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shymmex: You just like arguing for the sake of it... They're Brazilians!!

Even their President said he has black blood in him... There are no pure white blood in Brazil or South America..

Thats like saying because obama is part black all americans are black?

no i just pointed that out because its something I know is wrong, that wasnt an intent to argue, just ruling out falsehood.

It does- a man that grew up in a happy home is more likely to have a happy relationship. If you have a razmataz background it's possible to have a lot of baggage. Baggage that may affect your outlook on relationships. If your father beat your mother you will be abusive, if your father is a misogynist you will believe women are inferior, if you are a mommys boy you will have a very very hard time in your relationships.

Ideally ones partner should come from a 'traditional' home with 2 happy parents that are happy and raised him in a happy setting. Otherwise he'd be miserable and all his efforts will be towards making the woman/man in his life miserable. Of course this isn't a general rule but I do use family background to judge people alot. Then again we never know what is happening behind closed doors.

shymmex: White Brazilians don't see themselves as white because most of them have black blood in them.. They're just Brazilians.

thats not true- there is a clear difference between white brazilians and the rest of them. They come from many non black countries they dont have black blood in them. Thats why they are called 'white'.

so one can also be over aged? was she disqualified because she was too old or because she lied about her age? if she was disqualified for being too old then thats disgraceful. Thats downright discrimination. . . .

horny4u: Black men who show show oyinbo women as their dream girls ...mama's did a poor job or they just don't like seeing their mama face...colonised kolos

I am not against inter racial relationship but tired of black men portraying white girls as their dream girls how many times do you see oyinbo men portray black girls as their dream girls...almost never because they like their mama's face......not because they do not think black girls are pretty or vice versa...

Pls lets release ourselves from this shackles jare....some black girl will dance to this record .....stop and think!


No wonder oyinbo say black men are inferior ( I donot agree with this statement but if you keep acting like anything white gal is better ain't your mama black)

Most of them I dont even mind, it's when you have a song like 'fimile' that you should be portraying beautiful beautiful yoruba babes- and you go and bring horgly oyibo women into the video? As if your main target market isnt african women? it's insulting.

meanwhile i dont think it's intentional, they might just be modelling themselves after your typical hip hop video. Music video casting is definitely not a strong point for these artists. look at the reject olu maintain used in nawti? ruined a dem good song.

lol back home they ration meat. . . .my mum used to make a habit of giving us meat whenever she was making it.

Do that, whenever you are making meat, give your husband one or two that is his extra portion. He cannot be eating the meat that belongs to the whole house, discipline him! lool if you see his hand in the pot tell him thats his meat for the week! nonsense

you can also add meat alternatives to the stew, if you dont want to spend too much, some chicken, mushrooms, turkey, that disgusting leathery thing they like eating. . . ponmo, those little little meat thingies, shaki, and bits that he doesnt like so even if he eats them it doesnt upset the ration of the house.

i used to be soooo fashionable- the latest everything. Now it's me my coffee cup and my ugg boots all the way. . . .it's all about comfort. even when im clubbing.

Nashville: Keep dreaming dia. The question was what makes a man worth keeping and not what is the ideal man. Please tell us the minimum things you will consider to keep a man

that is her minimum requirements; you dont like them you move on. Why the need to victimize women who are simply stating how they feel? What is wrong with you people? mshew. The male version of this wasn't met with such harassment, i dont see why this one is. Nigerian men have such issues, it's pathetic. mshew.

horny4u: Do be fooled and I kid you not...intelligence has nothing to do with man and woman matter....only principles.

Intelligence has its place and its great for a pay check and comfort but not for a man.

Our house help was getting more serious male attention than I was when we were growing up and she was a stack illiterate yet the men coming after her were educated graduates dudes - she was clean but not pretty....anyway she owns a hair salon now an we are still friends and I learnt a lot from her.......
She will not pick their calls, she will giggle like a blonde and directly ask for what she wanted, had them in every town and could not give a hoot about any of them yet they kept coming

My family friend's house help has 3 children for her ex husband and is now the madam of the house to a harvard MBA holder.

One of the principle is the more of lady hears from a man the more she falls for him while the more a man speaks to a lady even if he is the one calling the less he falls for her as she is no challenge and too available.

When a man finds a dead antelope in his back garden he throws it in the trash...when a man kills an antelope while hunting he hangs its head in the front room for all to see.

My elder sis has poured soap water after washing clothes on her then toaster now husband and he still kept coming till he married her and now displays her as MRS HISNAME alas mother of my kids and always tells everyone how sturborn my sister was to catch.

DONOT be found dead in his back garden......run very fast and he will chase you if he wants you bad enough

hmmm. . . . when marrying the billy goat men of ****ria i'm guessing this is how it is. It's a shame for the women though. The energy you should focus on living your life you focus on tricking men into marrying you. . . . it's a shame.

again, some eediot of a woman will say women are somehow somehow, soo far men seem to be the common trouble makers on this site.

@post I answered this question on another thread i'll go find it.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]I hear you. My husband said similar to what you said. He said he will make sure that all of his children are proud to be Igbos regardless of what people think of Igbos.

He is already quoting a bride price on Baby C and she ain't even had her period yet! Smh.[/quote]this woman is soo funny! lol

i feel soo sorry for baby c she has typical igbocious parents. those ones that never leave you alone. . . and keep speaking their languange. . .i hope he doesnt decide to send her to Nigeria too. . .that place is a dem death trap. . . . .

how do the lizards catch the flies? do their tongues fly out like frogs? why didnt i ever notice that?

theres also alot of frogs back home. soo much wildlife.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]So you mean you actually look at a guy and go with the gut feeling that he is sex guru before you agree to date him?[/color]

is english a problem? she said what qualities makes a man worth keeping. you are talking about first dates?

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Is intimate appeal the first thing you look out for, in a man? Smh. [/color]

iro- maybe you intentionally date girls that look revolting to you. nonsense.

azubaby: Did u say he just cam bc frm south africa? Hmmmm babe watch out. SA is full of Aids. U never can tell.

thank you!!

listen to queensmith very carefully, did you say south africa? he has aids and wants to spread it #thatisall

lol- i mean, its a way to look at things i guess. Aren't we all just struggling to fulfill the capitalist agenda. I mean when we remove all the little problems/squabbles we have. What do we want to gain? We want a black man to be president, and then what? Nothing is going to change, because in reality we aren't all perceived as equals. Everybody is trying to be better than somebody. The men want to be better than the woman, the hausas are better than the igbos, the nigerians are better than ghanians, africans better than americans.

It's animal farm up in eere!

mpo, i don't really care for anybody. Be it blacks, whites, asians, chinese. I owe nobody anything and i'm certainly not going to join forces with anybody because of the color of her skin.
If we are speaking of ideals, ideas, beliefs the likes then we are talking. You kind of make an arse out of yourself wasting time defending people who refuse to acknowledge each others existence.

This is lovely I wanted to post something like this, how did you guys do your market research (if any)? I'm held back with this part of the proforma.

I will also like to hear of the methods you guys use for retailing? Restocking? If any of you guys sell Nigerian designers and how well they do, and I will especially like to meet retailers in less urban areas . . . .need ideas on logistics and the lot.

horny4u: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-18679794

This is a very interesting article. . . . . *shares on facebook* . . . . you do however realise the writer went to oxford university? . . . . and probably wouldnt be a writer at the bbc if he didnt? . . . . . .and you wouldnt have that article to quote?. . . . ?

He does have a point though. . . .but dammit don't shit on my degree dammit. . . . not even to comfort those who don't have one dammit. . . .

[quote author=Royal-VII]The answer to the title of the Thread.... Not a Chance



The most Educated of person among them...turned out to be the british kid with the "ghetto" rap video

Hilarious....[/quote]It goes to show doesnt it, some will will troll about this forum boasting of 'intellect' that nobody has observed. Those we dismiss for using slang and their spelling errors seem to be the most enlightened. Meanwhile this place has a history of nlers full of poetry and riddles taking the ladies for a hell of a ride.

It's ignorance and lack of exposure, most of them will have educations, little of them will know how to use it. Picking up a book and reading about things you don't understand is not difficult. Knowledge doesn't come from your arse or the racist sentiments of your bigoted parents (which is where most of these people get their ideas from).

My bff said today 'the world is full of stewpid people' it's a dem shame.

nerodenero: just wondering o... what's lizard's economic importance?

theyll support the ecosystem somehow, everything has its own importance, . .naturally. They are very protective of lizards over here.

they will climb into your house- into your wardrobe, into your handbag, and into your stew. those lizards meeh. esp those little ones that walk around majestically in your own house? and then you are told not to kill them? i swear animals will soon start evicting landlords if care is not taken in that country.

they make brillians photographs though! my friends love em! lol

ogugua88: Would I lie?

It's something that AAs and diaspora Africans with perseverance have to battle every day. You would have no idea how many times I go somewhere as common as a grocery store or mall, and someone is telling me "Wow, you speak good English!" They expect anyone with a darker tone of skin to speak with slang, have lots of babies by different men (none of them around), weave, bad mannerisms, etc. That's what happens when the majority is generalized from the sour grapes of the bunch.

This is blatant racism?? You should be scolding them for racism! Teenage pregnancies, slang, hair extensions, different mannerisms occur in every race? It's ignorant to believe its a black thing, it's backwards to single a black person out for not doing so!
There is no 'black culture' thats absolute nonsense - black is the color of your skin, it defines nothing. It doesn't tell me what the culture is, where you are from, where you were raised and it sure as hell doesn't dictate how you speak.
Thats absolute ignorance and you shouldnt be entertaining it, you certainly shouldnt assume a 'cultural superiority' over it. You definitely should never group them up like that without understanding the factors that determine their position today.
We confuse 'poverty' with 'race' and we do ourselves no favors when we do that. We are black too you know?

davidylan: similar to AAs here too, blacks in Aemrica and the UK dislike Africans because they show them up as the half-witted, lazy folks that they truly are.
There is no excuse for blacks to have such a poor command of the primary language where they reside.

ogugua88: Seconded. You'd be surprised at how many AA's refuse to work and sit in the unemployment lines and welfare offices because "the white man" made them slaves. In this 2012, those lazy folks still exist. They have an excuse for everything.

erm and you wonder why the indigenes hate you? do you listen to yourselves at all? dear lawd almighty.

kandiikane: I am not editing your posts?

Erm, we have born and bred whites and asians who live in the same areas with blacks and speak in the accent the black there speak. No such thing as black speak.

Lets move on.

thank you for this, some idiots will come and behave as if ghetto=black. erm the most notorious ghetto people i know are asians/somalians. i grew up in a predominantly asian area and was the only person that didnt speak slang, its all about where /by whom you were raised, your first language and the cultural capital

Burrito: I agree, Davidylan needs an (online) personality transplant but judging by looks ALONE, the boy is fiiiiiinnnnnnneeee

not even fine fiiiiinnnnneeeee?? oluwa oooo, there is a blind curse on nl. nl is making people blind. david is worwor abeg.