Family › Mustapha Audu Tells His Story,says I am not a rapist! by queenfav(op): 8:23pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story SIGNAL on November 28, 2015 at 4:27 pm Perhaps the biggest rape scandal of the decade, the case of Lotanna Odunze-Igwe and Mustapha Audu, one of the sons of Prince Abubakar Audu, a former two-time governor of Kogi State who passed on last Sunday is an interesting one. Lotanna, popularly known by her social media identity, @sugabelly on Sunday exposed horrible details of how she repeatedly suffered sexual abuse in the hands of Mustapha, his brothers, his cousin and his friends. Her tweets, laced with graphic details of brutal sexual assault came moments after news of Prince Audu’s death filtered into the Nigerian media. Her story, gory and dehumanising as she portrayed it, immediately drew the sympathy of a wide section of the Nigerian public with condemnation and attacks targeted at the alleged perpetrators of what many thought was only possible in seedy x-rated Hollywood productions. All through this moment, the accused were silent. Their side of the story was completely lost in the social media mob that was already screaming blue murder! Perhaps, the accused sons of the late Prince Audu were too engrossed mourning the demise of their father to be bothered about allegations and condemnations that had gone viral in the social media. Just yesterday, Friday November 27, 2015, the accuser once again released another bombshell, this time a detailed blog account of her ordeal in the hands of Mustapha, his brothers, his cousins, and his friends. It was a chilling story that sparked further sympathy towards the “victim” and more condemnation towards the alleged perpetrators. In this exclusive interview, Publisher of SIGNAL, Ohimai Amaize and Editor of SIGNAL, Yemi Adebowale sat down in a chat somewhere in an apartment in Asokoro, Abuja face to face with the man in the eye of the storm, Mustapaha Abubakar Audu. This is his story: |
Family › Re: On The Sugabelly Rape Allegations by queenfav(f): 6:04pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
Mindfulness: God blesses everyone, it is just that not everyone is in the receiving mode.  lol..u are right again on that. |
Family › Re: On The Sugabelly Rape Allegations by queenfav(f): 6:03pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Pls, you lot are scaring me.
Where was her mother when all of this was happening?
Abeg o! Still reading through this thread - but if there's one thing I'm quickly learning, we as parents - mothers especially - can't take our eyes off our girl child. Not even for half a second! That's it o..I hope to be married soon and I get scared about parenting.I don't know if I am strong enough for the serious responsibilities and obligation of motherhood.Its not just enough to show the world you are fertile,it takes a lot to raise a child you can be proud of.My mum wasn't perfect,heck..I was even from a broken home.Yet she made sure she was involved in every area of my life.I see her as a friend more than a mother,that way I can tell her anything till date.She was strict with me,but also drew me close so I don't get scared of her ,and start trying to show her I am an adult by rebelling.I was not brought up to be naïve,she ensured that so I don't go around acting like a mor.on and blame it on young age.Everything sugarbelly went through was kick-started by lack of parental care and proper upbringing. |
Family › Re: On The Sugabelly Rape Allegations by queenfav(f): 5:49pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
Mindfulness: You don't have to be annoyed. It doesn't help anyone. A persons ho suffers from mental health issues can't make sane decisions.
There are women out there who would make great mothers and are barren. And there are women like Suggabelly's mother who received the fruit of the womb even though she apparently doesn't deserve to be called a mother. So it has nothing to do with God punishing women for being wicked. Yea,in all God is all seeing and has reasons for not blessing most women with a child.The lack of good parenting skills is just one instance,its not exclusive. |
Family › Re: On The Sugabelly Rape Allegations by queenfav(f): 5:47pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
tearoses: I am not a lawyer so don't know how this may play out in court assuming that it ever gets to court in Nigeria.
However as a Parent I am very concerned about the input of this girls parents when she was growing up
Something definitely went very very wrong & even though this has happened and the clock cant be turned back for this girl, there are lots of lessons to be learnt from this sad story.
Parents please be involved in your kids. There is nothing out of bounds that you shouldn't be able to talk about.
Single mothers should be careful of the relationships that they go into (I read somewhere that the mothers boyfriend also raped this girl)
Fathers when you leave home, think about the kids you are leaving behind and the effect of your leaving on their mental state. Daughters need a father so be involved. Dont just walk away without looking back.
This girl grew up with zero self esteem and had gaps in her life that she thought that sex would fill. She needed love and she thought that sex would translate to love. Unfortunately & sadly she came in contact with a user & a manipulator who took advantage of the situation.
Money cannot be exchanged for spending quality time and being involved with your children, This girl attended one of the most expensive schools in Nigeria but lacked parental guidance and support.
I sincerely hope that she is able to heal and enjoy the rest of her life. They stole a part of her life but I hope that she is able to reclaim the rest of it back and live a happy and fulfilled life. You have said it all. |
Family › Re: On The Sugabelly Rape Allegations by queenfav(f): 5:38pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
Mindfulness: And yet you were wondering why people pity her. This is why. Na true u talk abeg..I am just annoyed at a lot of things..Because she ought to be thinking of how to move past it and be a better woman,than getting involved in all this scandal.The parents are major screw-ups.That's why I don't question God why he decided to make some women barren.Because only He knows what kind of mothers they would have become.You find cases of parents abusing their kids,using them as loan collateral,sending them off to become househelps at tender ages.You'll just wonder why God gave them the child for starters.I hope this saga ends well for her,because for me..I know it will get more messy. |
Family › Re: On The Sugabelly Rape Allegations by queenfav(f): 5:31pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
Mindfulness: Now I get where you are coming from.
Let me ask you one question though, do you think an emotionally healthy person would do what the girl did for her ex-boyfriend? That is where the parenting issue comes to play.The mother deserves to be dragged on tarred roads with a dangote truck till she bleeds to death.Seriously..At 17 your child has no business dating a man,let alone a 25 year old.I had my first relationship in uni and I was above 18 then.Even at that,my folks would ask me to bring him home,so they can interact with him.What sort of mother would be alive while her child is hopping from hotel to hotel at 17.The family ought to have sensed that she had psychological issues and drew her closer.All her actions are characeristics of a teenager rebelling against poor parenting.If the mother had not dumped her in a boarding school on her own,I doubt she would have degenerated to such heights.There is a bond to be built with a child when growing up.That bond cannot be established when the mother is a part-time parent. |
Family › Re: On The Sugabelly Rape Allegations by queenfav(f): 5:22pm On Nov 29, 2015*. Modified: 6:05pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
5minsmadness: A woman brought her daughter into my office on friday morning. She was bathing the child after taking her home from school in the evening when the girl screamed that her pee-pee was hurting her. On examination, the mother found abrasions and slight bleeding on the inner right thigh and the right labia majora had lacerations. The child is three years old. It was obvious she had been molested a few hours earlier and the culprit would most likely be a care-giver but we cant tell for sure cos she can barely communicate english. Thats a helpless victim. Thats someone that cannot give consent. That is a REAL victim of underage rape. Not the bullsh1t story of "I am coming out now but didnt come out when the going was good cos i was afraid the videos i knowingly consented to might be leaked" I love you..seriously.I have read her all blog posts,tweets and all.What I can say is that she has deep seated paranoia and other physchological disorders.Forget the stokholm syndrome abeg.She had a choice and decided to take the abuse.Even her mother was aware of the relationship.She is just an ex who is scorned.Do you guys think if mustapha married her these allegations would come up?An average 17yr old ought to have enough sense to walk away.She obviously has a high propensity to self-destruct and also has wild sex fantasies.In one of her mails she revealed that she had lesbian se.x to mustapha.On her blog,as recent as last year,she was dating a guy she met on twitter who told her he had a girlfriend.Yet she willingly became a side-chick.For me,all this noise is not going to help her much.Because if she had clinical depression,the revelations that will follow can make her suicidal.Her family had better fly her abroad and check her into a psych ward. |
Phones › Re: My Infinix X600 Note 2 Jst Arrivd From Jumia.hands On Review Follws immdiatly by queenfav(f): 1:08pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
ZesusHVWritter: Wow impressive... Thanks a lot sir... So the only cold part is the multitasking.... Hopefully the 2gig ram version won't harbour such disappointment... so r u saying the 2gb ram version would be able to multitask properly?because the thing just weak me o. |
Phones › Re: My Infinix X600 Note 2 Jst Arrivd From Jumia.hands On Review Follws immdiatly by queenfav(f): 11:43am On Nov 29, 2015 |
consultancy: NOW multitasking is not good on the device. cos i opened candy crush, at the same time, uc browser and uc browser mini. den i went back to the candy crush, and it had to restart, instead of continuing where i left off. the XUI rom is a ram eater. even at idle state, i have just a little over 300mb ram free. this is the only downside i have noticed so far na wa o,what is wrong wih tecno and infinix?How on earth are users supposed to enjoy the andriod experience with that kind of annoying multitasking?Even bold 5 I use as my chat phone can effective multitask between 10 open apps all day!I am so discouraged honestly. |
Phones › Re: My Infinix X600 Note 2 Jst Arrivd From Jumia.hands On Review Follws immdiatly by queenfav(f): 10:21am On Nov 29, 2015 |
ZesusHVWritter: Okay, I will base my answers or information on the infinix hot note pro which I am typing this with, tecno droidpad8 which is also available here and tecno r7 which I have used. I have used tecno r7, which when it was released was regarded as one of tecno's best. Tecno R7 has a 13mp camera, the infinix note pro uses an 8mp camera both has an apparteur f/2.2, I do not know the name of theor lens maker... After comparing both, the infinix hot note pro had better color saturation and brightness yet it was just 8mp camera lens. A little hint on the Camera chapter, gone are the days when consumers go for mobile devices without real details, these days, we are graced with facts not fictions, so when you see the megapixels of a lens or it mp value, do not excite about the mp, instead equire about the lens maker and the appateur of the lens. For me, Sony camera lenses are the best and Chinese phone makers often patronizes Sony or Samsung for camera lenses. So, if a phone is using a sony lens 13mp and apparteur f/2.0 be sure the picture production will be great. But if the phone is using a sony 13mp apparteur f/2.2 The pics willl be okay, but not that good. That said, the infinix big 6 is using a Samsung 13mp camera lens, f/2.0.... I Only know of the infinix zero 2 that uses this lens, so I can't say anything about it because I have not tested the picture quality of the zero 2. About speaker audio quality, audio quality from the infinix hot note pro is disappointing to say the least, little or no bass at all, rantling when volume is set to maximum during music play In terms of durability, so far, I have had no issues with this note pro... I have used it for about 4 or 5 months now.... So I give it a 80 out of 100 in terms of durability.. I currently have the tecno droidpad8 with me, I must confess its the best tablet I have seen and used, and I have used and seen a few including Samsung tab 3 and 4, tecno p9 and s9, Aino's 7inch tab... But a place the tecno droidpad8 8 failed completely is the multitasking department, nothing to write home about, in terms of multitasking I will give it 10 out of 100. The audio quality from the droidpad8 is superb, its like nothing I have heard from any auio device including my cheap music box which I once thought was the best movable music device, the display and battery life of the droidpad8 is thrilling, camera quality is like on a tab, nothing spectacular. In terms of durability, no issues with the droidpad8 since over 2 months of use, but for that multitasking error I won't advice you to get it... .. If you ask my opinion whether to get this big 6 or not, I will say go for it... Because I plan to buy the big 6 for a relative too, as soon as the funds become available by His Grace. Hopefully, The little info I gave will help you in choosing a great device... Guy thanks for the great analysis..I read reviews about the tecno driopad 8,and when I found out about the multitasking issue,it just killed my interest.Because I don't see the point using a phone that can't multitask as if it were a feature nokia phone.The big 6 will do abeg,plus I need great pictures.I want a device that can meet my needs,not just reading.That's why I am selling my cubetalk 9x,because it is basically an ebook reader to me.I don't play games and mostly leave it at home because of the size.At least with a 6 inch phone like infinix note 2,I can read my ebooks on the go,take nice pics and do other things.I would have to invest in a good earphone to make listening to music on it worthwhile.Thanks again bro. |
Phones › Re: My Infinix X600 Note 2 Jst Arrivd From Jumia.hands On Review Follws immdiatly by queenfav(f): 10:15am On Nov 29, 2015 |
consultancy: LAST FOTOS FROM THE BIG 6 FRONT CAMERA AND THE S4.... COMPARE the difference is clear.If the big six is the first pic,then it beats samsung front camera hands down! |
Phones › Re: My Infinix X600 Note 2 Jst Arrivd From Jumia.hands On Review Follws immdiatly by queenfav(f): 10:09am On Nov 29, 2015 |
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Phones › Re: My Infinix X600 Note 2 Jst Arrivd From Jumia.hands On Review Follws immdiatly by queenfav(f): 10:05am On Nov 29, 2015 |
Thanks everyone for your advice..@consultancy,the camera quality is really good. |
Phones › Re: My Infinix X600 Note 2 Jst Arrivd From Jumia.hands On Review Follws immdiatly by queenfav(f): 8:52am On Nov 29, 2015 |
Please, I need sincere advice on getting this phone from @op and infinix phone users in the house.Firstly,I am considering it because of the size being a bookworm.But what is discouraging me about infinix products is the complaints from friends, that the camera quality of their phones despite high megapixels is nothing to write home about.Despite loving to read,I want a device that can take great selfies and has great audio quality because I love music.Also,I want to know how well infinix performs and general durability of the phone.I am asking because I don't want a phone that will start having issues before its a year old.Generally,I am very careful with gadgets anyways.I was previously considering the tecno driopad 8,but this seems better.What do you guys think? |
Politics › Re: How To Report Any Nigerian Policeman Asking For Bail Money by queenfav(f): 6:43pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
This is hilarious..The person will just rot in police custody.The Nigerian police understands one language only which is bribe.Leave all this drama,its orchestrated for the purpose for the idealistic members of the society. |
Crime › Re: Sugabelly Alleged Rape: A Pure Case Of Blackmail, Intimidation And Lies by queenfav(f): 8:48am On Nov 28, 2015 |
TonyeBarcanista: Some people believe in mob action without asking for facts. Like this poster...
Gang raped by who and who? Who were the gang rapist and at what point did that happen? Before, during or after the relationship? Who stalks her gang-rapists? Was her mum also aware of it? guy,I tire o.The fact is that Nigerians are so hypocritical that they give in to pointless emotions void of logic and analytical thinking.There are a lot of questions to be asked,but most people just want to come off as sympathetic rather than realistic.Go on twitter and read @villageparrot's tweets on this issue.The guy has been called all sorts of names for asking the right questions and pointing out what many are too sentimental to consider.The matter don tire me sef,I am not related to both parties.Let the mud-slinging continue while I observe. |
Education › Re: How I Used What I Had To Get What I Wanted In The University by queenfav(f): 8:34am On Nov 28, 2015 |
My heart goes out to you op.Yea,many say you use people to get ahead in life,but I'd say it was just a survival strategy on your part.Even if you later do runs sef,I don't blame you.Life is much harder for women because very few men can help you for free.They would always want to chop as payment for their kindness!I laughed at the ikechukwu part sha,the guy na badoo..Seriously,no matter how rich a man appears to be,you shouldn't have put your money out there na.Especially when you don't know how trustworthy he is.I don fall that mugu before and I wisened up.As for chuks,the guy definitely planned it all.Its just so sad that you trusted him so much as to agree to sleep naked whilst wrapped up in the bedsheet.Tip of the day to ladies,if you are spending the night for the first time with a guy you can't really trust ,abeg wear your old tight jeans trouser to bed.You know na,those pencil jeans u have to call people to help you pull.So that before he goes further,u suppose don shout for help,look around to find bottle or anything u can use to defend yourself.Its not a guarantee against anything sha,cos some guys are just maniacs.I don't blame you at all because you had no where to go that's why u ended up in his house.Unlike the sugarbelly babe that comes from a wealthy home,yet had no sense to know that she was being sexually abused.Most annoying is the fact that she consented to being treated like sh.it all in the name of love.carry on jare..If its true u actually went through all this,try and talk to r.ape crisis counsellors to help u heal. |
Crime › Re: Sugabelly Alleged Rape: A Pure Case Of Blackmail, Intimidation And Lies by queenfav(f): 5:34am On Nov 28, 2015 |
phabulux: You think with your brain?
Very funny! Get lost please! |
Crime › Re: Sugabelly Alleged Rape: A Pure Case Of Blackmail, Intimidation And Lies by queenfav(f): 4:46am On Nov 28, 2015 |
agabusta: Hmmmm I thought u re a political analyst.
Well from my own opinion, they had a relationship, a very steamy one that ended at the detriment of the girl.
And she is still very bitter and angry.
Sometimes some ladies especially those ones u took their virginity can be crazily in love with someone.
They can also be obsessively in love, which I think is what happened in this case.
The lady obviously was obsessively in love with the guy and threw everything at him.
TonyeBarcanista she may be right that she was gang banged, but I can validly assume that she must have willingly participated in at least one o*rgy before the guy will be forcing her to participate in others.
Youths having access to cool cash and liberty can be extremely wild.
The guy and the lady obviously had a wild intimate relationship, which resulted in the lady being in emotional bondage to the guy. The guy, as usual with most spoilt brats then took advantage of her and started treating her like dirt.
The lady being an obsessive lover, took the dirt thinking "if that pleases the man I love, then I can take it".
At the end of the day, the guy jilted her in a way that left her emotionally devastated. Jilting an obsessive lover can be traumatic, infact they may kill in anger sef or commit suicide.
She is angry and bitter and unable to get back at the Audus due to their influence in the society.
This must have made her even more bitter.
She now lives in the US, land of equity and justice. And her eyes are fully opened with realisations that she was abused!
This is with respect to her age then, but had the guy not jilted her, this would never had come up.
She wants her own pound of flesh and has fired the first shots.
But I must let her know that this is Nigeria, except she has all her facts intact, Nigerian guys cannot be easily intimidated.
When the Audus decide to fight back and open their own can of worms, I hope her family will not suffer greater embarrassments.
Of course the show has just began, she fired the first shots at the Audus using their real name while she used an alias that sounds even somehow. The Audus are now prepared to take on her back and has revealed her real name.
One thing is sure, the Audu guy may be guilty on some fronts, but this lady equally played along until the relationship was broken. Imagine a lady trying to describe sexual encounter with a guy to the public using a phrase like "he fvck.d me". Her usage of that word alone will make a lot of people in this our society to doubt the 'young innocent me personality' she is trying to sell to the public.
I'm not a lawyer. Someone pls tell me if we have anything like 'statutory rape' in the Nigerian criminal laws. No bashing pls. Just want to know if for sure we also have it in our laws. I love you!So people can still think?This has been my point all along,when the raving dogs on nairaland came at me because I decided to think with my brain.I pity Nigerians sha,let her defenders come out o.Una don close? |
Politics › Re: How Abubakar Audu's Sons Serially Raped A Young Girl Years Back. by queenfav(f): 4:29am On Nov 28, 2015 |
emperorchedda: Dummy just skipping the point and blabbing about married woman this married woman that
Was she aware she was gonna have rough sex? Yes. Did she WILLINGLY return for more? Yes! Was she greedy? Hell yes!
I bet you if those guys were some average broke guys with no power she wouldn't have communicated with them anymore talk more of coming to them after the first 'rape'
To educate your ignorant self, Nigerian constitution now legalised sex with a 13 year old. So whether the dudes were 58 so far she was above 13 then she's ok to have sex
Maybe you're one of those greedy oloshos that can take any shiit because you're gaining financially Thank you my dear.She is one ignorant person blinded by sentiments. |
Politics › Re: How Abubakar Audu's Sons Serially Raped A Young Girl Years Back. by queenfav(f): 4:20am On Nov 28, 2015*. Modified: 4:40am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Aude: You are the one who is demented and slow. You are also a sorry excuse for a woman.
After looking at your posts you must be one of those law graduates from a mushroom school, roaming the neighbourhoods looking for land disputes to resolve. Are you even a member of the Nigerian Bar Association? If at all you are a member then you should be disbarred because you are certainly not fit to be a lawyer. )see this practising as.hewo.why won't you call me names when men have been using like a se.x slave for some change.I am a proud member of NBA and my opinions can never make me get disbarred.abeg,have u taken your meds today?Because you are obviously a roaming mad person.You debased brainless moro.n!I refer you to this post by tonybarcanista www.nairaland.com/2767472/sugabelly-alleged-rape-pure-case?utm_source=twitterfeed&utm_medium=twitter . Being a mad raving dog with rabies,you can insult him or even open up a counter thread when u are done. |
Politics › Re: How Abubakar Audu's Sons Serially Raped A Young Girl Years Back. by queenfav(f): 4:09am On Nov 28, 2015*. Modified: 4:30am On Nov 28, 2015 |
emperorchedda: You are the dumb one here sister (I'm sorry for the derogatory term)
How on this goddamn earth will a human being go back to 'fire', you see a moving bullet and run in front of it, not once not twice. Listen, even if I'm 12 I know when I'm hurt and so far I'm not threatened I won't intentionally put myself in a position to get hurt
Heck this girl was asked for a three'some and she complied, no one pointed a gun at her. She just wanted the adventure #bottomline it is so painful that many here are trying to defend her actions without considering the role she played.Make the frustrated street dog aude dey quote people up and down.The truth will always be said,and I am glad I am not alone here!Nigerians and their lack of objectivity,hian! @aude I can see you are just a pained and obviously re.tarded person so I won't even bother replying any idi.ot that quotes me.Make she no stop for nairaland o,she should go on twitter,blogs and call everyone names for seeing what her partial blindness and poor comprehension ability didn't let her understand. |
Politics › Re: How Abubakar Audu's Sons Serially Raped A Young Girl Years Back. by queenfav(f): 7:24pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
notmywill: Dear queenfavour, I'm sorry for taking the wind out of your sail by using those strong words. I'm not usually so strongly opinionated towards people's posts and I prefer to watch from the sidelines.
However, you do not know all her story. Secondly, these kinds of cases are very common. Even in marital homes. Husbands do rape their wives, yet she cannot leave the home. Children get raped in school, yet they still have to go to school daily. Househelps get raped yet they still hold on to their employment. People are always been taken advantage of, yet they still remain in the abusive environment. This is as real as your heart beating 60-100 times per minute.
Don't be authoritative over rape matters, especially as a woman.
The same way we Nigerians are being raped by our leaders yet we don't protest. Even the judiciary rape the less privileged of justice every day, yet they don't have a voice.
We are all powerless against perceived giants.
Postscript. It's not as if I am afraid of continuing an e-quarrel with you, queenfav. It's just not in me to quarrel. I'm sorry for making you feel bad. Thanks for understanding. so you know how to talk like this?Next time,read and analyze facts well.My opinion is shared by millions,that should tell you something.I am a woman doesn't mean I should support nonsense.sugarbelly on her own wanted to experience the fast side of life..It was just unfortunate she got more than she bargained for.People get raped,abused and killed daily,that's life!Its not a merry go round.My heart goes out to her,but again she was very willing and subjected herself to the abuse. |
Politics › Re: How Abubakar Audu's Sons Serially Raped A Young Girl Years Back. by queenfav(f): 6:51pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
notmywill: I know that being as uncouth as this is a trademark of your upbringing and environment. It's understandable. ooh really,and where you said your generation(not me) deserves to be spat at is totally civil abi.Brainless baboon!I don't have time to pour out adjectives describing an idi.ot like you who cannot comprehend facts of a case.Else,you would have deactivated your account by the time I finish with you!You saliva dripping slowpoke!I am sure you can't talk where people are having intelligent conversations.Ode! |
Politics › Re: How Abubakar Audu's Sons Serially Raped A Young Girl Years Back. by queenfav(f): 6:51pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
Oby ezekwesili is now saying she cried alonsides the girl's mother.I thought sugarbelly dropped from the sky o.Where was the mother when her 17 year old was doing all that sexual experimentation.Mothers have an intuition due to the bond of carrying the child in her for 9 months.Its only a careless one that would not know when her child is distressed.This should be a wakeup call to parents especially mothers ,to be more interested in their daughter's lives.Not in a 'watchguard' way definitely.But to get to really know her daughter by being friends with her,so she can be free to confide in her. |
Politics › Re: Oby Ezekwesili Tweets About Sugabelly(photo) by queenfav(f): 6:37pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
Oh...so the girl has a mother that is alive.Where was she when her 17 year old daughter was doing things even most 30 year olds would not dare?na to cry be the solution now?The mother has a lot of explaining to do especially to God. |
Politics › Re: How Abubakar Audu's Sons Serially Raped A Young Girl Years Back. by queenfav(f): 6:17pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
mbulela: We still need to go back to the definition of rape. If she said she did not consent to the sexual act, it is rape. Nothing can be done now. However, that does not mean she was not raped. I agree with you,but the fact is that legally she has no case.Let's just say she is aggrieved because the relationship was sexually abusive and emotionally manipulative.Shikena! |
Politics › Re: How Abubakar Audu's Sons Serially Raped A Young Girl Years Back. by queenfav(f): 6:13pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
olajide8: This should be noted, I don't condone this act in any manner or way- and if I offend the female gender or feminist - please forgive me, it just my shallowness" we all kno , can never do wrong- I have almost actually, committed murder because of this act, to further stress this point before!-now the Dictionary definition of rape "says a forceful act, on a woman or area", and from what I have read, I feel when someone is raped the person runs away- and not going back for more- sh sh sh had sex with him in his car, house, swimming pool, with a groupe, alone and the times look quite numerous- in fact to many times to count, it sounds like when he got rough while in the act - she termed it as being raped, and not before the act started, from her narrative- she wasn't kidnapped, was not initially forced but she was co-opted so to speak" - she was in LOVE- all the same parents teach you childen well- thank you very much!that FOOOL notmywill that quoted me needs to start using his brain.they were in a relationship,a sado masochistic one.Did he force her to make a sex video?She did so out of the foolishness of her mind and the guy used it as a bargaining chip.instead of this to be a wake up call to parents to raise their female daughters to be bold and discerning,dem dey here dey talk ra.pe.Wheras this was a case of a 17 year old who wanted to live the fast life but it backfired. |
Politics › Re: How Abubakar Audu's Sons Serially Raped A Young Girl Years Back. by queenfav(f): 6:08pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
notmywill: It's a overwhelming sad that you can authoritatively make an assumption without knowing all the facts of the case and especially speaking to both the victim and the victimizer. This is why our educational system needs a thorough overhaul, because of people like you. And it is so sad you claim to be a feminist. He threatened to expose their s e x videos and pictures taken without her consent that was why she yielded.
A lot of women (single and married) today face this situation and the fact that you are not aware of this, makes you totally shallow and despicably naive. Yet you claim to be a lawyer. Go back to school. This time, get an education.
You are totally disgusting. Like sugabelly spat on PAA grave, you ought to be spat at.
You are totally disgusting. You are obviously a demented,slow ,sorry excuse for a human being.Word of advice..shut the hell up especially as you don't know how rape cases are handled.Try not to think with your anus next time. |
Politics › Re: How Abubakar Audu's Sons Serially Raped A Young Girl Years Back. by queenfav(f): 5:45pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
mbulela: She is of unsound mind (as i stated earlier). Whether she was when it happened, i can't tell. I do not agree with you on the issue of 'na Nigeria we dey o'. That should not come into the legal analysis of an alleged rape case. It does not matter how many times she went to their house. Even if she is naked and holding his D in her hands and about to suck it and subsequently decides not to be interested in the act, consent has been withdrawn, revoked and proceeding without a renewal of consent is rape. My annoyance is that why did she keep on going there?That the thing every judge would ask.So she should blame everything on her diminished mental capacity rather than saying it was rape.Besides rap.e as an offence has to be corroborated by medical evidence.Here its her word against his.For all we know they were having a highly dysfunctional relationship which she enjoyed at that time.She is grown now,I am sure that's why she feels it was rape due to the sadistic sexual acts.Even kids of 10 know when they have been violated sexually.Here who did she speak to?Its not rocket science abeg. |
Politics › Re: How Abubakar Audu's Sons Serially Raped A Young Girl Years Back. by queenfav(f): 5:27pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
mbulela: In your view and in view of the law, what is rape? Permit me to refer you to the criminal code of nigeria Section 357 and 358 of the Criminal Code Cap “C38”, Laws of the Federation, 2004 ) In plain language, in Nigeria, a person has committed rape when he has sexual relations (carnal knowledge) with a woman against her will; or a) without her consent or, b) while putting her in fear of death or hurt or, c) misrepresenting as the husband of the woman or, d) having carnal knowledge of a girl under 14 years, with or without her consent or, e) having carnal knowledge of a girl with unsound mind. The above are the elements of rape that every court will consider to make a finding of guilt.Now,where does sugarbelly fall?Unsound mind? Abi was she less than 14?Please abeg.Athough,onsent to se.xual relations if initially given (even between husband and wife) and later retracted amounts to ra.pe.The law is any further thrust after the lady says stop is deemed revocation of consent which amounts to rape.But realistically,Na nigeria we dey.0the court will look at the conduct of the victim too.That's why people say rape victims are put on trial..Yeah,because you can't sentence a man to life imprisonment upon allegations which have not been corroborated by anyone but the victim.An aggrieved lover may easily accuse the ex of rape just to get back at him.That's why rape has to be proved going by all the criminal elements.So,please drop the sentiments. |