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I am doing great and you?

I told my husband that we should invite you to the festival, HE became the police,

He wants to know who you are, where you been, and why am I inviting you to the festival,

I simply told him that you are VIc and you igbo, and he said so,

You right yall territorial!

You know hookers have some great discount prices accordingly to my brother,

You know what, I was saying that either Nelson Mandela wife or daughter if it an African woman then I said it might be Desmond Tutu's sister,

Then I said it might be Black American woman,

So that why I named all Black american women,

That what I get for not following my FIRST MIND, the funny thing I just finish reading a book about NELSON MANDELA LIFE!!!!!!!!!

ARGGGGGGH (throws a plate on ground)

Next time READ CAREFUL AND COMPREHEND before responding,

(drive in and drove off)

A typical CAVE MEN'S RESPONSE,

"I hope you are not hurt or pissed off by a man"

When did opinions merit experience? I know for a fact that ALOT OF OPINIONS that is shared on Nairaland is MERELY statement that has no experience,

So why do YOU ASSUMED because I stated MY OPINION that I am pissed off at men? Did I STATE that I was pissed off at men?

A hit dog will holler, and one just did,

Somebody said it the man's world, WELL, we need to change the world because it fugged up!

Women are viewed as subservant to men because MOST MEN follow that Adam first Eve second bullchit, when it specifically state that Adam and Eve were equal NOT BENEATH EACH OTHER, but of course Dense headed azz men will misinterpret that,

I have always said what good for the goose is good for the gander,

D-Sense said it right when he said that he is a jealous man, MOST MEN ARE,

It okay for them to creep around and glide about and be called men, but the moment a woman do the same thing, SHE A LovePeddler,

I find that upsetting and disgusted, I don't condone any SLEEPING AROUND when it not an open relationship, NOW THERE ANOTHER SIDE I WANT to introduce,

Many black women who are in relationship with men who are creeping around AND DOES NOT TELL THEIR wives or girlfriend, BUT WHAT THE WOMEN dont know is that SOME OF THEse men are sleeping with OTHER MEN unprotected! Therefore bringing diseases to the woman who is remaining faithful not saying ALL WOMEN ARE FAITHFUL cos they are not, BUT THESE WOMEN HAVE THE RIGHT TO KNOW her man can't keep his dick in his pants,

SO TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION INKIE, as long as we live, MEN WILL ALWAYS THINK WITH THEIR THIRD HEAD, their dikk

You men are whores,

Arggggh SPARE ME THE DETAILS!!

Lawd,

You men make me sick sometimes!!!

It doesn't matter what style you use, just use a style that is comfortable FOR THE BABY, not you!

(throws a dish on the ground)

^^^^ she reading it now, I sent her an email

Nigerian men are FAMOUS FOR BEING JEALOUS HEARTED,

Yall need to take it easy o!

I am going to give you a list of black women who fought in racial equality since 1950's to Present Day

My first choice is:

Ella Baker

However, the picture is not current so I am assuming it older women back in the day so here also a list of other women if that not Ella Baker

Rosa Parks
Fannie Lou Hamer
Ida B Wells


Hope that helps!

Hey Shyone,

You got an admirer!

Yall some freaks!

Go take a cold shower dog,

lmao ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d i believe it too!

Vic?

Aren't you sleepy VIc?

I am about to go cook dinner and tend to my husband,

I will hit you when you wake up,

we aint finish with this punk!!!

Who is mr love vic?

Idokwu,

I have no idea, he need to make that decision for himself, if he is not okay with the family meddling then he need address that to his wife,

Hmmm whatever vic,

I still think it bullchit but that yall culture and I aint trippin but I do say this that if they involvements break up a couple marriage I hope they feel so guilty that it kill them because nobody should come between a couple,

When I said them damn igbos, I was talkin about the ones that talking that chit about a wife have to give husband children, them who I was talking about,

Oh my goodness Vic!!!!

Why are you clumping all americans as the same?  Just because you have experienced or heard of americans not giving a damn about other people which is not true.  There are alot of people who are americans who look out for other people even people that are not family.  

You are ignorance of what you dont know about america.  I dont blame you though because a few people meet a few bad ones and ASSUMED THAT ALL AMERICANS ARE THE SAME,

That just like me meeting a few igbos who were azzholes and said the same thing, that ridiculous,

Looking out for brothers is completely different than getting in married couples business, what a husband and wife talk about has NOTHIGN TO DO WITH THE FAMILY, it does not affect the family that is not part of the married couple family,

Do you think that nosy family contribute to the break up of many marrriages?

Vic,

Focus suga, we gon be alght,

Now the book,

Anyway VIc,

I read the excerpts of the book that you suggested, It an interesting book and I have skimmed read the entire excerpt of it, However I will find the book so I can read the entire book now we barely get black americans books so african books are harder to get, but I will search for it though,

I understand what you mean when you say kids are the igbo men pride, so Imma leave that alone cos I see you finna cry,

Now one of the excerpt I read talks about the Igbo family involvement, now that is true about the family getting involve with the married couple business, I dont know if that something YALL feel is necessary, but in USA we stay out of married couples business,

Now my husband did tell me one point that I didnt just married him I married his family, now he got some nosy azz family members, and they mean welll, but why yall cant stay out of married couples business?

Nawl you aint bored me, but I will read that book that you suggested if I can find it,

Seeing that you are not 100% american, I will excuse the ignorance I am not by any way shape, form, or fashion complaining about the characteristics of igbo men, I think those are wonderful characteristics,

However yall do take yall role tooooooo serious and that how culturally how yall were raised which is understandable,

However as far as children go, the excessive desire to have children is unbelievable and the pressure that the woman is placed under is overwhelming, even if the man is able to support the family and thangs, the woman is placed under dire stress to produce the moment the I DO is taken place that what I was talking about,

I agree with you, about the pride and strength, the strength is unbelievable, there is a line between integrity and too serious, YALL TENDS TO STEP ON THAT PAD FOR SERIOUSNESS,

Then again it could be that WARRIOR BLOOD RUNNING THROUGH YALL,

Ooooh I dont have time to read online books!!!

Oh my God VIc!

So marriage is ONLY FOR PROCREATION OF CHILDREN? Oh my goodness, you do not need to be married to make babies Vic,

Just because a woman doesn't want to have kids at a young age does not mean she not fertile, having children doesn't mean you are necessary fertile because know people take them drugs and go through them treatments and have children,

Oh yeah yall loooooove children that all my husband talk about baby this, baby that, child this, and child that, I am like you need to go grab some of them kids out there roaming and play daddy to them and send they lil azzes right on home,

Yall like fast results? We aint no pregnancy tests talkin about yall like fast results, yall like rushing and everything have to be NOW,

and OH LAWD DON'T LET ME FORGET THIS, yall make sure EVERYBODY KNOW YALL MARRIED OR HAVE A WOMAN, i mean it a big festival with you igbo men, and yall be thinkin yall doing something when yall tell the woman you a man, and you got this,

i am like so? you suppose to GOT THIS, YALL TAKE YALL MALE ROLES TOOOO SERIOUS

I SURE IS DISSIN YOUR TRIBE NOW!

I mean the elders of the tribe dont give women time to be married before they talking about WE NEED CHILDREN, wives must give husbands children!

I am like all them CHILDREN FLOATING ALL OVER THE STATE, WE DONT NEED NO MO CHILDREN, WE NEED TO RAISE SOME OF THESE CHILDREN UP AND OUT THE WAY FIRST BEFORE WE HAVE MORE,

It not the woman right to say no children for right now, Yall igbo men think that married women must provide children to the husbands regardless if we are ready or not, AND BECAUSE WE ARE YOUNG, WE MUST PRODUCE, whatever!

Yeah i am dissing your tribe!!!

Then you say yall terriotrial, the hell yall is terriotrial, a man cant even look at the woman he ready to flip a script!!!!