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My God!The corper was my class mate ooo.I hope the man would be ok sha,that guy has always been hot tempered!

With serious pain in my heart,i bought at 140 per litre in bodija,ibadan...I heard bovas sells for 86,but they dont sell in kegs.D way i got take manage d full tank of fuel for my gen eh! Na to dey use am for 2 hrs a day,till the situation improves.

Na strong people dey buy fuel 250 o..Like seriously? Where i see dat Kain money na.

Growing up wasn't so rosy,but i am happy it shaped me into a strong and independent lady.I pity parents who overindulgence their kids even after graduation.I had a client last year who was getting divorced from his wife.His major concern was whether the woman would be able to maintain the standard of living their kids are used to.For instance he told me his kids have never slept without light since they were born. That no matter the fuel scarcity he gets fuel to run his gen till dawn on a daily basis.He also told me he knows his ex wife is not big on spoiling the kids, that they would suffer if she gets custody.I had to tell him some home truths. Its better to raise your kids to know that life is full of challenges,than raising them under the impression that life is one easy ride.Tomorrow, when you are gone how do they cope?There's a well spoken guy in his 30's that comes to my office to beg money.My colleagues told me he has a drug problem.I was shocked because he seems educated.The story is that the dad over pampered him to the point that the dude ventured into doing cocaine and meth.The father is now late and the siblings cut him off because he was going mental at some point.Presently he lives with a church and comes to my office to beg.I couldn't help wondering how his life would be if he was raised better. Give your kids the best u can ,but don't over do it else you would have a bigger problem on your hands.

Joshrob:
From your experience (especially the dip student part which I can relate to although not part of those guys cus I don't do awoko in sch),I guess u school in delsu oleh campus. I never stay in the school hostel because am an introvert person and I like being alone sometimes,so i know i just can't cope with the hostel life. #repsunshinehostel#

see this my nigga o,sunshine hostel in irri abi?

Like seriously??Girls sha eh,15000 dollars and shopping money is the reason she wants to let a man poo on her and do anal?Her life,her choices..

bykebyke:
You didn't see anyone complain on nairaland because no one has fallen for it.


20gb for 5000naira valid for six months??


Guy fear God na.

lwkmd....It is really unbelievable.. Shuo!The valid for 6 months part should have set alarm bells ringing in d op's brain.

lwkmd...i love this,thanks for making me laugh.You made me remember how fun school was.I can relate to the beg beg aspect. Some people no just get shame o.I recall my 200 level,one supposed big girl using a blackberry torch 1 came to beg me to borrow her noodles,i just look her laff.Na me be mugu wen be NGO to share my food,while u fit afford fone of abt 100k?It still baffles me how i will be cooking,someone i dont even smile with will just bring plate!I dey wonder their confidence sha,cos u dont even know if d food is for coven initiation..lol,u just carry plate come beg.Some their strategy is to to branch your room once they see you cooking and form discussions about lectures.Na so dem go gist with you ooooo,till the food gets ready.I would just make food for both of us,cos dem don try for the gist and time wasted .You actually learn tolerance cos you meet a lot of characters.Some babes adjacent my room brought TV from home in my final year,na so dem go watch nigerian film reach 2.00am in d morning.I would go and knock on their door to complain,they would reduce it a bit, only to increase it after some minutes.E just dey do me make i dash them their personal slaps.Them no even consider say i get project to write.School hostel toilet is a no no.After i spent 15k to treat infection in my 100 level,nobody advice me to get my paint bucket to use as mobile toilet. When i gained admission newly,i was wondering what babes were using d paint buckets for,i see d reason first hand. The awoko(night reading) is something i really miss.That's when i sleep in d afternoon,and go to school by 1am,read till 4am,look for a male classmate to escort me to my hostel,make winch or ghost no catch me..lol..That's where u see people that will sleep throughout,from 1 am till i leave,i would then ask why they didn't remain in the comfort of their room.Some just come play and disturb people.There was never a dull moment..Plus those bad guys sef wen dey use awoko time cancel vulnerable diploma babes for back of classroom.@op no even remember the stealing aspect.Them show me pepper for my hostel sha.From my bathroom slippers,to buckets to clothes i washed,to even bra.Those babes dealt with me. fit just pul slippers keep,before i come out,second owner don wear am.I would move round d blocks,checking for it from door to door,for where!My friend came from offk to see me,na so dem carry her sandals of 3500.Na so she rake,swear for the person.I was just too shocked to even say anything cos it happened within minutes.In all sha,my uni days was fun abeg!GreatDelsu#whereeveryoneis acomedian!

STFUareyouGod:
yea. Very big fan

The weekend should be nicknamed ‘ the saviour',the way his featuring on kanye and future's album saved their asse.s.Download FML by kanye west ft the weekend.

Juliusdaughter:
Thanks. But please how do I get back my money? Am confused.

That na investment without returns aka bad market aka mugu fee.Forgerrit babe,just see it as d price u paid to wisen up!

Darkchocolate:
Fair enough...but some people have a way of concealing their true nature from you and only revealing it when it's too late. Especially if you earn more or more educated than he is, he ll definitely see you as a catch, unattainable, the envy of his friends, his ticket out of misery...and will say or do anything to keep you sweet till he gets the ring on it... Then bam! His true colour emerges!!!

i concur.

Kpele is your name!I dunno how some ignorantly go ahead with marrying someone despite red flags.No miracle happens at the altar,what you see while dating, would even worsen after marriage.There is no point delaying the evil day,if there are issues you cant deal with, please take a walk!People will talk,your parents are sure going to be disappointed and embarrassed, but your happiness and peace of mind should come first.If not,Last last,na divorce go end am.

lol@ customer friendly..una no go fit kill me.

halfricanadian:
Yes i kno

But do u kno just little affection op will show this girl

Nd she will take op as her everlasting hero

No body was created d same not even twins looking at their finger prints u will kno twins aint d same


So wat im saying is she never said op dont spend

She demanded for a teddy ryt? Meaning she appreciates op's effort

But she is d deep emotional type

well in cases like dis emotional girls bliv

Wen we get d money anoda girl is getting d love

Nd wen we get d love anoda girl is getting d money

op's gf has my mindset cases like dis op let her know u care a deep emotions towards her once a while wont kill u will it op?

My dear,i understand you.Let me close on the note that i am more pragmatic than romantic. I am realistic to a fault, so i don't subscribe to all this plenty emotions talk.Who emotions don help?Maybe my profession and upbringing over toughened me sha.Marriage is not about, i love you and emotions.A lot has to be put in place,trust me on that..Love is not enough.Infact,you can marry a man you feel nothing for,but because you both know what to do,and are committed to playing your individual roles to ensure your marriage works out,you may celebrate 50 yrs together.How did most of our parents marry way back,who even know wetin love be then?Emotions becloud sound judgement, there's more to life than gazing into each other's eyes abeg.

halfricanadian:
Listen to me some guys just spend no affection not ready to listen or giv room for d ladies to pour out their minds if d ladies get jealous its war if d ladies are too clingy its war

Why do u tink op is still hanging on nd needs her he has realised his mistakes

Ur boss prolly knos his wife doesnt need mch yet ask its cos THEY ARE MARRIED THE WIFE HAS GOT TO BE SUBMISSIVE NO MATTER THE AMOUNT SHE EATNS SHE HAS GOT TO DEMAND FROM HER HUBBY
IF SHE DOESNT ASK HET HUBBY WONT FEEL MAN ENOUGH ALAKIJA WILL STILL HAVE TO DEMAND MONEY FROM HER HUBBY TO SHOW SUBMISSION
we are talkin bou relationship here a stage where all things are to b kept in place to proceed to marriage

My dear, whether relationship/marriage,same principles apply in most cases.I used to think that way before,i dont ask for help from my man,i dey form superwoman. It got to a point he took it for granted,cos he believed i would find a way around whatever challenges i was facing. Therefore,he would act unconcerned and won't even bother to know i sorted myself out eventually.I am not saying that a woman should turn a man into a breathing ATM,but please learn to be a woman. Men deep down dislike strong independent women.A guy told me recently “you dont even give a man the opportunity to feel needed. ”Men love to feel like your hero,like they have achieved the 8th wonder of the world,let them go on an ego trip pls.“Miss independent,i don't ask a man for anything ,i just need love etc"nai many women take turn to breadwinner in their matrimonial homes.They have babied the guy to a point that he sees himself as a woman,and has no drive to succeed.Weeks back i read a story on family section,abt a lady who funded a greater part of her wedding,even went on to be footing all d bills of the home till date.She is now pregnant,d husband (or wife sef) joins her sleeping at home,with no plan whatsoever towards the coming of their baby and other expenses.I am all for spending on me,making my own money and not waiting for a man to come save me;but if a man wants to do nice things for me,why should i discourage him..maka why?am i the winch doing myself?

blueseacats:
I thought as much, not that there are no decent ladies out there who care a little less about material things, but this one is a little dramatic to be what it is.

Yes na,op berra talk to e leg o,before e die ontop woman matter.I am an advocate of “me first ”.If you have to convince someone to be with you,you are on a loooong thing!

MrCork:
...did you say you at work?...sorrrrrry ooooo...sweeery .I apologise. I was driving my £28000 (cash)range rover spot will klatamink alloy wills & satnab on the motor way hear in London so I cud not read yorrr text very well

i give up!

ireneony:
The truth of the matter is the love she have for you, has died down and she tired of the relationship. She's just making up excuses cos you lavish her with gifts as an escape route from the relationship. She probably dating a guy in abuja.
Guy move on with your life.

Women are looking for caring mature man like you, here she is complaining. What an irony

GBAM!Barman,give her one andre brut..Its on me!

MaiHD:
Please did you read the last part of my post?

I said she has a business venture in Lagos. She has a company actually. An I.T company.

leave that gist,she had already checked out of the relationship long ago, was just hanging on till something flimsy comes up that would be a perfect excuse to break up.No matter how much a woman makes,she would still appreciate a man that can get her nice gifts once in a while. My boss is married to a lawyer,she is wealthy and well travelled, yet she still calls my boss to order her domino pizza of 3k and pay for her nails sef.So bros,she doesn't really like u,else what u hv just narrated is not enough for all her many drama.Irony of life bro,we tend to love those who dont give even 2 f**ks abt us.

MrCork:
...sweet hatt...what as olaminde & Don Jacob hav to do with Romance?....din't any one telllllu Romance section is strictly for chasin women?.. are you lightskin?

lol,abeg leave me eh...Am trying to appear busy while doing nothing at work.

HandsomeChris:
Ok maybe I'm not. Just drop your number here and i'll call you to find out. I'm not joking.just drop it here.

lol,i know u r not him,but u spoil like am.Infact,my closest buddies are raw.You can't just do spirico around me.

kITATITA:
You must be something else to have such raw friends

i concur,i am something else...As for u,lemme save my comment for the address stage.

HandsomeChris:
No position is best, just f*uk her the way she sets. In the kitchen or while washing your car. It must not be in the bedroom

you sound like a friend of mine,raw guy like this.

I Just look forward to that awesome moment when i get home,then pour myself a shot of vodka on ice..And that makes all forgotten,i just sleep like a baby.

Cutehector:
Why ddnt u buy d drinks before she came in?


Why will u just invyt a total stranger into ur home and leave d person all alone and go out?

All bcus of fvck!

u r mean bro..lol

Few of my current favourites are; 1.Gwen stefani-loveable ; truth ;me without you 2.Kelly clarkson-piece by piece 3.Gwen stefani ft fetty wap-asking 4 it 4.Tinashe ft. chris brown-down with your love 5.Future ft the weeknd-low life 6.Rihanna -love on the brain; needed me 7.Michelle obama,kelly Rowland, Missy elliot &ors-This is for my girls 8.Alessia cara-wild things 9.Ellie goulding-army 10.Belly ft the weeknd-might not

Ok,i give up!You are an addict..jeez!His songs are so nice, my colleagues have joined in my obsession.

STFUareyouGod:
Shameless - The weekend
Often - The Weekend
Acquainted - The Weekend
Dark Times - The Weekend
The Hills - The Weekend
Prisoner - The Weekend

ok..you are officially my nairaland bestie.. I love the weeknd,my colleague calls it an unhealthy obsession.Download as you are,shameless and angel.

sunlight

Pls who has used masterchef blender MC 210 or Emel blender 1831.Thinking of getting one of them by next month..Which brand is more durable?