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I happen to know a lady now in MD that is rushing through nursing school as fast as she can because she's planning to leave the man that is footing her school bills citing that he's too old for her. is that not using somebody? How is it that we women complain about men and the way they treat and use us but will find a reason to justify ours? If she wanted to leave for legitimate reasons, why not leave now? why wait till you run up his debt, take his child and desert him? That's typical 419. If that man wake up tomorrow now and knife her like a demented maniac, y'all will start squealing like pigs.

very sad indeed and this case is not unique.
There's another man I know whose wife walked shortly after her nursing education and he's now in debt close to $80,000 and all that debt was in his name not her's.
That's enough to set someone off.

olabowole don't beat your chest yet.
We have all heard of the gnostic "gospels"
Isn't that where Mohammed got his stories about the trinity being father son and mary and stories of Christ making bird out of clay.
There's also the gospel of judas and mary magdalene.
It may ticke your Muslim fancy
arguing about Christ's death and resurrection based on false heretic texts is a waste of my time.

Remember your argument of false hadiths
These are false gospels by heretics
come at me with the Bible hon.



Isaiah,Amos and the prophets of old predicted his death
The new testament proved them right.
ever heard of the dead sea scrolls?

lol

do you have 4 kids by 4 men ?
that's the only way we can certify how "good of a man he is"

_{morenike and her men}

bigboyslim:
@ LAKANYE, would you please change your profile pic. It's annoying to say the least.

I can understand a man putting up a Indecency picture of a female but one of another man that's not him
Hmm!
is there something we don't know

davidylan:
he's 8 years younger than you and you have 4 kids by another man? Abeg send that man to me make i flog am. He can't be a Nigerian.

People thought I was being hard.
I'm just being real.
David I know you like white girls
will you with open eyes propose to one with 4 kids and about my age ?
what will you tell your folks in Abeokuta?

davidylan:
helping to clean and maintain the house?   I actually pity Nigerian women, seems this guy bent well over backwards to please you because u're white. Lucky you.

Exactly my point.
How many Nigerian women with 4 kids get men to marry them talk less of one 8 years younger ?
This is out of character o

bigboyslim:
While your answer sounds encouraging, i strongly oppose you talking down on the poster's previous life like that. Its a cultural thing. Having 4 kids from previous relationships and marrying a younger man might not be acceptable in your own culture, but it might be acceptable in hers. There's no reason for you to insult her because of the choices she made. Everybody is entitled to live their lives the way they please and we should respect that.

Forgive my style hon.
I happen to be a mother and I have brothers.
One thing Nigerian males would do is think of their moms before doing certain things.
I bet my bakassi his mother would be pulling her braids out

I didn't get into her business,she brought it into my computer screen.
Like karma said,this most likely is one of those green card like deals.
Hardly any Nigerian male in their right minds would do such a thing.
have you heard of any?

Since marrying he has been wonderful, made me feel secure, talked finances, wonderful S**, helping cleaning/maintaining house etc

These are her words.
@ karma they are married.
whether married married or not the fact is that they are man and wife.

when these men do these green card marriages,they should at least look for people they can proudly introduce as wives because some have ended as lasting unions.

Uche2nna:
lol @ Queenisha!!!!!

Take am easy naw

ROFL.
Uche c'mon na
even if the woman came with love potions from okija buried in her "jericho"
Love fit catch you at this your young age to this kain union?
talk true

from original poster

When a naija man loves truly tell me how it is, he always told me when he maried me I would be first, he would get a FT job, I am UK white,  I rejected him once and then after totally losing him and realising i had lost him and he came back was so pleased. Everything he ptomised he had delivered before marrying, meeting his family etc. Since marrying he has been wonderful, made me feel secure, talked finances, wonderful S**, helping cleaning/maintaining house etc, I adore him he is 8 years younger and I have 4 children and our son, can I expect this to continue, are there some tremedously wonderful naija men out there.

I cooked him Jollof rice proper other night with chicken and pork steak and we ate together it was lovely and I intend doing it when I can, I do actually love his culture although very dif from mine. Are there wonderfully honest naija men?

Look at this woman and this kain nonsense question.
A woman who has been around the block many rounds with 4 kids to prove it captures a man 8 years younger.
You should be at Redeemed church giving thanks than come here to ask this kain yeye question.
Which person on this forum would want their brother entangled with a woman with 4 kids and loads of earthly bagagge.
Has he really told his parents the real story here
His mom will have a heart attack, honestly.
Thank God none of my brothers fell ito this type of evil omen.
Not one, not 2 but 4 kids by another man /men
and then you pin this young man down and deliver the 5th
are you looking for farm hands?
If this man is not good,tell me who else is good.
For all you know,his family may have disowned him for this act

To answer your question,you not only have a good man, you have a brave one.
Brave enough to tackle a woman in another generation,4 kids out of the loins of some other men with the accompanying baby papa drama and risk of losing his life?
There's none like him.

siggers:
queenisha, u too like chop chop. lol

My dear I was just sitting jejely and a plate of fried chicken lands on my laps
shouldn't I give thanks and start the demolition ?

SeanT21:
Damn. That is some bad story. If I see signs like that, ITS OVER!!!

If he starts limiting your friends,telling you who and who not to talk or associate with.
Goes into fits of rage when you don't answer his phone calls
demands you answer phone calls in his presence
Or picks up your phone to see who's calling you
Lose him immediately
He's a loser

In that story,the first day he breaks a plate near my head,that's it.
That's the way it starts.

that story na wa.
TOH I just read it now
kai!

Your boyfriend is different. My man will go straigh ghetto. when we were in high school, He was always mad when I talk with guys even if we were friends. He has not gotten used to it eventhough I have many Guy friends. When they call me, He wants me to talk with them in his presence. Much Ado about Nothing.

SeanT21 this was your post.
I'm hoping this was just a phase of posessiveness of a teenage man
This attitude in a grown man is not normal

seant21,there was a recent case of a Nigerian  who murdered his wife in Minnesota and she was a nurse .Similar cases have also occured  in other states and all the women were nurses

ngwa onyii fire on and enlighten her

KarmaMod:
Dont read Nursing.

ROFL
karma stop it o

SeanT21:
I guess he was DARK AS CHARCOAL!!

To be hosnest with you I had no clue.
We all looked dark as tar with the dim lights

onyinye2:
i guess it was a kind gesture. He was eyeing me throughout the game but i really didn't pay him no mind.

I was too engrossed in my isiewu to notice his eyes.
Besides the joint had very dim lights so all I saw was his head LOL
I couldn't even pick the dude out in a line up

sean,if you say,the man had an ulterior motive,why would he send food to a girl who's obviously on a date with another man?

KarmaMod:
i meela?

thank you

SeanT21:
Yes. Why else will a stranger buy you food. He is trying to send you a message that he finds you attractive and want to get to know you. did his number come with the chicken?

No this was in the nineties, before cell phones and the man left without saying a word .

onyinye2:
Yeah i was on a date. I openly accepted the suya. Because it is expensive so i just chopped it up and licked the stick. j/k j/k

I need a man to respond since this act was not unique to me.
Was the suya just to say hello or did it mean something else