in life, blocking her path so you can be oga forever.

This kind of trap a man or woman can only enter when they still believe in romance fantasies and in sexual passions that can’t be reasoned past.

If you go through humiliation like this man, regardless of gender, make we even add say you’re the one denied by your so called lover in the heat of the embarrassing moment, so called unstoppable love and lust will remain a fool’s pleasure in your life, for the rest of your life. You’ll never believe in all those useless passions for life again.

That’s the case with this man, if this isn’t just a skit.

Those to whom beauty is everything are commenting. Kudos to you guys, my life has been negatively affected by many with your same narrow and negative thinking that the only one who’s a human being is a beautiful one. I’m glad the footballer can still see clearly and see a human being as a human being.

I would like to know what happened to the elderly man and the girl please. There’s no update here.

Hope say after this confession you’d go and marry her.

Omoawoke:
I stand with might and authority and deflect your curses back to you….
I didn’t curse you, I didn’t do you anything but you shot the first shot, the only thing that will happen to you is that you tread beyond a universe that’s beyond your comprehension for attempting to throw curses at me… and with your own hands, you have cursed yourself… and all you said are meaningless to me, Zero effect ..

But you that being behind that moniker, the energy that spit this, I refer to you!

You that spewed so much insensitivity against pregnant women, I sent your energy back to you. You cannot send an energy that you yourself spewed back to me.

You wished for a cord on the neck if craving pregnant women, I send it back to you and I am doing good on the behalf of all the women you are insensitive to.

It is your energy and you got it back, it can’t do nothing to me.

So you can say insensitive things but you spit like a cobra when it is reflected back to you.

No, it is you that will receive the wrath of the negative energy you wrought!!!

Me too I stand with authority for other pregnant women whom you mock here. Nonsense

I stand for other pregnant women, suffering in silence because of your type. I stand and with the pain of the neglect inflicted by selfish wicked men like you, I wish you the cord you wished them.

Men promote that badly, the women that enjoy the most are the seductive and half naked ones. They see money and favor that the decent girl will hardly ever see, that’s not all, men give them love and romance too while the decent woman gets peanuts and marriage contracts.

In fact a decent woman will have serious stories of mockery, and degradation during relationships while young, far more than a beautiful seductive young woman would.

Men that will instinctively know that to date the seductive and revealing lady they must take her out expensively and splurge money on her and take her on vacations.

Decent girl will sit there, because she won’t talk man wouldn’t do anything for her and sleep with her mercilessly in the name of love on top that one.

I don’t blame those so called indecent ladies at all, they are gaining the most, they are enjoying the most. All a good woman gets is name and status.

Omoawoke:
Them never wipe am cord for neck

I pray with all my heart that this is the brutality you will receive when you want something truly and badly which other people can’t understand.

Let your own neck be wiped with a cord, let you be silenced with violence and brutality, let empathy not be envisaged for you at all.

Nobody and nothing can come between fair skinned beautiful ladies and Nigerian men. Nigerian men are crazy over them.

Him and his ex are mad.

I hate these kinds of things.

So you didn’t move on but went ahead with another lady knowing fully well that this one still has your heart to the point of making you shed tears. What’s the point of making a number two that knows she’ll always be number two your life partner.

As for the ex, it’s normal petty women's attitude. She no get life ambition wey better pass to show another woman that she is better. So many women out there, this is the achievement they are looking for. Just to stand on someone else’s head.

Nonsense.

Can a man stand this if the roles are reversed?

That bride should leave the exes to reconcile. Since they can’t get over each other and respect the new people in their lives.

Yeye strong bond that is not strong enough to make them marry, but strong enough to keep them running like headless chickens to disrupt each other’s lives and intimate unions.

Do you know that even a prostitut.es claim of harassment can be true despite her bad reputation?

Bringing out supposed flaws or real flaws doesn’t necessarily have to mean that the said woman is making false claims.

DemonSlayer:
Always insightful to read your personal stories. Sorry for the awful experience in that neighbourhood.

How has this situation affected your relationship with your husband? I'm curious.

Thanks, your concern is appreciated.

As long as I keep ignoring troublemakers and gossips in the area, we are good.

If I were Natasha I would seek out ways of gathering evidence which are legal and then I would plan with my lawyer and security operatives if possible.

On a planned day,I won’t talk too much. I will just release a lot of hard evidence with a very brief speech explaining my accusations and why I released them. After that speech plus hard evidence, I don’t need to say anything again, the public and the man will be the ones fighting and shouting over the hard and overwhelming evidence.

From there, all I will do is behind social media. People will only hear of results, that is, if I won or I lost. With either outcome, that hard evidence will remain and be a stain that will be hard to forget or remove from the man. Even when I am quiet the evidence will be screaming.

It is sweet to work and be paid.

If you’re not abused and paid well? You’ll be on cloud nine, self esteem automatically in a good place.

Crafteck1:
I thought we were equal

Yes we are, even though we obviously have different capabilities and physical anatomy. Funny that you only remember equality in such cases though. That is manipulative.

That there are sometimes issues which require the man to put in more effort does not give men the right to make the woman less. There are things the woman also does which the man cannot do, yet I wouldn’t tell a woman to see a man as less.

Crafteck1:
What should the woman have apart from the pregnancy biko

She said women should have at least 1 milllion in their accounts too… many men on front page didn’t read the full post, and the title too didn’t help by expressing her content in a provocative manner. The topic title should have indicated that she talked to both women and men.

But once money is mentioned, many men are angry, see how you guys refused to read, therefore asking about the woman’s end, which you would have seen her mention if you’d just read properly.

Ablesam171:
You can imagine the kinda home this one is coming from. Those men that had sex with her should be arrested if possible because it's a rape.
Men need to start demanding for virgins for marriage because women haven't reduce their standards when it comes to marriage which is "a man has to be the provider" so why are men reducing theirs? A woman has the key to sex because unless a woman says sex can happen, it seizures to happen in the absence of this then it's a rape in other words a woman has the power to make sexual intercourse to happen so they need to be taking responsibilities for their actions. Now we all know that most sex happens because women consented to it. Almost every woman is born with value but most men are born without value so as a man, you've to create value for yourself before a woman can accept you. How can you as a man be hustling and working extra hard for a better life while a girl would be whoring during this same period but when it comes to marriage they'll say my past doesn't matter. If I haven't created a value for myself would you make that statement?
Men need to stop paying bride prices of non virgins. I know a lady that has done 4 abortions for 4 different guys and even cohabitated with on only for one mumu from Europe to come back to Nigeria, kneel down to propose to her. When her elders brought marriage list she said "so na dis change dis village people put for my head" mind you the list is more than 1 million naira as at 2022 and this is a girl wey boys don use raba raba for Benin city and Abraka and this is a jobless girl that can't boast of 500k in her account.
Men need to stop paying bride price for non virgins. Yes being a virgin doesn't guarantee that a woman won't cheat but compare the possibility of cheating between a virgin and non virgin in a marriage. There's nothing like virgin man and the concept of a woman being a virgin before marriage is because a woman doesn't know what is big or small dick unless she has tasted multiple dicks.
You can't be whoring around when a man is busy hustling and working extra hard only for you to say my present is what matters.
A woman's past is what matters and a man's future is what matters.
Na mumu man dey say, her past means nothing.

As long as men deceive the owner of the key to sex they should stop wailing. Women are the gatekeepers to sex, na hin una go do all sorts including deceiving, hypnotizing, scaring and pressurizing the owner of the key into giving the key, or opening the gate.

Una go dey use strategy for back and come crying in front.

Afrowits:
Just look at what the world 🌎 as turn to, At 15, she has already slept with almost 60 men, just imagine how many men she would have slept with by age 30s. After they will be saying their past does not matter. Nonsense 🤬🤣

What has the world turned to or what have men turned the world to?

agadez007:
then be ready to say Bye bye to your account because immediately you type in your Passphrase,it’s gone

I don’t know about that, glad to have a relative that guides me through every step and also sells it.

Tell them to do the last approval for my Pi so I can spend it 😤

Still in queue

CoronaVirusPro:
Why it’s always good to never settle down with the lady you hustled with.

You only marrying her out of pity!

Cos when you got money, you will see better choices.

Just pay them off and move on with life.

Sad that this is the reality. Girls need to run away from being the intimacy gadget of a struggling man, the societal shield against shame for a struggling man. Cuz at the end of the day … you’re just what he could afford at the time, not what he wanted.

All the time wasted … perhaps that nigga should’ve just been allowed to self-service until he gets enough money to go after his true desire, the girl he’s always wanted.

This picture is better, the make up is much better, it looks really good and beautiful.

I only accept beans and spaghetti.

redcliff:
Na only hang out and joint everybody dey open, i have not seen people opening prpduction factories, everybody is opening club, restaurant, joint hang out, go to ikoyi, vi and lekki na wetin full there

There are definitely countless people who have tried, especially from the upper class, but they are often frustrated by other Nigerians who do not have good intentions. There are people who want only import and export to thrive, people who thrive based on eating these new factories and companies until they crumble, even people who have no reason except that if they have not started it, you can’t- they want the monopoly and power even if they aren’t ready to do anything yet. So the factory aspect of Nigeria waits until they and their families decide to lock in on it and monopolize the gains. If they allow you, you must be under them, so that they also control who thrives and who doesn’t.

Some existing big factories in Nigeria…. Omo, even for Dangote to stand…not a small battle. Most can’t survive the attacks.

Silentgroper:
You ain't got sweet tooth??


Are you sure you won't kill to have some of those on the listed menu...

If I have the money, why not?

Big boys and girls will buy. Family people on family outings will too. For these people and certain occasions, it’ll work. Especially for the set in Nigeria to whom paying 30k for one outing means nothing, and there are people like that, trust me.

Looking sweet and scrumptious.

OneOnland:
RIP to the trusting lady. May her soul be at solace.



Imagine if this lady had fought with the man, bit his arm while he was maybe trying to drag her to hurt, to harm, Nigerians, most of them on Nairaland would have said "she's rude, assaulting a highly respected religious cleric, typical genZ", and the league of Alfa's may have given the Alfa an award for his calm.
The case of the unizik lady whose hands were held tightly by an overpowering man and had threatened her with his position is that example.

Anyone, defend yourself at all times. That a person smiles, or is an elder, or a young innocent woman, or a small boy, or anyone, keep your wake always, and remember, satan was said to be 'beautiful-looking'.

R.I.P to her. Though the unizik lady had attitude problems, I feel that the lecturer could have caused her to react that way by touching her and grabbing at her phone, and that part wasn’t highlighted deliberately. People just pulled her down claiming it’s because her mom is a lecturer. Should a lecturer’s daughter now be a dunce?