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1freshdude:
To further discourage frequent quarrels at home and divorce, I think every man should encourage his spouse to work. A job would keep them occupied and make them less conscious of some trivia things that their men forget to do. It would also make them empathize with their men, as they may begin to understand the kind of pressure that there men face at work on a daily basis.

this is brilliant! ..
@op number one is the only reason I seee there, others...I don't know, they ain't good enough enough..

lack of attention from one's spouse can really take a wrong turn especially on the woman..not saying 'I love you' isn't the major reason in number one, its lack of attention.

as for number two, that's funny! the woman should rather divorce And flirt as much as she wants instead , cause cheating on your husband (for a Nigerian) for revenge is a no no, na you go still pack comot..but I can understand, na oyibo woman.

husband cheat- wife suffers
wife cheats- wife suffers.

I really don't know the fuss about marriage for women not with all this sham marriages around.
I really can't imagine someone cheating on me..

tomhank:
1.

Um do yhu remember losing ya virginity? Do yhu still remembere how it felt when you realized yhu just lost ya pride ... Have yhu ever asked yourself why you ain't with the guy that disvirgined yhu! Why do yhu think 75 % of married men still look for smaller chicks!
2.
Cause the fact still remains that guys don't give a fck bout their virginity... My gf ain't perfect either buh I'll choose here a million times over yhu...
Cause yhu don't cohabit with ya bf u think you're Berra smh....

1. I don't have an experience, sorry!
and obviously you are among the guys who measure a woman's worth by her pucci.. that's some piece of crap!! the emboldened is utterly stupid dear. why are you with a girl who has lost her pride to some one other than you are you dating a valueless girl? that's judging by your definition of a girl's 'pride'..you are birds of a feather no wonder..what pride have you got sleeping around I'm not insulting, just using your word against u.
2. I'm not here fighting with your gf over you..you? lmao.. just pointing it out I'm no average naija girl.. and I don't cohabit, neither am i saying I'm better..you seem to read upside down! now enough about me and your gf, let's face the topic
my point: cohabitation is bad,pre marital s.ex is bad .. don't condemn one and embrace the other in the same hand..
75% of married men look for smaller chicks(who obviously are as worse as w.hore, what's the point?) cause they are cheating dogs..

Chinum:
Trying to insult someone for not being married is soo 1990. I'm sure you are more than that.

he's not really worth it.. if he knows my age, he wouldn't dare bring up marriage card..
but you know? its Nigeria, women must marry to be considered responsible..

Donmichaelz:
who asked dis fooool wether u eat or not,?can't blame u, u so stuuupid ur parent threw u away, away threw u back,,,Tell your mom to tell u who ur daddy is, Co's all ur brothers and sisters are product of Away teams,,, Go and die, u are uselllless, to ur family and to the world

if i start insulting your parents, you really won't like.. I swear!
so I will just leave it as it is..
have a nice day.!

Donmichaelz:
go and die U,SHAMELESS, DOG. ur mate are married and u are here insulting me.mummmu girl with no respect at all

I just finish eating breakfast with my family..in our apartment.. when are you throwing us into the lagoon?
my mates who are married either got pregnant out of wedlock and were forced to marry or they are drop outs with no future ambitions other than having someone else's name to theirs who will take over their father responsibility..only 1/100 of my mates at my age marry for genuine reason.. I don't know if your brain can dig this!

I will insult you cause you deserve it..useless he goat, shameless son of a ho. irritating fa.ggot

tomhank:
Oh I see where you're driving at!... Well am that kinda dude who doesn't give a FCK if my gf screws someone else...... Cause I know fully well an average Nigerian girl like yhu in a fcking relationship screws 3 other guys.... Its no fcking big deal...my point is that cohabiting makes the relationship fcking boring! ! I screw other girls in school and I don't give a flying fck

you don't give a flying fck and you are this pained about my post
I'm not saying your gf screws other dudes, it was a picture! ..you don't know what it means to make an analogy?( I pity your gns teacher)
you screw other girls who are prolly other dudes gfs, you see what I'm pointing to I understand your point about boredom, as you see I didn't stress that part of your post..only the one related to this thread.

lol an average Naija girl like me? if you have a Nigerian girl like me on the basis of this thread, you would wish your mother have me as a daughter in law!#real fact!

you can come around with insults, have given you enough respect I think you deserve and won't take any name calling without a fight..

Elbisco:
(If you wont get angry for quoting you). You've made sane points,you're 100% correct,however, the more evil cohabition does is that the lady performs allllllll the functions of a wife. Its bad enough that we engage in pre marital intimacy,but salt is added to injury when she stoops low to perform the said functions without the right things done first. I hope I didn't overstep my bound!

lol no na.. I only get angry at posts that are angry..
yes you are right about the wifely duties and my first post on this thread condemned that.. I totally hate it.. cohabitation too is bad, but it doesn't change the fact that people engage in se.x more often than not even as singles .
if we want to regain our level of morality back, then premarital se.x should be the topic as a whole..where we condemn the act by both se.xes. if that is condemned, the degree to which cohabitation is at, will drop.. cause obviously guys cohabit basically for se.x while girls for the monetary benefits.

Teespice:
but a man who has slept with over 5 women deserves a virgin for a wife.

ladies, una don see am.

ask him to tell men how they will know the number of times their gfs have been banged..So they will know if she deserves the price or not...loool

funniest thing, he will pay the price of a woman who has been intimate more than 10 times without a blink

tomhank:
Calm your nerves ni..... Just chillax

you know i saw your post and I just shook my head. but you've given me the opportunity to talk by quoting me..so don't get heat up..just wanna make you see the picture...

your gf who comes to spend 3days, get intimate (if you are having s.ex)with you as many times as possible, now multiply by the number of days you've been dating.. probability she's dating some one else in school is there, now she stays close with that one ..and get intimate as many times as possible.. the probability that she wasn't a v when you met her is there... And you don't know the no of guys/times they've been intimate.. could you tell me the different between her and the ones the op is condemning? aint they all being used
is she any better?! if you eventually break up, she carries her left over to another guys who ramped her till she finally meet the unlucky dude who pay the bride price..while you also get the same category of valueless girl to marry(who knows this one might be among those the op is condemning).. and you pay the bride price

please what's the end point? you guys all get dem And pay the price..
but if you were logical enough , then you should point to the right path..that people are having se.x as many times as possible irrespective of cohabitation.. but guys here seem to think cohabitation is the evil, just get the se.x(no of time doesn't matter) and its cool..

I don't support cohabitation but Im wise enough to see that people are getting Intimate as many times as possible outside cohabitation..
and you know where you guys are seeing it wrong? according to op, only university cohabitations are wrong!.. lol those outside of university is no big deal..and the parties involved are saint..

shadowgwalker:
they said I should ignore you
a good advice from an intelligent Nairalander.

loool
good for that bird of a feather hypocrite naira land.. just learn to shut the feck up if talks like this are going around..you are worse in the category..

Donmichaelz:
ask your mom where she was yesterday night, and ur oda sister, d fat ugly one, u have a poor sense of reasoning, u got Dat from ur dad I understand, but how could u be so stupid, ur mom wasnt dis stupid,..ur family is poo,ur future is poo all u people do is screw,bi*tch mother bi*tch daughters ,,go fu*ck a money u Shameless She goat ,from ur family tree down ,thunder fire una ,quote me again ,,,,,,Looser, and I will throw ur whole family in d lagoon,

lmao is this the hell you threatened me
Michael o !

now its my family lool... I'm not brought to insult people's parents..I understand family's love

. you sound bitter like someone denied of family love, so I don't blame you
you people know the useless worthless good for nothing mad son you would grow up to be..and throwing you to the dogs is the best Bet..who wants to be associated to a dumb a.s.s like you who wants to throw someone Into the lagoon via the internet... how st.upid does that even sound to you..
menh whomever sent you to school wasted the money! you are a waste product!


now waiting for you to throw my family into that lagoon, lool some people can be so st.upid sha

tensazangetsu:
Marriage is the most over rated thing in the world maybe when nigerian men realise that some things will change.

very over rated.. the same category of girls they are shaming (as if they are any inch better..) will become another man's wife.. fortunately, huge bride price would be paid to marry those girls..
the earlier men realise they have no say in issue like this the better..

ebosse:
I wasn't going to comment on this thread but I just had to after seeing several posts from you and other ladies.

Y'all are getting it wrong! This isn't about BASHing. I was 1 of those guys who argued with other dudes when they Use this statement "Girls have Fish brain" but after joining Nairaland late last year I'm finding it extremely hard to argue against that claim. No offense meant.

It takes 2 right?... Lemme give U a true story. A friend of mine (Female) was dating and f**kin a (married) man costantly, We adviced her against it but she wouldnt listen. She got pregnant n the dude refused to be held accountable. She was faced with 2 choices "Abortion Or Giving Birth".. She went for the latter.

Now, she's solely responsible for the raising of the little warrior Y the dude is no where to be found ( She just graduated) . If only she had listened to Us she could have prevented the untold stress/hardships she's about to experience.

Vice Versa ( A married lady and a bachelor) the lady would still end up on the wrong side of the scale.

I honestly don't care about how ppl live , I'm just trying to say it will b too late to cry when karsala burst.

The smart ones understood the OPs point ( although he went too far with the No bride price ideology) Y the dull ones are trying to play the "Gender" Card. itsokay!

like some1 said earlier "Y buy what U can borrow"

Its not about who's getting the most bashing its about who lose most.. Money can be replace... Certain things can't!...


Be Smart !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Erm dude I don't need the preaching.. but of course girls are more on the receiving hands in cases like this.. but if hypocrisy And double standards is thrown out of the window, the level of immorality would be low! people like you make guys think they are good to go..if they were equally shamed in like/close manner as girls..they would think twice before rolling in the muds..
now these girls are condemned without even a drop of insult on the guys they play it with.. its not about gender, its about neutrality! it takes two..and they should both be apprehended!

and yeah..who buys what you can borrow.. that's for the lucky dude getting it free.. what about the unlucky(which isn't unlucky..he just got served) dude who will marriage the so called 'valueless used toys'?? and oh yeah..he will pay a huge bride price... so the op is utter rubbish.
now don't join the wagon that the guys these useless girls played it out with deserve virgins....
the smart guys understand guys are as guilty and no better.. the foolish ones think guys can get away with it..

shadowgwalker:
ehen!!another Yoruba girl don come with her noise.
number 1; wool no dey my eye, I'm so fresh and clean
number 2; I'm a guy, and there is nothing in this world that can make a guy pregnant
number 3; don't spool shi* if you ain't sure of your points.
number 4; I'm a virgin, I won't open my legs like you girls do till it's my time.

1. you are filled with filth and p.oo
2. you are a female! the thread were you exposed yourself of being a murderer to be, a fornicator, wh.ore and single shameless mother is there for all to see.. don't drop the you are a guy p.o.o.. you are a shameless, d.ick jumper c.u.nt of mother trying to judge others of what ages guilty of..even worse
3. I'm sure of my point..except if you are fake.. which obviously doesn't change a fact
4. yeah you are a virgin....with a child and attempted abortion
5. its obvious you are confused of your gender...

Donmichaelz:
just because u were a bit*tch and screw men Any how doesn't mean all girls are like u,u said I might marry a w*hore, toy no 1 ,is Dat wat those guys called u or make u feel, Co's d word w*hore is an understatment to wat I call people like u,,,,u used ur 4 or 5 years in school screwing men and now u pouring ur frustrating life on anoda,, d next time u wanna do these, check d username, Co's Donmichaelz is allegic to bullshit, in ur case even jesus blood cant wash ur sh*it ,,,here is an advice ,quote me again and insult me,and u will know what hell is
, good day and wish u a Happy life screwing ur future

my dear, you don't know me...and because I used your 'own' words against you.. you are this pained!.. you called girls used toys, now I'm using your word against you..you are here raining insults on me donmichaelz
aside the fact that you are a daft, you are also unarguably irritating..so calling people names is nothing but when the table is turned , you go to proof you are a toothless waste product ranting all over the place
. . useless son of a d.ick
I say again, the probability you are going to end up with a used toy is 1.. take it or leave it. and you will pay a huge bride price.. just manage am like that.. and grab your over used pucci is good faith.

I quote you and I insult you( Micheal the shameless useless a.s.s licking crazy husby of an over used dumped cvnt, buzu!), now if you don't make me see hell... may sango strike you!

on a more serious note; guys who live with girls before marriage deserves virgins, nothing less.. as you know, girls are the only one to take the 100% bashing and degrading as usual.

misspicy:
Truth is dz OP will end up paying high bride price n marrying a lady dat co habitated for yrs with anoda guy in sch..deserve kor

I think that's exactly what's heating the op up.
the fact that he will be paying the BRIDE PRICE of a girl who's been fecked several times.. ..


lool most guys deserve the 'used toys' they married.. And will pay a high bride price irrespective of the no of f.uckers...

girls dey chop as many deaks as you want before marriage (after marriage outside mess is a no no).. and there are guys that are willing to pay/have paid that bride price.. even the op

Donmichaelz:
dey Don even deserve wedding, to all d girls who did Dat and will try to counter dis thread ask alomo the truth is bitter,,,,,,,u are a cheap LovePeddler,nobody values a used toy even children,

my brother, na those damaged goods most of una go still marry.. why the headache na.
just start to dey warm up to become fu.cker no 10 the probability that your wife to be is a 'wh.ore, used toy' is 1.. just manage u hear.. una go Still do wedding..in fact big one

I'm loving this.. never knew guys could be this pained!

shadowgwalker:
true talk @ op...
I think they got no value, most of them finally rush into marriage coded and finally crash it down.

kaî!! imagine when you get kids and one man that fyiok the Mother in the past school days comes out boastfully (maybe to revenge broken heart) and starts giving the child gist on how she fyioks in her school days... ewww!!!

why not remove the wood in your eye before rushing to remove the wool in someone else's eye? .. you are here judging as if you are any better(if not worse) than those who cohabit.. were you not the 'holy sister' who wanted to abort her pregnancy even when having a 1yr old kid out of wedlock?! yeah its you!

@op you've said the truth but you sound pained, you would have passed a better message if you were neutral and treated both parties.. I'm beginning to wonder if you are here to intentionally bash those girls that do it while relieving the dudes!..
the worse part of cohabitation is 'performing widely duties' gosh!! God forbids! . however if you really wanna pass a message, why not touch all possible areas? there are guys and girls who feck on daily basis as if their lives depend on it(even tho they are not cohabiting).. the only thing I grab in your message is: cohabitation is wrong.. while sex(so far the girl and guy are nor staying together) is no big deal..

also I'd like to point out that there are exceptional cases to cohabitation.. there are some cases with genuine reasons(like financial meltdown etc) , also even if this is hard to believe, but there are cases of cohabitation without the involvement of s.ex.. fact!

and mind you, those girls whose bride price needed not to be paid will keep getting married every Saturday to men, i mean good men). that's the bitter truth!! men are still the ones on the loosing side.. its better you start condemning both parties... no double standards! na una go still carry the damaged goods to meet una mama

gofyourself:
baby boy when ill be old woman, ill be in jamaica beach shagging a black toy boy, promising him visa which he will never get :DDDD

you must be the devil for giving me this insight

I prefer France

gofyourself:
i wouldn't cheat first of all. been there, done that, have a t-shirt. now i understand what it means to other person, so no, table won't be turned

do you really get what I'm talking about?
my first post I Made a comment jokingly about the woman exposing her husby following a thread I read some time back..you jumped at me saying it wasn't necessary she exposed him..and isn't necessary to go to the hotel for husband hunting .. now I'm asking(using the majority of the comments on the other thread) is it ok for the man to go wife hunting and dropping the pix online?
that's what I'm talking about..not necessarily the cheating .

gofyourself:
i am talking from my perspective, from my principles in life so it doesn't matter who i am

so your principle won't make you preach the same thing when the table is turned?

cool

Pennywise:
U know there is no real substitute to a warm blooded, throbbing dangling blokos-not a vibrrator, not a lessbian relationship. Which is why you always want us back.

and I can conveniently say the same thing in the reverse.. but these days, women are way far from dying with a useless blokos who thinks its his birth right to feck around.

Pennywise:
This is the kind of attitude that brings regret and loneliness in a woman's old age. What will you do if he was to be involved a real affair? Shoot him? You women keep fantasizing about the ideal male when no such being exists!!!

but living with a useless cheat will bring peace and company in a woman's old age?
do remember to bring in the emboldened when its a woman caught!
keep loving in self deceit that most women still give a feck about your dangling blokos.

gofyourself:
thats what i was saying!

cool
you can only talk based on a woman's perspective.. when next a man go to the hotel his wife went to chill with another man, and then expose this wife, make sure you preach this.

gofyourself:
I KNOW WHAT U R TALKING ABOUT, but i was asking what u would do!

I don't see why I should go hunt for a useless man in a hotel..when I have little time to spend in precious things.. if I know he's cheating(I don't need to go the any hotel to know this). he's on his own!

gofyourself:
to be honest, would you go for your husband hunt in the hotels?? after u already know that he slept with someone ?? really? women don't have self worth these days.

this isn't about me here.. I was only aligning the event here with a similar one. where the man(knew he wife had already slept with a man in the hotel) exposed the pixs of his wife after catching her in a hotel..

women, men don't have self worth these days

Timbuktou:
She can leave him na. Foolish woman. What exactly is this "revelation" supposed to achieve? The man will apologise and enter delete mode. Oh, wait, she wants to get a divorce? Good fecking luck.

why didn't the man who caught his wife in the hotel with another man leave her? he wasnt foolish when he dropped her pixs on the net..? I see nothing wrong with the chats (pertaining to the degree the woman took at)here tho.. she ought to calm down first And catch them in full glory..then she should expose their shamelessness.

@op yes there's no sort of cheating here..but I don't see why there should be this kinda discussion between a married man And his ex.. its silly to say the least.

ollah1:
Just tell us you want to look at free d*ck. Asheewo

just tell us all the women (my age) in your family are sluts... deakhead!

gofyourself:
I think the chat is enough. Would u humilate yourself even more? Its his problem that he is a s.lut, not her

I'm sorry but did you sleep on the other thread where a man exposed his wife in the hotel?. loads of guys here were hailing the guy.. so its only a woman that can be humiliated in that manner?

besides I guess you also didn't notice the joke

M4gunners:
I think you are either dreaming or you lack sense on issue like this. When you are through, remember he iiss also the Father of his 2 kids. By the time they must have grown up and see the naked picture of their dad,will you help her to explain how it happened?

dude its either you are daft not to notice the joke in my post or you are just unarguable stupid..
save your advise for those who care..

fhranciz:
Sisi don't worry, when your own marries you, he will definitely cheat. U can then do what u advise the lady to do to ur own. See her head, u think its all men who send.

may sango make your marriage miserable.. useless mofo