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My blood brother is that mess now with a lady with three kids

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

Everyone I her family know that guy, In fact they all want her to marry him

Cerebellum:
You're obviously no ready for marriage

Sometimes I wonder if people like you have sense or not what kind of stupid comments is this if you don't know what to say keep quiet, it's obvious you are not yet married

kyber:
I thought you guys would all me an alpha male

Nothing concern alpha male and wickedness

kyber:
But don’t you deem it rude for her to send me on that kind of an errand?

Oga you're wrong you should have do and and warned her not to try it next time

jullary:
Two things involve.
U shouldn't have imagine she is with a man collecting "gbola" she might be at work place.
Secondly it's so wrong of her to ask you help her pack pant, if u eventually help her to pack it and suddenly fall sick the only thing she say is, I remember the guy that pack my pant. Aside that it's her underwear! She should have dry it inside,when she knows she wount be coming back.
to make peace with her explain to her politely and apologize.
Peace.

It's not wrong they're neighbours and they're in good terms

kyber:
So this girl we live in the same compound
On this very day she washed her clothes and went out leaving her clothes including her pants on the line, I didn’t know she won’t be coming back that day
Well it started raining and she called me to help her pack her pants and i said okay,

I asked her if she was coming back she says no till tomorrow.

Then I thought of it where could this girl be by this time of the night,she must be in a guy’s house Collecting brother john Cina and pipping some lollipop down her throat while she wants another man to help pack her pants,

Omo I didn’t pack it oo,then she came back the next day to see what I had done and got furious and told me that I’m wicked and never to talk to her again .

So I don’t know what to do ?
Did I do wrong or right?
Should I go and apologize ?

Oga you're wicked , The lady is not your gf why imagining such a thing and because of that you don't help a neighbour

And you believe no sex? How did you found out she visit a man? If you do not find out she won't tell you now she want you to believe no sex

Wordsfrombimpe:
What about you ?

I don't like it and i can't tolerate it either

Nebes:
Even when Christ healed the sick in the synagogues some pharisees were not happy and sought to kill him.

It is written that our Christ went about doing good but he was still killed. He even healed Malchus, one of the men who came to arrest him but they still arrested him after the healing.

Some people will never see good in anything good as long as it is done by pastors. But it is written that we should let our lights so shine before men that they may see our good works and glorify our father in heaven.

God bless you for this comment

Individual differences, some of our holier than thou nairalander may like it and some won't

It's true

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

In every ramifications this maybe a harmless date to you but for him it's not , He want something you will still come back here to tell us how he nearly or sleep with you

ChristisGod:
What's the best way to handle a female staff who is constantly complaining about you?

Always has issues about you as manager

Thanks

Dig deep she may like you because that's how most woman display their affection if it's not Then fine a way to be avoiding her

LittleBigDick:
I'd say get laid with her bestie.



Drop yours

Start doing those things she hate with passion

Hakimi issue

labake1:
Guys praising Hakimi Achraf are Losers, I tried to understand why he deserves all the praises but couldn't find ONE.

Hakimi Achraf CHEATED on his wife while his wife was on vacation with their children.

If Hakimi's wife is to be your sister, will you praise him?


Also, I felt pity for the wife for marrying a MAMA'S BOY. She deserves more than half of his wealth.


She should be compensated for the emotional damage and marital fraud. He should be jail

When a useless woman who want to destroy a man talk you will know

Hatred to igbo people is in build in everything Yoruba man forget their pretence at times

soundOsonic:
If you like someone, and the person is in relationship, and that same person is attracted to your appearance and personality, will you stay back and watch, or fight for what will give you happiness?

And that is someone's wife?

sacajawea:
What's the eye Problem Like?? How exactly is it

Shut sight or some people can't see well while reading

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This is not hardship problem it's greed and wickedness

Some for fancy while some eye problem

Truvelisback:
When u get to 40 and above, u will understand why.

It's not a most

Dickson178:
My Ex girlfriend is married with no kids yet... Though she was pregnant and her baby girl was dead after the delivery. But my problem is that ,she still call me not to stop calling her that she still love me. But again she called me to send her money, just a little I have, and I haven't sent her the money due to she's married,cos I don't want her to feel more secure from me than her husband. To be sincere I was intended to marry her cus I really love this girl to death .... But she keep telling me that her family don't like where I came from , especially her mother.

My question is, should I still send her money?

Matured advice needed only please 🙏

Someone that do not like where you come from and also married claimed that she love You, oga she want to be using you simple

Puss360:
Lolz... Asking this question in a Nigerian/African forum... Surely you don't expect a positive answer na...
U can ask this in forum like Quora or Reddit, you will surely get a reasonable answer......





But as for me, for a society to encourage same-sex marriage, it regulates and sort of reduced over population...

Why are you not fucking your gender?

Devil them don build house on his head

Not in Nigeria

Gaggii:
Please advice, if you have done penis enlargement before, or if you know anyone that has done it.

Is there any side effects?

My babe is complaining seriously about my penis size.

Am considering enlarging it, but I want to be sure of the side effects.

There some annoying sounds I here when having fun with her, she says is because my dick is small.

Don't kill yourself because of one useless woman that don't add any value to your life

EmiDon11:
I only take them when i am tired and exhausted

Those drinks have caffeine that's not good for body

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

You have programmed all this thought in your head, please remove the thought from your mind wait what if your wife got you?