₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Tuface and Annie have been together for years. They have 2 grown kids who are on social media. I can understand him confirming their separation, but for the sale of those kids, they should handle this phase with tact.

Even Ned is currently trying to create some balance between Regina and the Moroccan wife. It is not everything 2nd wife tells you to do, that you will do. Learn from Yul. Make people no see you finish.

I don't know what is it about the other woman that makes men lose their senses and start acting like kids. Paul Okoye is now doing content with his iyawo tuntun. First wife go dey handle the man like idol. Second wife go come from nowhere and show him GenZ/Millenial style. Nawa o.

It’s like being first wife is now a curse. As if no be good thing to be a man’s first wife. Just enter to suffer. And second wife enter to enjoy and flex on top the man’s head.

Mens life is, apart from other things, a life of adventure. Tasting different flavors of romance and sex in the name of being a man.

Codes151:
Don’t go and take your responsibility.

They find who wants read this novel, back you to be irresponsible

😂👍🏿

I crave tissue and baby powder. Good luck to you 😄

Food for thought.

Guest1989:
Dear Mommy and Daddies, please i have been soliciting for assistance from kind hearted Nigerians. please I am not a scammer, I can prove everything I say here beyond all doubt! i won't be doing this if only there's a glimmer of hope. please forgive me, but it seems that I have no choice. I'm typing this with tears in my eyes and with a very heavy heart. I'm doing this for my little girl who is asthmatic, I have exhausted my savings to buy her Seretide inhaler but at this point it has become too expensive to afford.

I work two jobs to provide for my family but it never seem to be enough and as it stands I have exhausted all channels with which I can borrow money to buy it. It is sold for 18,500 but anything we can lay our hands on is perfectly okay please. Even 1k will go a long way to keep my baby girl alive please. Please my family, am on my knees, I am pleading for assistance to save my daughters life. I beg you in God's name please.. Any well meaning Nigerian whom God has touched their heart to help us, please help us. May the Almighty GOD bless all you lay your fingers on, amen.
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O.A
First City Monument Bank (FCMB)
May God bless you immensely ❤ 🙏

Ps: this is the last one I bought, it will finish latest tomorrow. I thank GOD Almighty in heaven for sustaining my baby girl to this point. But please with your help she can have a bright future and a chance to live like her peers.

PLEASE HELP US SURVIVE THIS AFFLICTION 🙏🏽🙏🏽😢

I’ve been seeing this post since last year.

BluntCrazeMan:
Guys usually buy Postinor-2 and force the babe to take the two pills at once in their presence,, so as to avoid unwanted stories...
This definitely will cause the lady to shed some blood..

But with the blood, both of them are sure that nothing will enter.

I don’t know about blood.

I think that taking the pills and ensuring the use of condoms is what any serious guy would do. I heard of serious guys and celebrities doing this.

I don’t know how a guy sleeps with a girl and pours as he likes or even pours outside but watches this girl walk away. As in, you are serious about your future.

And you did not make sure she took the pills in front of you.

And you did not make sure she was given money for pills, or make sure she had the pills.

Living a life of adventure in a world of consequences.

Later she got pregnant and you are pouring the blame on her for the destruction of your life.

Omo…


Your own life that no one will care about more than you. You watched a girl walk out after sex, without making sure that every measure has been taken to avoid pregnancy. You probably had sex when you have no money to buy postinor.

Just watching the two of them. Time and suffering will teach patience and carefulness. I can bet.

Jacktheripper:
My mind no fit lie give me.

I think the other girl is lying and it’s obvious. Even if that’s a maybe. It’s possible that she’s jealous of your gf and lying viciously.

You are cheating so you think everyone is cheating.

Kobojunkie:
So, the woman has no right to threaten to leave if she is violated by her husband in the marriage? Una tio dey like to talk like say una no understand the main reasons why fit result of those threats. OP conveniently avoided mentioning them and you all took it upon yourselves to conclude that that the woman must be the problem. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

I judged hastily. My comment was based on the kind of character that threatens to leave even without provocation or over little things. When I looked further into this particular matter, I realized that might not be the case here.

How are you sure the other girl wasn’t just lying to you about your girlfriend?

Many Nigerians believe that dark skinned people are ugly, poor and dirty. According to them, you are beautiful and deserve wonderful things when you are fair and spotless.

They say people shouldn’t bleach but who doesn’t want the royal treatment often given to fair people and most especially fair women.

The thing I have always hated is that threat to leave whenever anything shele. Any problem, it leads to a talk about leaving. For the person that dares not to mention such because they know if they do, they will be booted from the marriage, it feels like the other partner is really emotionally detached and taking everything for granted. After all, if you value this the same way I do, why will you talk like that? Why is it so easy for you to be threatening that it’s over whenever anything happens?

Toh.

See Bianca’s modest dressing, see what she is going out to do.

Let me be convinced that beauty is not all about baring the body. Beauty’s influence is extended with brains and meaningful use of one’s opportunities.

Because na the ones wey I no know how them dey do their paroles to make money and all, the ones wey Dey open body open hair up and down that I love die and always love to follow. Let me look at this example today and stop feeling low self esteem that I am not living like that. Bianca is a good example.

Walai:
Can someone do us a favour and remove any life support he is surviving on.
Nature is trying to weed out another weak simp and we are interrupting the process. Let's stop interfering with nature.

Why are you being insensitive to your fellow man? What do we gain from being numb emotionally? It’s very painful.

This man has been through a lot emotionally. Haven’t you been through a lot emotionally before? Maybe you can take it, he can’t. Try to be compassionate towards someone weaker than you. I don’t know why we Nigerians love to be insensitive to the weaker ones amongst us.

smartlad:
an excaped prisoner running for his life wouldn't waste time for any rape

I wasn’t there, but you underestimate sex starved prisoners, who are not even safe sexually amongst themselves. People who are said to go after their fellow males ass, why do you think women will be exempted? They haven’t seen a woman in months or years, and they are morally corrupt, it could be possible that they did rape them.

Like this, na to buy my own chicken.

Gerrard59:
When they promoted OS, I wondered why they believed they wouldn't marry OS.

Damn! It is tiring to hold conversations with dishonest people. Men literally support the sex industry, so lamenting that women are sexually loose is a stoopid ideology to hold.

Very stewpid ideology. Just forget.

Sexually aggressive, aggressive about having sex, and aggressive about having it with whoever catches their fancy. Treat women who clearly aren't in for sex at their more desirable ages like trash. In fact any lady that doesn't sexually appeal to them cannot be treated respectfully in a dignified manner by them. If someone wants to be decent they go and destroy them just to prove say nobody na saint.

Some ladies get killed for saying no. Some are killed right in their own houses. But someone's coming here, complaining about os like they don't know the organized sexual crimes they run.

Gerrard59:
One thing you should realise is that is the average Nigerian is very dishonest and highly hypocritical. I don explain tire, but dem no wan understand. It is that cognitive dissonance that bothers me. A simple analogy is ExxonMobil criticising the very existence of Schlumberger. Exxon can criticise the quality of service but never the existence of that service because it (Exxon) depends on it and patronises it. Imagine me criticising a chef for cooking a soup l like meanwhile, I buy that soup every day!

Our people are just so dishonest and hypocritical for people who claim to be religious.

Don't mind them jare. Push something with their full chest then come back and be complaining.

Hellisreal70:
In the first place, why will a so called decent/innocent girl that respect her self mingle with a bad guy, continue with the bad guy until he 'break' her?

That is a wrong decision that the girl took and she’s responsible to an extent for getting broken.

However many men see being the so called bad guys as an adventurous lifestyle and deliberately indulge in it. That makes it stupid to complain when the results come out. They don't want celibacy in relationships, even when the girl is not asking them for anything. But they start calling women names later in life that the women are all promiscuous.

Does it make sense to fully support a lifestyle and then criticize it deeply? Seems hypocritical and odd to me.

I can only listen to a guy who also keeps himself and doesn’t indulge in fornication, condemning it to the knowledge of all, outside and behind closed doors. If only such guys come out to complain, I will be silent, have nothing to say.

But it’s the ones that are proudly fornicating that are carrying shoulders and complaining. Like man, you contributed to this! You and your type of guys!

Avoid men that think most women are prostitutes.

It shows the kind of circles they have been moving in. An ordinary man that doesn't go to odd places and pair up with promiscuous women will have more experiences with ordinary girls that also refused to take any risk by mingling with crazy or sex oriented guys.

These men that speak like this. Some of them are also those that won't let innocent girls remain innocent, when dating they won't let the woman respect herself, if she attempts to respect herself they keep trying until they break her, and continue repeating that with other girls. They stick to this and while still enjoying themselves they come out and lament that no woman is good. No, the problem is that they wouldn't even let any woman around them be good even if she is trying to be. Any woman that goes to them will go into deep sexual encounters or be reinitiated. They have a permanent negative mindset about women to the extent that they spoil even a good woman that goes towards them.

Awon sex freak in the shadows and negative minds that wouldn't accept a good thing if they see it would be here judging women. Projecting who THEY are on women.

Yes, do that thing you think you were created to do.

I don't know why men who have a problem with her opinion are attacking her looks. That’s cowardly. State your reason for disliking her opinion and stop aiming for her self esteem.

Besides, if she isn’t pretty (she is) it does not stop her from making demands or wanting the same things as those you deem pretty, make. She’s a human being with rights like every other person.

I’m a woman and I like to keep to the budget. I don’t like the market but my mom does. If a man is going to be angry about roaming around then it’s best he doesn’t accompany the woman. I don’t like roaming about the market, a mall could get me doing that though. I agree the budget thing is disgusting and inconvenient- but if the prices have gone up, budget has to be adjusted.

Babtunz:
Who started this stupid idea of push gifts sef

I hope you are not spoiling the idea because you can’t do this or because it pains you to lose your money.

Some people will insult this. Only to love it when they have the money to do the same.

Has he tasted poverty?

This room does not stop a man from wanting to keep and marry babe, and not just any babe, but the classy one he always dreamt of, not because he loves her, but to satisfy his ego that he can land a woman like that.

Love love love, in the name of love many men will bring many women into this situation and they start breeding and nothing would happen. Nobody will say anything. When ego is satisfied and frustration starts, it’s that same woman that was pulled inside through bullying that if she no agree to this, she is a gold digger, that’s the same woman that will bear the man’s frustration.

Many of the guys wey Dey happy that girls were used for rituals, wey Dey cry about girls only liking money and not accepting them, this is their situation.

It doesn't matter why they are fighting, there's no need for beating. There's no justification for the beating.

She's cute. Men will support all she does because they need her age and type for fun. The dark part is where she gets older and the same fun loving young girl worshipping guys will come out and condemn her because she's old and cannot be given access to that world anymore because of their secret age requirement.

Men control this world a lot behind the scenes as well as in front. Women don't know enough about this. The things we do are because they and women with internalized misogyny allow it. It's the older women that have seen the controllers ugly side that know the truth of this control.

If you know the truth you'll know that the only reason she can live this wayward life is because men allowed it. I don't know how women can escape this control.

Yet these are the girls you treat so well, take out and whose romantic desires you fulfill to the tee. All outings to big places, all your love, dignified treatment and care are for those who do all those things you claim to condemn.

Abeg shift with this lie.