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All these teams have studied Saka and their is no sub for him. This match might end in a draw

I said it I don’t understand that substitution by Arterta

ahnie:
I m addicted to carbonated drinks and it's beginning to sound weird and I can hardly do without taking like 3 a day in every meal I take.

It's like there's a force propelling me to always take carbonated drinks.

Pls how do I get rid of such unhealthy habits?

Diabetes is a slow killer and it starts eating your organs slowly. I cut coke and spirit for 3 years now.

KanwuliaExtra:
Besides Ukraine. . . which wars are men fighting now or in the last 20 years? Which "other activities"?
Jesus died at 33. . . . and will have to die again to make the same impact. The second coming sounds familiar. . . .perhaps he would require a 9th and a 10th and still make no impact for followers with 'hardened hearts and souls'.
I ask again. . . what are MEN doing awake at night when they should be sleeping?

Read to understand and not to respond my friend. Obviously u are not well versed in what is going on inthe world. In world war 2 and after millions of men died

U have heard of Boko Haram, is that not a war. Do you know how many casualties on both sides , majority been men. underline majority
What of Sierra Leone, Liberia


Israel-Palestine crisis


Yemeni Civil War


Libyan War



Iraq War

War on Terrorism

War in Afghanistan

The price men have to pay to be the head - thats y they dont sleep like women with no care in the world

Arsenal are missing Gabriel Jesus in this game.

Ball on a plate for Nketiah

Nketiah is short one unless u put ball on a plate for him to score

KanwuliaExtra:
1. Should we give men estrogen and women some testosterone injection to achieve some form of 'homeostasis'?
2. Should men change their sleeping patterns? What is preventing men from going to bed early if not sneaking around at night sexting side chicks? What prevents them from going to bed early?

Social media addiction is just as BAD as any illicit and abused drug. A man should know when to put down his 'toys' and go to sleep!

Been there.. . .done that. But, I will NEVER put any hobby before my personal or professional obligations. . . . NL or any other forum included!

All about being a responsible and well-adjusted adult!

its not about how long but how well. You can keep your estrogen.

Men have been dieing in Millions in Wars and other activities.

for example Jesus lived till 33 but made a huge impact on the world.

Women and sleep , have you ever seen a chicken when 7pm reach. they fall asleep soundlyly until like 6am. Thats how women are

KanwuliaExtra:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/05/why-women-live-longer-than-men-2/

At a minimum 2 things

Firstly biological estrogen which is a female hormone has a protective effect over the heart compared to testosterone. Testosterone leads men to put their lives more at risk than women. It’s also what makes men to be daring and leaders. Ur heart is more most important organ of it stops working it’s game over. Women have a protective hormone over the heart.

2ndly look at the women in your lives and she how they sleep. Women sleep like babies. They don’t like stress at all. Compare the way your father sleep compared to your mother. Women go to bed early and sleep deeper I find. Sleeping good is very good for your health.

If na Chelsea u will hear Trossard to Chelsea 70 million. They bought cucurella for how amount?

TWoods:
This is not a very smart way to look at things.



None of this is true. The system is designed to protect the weak. Nigerian men are used to a culture that permits abuse. It's always a shock to the system moving to a society that gives the weaker spouse the power to stand up to your abuse. Black men are no more at the bottom of the totem pole in the West compared to Nigeria.



The idea that you get anything for free in the West is a misnomer. Nothing is free.

Paying a house off after 20 years makes sense. It's why westerners don't feel the pressure to steal government money... since they can easily own a home while making payments commensurate with what they honestly earn. The average Nigerian family can never buy a house just on their salary alone. Your house can be taken away if you fail to pay your tax... that is a good thing as it keeps everyone honest. Your comparison is to a Nigeria where there are no consequences for failing to pay your tax. That's why the country is a hell hole.



As against Nigeria where you can decide not to pay tax and no one does anything? As i said, the western adherence to the rule of law is why you're dying to get visas to come here.



She worked every day, taking care of your kids and home. That isn't free.

You are not very smart, i will give you eg look at Kanye west he and his wife are rich. They are asking him to pay his wife 200000$ every month for upkeep. If he defaults he can have an asset seized or go to jail. Very easy to bankrupt a person because of their simpish legal system that is gayish at heart.

Im comparing Nigeria to the west , if you build a house in Nigeria there nothing like yearly property tax. That property tax is determined by the size of your house and where you live. What is the need for the tax after buying something outright.

There is still income tax over earnings you make in a year. So its a system of compounded taxation. There is still VAT, state tax, county tax.
If you profit from a business, you will pay gains tax etc.

As per the woman matter even if you hire a maid to take care of the children and they are in daycare. you are still in debt to your spouse.

The longer the marriage the more money for her.

The rule is the richer of the two will foot the bill. So if the woman is making the most she will pay to him.

Thats why i am telling you in the West you basically have to pay to live unlike in Nigeria where you can enjoy the fruits of your labour in peace without massive and compunded taxation.

There are some old retires that have lost everything they worked for because they couldnt keep up with the taxation and guess what if you dont pay you will have lawsuits against you. Dont answer the lawsuit either jail or confiscation of your asset.

Realteeyee123:
I think people who say people shouldn’t japa are wicked and evil. A lot of them have either gone, can’t go or are very comfortable in Nigeria and don’t want the progress of others.

Leaving Nigeria legally with a good plan is the best decision one can make.

its not in the long run.

In western world the system is designed against men. Especially black men who is on the bottom of the totem pole

The free things u get if there is any free thng. If you buy a house and pay it off after 20 years . They can still take the house away for u for tax lien.

A person spent 20 years to pay off a house. Government said he has to pay 10000$ tax every year. this is after his retirement.

One day his wife can decide to divorce him and legally she can take over ownership of the house or half off the money in this account even if she didnt work one day.

This is just one i can go one and one

happiness32:
This warehouse economist of a man don come again.
Is it bad for the NPA to have an office in London? The biggest city in the world? What if that’s a way of generating revenue for the NPA to become self reliant at the London office?
How will any sane president not want his country to have an efficient ports office in one of the biggest cities in the world.
Now I agree with Tinubu, Obi is just a warehouse economist and trader who couldn’t transform Anambra but wants to transform Nigeria. Bala bulu economics

If Port of New york doesnt have office in London which business is NPA doing in london. Estacode money and for girlfriends of MD.

U ppl with analog brain

wiseone28:
The impressive form has ended..


Blame the world cup break

No we missing Gabriel Jesus

See nketiah o

Arsenal attack has been blunt thus far

oshozondii:
https://www.facebook.com/100064441879510/posts/pfbid0nU4RrKJoTzzjN2nFwKjitmAxMABu38r8uFg6heh9cSAuejeKzxRrH2xYnGyHXaHLl/?mibextid=Nif5oz

All the moshalashi wey dey make noise for person ear dem no consider that one as noise?


This is politically motivated I think

Argentina coach only making 3 subs out of 6.

Very naive

With Dbayla on the bench.

This match get Tension and I don’t care who wins. Even though I would like Messi to lift the cup.

nigerians always want shortcut

Solutions

- Fix the league, if the league is not on TV there is no growth.
- Package the league games- i watched an NPFL league game it looks like it was recorded in 1950
- Organised school competitions from primary school
- Local government cup all ages.

- incorpororate some of the u20 into super eagles from time to time. The u20 and u17 are the academy for super eagles. it was done before eg aghahowa, jayjay etc

Dont wait until the player blows or scores in europe before inviting him.


Merit based selection

Faciliies maintenance


More importantly Nigerian coaches are archaic,

A proper FA usually setups a coaching certification program, Nigeria can copy what Brazil and other South american countries are doing as they dont have the resources.

So much but i dont have time right now

prinsam30:
seriously guys, 90% of France players are not really from France they ar all immigrants and it's seriously helping them to stay relevant in world of football, same thing goes for Belgium and Netherland

They r not the only country. The main thing is they have football culture, they invest in football infrastructure which Morroco copied. They have football academy where the coach all French players of quality in tactics, coaching , quick thinking, techique etc.

Clairfontane is the name

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/INF_Clairefontaine

Since they established it they have won two world cups enroute 3rd.

Naijaisshitho:
I was looking out for your comment to blame Nigeria for this woman's predicament. Nigerians will only read the headline and will quickly think shes discouraging them from coming abroad. That is why I was expecting to see comments like "Come back to Nigeria na" "Stop discouraging us from relocation" as if most of them even have money for relocation.

or they will house them or provide business or money for them.

Once you are out of the nigerian system to work in it is difficult.


1st of lack of ethics and anyhowness

super eagles never get foreign born nigerian players like musiala na ekong dem go dey get.

germany and spain going out like dis

too much forking na im dey worry Lukaku.

Dats y im dey do like suegbe

If u tell Nigerians that at the end of the day Japa might turn out to be a negative.

They will say u don’t want them to progress.

However to each his own

tamdun:
They won't listen,US is doing more harm to Christianity than any country in the world

The US don’t send the World Cup like that. But you see England and the rest are the ones pushing.


In England homosexuality is more widespread and in the open.

Germany coach wey get Sane on the bench and not using him.

Initial gragra from Canada

Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!

This is what I call mumu talk


You can knack each other any style .

If you like don’t enjoy yourself while young u will be a bitter couple in old age.

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

Throw her out over texts?

Are u that sensitive

Truth be told women too are like men and their eyes wonder from time to time.


Seems you have to rekindle her and Do small romance and romantic things.

At the end talk to her and tell her it’s bothering you. 2 decades ?

immortalcrown:
More than two and half decades and your marriage is still like this?

This story is not complete. Show your wife this post and let her tell her side of the story. Then, I can say something. I say this because I wonder what led to your friend sending you porn, you that have spent more than 2 decades in marriage. This seems to be a case of a pot calling a kettle black.

He that comes to equity should come with clean hands.

Wrong advice lol

Show your wife this post lol

You don’t know woman