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HARDDON:


******so she've started doing too?

Just as I was thinking of.........

na wah o... can't a girl drop a comment on sexuality without you lots raising eyebrow? gotta be afraid cause people like you know how to deduce people's lifestyle from their posts..

ok..!

Originalsly:
hmmm..... in d future make sure your guy is well fed before the session....or maybe you were stingy with the meat in d food...maybe.... just saying..trying to help!!

lol that's funny sir... you mean hunger makes a man do that? that's silly

but I will try to remember your advise if needed.

listenersky:
so u av started having sex? Since when?

*trembling * sir! how's that your business sir?

I must envy your instincts tho, quite strong for you to able to deduce my se.x life from my post. but you need to work on 'em.

[quote author=gemick post=31640147][/quote]many guys a problem?

jericco1:
do u want him to moan with you?

would that be bad?
we are not in the graveyard.. a little 'ohs awws hmms yess,little talks, gists' etc will do ... not just go off completely!

wow true that! all are simply irritating.. but I really hate no2

..
no 8 is just.... gosh!

Gaidenk:
From ur post I concluded..

advice: work on your instincts!

Gaidenk:
How was jamb?

wrong person..

I believe the op is a Christian, divorce isn't an option neither is polygamy nor infidelity.. okk..
its left to you to endure, talk it out, or accept things the way they are
but its better to walk out of this sham cause sooner or later the woman will break it off after leaving you in pieces..


waiting for the , pray, wear red boxer, buy gifts crew

ucheheart:
bi.tch i never spoke on your post so why did you pick on me and how did i start it? Even the op didn't reply my comment, are you his mouth piece? Now you are insulting my mum, [b]you are not gonna like me by the time i am done with you. [/b]You better mind your business or you will even regret commenting on this post. Ewu furu ohia.

now its just getting funny!
@emboldened .. lmao! errm dude, is there anyone who really like you in the real world?! your insecurity is enough to make the devil hate you
and errm so e fit pain you if another person make a comment about your mum but you dey feel fly insulting other people's parents.. hahaha!!

no, I won't mind my business .. i actually want you to make me regret this please... huhahahah! low life feeling fly!

since you asked some questions.. leme answer.
I quoted your post asking what an ideal woman is..is that too much too ask?
now I'm a b.itch your mum really failed at parenting.. Shame on her!

ucheheart:
rubish! It's the likes of you that deceive men to drive their wives so you will go into their homes. Husband snatcher with low self efficacy. Nonsense! Your parents didn't teach you manners, even on public forums you can't control your fugly stinking manners. Shediot.

going by your stance, you started the loud mouth..should I say your mum failed woefully in her primary duty? raising a shameless low lifer? fvcktard! the joke is on you

mumu grade one. you need to deal with two problems in your life-

-insecurity
-bad mouth..
you shouldn't be raising another set of nuisances in the society..

ucheheart:
miss perfect, to hell with taste. If she dresses fine and start going out and other men start steering at her, the same husband will complain that she is cheating on him. What can you ever do to pls human beings? You are not a man so what do you know abt keeping a wife at home?

I thought as much , insecurity!that's the only reason you spewed that rubbish in your first post!
so , she can't cheat as unfashionable as she is?

its 'staring', how them go dey steer person ..no be moto!

I don't know how to keep a woman at home but I know about 'individual taste'.. the husband in the op wants his wife to change... to his taste.. your woman can go about in wrapper, but guess what that's your woman!!

don't judge others based on her style! that's rubbish!

Mr weak man!

ideal woman indeed, insecurity at its peak!

ucheheart:
The man who had no shoes to wear thought his condition was worst until he met the man without legs. Of course some ppl don't know the value of what they've got until they've lost it. Guy i don't see any problem with your wife, you just lost interest in her because you've seen some other babes in the office like you said. Wait until you pick one of them then you will know they are worst than your wife. That woman you call your wife is the ideal woman, cherish her.

smh! you don't see a problem because you are not in his shoes.. people have tastes you know..

how is she the ideal woman?

Afterall her unfashionable nature will
make it harder for her to get someone
else. You have more to win than she

lol this is hilarious smh

you knew about her dress sense and still went ahead, I don't get the complaint now..except you were pretending to be okay along!

I don't understand how people except others to change their spot to their own taste. you should have gone for a classier lady to avoid this story!

but communication is still the key, let your opinion known but don't force it.. don't give silent treatment, I don't get how that will help. take her to gatherings, hang out often in public places, commend the clothes you see on women in her presence and tell her such clothes will look better on her, go shopping together for clothes you'd love on her. you can help her up her game..
but lol@native wear to office that's funny!

and about the degree stuff, why don't you just let her live her life! .. what's the essence of having a bsc degree without using it?(according to the op). she's educated, isnt she? she wants to go into business and a degree isn't necessary to achieve that.. forcing her to get the degree will only amount to time waste,energy,money which could have been spent on whatever business she wants..at the end, the degree will be just a piece of paper abandoned in the wardrobe as she eventually drag back to her business!

but since na una agreement, dey there dey convince her for a degree she won't use eventually.. tsw!

why exactly do you think she needs a degree? if the reason is good enough to change her stance, it ought to have.

dre11:
A woman decide to build a house without letting her husband know and you think his healthy for the union


What happens to " two has become one"

buhahahahaha really? so two has become one now?

hahahah!

na business! if it were a personal house, then I can grab the jealousy(still unnecessary) . no family for business matter o..

or better still, make dem turn am to family house,, let other family members pack in too

dre11:
Lady...... Am no more a tenant but a landlord
So, if I should stay there, I won't pay any rent but am gonna start looking for another house and that lady is a suicide bomber and terrorist. She decide to hide that from me....... How am I sure am the owner of those children self

if she wants you to be the landlord, you wouldn't have paid any dime in the first place!

so dude, its either you remain a tenant in your wife's house or pack out
@highlighted, do underg research na, and you will be shocked .. hope you no go still claim 'ownership' on top another man's Pikin as you wan claim ownership on top some else's property

dre11:
Then paying for rent has ended be that










But, how she take build am without me knowing

aside from the fact that most Naija men won't find it easy with wives building a house before them nor live in that house..the woman might be business oriented and hence build a non personal house that will bring in money also, no one knows if she already had the house before getting married, or she's aware of her husby's stance of such news, and hence decided to keep quiet and since the man loves the building. she had to continue hiding..and put the man in the dark

@highlighted.. you mean living in that house is over cause I don't see why my tenant won't pay for his house fee... no family in business

I love business women...

no family/friend in business if you wanna grow!

erm what's the problem exactly? that he's paying the rent of a house his wife built or that he's been in the dark that the house is hers or the fact she's been collecting the rent fee? common! its business...no family in business



wife: explain to your husband its business... and as the way Naija economy is, there need to increase the fee..besides for the husband to like the house, it must have suite his taste.. its left for him to decide if his family remains tenant in his wife's house or they move out! either ways, you still get paid
husband; the problem exactly isn't cleared here.. if you are so okay with the apartment (as you claimed) then continue paying! you can however discuss with wifey to reduce the fee if its becoming unbearable or conveniently pack out with the family so another 'payable' tenant can come in.. be supportive!

command?

as in command

no one has the right to command another person to do things(except in a boss-slave,business relationship) that's utterly disrespectful!

you the husband hasn't given you any right to push and walk over some one , especially your wife! I thought marriage is a union...what happened to communication? a simple request would have saved the day..where are this sad stories coming from!

makes a young Lady fear this kinda bossy men/marriage...worst off: the make the majority !

"KEEP SHUT, WHEN IM TALKING...YOU DONT TALK HUSBANDS!!" smh

@op both are at fault but if this story is anything to go by, the husband is inconsiderate and selfish...and disrespectful to say the least..

Khabuqi:
The guy is also benefiting. It is just about compromising and being open minded when it comes to sex. This thing no hard like u dey take am.

how do you benefit from a woman swallowing your cum?

Khabuqi:
Yuck wetin sef

It is nutritious

yeah...that's exactly why its left for the 'woman' to decide here..

let women be the one to tell if its 'cool or not' after all, they are the one benefitting from it..not you!

Khabuqi:
Maybe.

It needs getting used to

good for those ready to get used to it.


yuck!

Khabuqi:
Male

that's why its quite easy for you to say its cool

hahn:
You're dumber than I thought

whatever...


liar!

hahn:
You need to read my comments again. And pray for understanding

abeg shift!

it all there on the first page, don't add 'liar' to your certificate..

kinglekan:
Quivah odikwa tooo much.

U nailed it with dis comment. Chai d comment dey totori me join.

Hehehehehehe

lol thanks. .

glad men ain't in support of this..would have been ww3

Evina:
Might ke?
He most certainly does!
It is so pathetic how a woman will allow her husband drown her in such level of depravity! There will be NO end to what new perverted fantasies he wishes to explore!

That woman has no self esteem and must feel really miserable!

I don't have a problem if the woman shares the same fantasy! What I find sickening, is a man threatening to cheat if she doesn't succumb! Imagine?

he has twist it o... now its the wife that initiated it

we can't Blame her, she knows the kinda man she's hooked to and will go as far as becoming a dustbin to satisfy him(ooK that's rude) so he won't look outside... I don't think its about low self esteem, she's just being a submissive wife!

like our married man changed his say to...the wife initiated it lol!

its their way of life tho...I'm not against it but trying to dumb it on others is sick..or even implying infidelity.. gosh!

hahn:
Lol.

You and the other dumbo failed to realise that I mentioned it was my wife who initiated the whole thing and we tried it only once in the shower. Apparently, you guys are used to jumping into conclusion.

Mr married man...you can lie o!

where you mention say na your wife initiate am or na once inside bathroom
your headache!..

now, the op isn't comfortable ..its a different case don't bring your kinda 'if she doesnt allow me, i will cheat' man into the picture..

Evina:
You must be really selfish! So if your perversive fantasies aren't fulfilled, your only option will be to cheat? What a self absorbed kid! Thank God for men who truly understand what it means to be a man! And what it entails to keep a happy home!

the craziest part
he might still be cheating .. even after wifey found her new role..



but wife will do anything to keep the 'home'

hahn:
Lol. You must lead a really hypocritical life and I'm certain your sex life is boring. Its not like whenever I want o pee ill call my wife and say honey open your mouth please, then you can say she is playing a latrine role as you've decided to put it.

Well, when your husband cheats on you I'd advice you remember this thread.

actually there's nothing hypocritical about my say on that(people have diff views..) and you obviously don't know much about my sex life...there's nothing fun about urinating on people but who im I to judge... there are Lots of weirdo out there..and your wife accepts it...no biggies!

I get where you are driving at, you will prolly have cheated on your wife if she didn't accept her new role. so much for 'submission'!


thank goodness, there are still men who find this utterly disgusting..but what do you care, you love it! why do I care? its your sick business! just don't rub it on others especially with the mindset that infidelity might come in... that's a full bucket of shit coming from a sane 'responsible' married man..


after all this latrine role, you still dey faithful?! good riddance to bad rubbish! good luck to you and your wife

OmoAlata1:
Golden Shower is pretty common. you just find it disgusting cos it is new to you. He can pee on her legs or belly. and she can take a shower afterward. it is just pee, kini big deal?

okkk maybe I'm new to this sh.i.t, but I've never expected sex to go this down! too much for porn

golden shower what pleasure does the man get by peeing on his wife? i never knew there's a pleasure that sick! na golden sh.i.t remain

no big deal for you, you prolly find this new latrine role pleasurable...but as the op n I are concern, its absolute RUBBISH! but to each his own sha
Goodluck with your golden shower, hope you ain't taking those pee for fear of husby's infidelity..




coz you ARE on a LOOONNNG THING!!

PS: the man might find it inconvenient if the case is reversed or if its time to get down on her.. but its no a biggie, he's the husband after all! rubbish!