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Mintayo:
Op, What kinda son are you? Do you love your mum at all?
You have a site and your mum is not aware, yet your gf who is aware?
Your gf is your next of kin and your mum is not aware?
Your gf doesn't like visiting your mum and you are her only child?
Do you know that your mum is at your so called gf mercy if anything happen to you?
Have you heard of "a curse with or without a cause? "
Please, you need to be firm, there are something that cannot be undone after marriage, please make amendment, remove her as your next of kin until you are married! Is your Mum even aware that your gf is your next of kin?
Please make amendment! Also you have to make her understand Why she must should be visiting your Mum,once in a while, except your Mum means nothing to you!

pickabeau1:
Ezatily

And moreover she does not care about the mom but likes the son's money and property

Keg of gunpowder

I hope he has a long life

Coldfeet:
First of all you a male! Remove that fecking f from your moniker!

Have a great day

5minsmadness:
Well said.

It's amazing how the abnormal is being accepted as normal these days.

A woman frustrates the hell out of a man and the moment he retaliates and strikes her the whole world starts to cry for her.

It is obvious from many people's posts here and even the woman's post herself that she is an irresponsible annoying and unserious person.

For those of you saying it doesn't matter if she is married is it a responsible woman that will flaunt her babymama-ship? Why hasn't he married her after the so called 8yrs? If she saw he didn't want to marry her why didn't she move on? Would any of you allow your own young sisters be in such an undefined relationship? You all are hypocrites as well!

cr7lomo:
When chris brown beat up rihanna , he was castigated but people dint realize that it ws the first time chris will be involved in woman beating , don't forget he had dated other girls b4 Rihanna and after her but no one ever reported any violence abuse by him .... We know hw crazy rihanna is and after Chris brown , she has not been able to maintain a real relationship .... No woman should bring out the beast in a man , he will not always walk away , one day, he wil react to the abuse . The women in this forum that are castigating this man should stfu till u hear both sides .... We Hv heard women killing men in resent times and I bet u dint speak . @ quivah , u are the only smart woman on this topic , others are the type that wanna eat their Cake nd Hv it, una tink say d man na doll

phintohlar:
u are indeed right,just dat am tired of guys dis days.... Will one b changing BF like wrappers,may God just help we ladies & save us 4rm una wahala

phintohlar:
I need 2 save d pix & show it 2 my BF cos each we had a fight his always threatening me with him blinding one of my eye, so maybe with dis he might have a change of mind & stop saying dat rubbish..... I pray so sha ooh

Hazardd:
what am emphasising on is that you shouldnt rely on him to be the one to call you first,
which one is ''one sided'' if you love him you can't be thinking about such unless you are forcing your self on him
did i lie?

Coldfeet:
You come off like someone from an abusive home? No insult intended.
If women should go by your advice of not running their mouth coz their husband is an animal, how about the man controling the animal in him when he knows he married a woman who likes to run her mouth?

Sincerely there's no justification whatsoever for a man to do this to a woman mouth running or not!

My mum runs her mouth a lot! And no single day did my dad raise a finger to her!
When she starts he walks away.

No matter the provocation a man should never hit a woman.

Fhemmmy:
You are mean oh

Sirniyeh:

When she divorces and take a leave, to where? Infact, it's a childish advice. Taking a leave will expose her to promiscuity and may end up in another man's hand that will be more brutal than the former.

Solution: they have differences and they try to be submissive to each other's opinion.

I against abuse of women, but hun un un un I bounced on her just once in 14yrs of marriage. Eventually I was justified because women sometimes command the act.

I married a very tough lady, iron woman. A year after marriage she attempted to stab me inspite of claiming a born again woman. Today she is as gentle as a dove, all by wisdom. She is best of my life. If I had divorced her, I could have crippled my marriage

Divorce is not solution. Because most women need to be talk to

Fhemmmy:
A woman that hold a man's shirt (regardless of of the man likes it or not) is an animal too . . . So that means an animal married to an animal . . . .BUT nothing should warrant a man to beat a woman, and nothing should warrant a woman to hold the shirt of the man . . . they are both human and adult and should be able to know how to resolve issues without acting like market woman and a tout.

MERS:
Am sorry to say this, buh u need to shut up when issues are beyond your level of reasoning.

A wise woman will never be hurt? Do you know how many peaceful, virtuous women have found the way to early Graves at the hand of stupid beasts wanna be like you?

It is another thing if she attacked the man, buh if you have ever maintained a healthy relationship, you will know that a man who is provoked to the level of inflicting this much damage is a man who has not yet mastered his own self. Real men leave the house rather than beat their wives.

Bros, u need to sit down with a real man somewhere an learn how not to have something like this in your future because your excuses just won't cut it.

cyril83:
Chest beater... If you can't stand the hit, stay clearly off marriage or better still be of a good conduct.

Fhemmmy:
If your man has a beast in him, walk away and let him move into the woods and play with animals, we are all human and no way you wont provoke him one day . . . . A marriage that one has to now tread carefully to prevent an animal in their partner from being displayed is no more marriage but slavery.

Gracyel:
So u'll hit your girlfriend or wife when she annoys you or says hurtful things to u?? Huh?There is no excuse for a woman to be treated this way. No matter what she said to him, it didnt warrant this. Just look at her face. Its only weak men that hit their wives. Men with low self esteem. I call them COWARDS. A real man wont ever lay his hands on his wife or any woman irrespective of what she says. ....So please, do not ever make such statement again. Its a very shameful one.

Sirniyeh:
You sound to be single and I can't blame you for inexperience. It takes wisdom to live happily long in marriage and not cash or certificate. 4 yrs is still a young relationship, they are still undergoing selves studies.

Two masters can not be in a same boat

Hazardd:
then you have call him
is it a big deal

Hazardd:
i don't think so...

you mean you have to relax waiting for him to call you...... remember this is a two way street.

Hazardd:
yea, that rule breaking determines the length of your love dear

dharmie092:
@kevinberry, I understand u are a guy and u will want to support ur folks but if u read the post very well u will understand the fact that the guy also change their court wedding arrangement without her consent and he never mentioned it until she asked ..... I will say the lady in question has seen so many warning signal before the breakup, she just chose to ignore them due to d sacrifices she has made.

kevinberry:
I tell you bro...

They wanna be the talk of the whole village
The most annoying part is they are both working and she is still asking for money from him...I guess she does not know how to save for the future...

Because of their selfish and her stewipd decisions she will now have to start all_over....

She forgot the saying

Women are Flowers
Men are wine's

You know the rest...

*Berry*

The most annoying part is they are both working and she is still asking for money from him..

At times when things aren’t going too
well for him, he would ask me for
support which I usually oblige him

MzNelly:
Better still, call him "Daddy baby" Or "Uncle baby", "Ancestor boo"....
Tch

Ridiculous thread

jmoore:
Yeah, it is possible.
I want the first woman I will date to end up as my wife.
I don't need an ex in my life.