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Meerahbel:
The following would have worked
Money mutual funds
Treasury bills
US stocks market

Please can you explain how these work?

You save and then the value of naira decreases... so that what you saved can buy even less by the time you want to use the money.

I think investments that grow money are better, though I don't know any investments that are cheap. And if a man is too poor to get these investments booked, what can one do but save? Saving is the solution when there's literally no money to do proper investments.

How can she be a graduate with a master's degree and a village girl at the same time?

She was arrested as a suspect. Meaning it hasn't been proven. I read the post carefully. There were suggestions of a break in, but no proof. She's still being investigated.

A lot of theories to this. Could be someone else of it could be her. She's just the prime suspect because ALLEGEDLY she was the only one at home. Let detectives do their job.

She isn't wise to go back to someone that mistreated her. Now she's looking attractive because she belongs to another, the ex is not footing her bills, how sweet it will be to just sleep with her and come and go. Mirage love. Untested love.

She should reason, when she had a life with this man, how did he act? She already read the book and knows the ending, but it seems she wants to experience it again. How can you leave the angel you know for the devil wey you know WELL WELL?

She's supposed to cut off from him the minute he starts trying to bring back memories, have long conversations, or any deep personal talk.

With a bunch of trolls now telling me to shut up, attacking me from nowhere too, and they don't even get banned sometimes...

The message for this forum is to expect insults as a common way of communicating here, and also take the forum less seriously because if it was serious, people wouldn't be able to just pop up with insults and not get severe bans.

Seems like here is now where some people wake up and enter to show the madness they definitely can't express in real life. Harassment paradise.

You think that your public apology will make you their darling. The amount of double insults coming from them will shock you. They will serve you ten times what you experienced before.

trium:
You remind me of something wild I read today. Okay, it's not so wild. It said that the concept of toys is not as long as human civilization. Kids never played with toys until modernity thought they brought up an invention.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VFmUZpirWjU

Hi, sorry to interject, but I don't believe that. I think far back, they made toys with clay or cloth or stone or hay, even then.

bukatyne:
As my maker, noted sir.

Haha, he doesn't know

bukatyne:
Women taught them so.

I remember a facilitator who said his wife will take almost any nonsense than infidelity.

And he did not intend to lose her/ break his family because she was a woman of value & substance and carried herself according.

While I am indecisive about anyone in the OP's shoes telling or not, what irks me is that they see nothing wrong in the father's alleged adultery.

There is no iota of kindness or thoughtfulness towards the wife. It is all about defending an African man's right to adultery.

They are very bold about it. They mostly don't believe in fairness. You said it all. Is it these people that I want to follow and argue? They think women are inferior beings to them. Despite women birthing them.

Many women have internalized misogyny. They might even be the bigger promoters of all these injustices. Sad.

bukatyne:
Hilarious thread

The cheating husband isn't the family destroyer; it is the son who wants to report him + the mother (if she decides to act on it) that are the family destroyers.

It tells you how they think and that they do not mean any good for women.

Honestly many of them think they are the only human beings.

nasbiafra:
and you actually think you make sensethe approach the man made was the very best approac,if he had use violence you would still complain

Yes, I think I make sense, and if you don't think so, that's your opinion.

He felt that's the best way, good for him. I feel it's not the best way, and that's my own idea. I didn't force anyone to follow it.

They are trying.

Very painful news. You can't blame mothers when they hold their kids to their sides. When you, uncle or aunty comes and they quickly tell the child to come to them and give you a suspicious look. They are just being careful in a world where anyone can be the big bad wolf.

I hope that the child is found.

nasbiafra:
which kind person una be selfuna dey reason wiyth una yarnsh,you dey use style they support the woman

I will never support cheating. I wanted to guide about how the man should have handled the matter or when, because men do that to women. You people can't swallow quarter of what you give to women.

TheWolfen:
How he reacts is absolutely up to him. Don't hurt people and expect them not to express their emotions or react in certain ways pleasing to you

I wish that applied to women.

luminouz:
Will you shût dafuq UP!!!

Purple menace

Luminouz. Luminouz.

Hope all is well.

Samantha125:
I don't want to be the reason for someone's broken relationship or marriage... I have my own marriage to worry about.

Do you see that even when you support these men they turn on you?

This nairaland, you'll think you're being good to them, honest, well behaved and understanding their view, they will still return to you with the same insults they are giving other female nairalanders.

That's how it often ends here.

See what men are saying about a cheating man, unlike what they want for a cheating woman in the other thread.

Somebody even said men's cheating does not destroy the family unlike women's 😂

Same people wey attack me die because I said the man in the other thread should handle the female cheat calmly.

HenryWilliams:
I knew sooner or later one weyrey will blame a man for the killing..
Very useless gender..never willing to admit one of them is a murderess.
Them must find one way to drag and blame men for their troubles

Anyone who thinks the man whose sperm joined with the woman's egg to make the kids isn't partly responsible for what happened to them is the werey.

He jumped and left the woman to do all the work simply because she's expected to as a mother and he shouldn't be dragged.

Hmmm.

Ahem.

Ipobfraud:
Keep it to your sons biko. Like play like play this things to happen to you.

No, you guys must taste what you dish out

I don't support cheating but if you see it, wear red boxers and be praying, shebi that is what you said women should do.

Why's everyone getting stressed up, didn't say the man shouldn't react, I personally don't like the way he did it. I have a right to my own opinion.

Dtruthspeaker:
E no equal. 90% of the time it is evil sisters who sets up the simp to fall but you never told him because, you yourselves also do the same to another girl's man.

Nobody dey set una up o. I was the unattractive one so I know first hand. I know how guys despise us and go for fair big breast and nyash as if they have thrown away their brain. Breast and nyash go finish una, but it is those good girls that will see shege.

Dragunz:
Sorry but you are mad for this deceptive write up you just posted.

See her tryna play down the whole issue when in real life, you would have gone wild like a bull dog.

I can't go wild else I would lose. That's not a joke, it's my reality as a woman. So I want it for you guys too.

Dragunz:
Sorry but you are mad for this deceptive write up you just posted.

Mmm because you don't think like me doesn't mean I'm mad. As a woman I'm expected to act as if everything is normal if I sense cheating or see it. If I react I am expected to be calm and rational. How am I now mad if in the same situation I want a man to do the same?

Offpoint1:
You're far from reality is think men wants women with butts and boobs for marriage, we 99% want those for pleasure.... Get the message clear

Many of you still cry murder when those boob and ass girls find some way to deal with you, despite the fact that you made the choice. Yes, many of you turn bad boys for that and the funny thing is you will not revenge on that girl but rather the less attractive good girl you ignored before.

Eh, you date them for sex and not marriage, how does that make you good and moral people? You're just as bad as the women you criticize.

PerfectStranger:
lol have a pleasant day Purples. Regards to hubby and the kids

Thanks

PerfectStranger:
Its actually ur gender that is unpredictable

I'd say both but let's not go back and forth too much over it. Anyone who has been cheated on shouldn't be expected to act in a way that pleases the cheating party, I'm actually angry because if I remember women's own, they can
even ask us to wear sexy clothes and try to win the cheat back, and also be kind and care for the affair kid if it's the man that cheated. So I want same for men as we're all humans.

You mustn't agree with me though.

PerfectStranger:
But you're not a guy so you won't understand our nature. I'm happy you finally got my point.

Merry Christmas to u

Merry Christmas to you too, and the rest of your unpredictable gender

PerfectStranger:
There's no big drama there,she should sign the divorce papers and go look for her baby daddy.
Since men are polygamous and she feels the need to do same she should move out of his house and start chesting the bills alright!

Well I have to say you make sense but I still don't see the need for waiting for Christmas Day to break the news and giving it as a wrapped gift. If I was a man I could mail, I could just leave or sit down to talk. If I was a man I think I'll be a less talk and more action man and even when I speak or act, it will be more to the point and less emotions. The way I go do my things sef, my body language, she would automatically know the consequences and that any favor I MIGHT do will simply be out of my benevolence. She will just comply if I say pack by this time or sign this because a calm and concise person is feared the most.

If I was a man I think I'd move on so easy, because men have so many picks especially when they earn. I would even still take care of the child but that's all, I don't talk to her or anything and I do the payment just out of kindness and stop when I want. Might even still see the innocent kid cuz it's not his/her fault. 🤷🏿

Just that I'm not a guy.

justtee42k:
Any woman that makes you doubt your bible is not even good for you.
Change your thrashing way of looking for a lady.
Some guys are just thieves at times, always looking for what is higher than them.

Look for a wife and not a lady.

A lady is someone who is independent and wants to live the way she likes.

A wife is a person who is ready to be submissive and listen to your orders .

The bible says, who finds a good wife not who finds a good lady.

So a lady should be a wife before you agree to marry her.

Thanks for acknowledging that men even have any problem at all. For that you have a soul.

PerfectStranger:
People have different ways of reacting to Heartbreaks and BS. Everyone must not react exactly the way you do.

What's there to talk about? Do you know paternity fraud is a criminal offence?

Is he not talking to her already in the video? Communicating with her about the divorce papers, isn't it talk? I don't see the need for the drama because you guys claim you are polygamous and women have to swallow so much when you do it as if it's normal so he should also handle it with maturity.