₦airaland Forum

TheSeeker:
Yes! A confirmed jobless, bloody and sadist home and future wrecker

Relax. . .

I'm happy to assume the schools in Nigeria are now something to write home about since you failed to mention it. One of the major reasons a lot of Nigerians are abroad.

sexyLeamon:
well what she u her, and she get pissed off and say you were jealous of their relationship? if I was to get involve in such matter, the only thing I will do is, talk with him instead and ask him jokingly if he would ever do a guy. And then get somewhat serious and ask if he was in the closet. but I wouldn't blow it straight away in my friend face am talking from experience.

That's why I said to do it anonymously. I mean, get someone to call her or send it in a text with a strange number.

I hope you'll say the same thing if the lady was your sister.

sexyLeamon:
if it was me, I'd leave it alone. If the guy is gay, it's his business to be in a relationship with that girl and his responsibility to tell her if he's truly into her or not. If she gets hurt, whatever. I'd sit there with her and be there to listen. All in all, it's not always the best thing to get up into someone's business when it's none of yours. I've seen the occasion when someone does get up in someone's business thinking they know something and it'll help or resolve/prevent conflict. These cases it's actually caused conflicted, if not made things worse. That's just what me think.

Yea, you don't walk up to her and tell her to her face that her man is gay. You do it anonymously if you're sure he's gay.

You're right that he should tell her but what if he didn't/ won't tell her? I'm not really feeling this "not my biness" in this case.

I would tell honestly. That's just me anyway.

You sure got my mesg.

Kenny_G:
the poster no get work prancing about poking her nose in other people's biz,

Are you gay? My friend get off my back.

It's not lack of anything my dear. She only has to do it anonymously, simple.

Why d'u wanna let a woman end up with a gay? That's nasty. I'm not sure any woman in her right senses will wanna marry a gay. And please this ain't about being "open minded".

Tell her I say. It's then left for her to do her homework or simply jab the clue.

Paddy, give ur brain a slap. Your ignorance will lead you nowhere.

luv2talk:
Hmmmmm
I think they are intelligent but i dont know why most of them doesnt upload their pictures.

You look really handsome

What a thread and comments!

As much as we get pretty close to having our heads sometimes, I think the girls are cool generally.

Haven't met any of the girls and the only one I talk to is definitely cool.

Lmao!

Tell her, don't tell her. . .  

If I were in ur position and I knew this guy was gay for real I'll definitely tell. I'll let her know by either sending her a text with a strange number or get someone to call her and break it to her.

This is not a matter of putting asunder or thunder. She needs to know what she's getting into. She can still cancel while there's time or live with it but she needs to get the gist around her man one way or the other. Sorry guys but I will tell.

Y'all gay on this site better watch your back  

SapeleGuy:
Please drop this diaspora matter, we already have enough divisions.

Couldn't agree more.

LOL. . . some of them don't even know what's going on in the country until NEPA or whatever their name these days allow them to hit NL.

Afam:
This is the problem when you get to exchange posts with everyone on a forum. So, stating a fact to disprove a misleading information now amounts to boasting?

Done with you as with this level of reasoning there won't be any end in sight as regards your comments. It is fact that facts make nonsense of your position based on rumor and misinformation.

Information officer, please take a chill pill. I call it boasting because you think Nigeria is not that bad only because you enjoy power supply in your area. There are still places in Nigeria that don't have power cables let alone power supply. Just because you enjoy light in your area doesn't mean the whole of Nigeria is the the same.

The government has spent $16 billion dollars on building new power stations and trying to fix transmission grids in the last nine years. What have they achieved? Light in your area?

Please, the situation is very bad and people still live in darkness daily.

donjon:
@radiant,
if only u knew!
@ least 70% of nairalanders are  based here!
So what are u saying?
{2} disaporians dont have to come back home! Infact, they are more usefull to the struggle abroad!
They can protest the deplorable conditions of nigeria @ d various nigerian embassies around the world!
Radiant, u no know as d thing dey pain me

LOL. . . the Nigerian High Commissions abroad are not run by the british or Italians. Those people can even be worse than the people in Nigeria, why? Because they depend on the same corrupt government. This is not media but personal experience.

Why will a Nigerian embassy not be able to pay it's building rent for three months? How do you explain that? How do you explain a situation whereby you pay 500 Euros to get a new Nigerian passport?

Those of you NLders in Nigeria should march to Aso Rock. The news will get across to us  

Afam, please get a grip. When we say "the country" of course we don't mean that every nook and cranny of the country is bad.

Generally speaking, the system is a shame.

Look at you boasting about having light in ur office and well, you can manage the supply at your house. If you understand how much that has been disbursed for power alone then you'd be ashamed to be happy with whatever supply you have in your house.

Entrenched corruption has left the people to settle for pitiable conditions. If you knew where Nigeria should be by now you won't attack the "Diasporans" but instead you'll attack those heartless rulers you kiss for contracts and whatever.

Let's not talk about health care now 'cause that is a miserable aspect of the country's system.

Nigeria is a failed country. It doesn't matter how bad you feel about this but that's the truth.

donjon:
Nairalanders disappoint me!
It seems dat we only have hot blood when posting on this forum!
Why dont we turn it into reality?
Nairaland is a platform for us to plan protests, campaigns!
Just imagine 100,000 people marching to aso rock? Even if our demands are not met, the government will know that Nigerians have woken up!
NOTE: lets not deceive our selves, blood must be spilled to save nigeria, both innocent & corrupt alike.

Oh dear!  

Are you saying that NLders all over the world should fly down to Abuja and march to Aso Rock to save Nigerians living in Nigeria or perhaps save the country? Seriously, you need to tune into reality.

You sit and wait while we plan our "protests and campaigns". You need to be a comedian.

So, only those who live in Nigeria can judge correctly? What a very weak conclusion.

How do you guys living in Nigeria know about what's going on if not for the media? That's also how we get our info and strength to argue.

Besides, what are you guys saying? That the country is not as bad as we see and hear everyday? Got a better picture for us?

You can only marry when you find your "missing rib".

Seriously, what's with all these parents? Marry marry as if it's a damn piece o' cheesecake. Tell the man he go wait tire.

My parents dare not.

ammamat:
i will confront him and after that what next,  Can I tell him to live my house,

Or what should i do

But i did not want it to be at home,

Spill every evidence and feeling you have and get this mess over with!!! We didn't ask you to keep him in your house so why should we tell you what to do with him?

Girl, buckle up and quit all this child's play.