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SonOfEl:
on the contrary, its like a mum watching her baby gobble the food she prepared for him with love and satisfaction.

so much for your type wanting a romantic and caring husband.....yimu

you just compared a grown man to a baby.

naijababe:
In my books, you have no business visiting a man you are yet to be married to for a few days. Why would he not disrespect you, when you put out yourself as 'oshofree'

you are not serious. you need to spend quality time with your fiance before marriage. Marriage is a life-long commitment.

Its very common in buses.

I was sitting down one day and it felt like somebody was touching my behind. It happened like 3 times and i though it was the motion of the bus.

The fourth time, the hand grab was too much, i turned back and the man just shouted " oga, stop touching my nyash abeg, which kain nonsense be dis". He came down at the next bus-stop.

There is not really anything we can do about perverted men. I think you handled the issue in a good way.

Why should a woman be in a serious relationship with a man if she does not marry him?

Some people sha!

azzima:
i knew you animals will say this nonsense. The almost white ones just have to be at the top. Mumu back folks. Come back 30 years later and let's do this assessment again. The black skinned ones will age GRACEFULLY while the white skinned ones will age quickly with veins popping out and skin wrinkles. This is a FACT!!!

Angola and Gambia which I choose are black. Besides 90 percent of the women there are light skinned. How can you call me an animal because of my beauty preferences? I am also very dark skinned myself and if you check my previous posts, you can see that I am very proud of it.

Its only insecure men that get worked up because of a woman's skin color. If a woman is beautiful, she is beautiful.

Morrocco Gambia and Angola are the most beautiful to me

I personally don't mind dishing food for my husband but if I cannot do it because i'm busy. He should understand.

Men are not babies.
They should be able to plate their own food.
Its better because you will be able to access the amount of food you want instead of sending your wife up and down.

Since its marriage, communicate with your husband. Tell him you are not comfortable and suggest a better way of serving his food. I would suggest putting the food in a big dish while your husband serves himself from there.

Joy1706:
Please I will want to know the opinion of people.
My husband insists I dish his food. For instance, if I set the food on the table with plates and cutlery, he prefers I dish onto his plate, that it shows complete service.i think otherwise because I might be busy attending to other chores. This morning he almost left for work without taking breakfast and when i asked why he was leaving, he said the service was not complete. So I had to leave what I was doing to dish food for him.
What are your views on this?
*culled from facebook*

It seems you already do this. You are doing all the housework and cooking meals for him and he is still asking for "complete service". I think you married a baby. If he is hungry, he will plate his food. I think there is a bigger issue in your marriage.

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mediachirps:
Are you after making it to church or heaven/paradise?

How will removing people from the church make people go to heaven?

Jesus did not condemn sinners, you shouldn't either.

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Pope Francis will allow priests discretion to absolve women who have had abortions if they seek forgiveness during the upcoming Holy Year beginning Dec. 8, the Vatican announced in a statement Tuesday.

"One of the serious problems of our time is clearly the changed relationship with respect to life," the pope wrote in the English-language version of his letter, in which he described the "existential and moral ordeal" of women who have chosen to terminate their pregnancies.
Remarking that he has met with many women who have faced this decision, Francis said that women "who bear in their heart the scar of this agonizing and painful decision" deserve the forgiveness of God if they seek it.

"The forgiveness of God cannot be denied to one who has repented, especially when that person approaches the Sacrament of Confession with a sincere heart in order to obtain reconciliation with the Father," Francis wrote.

"For this reason too, I have decided, notwithstanding anything to the contrary, to concede to all priests for the Jubilee Year the discretion to absolve of the sin of abortion those who have procured it and who, with contrite heart, seek forgiveness for it," the pontiff went on. "May priests fulfil this great task by expressing words of genuine welcome combined with a reflection that explains the gravity of the sin committed, besides indicating a path of authentic conversion by which to obtain the true and generous forgiveness of the Father who renews all with his presence."
The latest message comes weeks before the pope is set to visit the United States, where the debate over the legal status of abortion has continued for more than 40 years since the Supreme Court's decision inRoe v. Wade, and has intensified in recent months with videos showing Planned Parenthood officials discussing the donation of tissues from aborted fetuses.

While he's in the U.S., Francis will stop in Washington, D.C., and New York before traveling to Philadelphia.
Republican presidential candidate Jeb Bush weighed in on Francis' statement on Tuesday morning, saying that he was not surprised and that "we could all use a lot of mercy in this world."

"I hope that we also focus on mercy for the unborn, the hundreds of thousands of babies that will die," the former governor of Florida said in a Fox News interview. "I think we need to have a society that protects life from the beginning to end, and we should be a repentant society, for sure."


http://www.politico.com/story/2015/09/pope-francis-abortion-forgive-women-213210#ixzz3kVT6JAiR

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summerflame:
She is just an attention seeking b!tch. Jobless set of people with ladyF

Oh come on. Maybe they work online. I like lady F and Introvert. They dont cause trouble.

I think LadyF is actually more popular these days.

All her comments make more sense to me than Introvert.

I still like both of them anyway. They give very nice comments overall

SAMBARRY:
And you are talking as if you are living in a normal and ideal society. You and I know Nigeria is not a normal society. Even where the traffic lights exists are they obeyed and respected?

you will see onr 1d10+ic governor driving pass the road with his entourage and both him and his toutish entourage will be constituting a nuisance on the road

some of the police men will stick their heads out of the cars with horse whip. Many of them disobey a lot of traffic light rules with impunity. Same with bullion van drivers and other police men driving and you're there talking about traffic rules training.

Ok if these commercial drivers are trained on how to use the road and respect pedestrians how about the police or one stoppeed general taking one way or okada riders driving on the pathway meant only for paedeastrians and even splash water on you and cuss you join sef


when the law enforcers stop breaking the laws, others will follow suit. Of which I didn't even talk about lastma forcing themselves into your cars o or agberos

People always break the law but there should be punishment for that. The police should be patrolling the streets assisted with cameras we should be able to minimize fast drivers.

It hurts me to see nigerians blame themselves instead of the government. Its our right to have good roads

Forwetinnah:
..Mr OP might be right, but unfortunately it is the Children of the RICH and CONNECTED that still get the plump jobs. One can hardly get a decent job these days based on HARD WORK without a call OR recommendation from a top/big shot(most probably a politician) these days. Whatever the case....the Ajebutter/Rich man's child still gets rewarded WITH A JOB!!

Abi oh. !!

SAMBARRY:
that rough over congested roads with okada speeding anyhow and coming out from nowhere to a girl that her parents lock her at home all day probably the only places she's allowed to go is just school and church with daddys driver driving her and you say she should know how to cross.


You nor know say over camping of children turned adults makes them dense

How do you teach someone to cross. Its look left and right and check if road is clear. Everybody can cross a road its jut that the government have refused to put traffic lights and pedestrian crossing where they are supposed to be.

Also, In most countries passengers have the right of way, drivers have to stop and make way for pedestrians. We need to re-educate our drivers and fix our roads.

There are a lot of deaf people, blind people, old people and kids who need to cross the road too.

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delectablegyal:
Raayah, ur black no be here. U black like pot wey dem put on top firewood. Go bleach small abeg.

Mirexxx, how var?

I am very proud of my skin color. Its unfortunate that you don't appreciate black beauty.

I will Never bleach my skin!

My boyfriend is handsome

ogene3321:
Please I need a cheap university at canada to study I need urgent reply please and a cost of a student visa

Memorial university of Newfoundland or Brandon University

Ezerbullet:
textbooks and wikipedia

any problem ?

links?
Name of textbook?

kolatobs:
if you dey use am just stop no ask question

why wont i ask question.

Ezerbullet:
Postinor!!
Ive actually been looking 4 an opportunity to enlighten young girls on what d above drug is all abt. Postinor is a contraceptive (used to prevent pregnancy) drug. It comes in 2 presentations.. Postinor 2 n ordinary postinor (which we call postinor 10). D drug as d case may be s 98.9% effective when used within 24-72hours of unprotected sexual intercourse... D most popular and common of d duo-postinor 2 is what Im actually talking about here. Its taken one tablet as soon as possible after unprotected sex and the next tab taken 12hours after d first one. You all might wonder why am sharing this... Its better you know d effects of this drug b4 u contemplate using it.
Now, here comes d iceberg....
Do you know that it is a major cause of cancer especially cervical cancer and breast cancer?
Do u also know that d above drug changes your cycle making it irregular n difficult to observe??
Do u know also that d above drug distorts d normal level of reproductive hormone in a woman??
Now I ask; why do young girls of today chew postinor as kola nuts?? Now imagine a situation where "he" doesnt do condoms n u do drugs: I laugh when I hear girls lament that they are scared of pregnancy.... I laugh because pregnancy is just minor to other tins u might actually inherit from you partner.... Imagine HIV; STAPH, GONORRHEA, SYPHILIS, Hepatitis and so on. Truth is said, most ladies do not think of running laboratory investigations before venturing into sex with the Mr. Charming...... Well, the ball is in you court.... Think twice before you reap because all that glitter is not gold.

Written by me

how was your research conducted ?

rheether:
i unfortunately lost my virginty with
my bf 2 years back. we had
sex more than 20 times. till then i havent
done anything like that. can any1 just suggest
what should i do. i am marrying in a very
religious family next year and if he finds out that am not virgin am dead.

Tell your fiance the truth and call off the wedding. Look for man that doesn't care if a woman has an hymen or not.

You have chosen to be deceitful to your fiance, personally,if i was him, i wouldn't marry you.

Its God's judgement. He alone decides who will be saved.

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The money paid to corp members is not really sufficient. There's not really much to be saved there.

I wont blame anybody who cant save money from their alawi

ladyF:
True

Its ladyF again

divinehand2003:
WHEN THAT CHURCH IS NO MORE CONDUCIVE, THEN GO TO ANOTHER CHURCH LIKE DEEPER LIFE FOR EXAMPLE, U WON'T BE DISAPPOINTED.

Abi ooh

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