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fabuloz1:
He was trying to say your input still coincides with the fact that he got it from another woman

that one angle am looking at it from but the guy is very wicked, using marriage to draw her in

fieryy:
They don't want to disclose it? The man she's about to marry is evil. He knew he had STD and still went ahead to infect her. What's there to consider?

well we are still hammering that into her head, no she is looking at us like we are jealous and don't want the best for her.

Sixfeetbelle:
Did you miss the 'some' in the post?

okay baby, now I see it... thanks

Sixfeetbelle:
And yet when I tell men that some of them are responsible for the 'fishy' smell that some ladies have, they will get angry.

Una don see evidence so??

Because of just one man out of millions of men that aren't like him? your conclusion is flawed, most smell that a lady has down there may be as a result of her hygiene levels and not man, even if it's as a result of an STDs(man), this man too got it from a woman too.

Lamanii22:
First off... What kinda STD

For that I don't know, but my friend said it's a curable one, they don't want to disclose it.

DanseMacabre:
Nawa o, then it seems a lot of Nigerians have trauma and sadness as their default setting.

Well true true sha, as a wise young Bahamian lawyer once confided in me, the truth is stranger than fiction.

Especially the ladies really want to get married so quickly because of the societal pressure on them to do so, but love can also be a very big factor also.

lalasticlala pls take this to the fp for a wider audience to give their input on this, it's urgent pls.

purplecoco:
Is not like she got a choice anymore. Her own life is ruined and finding someone who will accept you to marry you with an STD is very rare unless the person has it with you, which is her case right now

This will be true about this situation if the STD is an incurable one, but it is curable and she is on treatment right now. so am still surprised why she is still considering this guy.

GOFRONT:
Wahala sha Full this world....

my brother na so I see the matter, the matter tire me.

purplecoco:
All these “hurt people” roaming around. He didn’t want to be in pain alone, so he had to drag the girl with him. He doesn’t have a problem marrying her, cause he feels like they are both in this mess together. Very cruel

as in eh, the fact that she is even considering it and calling her good friend that is trying to make her see reasons as jealous is very surprising to me.

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Ningen:
She's confused about his proposal??

Lmao. She should accept asap.

He gave her STD, surely he must have a lot in store to share with her. Such an unselfish man.

hahahaha now this is funny

Ningen:
She's confused about his proposal??

Lmao. She should accept asap.

He gave her STD, surely he must have a lot in store to share with her. Such an unselfish man.

hahahaha now this is funny

zyzxx:
What does the guy give her apart from STD?
money? or what?

she should think twice before she says "I do"

I think its love that is making her to think like that, she is thinking maybe he will change.

DanseMacabre:
Hmmmmm


It puzzles me to no end as to why most recent threads in romanceland are those that will definitely end in tears.


Well, I guess they're called sob stories for a reason...

Bro these are the reality of alots Nigerians, so it's only proper that it will be what is normally posted here, besides love and the desire to get married can make people to make some irrational decisions they may likely regret later in life.

please guys, a friend of mine posted this about her friend, she needs advice urgently.....I have a friend name Lydia.
We went to the same University , we are very close. She was dating a guy who was based in lag , she never cheated on him cos we always together.
If he calls her and she did not pick immediately, it's trouble , even tho she explained to him that she is in the bathroom or washing or cooking.
He will call her a prostitute , saying she is with another man.
Fast forward to last year she call me that she is seriously ill , I asked her what happened , she told me her guy gave her STD , the same guy .

She said she started having itches on her private part , that her guy told her it was toilet infection, which she believed, it got so serious that there are wounds there , she became so ill , when she told her guy she wants to go to the hospital he will discourage her and bring some drugs for her .

Her condition got worst, the drugs he brought were not helping cos the STD has gotten worst , her elder bro got tired of the whole thing and took her to the hospital.
It was at the hospital she was told that she has STD and it has gotten worst.
She called her guy , cos he is the only one she has been sleeping with.

That was when he confessed that he has been cheating on her and he too is infected , he was the one that gave her the disease, he don't want her to know cos he don't want to loose her , that was why he was preventing her to go to the hospital.

Now the issue is that the guy has come to propose after she broke up with him.

She is confused if she should go ahead with the proposal or walk away

I then ask her "What if it's HIV your guy has given to you....think about it , would you be talking about accepting his proposal?

She thinks I am being jealous about the whole thing , while I am only trying to look out for a friend.
cc: lalasticlala fp pls so we can get more advice on this matter.

Seun:
Hearing about the Nigeria Humanitarian Fund for the first time. Who runs it?

United Nations...most Nigerians don't read, all they know how to do is shout corruption, looting

Use 9mobile for freebasics, their data for freebasics never finishes, just that the network is not stable, aside that, the data is unlimited for freebasics

ProtectMyMoney:
This food brought to your doorstep is for how many days? Are they going to come back again?

Compare Rwanda below

oh God, what have we done to deserve this kind of treatment from our politicians, look at what just ordinary rewanda is distributing to it's citizens, and we are supposed to be the giant of Africa.

ivolt:
In a total shutdown, everything can be closed.

I am even surprised that they allow people to drive around freely while locking up restaurants.

well it only only means it's not a total shutdown then, they should allow all essential commodities like food, medical stuffs to open, but social distancing should be enforced thoroughly, that is how it should be.

chino11:
It is all for good, but they should allow big restaurants like Jevnik to open so we can at least eat good meal.

yeah, all restaurants are supposed to be opened, just that social distancing will be rigorously enforced, and there will be no eat in, only take aways, food is too important to be shutdown.

If actually this is true, then wike is going about this shutdown the wrong way, the style will kill people in droves if allowed to last for 3 to 4 days. I have not seen a shutdown where essential stuff like food are shutdown too. That is massive death sentence on portharcourt as a whole. :'

One thing you guys should know right now is that they are only testing people that mostly have contact with person that recently came back from one of the highly infected countries, and are showing serious symptoms of the covid19. If you really want to be tested, you can allude to have made a contact with a person of such, and you will be told to send your address to them, it is as simple as that.

money121:
Ok

I swear this is what happened, they took the light by 6:59pm here in Abuja

This is a good speech by the president, it has served to assure us of their work so, but all these came about as a result of our criticism of his silent, anyway am paitently waiting for their relief material during this lockdown, A good step in the right direction.

benjijosh:
I think we need to educate ourselves more about this virus. I learnt our body is designed in a way to produce anti-bodies to fight viruses in our body. This explains why after a while, someone who has contacted the virus would recover.

PS: I am not in the medical field and could be wrong on some terms.

you are very right bro. It's not a death sentence for healthy people that has strong immune system, only a little fraction of old people with underlining disease that actually does from it.

GermanMelania:
Their body fought the infection. It is not a life long virus

Help me tell him o, so many people are so ignorant of this disease. It's not a death sentence, over 90% of infected people do recover even without treatment.