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Good day sir,
pls sir post for me, hide my identity and notify me, av bn suspecting my hubby is sleeping withmy niece of 14 years, so I decide to observe them very well, hubby usually leaves his room y am there ( I sleep in my husband’s room), and he ll lock d door with key so I av no access to open it, but one night I pretended to be deep in sleep, so he left to d room where my niece is sleeping ( d room is very close to my husband room),I listen carefully till wen he released and he went to d toilet to clean his self, I now knocked d door which he rushed to open it.

To cut d story short I....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/14/i-caught-my-husband-sleeping-with-my-niece-of-14years/

It is no more news, today, that most single men, including many brothers in church, want to have s*x with the lady they will want to get married to before they really get married to them. And, some ladies, too, insist that they must have a taste of what is to come before they say, “Yes, I do!” Yes, some ladies actually ask for it or initiate the move. Some do so to ascertain the man’s true sexual health condition, and ability, while others do so to own the man, so he doesn’t go looking for it elsewhere. Good.

In this post, all I want to do is to encourage that single lady out there, or the single brother, too, as the case may be, who is going through this tough testing time, and you’re watching the man or lady that seems to be your one lucky chance to getting married on time, slip through your fingers just because you have said that you are not going to give in to s*x before marriage. And then he walks away, and goes to marry another lady who gives him what he wants.
And now they are married and you’re not. Perhaps, this may not even be your first experience of sort. So, now you’re downcast, thinking to yourself how this “no-s*x-thing” before marriage has not helped you all along. You are the focal person of this post. Hear me out.

All that glitters is not gold. They may have seemed like it, but they were not it.
Any man or lady that walks away from you because......

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/14/dating-without-sx-challenges/

In a tragedy reminiscent of Romeo and Juliet, a couple in Nigeria killed themselves earlier this month after their parents had forbidden them from marrying because one of them was a descendant of slaves.

“They’re saying we can’t get married… all because of an ancient belief,” the note they left behind said.

The lovers, who were in their early thirties, hailed from Okija in south-eastern Anambra state, where slavery was officially abolished in the early 1900s, as in the rest of the country, by the UK, Nigeria’s colonial ruler at the time.

But descendants of freed slaves among the Igbo ethnic group still inherit the status of their ancestors and they are forbidden by local culture from marrying those Igbos seen as “freeborn”.

“God created everyone equally so why would human beings discriminate just because of the ignorance of our forefathers,” the couple said.

Many Igbo couples come across such unexpected discrimination.

Three years ago Favour, 35, who prefers not to use her surname, was preparing for her wedding to a man she had dated for five years, when his Igbo family discovered that.....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/14/nigerias-slave-descendants-prevented-from-marrying-who-they-want/

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MrBrownJay1:
Since you are giving us half stories, let me give you half answer:
- why don't you...
- or ask your wife to...
- better yet, you should...
- and make sure you...

Find my full answer by clicking the following link: www.bloggasandtheir.com/nonsense.html

FreeSpirited:
Will you shut the fvvck up and go learn comprehension.

Mayng01:
Click link loading. E go load tire o

nice one

Johnholmes:
Let her get a job
An idle woman is d devil's workshop

spiralwedge:
Tell him to click the link and read the rest.

Byee

Good morning Jzhane.

I am Jane (not real name).My boy friend or fiance removed all my photos,packed my clothes in the bags and actually he kept every thing which belongs to me in the bag and and he brought another girl in the house and on my bed for a week when I wasn’t there.

I found every thing packed in the bag when I returned .I called him I asked him where a my photos.he told me that he took them some to repair yet the photos were under the chair .

After seeing that, I asked my neighbor. She told me that he bought another girl for week. Jzhane, I asked the guy and he denied but he told his friend that its true that he brought a woman but he is not going to apologize.

Yes…He even called me telling me that.....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/11/my-boyfriend-wont-apologize-but-he-says-he-loves-me/

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mikecino:
If you won't finish up the story here, forget it... Am not clicking

My hubby came home one night calm and happy. I was surprised but happy. He’s been out of control for sometime now, actually since I lost my dad 2yrs ago.

He became the CEO since my dad died, it was on the will for my husband to become the CEO and my baby brother the Managing director. I have done everything in my power to make things right but whatever I do is not good enough. This wasn’t the same Tayo that I married. My parents were rich but their two children were trained well

I was working in my dad’s company until I had my second child. My dad told me to stay at home and take care of the kids because I refused to get a maid and my grandma that was helping passed away at the time. (I lost my mom five years ago too) I enjoyed every minute of being a wife and a mom until I lost my dad.

My husband came in that fateful day about three months ago, looked at me & said......


https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/10/how-my-husband-almost-defrauded-divorced-me-but-my-late-father-saved-me/

Please keep me anonymous. Yesterday’s story on Kanyanmata inspired me to send my story. (Click here to read yesterday’s story). I think you should help us use your platform to educate women on the dangers of trying to do anything in the name of improving s*x life in marriage.

I am married,for five years going to six soon. My wife and I are happy until last year after she gave birth to our second child. It was during her maternity that she was spending time at home that she joined a group on social media that was promoting aphrodisiacs and kinky products to spice up s*x.

I cannot say our lovemaking is the best but it was not bad too. I mean,we made love at least once a week. But my wife started complaining that its not enough. Most times during the week, I am tired and I try to please her at least during the weekends.

But staying at home made her really bored and all she wanted once I got back from work was s*x. Just to make her happy,I obliged her but it was really tiring for me. And because I was tired, I could not last long in bed.

That became another problem for us. She complained bitterly of me not lasting long and satisfying her. And that is how she bought some products for me to use. After much persuasion, I obliged her.

True to its worth…the product....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/10/my-wife-has-become-a-freak-addict-of-aphrodisiacs-help-i-am-worried/

noted!

phrancys001:
Lies, naija already get it's own headache abeg shift this story go Ghana

Good day ma

Please hide my identity. I am married to a wonderful lady. My wife is a godly lady and we have been together for almost two years of dating before we got married in June this year.
During our courtship,She said she will not be engaging in intercourse until our wedding but we make out and stuff. I agreed because,that to me,is a sign of a virtuous woman.
But since we got married, things have not been fine with us in the area of love making. And this is my fault. During our courtship, I was not faithful on our vow to remain celibate until marriage.
I tried but the temptation was too much and I had casual s*x with a few ladies.
One of the ladies when she heard I was getting married,threatened me to give her 3 million or she will ruin my marriage.
I was like,how will she even ruin my marriage? After all, she is in Ibadan and I am in Lagos here.
How will she come and ruin my marriage...
But to my surprise,since...


https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/09/how-i-made-serious-mistakes-during-my-courtship-now-i-cannot-enjoy-my-marriage/

Pastor Enoch Adeboye, General Overseer, Redeemed Christian Church of God, RCCG and his wife, Foluke on Tuesday celebrated their 53rd wedding anniversary.

Adeboye, who was born on March 2, 1942, married his wife, Foluke on September 8, 1967.

Well wishers, friends and members of the RCCG have wished the couple a happy wedding anniversary and many more years in marriage.

The couple were showered with gifts by church members and the man of God prayed for those who wished them well and brought gifts.

“I really appreciate all the wishes and gifts sent across today to celebrate the 53rd wedding anniversary of me and my wife Pastor Folu Adeboye.



“You will live long and your marriages would be filled with Joy as well in Jesus name,” he wrote on his Instagram page.

Wishing them well, the RCCG family, on its twitter page said “Happy wedding anniversary to our parents in the Lord
Pastor E.A. Adeboye and Pastor F.A. Adeboye.

“It is our prayer that God will continually bless your marriage. God will prosper the works of your hands and continually make your marriage one to emulate in Jesus Name.”

Watch video here:

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/08/18647/

Hello ma,

Please assist me with some advise. I am married to the love of my life. Lets call her Feyi (not real name). We met 4 years ago and we been inseparable since then. I love her,my family loves her and after dating for almost two and a half years,we got married.

When we started dating,we didn’t know there was a difference in age between us until like 2 months later. Feyi is older than me with 3 years. But I look older and act more mature for my age. When she discovered she was older than me, she tried to withdraw but I fell in love already and did everything in my power to not let her go.

And that includes, the promise never to let the age thing be an issue between us. Also,never to let anyone in our family know the age difference. Especially my family. That helped her settle her mind but a few occasions of argument,the age thing seemed like a silent contender between us.

Now,having been married..its coming up more and more and its beginning to affect me. My wife is someone who is free to talk to me about anything. I respect her opinions about so many things but once I disagree about something,she plays the age gap card. And I am getting sick of it.

For example, if she asks me to help her do something and for some reason,I am unable to do it,she makes it seem like I do not respect her age or respect her in general. Also,if we have a disagreement and I raise my voice a little,she goes like,I want to dominate her and control her.

And ma, that is never my intentions. My father never controlled my mother,I never controlled all my ex girlfriends…why will I control my darling wife? So,am I not allowed to have a different opinion in my marriage anymore? Must I agree to all her decisions just so she does not bring up the age matter?

But when she.....see more

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/07/how-my-husband-his-mentor-benefactor-betrayed-our-marriage/

When Prince Harry and Meghan Markle stood in Kensington Palace's Sunken Garden to announce they were getting married, everyone's eyes went straight to her left hand.

Her stunning engagement ring was definitely fit for a princess, made with two diamonds from his mum Princess Diana 's collection and one from Botswana, where he does a lot of charity work.

However shortly after their first wedding anniversary the stunning piece had been redesigned, and the plain gold band was replaced with a thinner micropavé one.

It was unclear why she made the change or when it happened, but Meghan couldn't wear her ring during the final stages of her pregnancy so it's likely that's when she had the work done.

And now a new book about the couple has explained why the ring was changed - and it turns out it was.....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/07/why-prince-harry-surprised-meghan-markle-with-a-new-engagement-ring/

Chadwick Boseman’s friends and family including his co-stars gathered in Malibu to pay their last respect to the actor.

The American actor, 43, best known for playing Black Panther in the hit Marvel superhero franchise died on Friday, August 28, after a four-year secret battle with colon cancer.

Mourners including Michael B Jordan, Lupita Nyong’o, Winston Duke, and other Black Panther stars joined the star’s grieving wife Taylor Simone Ledward at his private memorial which took place a week after his death.

Michael B Jordan join Chadwick Boseman’s wife and family for his memorial in Malibu (Photos)

Boseman was also remembered on Thursday, September, 3, as a ‘hometown hero who brought a sense of pride’ to his native Anderson, South Carolina.

The city paid tribute to Boseman in a public memorial with a viewing of Black Panther held at an outdoor amphitheater with kids – dressed up in Black Panther costumes.

See more photos below:


https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/06/michael-b-jordan-join-chadwick-bosemans-wife-and-family-for-his-memorial-in-malibu-photos/

I had an argument with my boyfriend a few weeks ago. And a few weeks before that, we had a misunderstanding and instead of talking to him about it like the grown woman that I am, I ignored him.

When my daughter sent him a text, as she usually does because they like to play games and share the same bathroom humor, he wrote “Give your mom a kiss for me and tell her that I love her.”

She showed me the message like it was nothing and went about her day while I burst into tears.

Naturally my kids wanted to know what was wrong so I explained (while leaving out most of the details) that we’d had a conflict come up and we were trying to work it out, but I was having a really hard time being in a serious relationship since their father and I divorced.

My oldest child, who is 17, said, “So, are you working it out or are you ignoring him and not dealing with it?”

It’s funny how there are times you think your kids have so much to learn about life and there’s more you need to teach them. Then they do something like shove a big mirror in your face and alert you that you are acting in the exact way you’ve told them not to.

When I first started dating after my divorce years ago, I kept a lot from them. The....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/04/im-a-single-mom-and-i-refuse-to-keep-quiet-about-my-relationship-struggles-around-my-teens/

paulolee:
congrats to dt woman for such physique.

hmnnnn

ongback:
From the quoted, a fool spotted.

Hello ma,

Please assist me with some advise. I am married to the love of my life. Lets call her Feyi (not real name). We met 4 years ago and we been inseparable since then. I love her,my family loves her and after dating for almost two and a half years,we got married.

When we started dating,we didn’t know there was a difference in age between us until like 2 months later. Feyi is older than me with 3 years. But I look older and act more mature for my age. When she discovered she was older than me, she tried to withdraw but I fell in love already and did everything in my power to not let her go.

And that includes, the promise never to let the age thing be an issue between us. Also,never to let anyone in our family know the age difference. Especially my family. That helped her settle her mind but a few occasions of argument,the age thing seemed like a silent contender between us.

Now,having been married..its coming up more and more and its beginning to affect me. My wife is someone who is free to talk to me about anything. I respect her opinions about so many things but once I disagree about something,she plays the age gap card. And I am getting sick of it.

For example, if she asks me to help her do something and for some reason,I am unable to do it,she makes it seem like I do not respect her age or respect her in general. Also,if we have a disagreement and I raise my voice a little,she goes like,I want to dominate her and control her.

And ma, that is never my intentions. My father never controlled my mother,I never controlled all my ex girlfriends…why will I control my darling wife? So,am I not allowed to have a different opinion in my marriage anymore? Must I agree to all her decisions just so she does not bring up the age matter?

But when she.....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/04/my-wife-is-refusing-to-submit-to-me-because-of-our-age-differences/

A Nigerian mum has gone viral after she shared photos she took with her son to Facebook.

The mother and her son are dressed for the gym in the now-viral photo.

“Mama and her first son,” the mum captioned the photos.

Facebook users were awestruck and reacted to the photos by pointing out that she looks young enough to be taken for his girlfriend.

See the photos and some comments below:

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/02/this-nigerian-mum-and-her-son-are-being-mistaken-for-a-couple/

Hello ma,

I need your advice. So, I am a relationship with someone. Its been like 4 months and I am already thinking this is a mistake. Why? Before we met, I used to in a relationship that lasted four years.

That relationship was the best time of my life. That was because we were best friends. We actually were planning to get married but something happened which I couldn’t get over. My ex is a producer and the major issue in our relationship was the attention he gets from other females.

However,he always assures me of his faithfulness. Until he made a mistake and got some hookup lady pregnant. I was totally broken and I could not forgive that. It took me almost a year to heal and eventually move on.

I met my boyfriend 6 months ago and he is into Finance but I think he is quite stingy. He is nice and kind but he also does not believe in spending money on things that he does not consider as necessary.

I make my own money so I really do not mind that he has his principles on finance. I buy what I like to buy as long as I can afford it. The only annoying part is,he makes you feel bad for spending money on luxury things.

I used to laugh at him that he is ijebu and he needs to change his perspective on life.It was my birthday last week and would you believe my boyfriend didn’t buy me any gift? His excuse was that he was broke and that he would make it up when he gets paid.

I felt he was just being stingy cos how can you not celebrate the girl you are with for the first time? I was upset ..not even a...

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/03/is-my-cheating-ex-better-than-my-stingy-boyfriend-pls-advise/

Vladimir Duthiers is a married man!

The CBS News correspondent, 50, announced Wednesday on Instagram that he and his longtime love, Marian Wang, tied the knot in Fire Island, New York.

As seen in the slideshow of romantic photos of the newlyweds, Wang, a senior news producer at Last Week Tonight with John Oliver, donned a beautiful white dress, while Duthiers opted for a navy blue suit and tie for the big day.

In one photo, the happy couple were joined by their dog, who also wore a tie for the celebration. Duthiers and Wang’s families also joined in for a sweet group shot.

“There but for the grace of you go I… #ImMarianHer,” he captioned the post.

The lovebirds met nine years ago when Duthiers was a producer on CNN’s Anderson Cooper 360° while Wang was an investigative reporter at ProPublica.

See more photos:

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/03/cbs-news-vladimir-duthiers-weds-longtime-love-marian-wang-on-fire-island-beach/

Rihanna has revealed she has rebuilt their friendship with Chris Brown and says she will probably “always” love him.

In February 2009 Brown admitted to physically assaulting Rihanna, his girlfriend at the time, the night of the Grammy Awards. He was sentenced to five years probation and ordered to stay 50 yards away from the Umbrella singer.

Rihanna, 32, has now told Oprah Winfrey’s Supersoul Coversations podcast: “We’ve been working on our friendship again. Now we’re very very close friends. We’ve built up a trust again, and that’s – we love each other and we probably always will. And that’s not something we’re ever going to change. That’s not something you can shut off, if you’ve ever been in love.

“I think he was the love of my life. He was the first love. And I .....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/02/rihanna-i-have-forgiven-chris-brown-i-truly-love-him/

When you think of an engagement, do you immediately picture a happy couple embracing and crying tears of joy in the single most blissful moment of their lives? I know I do – or did, I should say. My perspective changed after I got engaged myself.

Before I go much further, I want to begin by saying I love my husband. He is truly my other half and my life partner in every sense of the word. As a matter of fact – and as overplayed as it may sound – I knew I was going to marry him the first time I met him. Call it love at first sight, call it intuition, call it whatever you want – I just knew. Prior to getting engaged, we dated for four years. Marriage was a topic we had talked of often and we had even discussed engagement ring designs (I’ll take the round cut, please). I knew when the moment came, I would say “yes” and have no doubt in my mind that I was making the right choice. Well, as you can ascertain from my use of the word “husband,” that moment did come and it was beautiful. My husband, the thoughtful person that he is, surprised me with a romantic dinner at our favorite restaurant and popped the question during a post-entrée stroll down by a neighboring lake.

Overconfident as I am, I always thought I would know when the moment was on the horizon. That I would be able to pick up on cues leading up to the big ring reveal. But that was not the reality. My now-husband (then-boyfriend-quickly-turned-fiancé) took me completely by surprise. I was shell-shocked. I couldn’t say anything. I couldn’t find a single word (which, if you know me, is surprising). Of course the answer was “yes” in my head and heart but all I kept thinking was, “Wait a second, I wasn’t prepared for this! I wasn’t planning to actually be surprised!” After I was finally able to spit out the word “yes,” we enjoyed our dessert (served on a platter hailing “congratulations” in chocolate sauce) and called our close family members during the car ride home to share the news. We were both happy and excited, but I couldn’t quite shake a feeling of growing anxiety that had suddenly implanted itself somewhere between his question......

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/01/18204/

anthonyuncle:
am I da only one seeing dz post as a very poor attempt on fiction?