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FEMALES LIKE TO BE PAMPERED AND LOVE SURPRISES ALONG WITH OTHER

QUALITATIVE GESTURES. DO REMEMBER THAT "DOING SMALL THINGS ALSO CARRIES A

BIG "PLUS" ON A MAN'S RECORD IN A FEMALES DIARY".

SEEK GOD'S GUIDANCE THEN GO OUT AND SOCIALIZED AND DO REMEMBER SOMETIMES

GOD SENDS THE RIGHT PERSON TO US IN A GIFT PAPER BUT BECAUSE THE EXTERIOR

IS NOT PRETTY WE DON'T BOTHER TO EXAMINE THE INTERIOR. AM SURE YOU UNDERSTAND

MY LANGUAGE AND GET A CLEAR PICTURE OF WHAT AM AIMING AT . GOOD LUCK AS

YOU GO ON YOUR ADVENTURE .

WELL SAID OLUMIDE7 I LOVE YOUR REASONING FROM A MALE PERSPECTIVE.

EVERY COUNTRY HAS ITS OWN BITTER MEDICINE. EVERY COUNTRY HAS THEIR OWN

PRACTICE IN WHATEVER THEY DO. ALL COUNTRY HAS THEIR TAG OF CORRUPTION.

THERE IS NO NEED TO BUS FUSS OVER MINOR MATTERS THAT EXIST IN A SHOW. IF YOU

CAN'T STAND THOSE PART,REWIND THE SHOW TO THE PART THAT IS ENJOYABLE TO YOU OR

DESIST FROM WATCHING.

There are many factors that can be contributed to miscarriage. First females who wears

high heel shoes regularly non-stop will to a greater extent suffers from miscarriage.

Wearing high heel shoes non-stop will gradually tilt the womb abnormally backward or

retrovert the womb. The abnormality of the womb in most time will not accommodate the

unborn foetus hence a miscarriage tahes place. Another abnormality problem is when the

wall of the cervix becomes weak due to retrovertion and during gestation it should be

tighten to hold the baby but it's doing the opposite this can result in miscarriage.

Another woman predator is in the place. Another woman opportunist/user . You have

wasted 98% of your time to post a topic like this. please use the other 2% and convert

yourself from a "MUTTONMONGER", A SEXUALLY PROMISCUOUS MAN to a man with

integrity . A real man doesn't romance a different girl every night . A real man who

knows the value of a real woman romance her for the rest of his life .

The following Biblical text says it all, Genesis 2:24 "Therefore shall a man leave his

father and his mother , and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.'

Whenever a male dubbed a post like this I always encourage them to simply "GET MARRIED

TO THEIR MOTHER OR ANY OTHER FEMALE MEMBERS IN THEIR FAMILY." I wonder why the

Nigerian men I deemed them as "MAMA'S BOY" always let their parents run their lives in

misery . Their parents propel their lives and convert them into an infidel . let me add

my quote of "CONGRATULATION to NaJa HaJe ' you have said it all my dear.

ARE YOU MARRYING YOUR MOM? OR ARE YOU MARRYING THE GIRL YOU WANT TO BE YOUR FUTURE WIFE AND SETTLE DOWN WITH? AM SURE THAT YOUR MOM IS DEFINATELY NOT A CHRISTIAN? IS YOUR MOM 100% BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUTSIDE?

WHAT I COME TO REALIZE WITH MOST OF THE NIGERIAN MEN, THEY HAVE THIS DISPOSITION IN BEING MAMA'S BOY. ONCE A WOMAN DOES NOT PLEASES MAMA THEY DO AWAY WITH THE WOMAN. WHEN A MAN IS FULLY MATURE AND RESPONSIBILITY, THEN MAMA CAN GIVE ADVICE BUT THE FINAL DECISION REST UPON THE MAN. MOST NIGERIAN MEN ARE IDOITS MAMA RUNS THEIR LIFE AND TURN THEM INTO "FOOLS".

Busta go and get yourself a life and scared your own "SHADOW" go and bathe in darkness.

You are a perfect epitome of "scaredness"

I can see that you people are not well learnt. Why do you all think so narrow-minded ? Why do you all have to focus cheating only in having an affair with the opposite. We all are guilty of cheating including myself and am not talking about aving an affair now with an opposite sex.

Did you know that if you don't spend quality time with your partner that is 'Cheating" ?
Did you know if you with-held sex from your partner that is cheating ? You are cheating him/her of their sexual enjoyment
Did you know that false pretence in a relationship is cheating ?

"Cheating" does not centered around having sex with the opposite sex it comes in many forms which most of us are not cognizant in knowing.

I think "men" need to re-educate themself thoroughly on the concept of "virginity". Not bleeding during the first penetration does not say you are not a "virgin". It's quite popular that once you bleed on your first penile entry you are a virgin,but what "men" need to digest is that there are strenous exercises that can tear the "hymen" seeing that is extremely thin.


Women who use "tampon" another form of sanitary protection which the females have to insert in the vagina can also break the hymen. Men please do educate yourself with this "hymen" facts,  the hymen is very thin or fragile hence rigourous exercises and tampon insertion can break it's structure.


When a man is full educated about the female anatomy, he does not behave as if he is unlearnt or uneducated. Please do understand that if your female was quite active in school situation like the above mentioned will occur.

For heaven sake if the woman says she is a virgin why dispute her stance. Are you jealous because you aren't? 

Mr.Adick who are you to categorize a nationality ? HA ? Do you think you can use one paint brush and paint everyone . Check yourself before you wreck another man's opportunity . let me extend another question to you Mr.Adick How good are you ?

Don't let nationality be an obstacle in your relationship. I am 100% Jamaican by birth. Regardless of your nationality all men have their faults;but all you have to do is to take things slow and let nature takes it's course.

Seek Divine Intervention daily from God, ask Him to give you a discerning mind to see things before it decays on you.He knows whats best for you. Once God sanctioned to this relationship then things will be o.k.


Any question on Jamaican men you can ask me ?

Let me say here that nothing God made in His own image is "ugly". If you deemed someone as "ugly" according to your definition then you are describing God. Regardless of your physical appearance everyone possesses some sort of "ugliness" and that's a fact. You might narrow down your topic to physical appearance but no-one is beautiful until they are 100% perfect and nobody on earth exhibit such quality.


Everyone needs to check themself to see if they are 100% beautiful on the exterior and 100% beautiful on the interior. If you fit perfect in this equation then you are exception to the "ugliness". You and I know that no-one on this earth fits here. Looks attracts but character keeps.

Long Distance can work if both partners come to an understanding of committment, trustworthy, open communication, make quality time for each other. People need to know that when things seem impossible to them, will always be possible to GOD. The advice I can give is seek God's guidance, direction and pray feverently without ceasing. If a Long Distance  relationship is not for you God will put a Stop order on it.

MEN CHEAT 4 SEVERAL REASONS: OPPORTUNITY AVAILABLE,LOW SELF-ESTEEM,UNHAPPY IN

THEIR RELATIONSHIP,AFFRAID OF COMMITTMENT,SEEKING FUN,IMPRESS PEERS,LACK OF

COMMUNICATION JUST TO NAME A FEW.NOTWITHSTANDING,THIS ABOVE DOES NOT SEEK

TO JUSTIFY THEIR IMMATURE "DOGISH-LIFE STYLE". MEN NEED TO EVALUATE THIER ACTION

AND ASK THE QUESTION: WOULD I LIKE MY PARTNER TO DO THIS TO ME?

ARE YOU PARENTS PLEASER OR YOU ARE GOING TO MARRIED SOMEONE WHO YOU FIND

HAPPINESS WITH? NOW I KNOW WHY YOU NIGERIANS HAVE DISASTROUS MARRIED

LIFE.YOU MARRIED INCOMPATIBLE PARTNERS JUST TO PLEASE YOUR PARENTS? YOU PEOPLE

ARE SO "STUPID AT TIME IN REASONING?" GOSH!!!!!!!!!!YOU ARE THE ONE GOING TO LIVE

WITH THE PERSON, NOT YOUR PARENTS THAT'S WHY DIVORCED IS SO RAMPANT IN YOUR

COUNTRY.

YOUR HUSBAND IS "MAMA'S BOY".HIS PLACENTA IS STILL ATTACH TO HIS MOTHER'S BELLY.

HE NEEDS TO GET A MATURE FAMILY LIFE, BE A MAN AND MOVE OUT OF HIS MOTHER'S

HOUSE WITH HIS FAMILY.THE "WORST MISTAKE" A MAN CAN MAKE HIS MARRIED AND STILL

LIVE UNDER HIS MOTHER'S ROOF. BIBLICAL SAYING GOES "LEAVE AND CLEAVE".

MARRIED MEN ARE DEEMED AS "READY-MADE-MAN" THEY HAVE ONE THING THAT WOMEN

YEARN FOR " THRILL A LOAD OF MONEY". SOMETIMES WHERE THEIR WIVES FAIL,THEY

FULFILL.

GUYS FLIRT BECAUSE THEY CANNOT KEEP THEIR "GENES" INTO THEIR "JEANS" AND THEY

NEED TO SCREW THEIR WORKING MACHINE INTO EVERY "STD'S ROOM" AND "AIDS

DEPARTMENT".BY EXTENTION DUE TO THE FACT THAT THEY TAKE A VERY LONG TIME TO

REACH MATURITY,THEIR LEVEL OF IMMATURITY CONTROLS THEIR THINKING FACULTY SO

IT'S DIFFICULT FOR THEM TO STICK TO ONE WOMAN. THE SAYING GOES, "ROOSTER +DOG=

MAN". THE 3 FACTORS ARE THE SAME.

that man was a financial opportunist and trickers.

men married to legalize sex and control their woman.

the beauty of a woman comes from within and that's a factual statement. however,immature,uneducated and irresponsible men tends to focus on exterior than interior. men who tend to lavish on the exterior tends to loose in the end as they are always gravitating towards all sort of external beauty. men tends to want external beautiful women and they themselves not handsome. if you don't see a woman beautiful,you yourself are not handsome.