Literature › Re: Bloody theresa (fictional Thriller) by rapmike(m): 2:51pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
Am still reading on. |
Literature › Re: Forever And For Always - Story By Repogirl by rapmike(m): 6:55am On Oct 31, 2015 |
Can't download for now, my bbm does not run android apps. But am behind you. 1 Like |
Phones › Re: What Else Do You Do With Your phone Apart From These Things? by rapmike(m): 6:40am On Oct 31, 2015 |
Chillinmasoul: Tecno r7... Why should I lie. A lot of us underutilize our device, to be honest with you. Nothing as good as Android believe me. How munch e be?  |
Politics › Re: Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala Joins CGD, Centre For Global Development by rapmike(m): 12:01am On Oct 31, 2015 |
chinchum: Obj era was not fortunate with d kind of oil boom during gej era. 2010-2015 was the missd period. She failed, no two ways. Nigeria had a budget benchmark in the region of 75usd/barrel, but we were well over 100usd/barrel at several times during that period. She was not just minister of finance, but co-ordinating minister of economy, she knew the tough times will come, but did next to nothing to plan for it. When pharaoh picked moses as co-ordinating minister of economyof Egypt in the midst of surplus, he planned for the years of scarcity. Iweala failed, and i bet she knows but cant admit openly Joseph not Moses. I did not say she had a clean slate (she did not anyway), but some things were beyond her. You think she really had her way with handling that money? With all the politics in this country, it would have been hard to do anything reasonable ( that's why I mentioned Obasanjo's era as well). The thing is that she had come in and left, she is being honoured somewhere else and am sure she will do some good work with that. I hope the new cabinet that will be formed by Buhari can start work quickly, the country needs replies soonest. |
Celebrities › Re: Fans Fault Lilian Esoro's Makeup For Her Traditional Marriage by rapmike(m): 11:55pm On Oct 30, 2015*. Modified: 12:11am On Oct 31, 2015 |
Did she bleach? Abi this is the power of Jik?
Cc: Kachisbarbie Onyekachee Safarigirl Missmossy Repogirl
Make una come see make-up oh! |
Politics › Re: Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala Joins CGD, Centre For Global Development by rapmike(m): 11:47pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
chinchum: She did not diversify the economy for over 5 years as the coordinating minister of economy in the midst of surplus, Crude oil was average of 100usd/barrel, it made 140-150usd /barrel at some point.
It is on record that the FG borrowed to pay April salaries for FG workers. She also told Nigerians to get ready for hard times in 2015.
In summary, she failed the nation. Hey, Hey, it was not totally her fault. Its not her fault that we could not diversify before the oil drop happened. Who asked us not to diversify during those Obasanjo years? Why blame every evil thing that happened to Nigeria this year to her and Jonathan? She may have done better but it removes nothing from the good she did (or tried to do). At least we were forgiven of the Paris Club debt, I remember her for that. |
Politics › Re: Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala Joins CGD, Centre For Global Development by rapmike(m): 11:43pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
opiaoku: palm wine tapper.
pray your generation will archive 1% of her archivments.
onye ala This your signature eh  |
Phones › Re: What Else Do You Do With Your phone Apart From These Things? by rapmike(m): 7:45pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
LEGALAide: WINCH model kwa?
#catches afraid.
#runs. You no see everytin im talk say im phone dey do? Na Winch Model na! |
Phones › Re: What Else Do You Do With Your phone Apart From These Things? by rapmike(m): 6:58pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Chillinmasoul: 20 THINGS I CAN DO WITH MY PHONE.
My phone is like everything to me,...here are twenty (20) things I use my phone for....
1. BLOGGING 2. DESIGNING 3. DISPLAY WORKS TO PROSPECTIVE CLIENTS. 4. ELIMINATE STRESS. 5. PHOTO MANIPULATION 6. VIDEO EDITING 7. CREATING E-BOOKS 8. WRITING AND EDITING WORD DOCUMENTS 9. WATCH FOOTBALL 10. EDIT MUSIC PROP 11. READ MUSIC LYRICS WHILE LISTENING 12. MONEY TRANSFER 13. VIDEO CALL 14. PUSH UP TRAINER 15. IM (CHATTING) 16. TORCH LIGHT 17. LISTEN TO RADIO 18. CALCULATE DATA (CALCULATOR) 19. SEND EMAILS 20. STAY INFORMED
#PEACE OUT
[size=15pt]VISIT NAIJAKNOWHOW FOR HOW-TO TIPS[/size] Bro winch model be that? Don't lie oo, God is watching you. |
Family › Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by rapmike(m): 6:50pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
daretodiffer: Does it matter? Not everyone is as fragile as yourself. If she is ready to move in she should move on. The man is dead. He is not coming back even she waited for twelve years before moving on
Ermmm......there is no need pretending like she cared when she does not....it wasn't like they had great marriage sef I support this stance. Probably she did not love the man that much and the child just got to know. Well, life continues sha. But she should stick to one man. Multiple men makes her look like a loose woman. |
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Romance › Re: Help I'm About To Get Married To A Lady I Can't Have Sex With by rapmike(m): 12:08pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Durentt: Dont get married now. And stop includin pastors in every cause of sexuality. Jeez, dis nigerians nawaooo
You have a long-way to go in discovering ur true sexuality. Maybe Gay or transgender. Who knows. Must you include Gay into evey discussion too?! He had sex with another female, he is damn straight! Don't know why you guys want to use all avenues to display yourselves here. @ OP, see a psychologist. Its likely a psychological issue. |
Literature › Re: Tade - The Rise Of An Activist. by rapmike(op): 11:47am On Oct 29, 2015 |
I thank all those who have in one way or the other contributed to this by commenting or giving likes or shares. I can't remember all my fans but I love you all and I appreciate your coming and commenting and all.
Cc: Larrysun MissMossy Nellyme JigsawKillah Odumaiye Igwoh Repogirl Babysuccess Jackossky Akinleye(sorry I don't remember the full username) Kingphillip And all others I can't remember their name.
This part of the story has ended, though I don't know when I will start the second part.
I will take a break and watch others for now, can't say when I will return to write again.
Thanks again for your comments, patience and every other commitment you showed to this story. 1 Like 1 Share |
Literature › Re: Tade - The Rise Of An Activist. by rapmike(op): 11:39am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Babysuccess02: Eva since i signed on 2 nairaland, ur story is 1 of the best i hv encountered. Nice work rapmike Thank you. 1 Like |
Literature › Re: Tade - The Rise Of An Activist. by rapmike(op): 11:38am On Oct 29, 2015 |
nellyme: Get well soon rapmike. Thank you. 1 Like |
Literature › Re: Tade - The Rise Of An Activist. by rapmike(op): 11:37am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Epilogue.
A year and a half later.
The sun shone with vengeful radiance, forcing people to move more quickly to their destinations. As a matter of fact, today was very hot in Ife, and it was not different at the campus.
Tade walked as fast as possible to his father's car, where Salisu will ever be waiting. His load was not much, yet he moved slower than possible as he reminisced all that he had experienced.
He got to the car, only to see an unfamiliar face. He almost thought he missed it and was about looking for his 'car', when he heard his dad calling him from the back.
Tade! Tade!! Come here! His father called out with an authoritative voice, embarrassing Tade a bit since he was already a graduate.
Tade turned and looked at the car again and as he predicted, his dad's head popped out of the window, giving him orders.
Oh Lord! Which kin thing be this na? He thought as he walked back to the car. He looked around and was grateful that none of his coursemates were around to see this.
As he walked to the boot and kept his luggage, his father stepped out of his car.
So five years in Ife and you can't recognize your father's car, ehn? Wale asked as if he was in suspense.
Tade looked at him with a slight frown. "Am sorry sir, I thought I will see Salisu as the driver. Who is this man?"
"That's Bode, Salisu's brother." The older man said before explaining what has been happening.
"Salisu is in the university! And Mechanical Engineering for that matter! How did that happen?"
"You know how funny northern universities, though he scored high enough to make it to A.B.U, Zaria which is a good school for all I hear." Wale concluded. "I wish him success anyway, since it seems that he had been planning it for long. Let start going."
As the car zoomed off, Tade looked at the scenery of OAU for the last time and smiled. Its time to move to the next level.
The end. 5 Likes |
Education › Re: 10 Signs That You Are A 'Half-Baked' Graduate by rapmike(m): 9:33am On Oct 29, 2015 |
akatekpe: You have a point, but OP is not totally wrong. As a graduate of Engineering/ Physics you ought to know the basics of science and technology, if as a graduate of elect. elect/Physics you can't identify live, neutral and earth wires/terminals, something must be wrong with you. Tell them, something that is in some Physics textbooks used in secondary school. |
Education › Re: 10 Signs That You Are A 'Half-Baked' Graduate by rapmike(m): 9:25am On Oct 29, 2015 |
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Sports › Re: Oliseh Recalls Martins, Invites Iheanacho, Aluko For Swaziland Tie by rapmike(m): 9:06am On Oct 29, 2015 |
safarigirl: strong enough team, I'm not sold on the whole Martins' inclusion.....he's served his purpose in the past. Success would have been a better, younger inclusion rather than Martins who may not be able to keep up with the speed of the wingers.
Forget MLS antics, anyone can look great in the MLS Martins and Kelechi's inclusions will be interesting, since Kelechi is also invited by Siasia for the Olympics qualifiers in Senegal. As for Martins, well we may see if he is really needed in the team. That is if Complete Sports is saying the truth. |
TV/Movies › Re: Superman Vs Hulk (your Opinion) by rapmike(m): 8:54am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Kingrapha: OK I'll settle for very intelligent  I can manage that  |
Celebrities › Re: Omoni Oboli Mourns The Death Of Sam Sarpong With Heartbreaking Message by rapmike(m): 11:56pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
What actually happened? This is not usual at all. What kind of problem will force him to commit suicide? Hmn! RIP .  What actually happened? This is not usual at all. What kind of problem will force him to commit suicide? Hmn! RIP . |
TV/Movies › Re: Superman Vs Hulk (your Opinion) by rapmike(m): 11:05pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Souljeezy: soo hulk will jxt relax while superman lifts him to space abi?? I never said it was easy, but its very realistic. |
TV/Movies › Re: Four Things Nollywood Must Learn From Shuga by rapmike(m): 11:04pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
madukovich: I saw Season One of the Nigerian version of SHUGA this past weekend, and was totally amazed by that piece of work. Had I not seen Nigerian artistes, or Nigerian names in the credits I wouldn't have believed that it had anything to do with Nigeria.
It will interest you to know that most of the actors in this flick aren't the ones you'd normally see in Nollywood movies, though it contained artistes that have made it in different genres of music for youths in Nigeria, especially as it appeared to me to be aimed at youths with the message about the ever present menace of HIV and AIDS in todays' society. Maybe it appeared the way it did because of the groups involved, notable amongst which was MTVBase, National Agency for the Control of AIDS, NACA and I suppose an International Donor Agency, amongst others.
I always had the opportunity to see Shuga before now, but I was afraid it'll end up being like movies from the stable of Nollywood (Nigeria's movie industry), or one of Nigeria's endless, oft-repeated and focusless soaps and sitcoms. After seeing Season One, it totally blew my mind, hence I decided to note the areas in the season film that Nollywood can learn from, to become better and maybe buy back critics and cynics like me, back to the fold of their viewing public (which continues to grow despite their shortcomings), as they mostly pander to Nigerian society's myths, superstitions, religion and the likes over facts and reality that could help the way Nigerians perceive things in tandem with the dictates of the times.
1. Nollywood must build capacity in order to provide accurate information on any subject they intend to disseminate in a movie, sitcom or soap. Even when myths or superstition is to be flown beside facts and proven science, technology, medicine and art, they must ensure all are distinctly put out to erase the situation where they all exist in a blur. I have lost count of Nigerian movies, sitcoms and soaps on TV where wrong and unhelpful information was put out using that platform, most annoying is the many times caesarean section to aid child delivery was portrayed as anathema, and made to be strongly condemned as an option for the expectant mother in many movies, because of one superstition or the other, for instance.
Shuga focused on the topic of HIV and AIDS, and all along the points, accurate information and news that are vital and useful were systematically diseminated verbally and non-verbally, even in deeds. Every thought, word and deed were intentionally coordinated to arrive at what seems to me to be predetermined outcomes of the producers or directors, towards the dissemination of information relation to the subject matter. I doubt that I saw moments when it appeared that the actors and actresses freestyled or used their own initiative to cover up a mistake like you'd routinely see with Nollywood movies, soaps and sitcoms.
2. As with Shuga (Naija Version), Nollywood must learn to begin to use ACTUAL and BELIEVABLE locations, and places. Watching Shuga reminded me of the University of Lagos, UNILAG hostels, which they used, even though they reduced the number of roomies considerably (two in the cases portrayed, for the usual four or more roomies including squatters), but the plot was quite believable. I understand that many students also live off campus, but ascribing palatial mansions to students, especially the females, as is norm with some Nollywood movies is an exception rather than norm in real life, and makes many Nollywood stories unbelievable, even when they portray the females as capable of affording such houses because they practice "prostitution" or "running an escort business" by the side.
3. Lighting and Sound in Shuga can be said to be adequate. The night felt like night (not with day showing from a part of the window blinds when a night scene is staged as with many Nollywood flicks), not with lighting very obvious as the extent of the Neon light shows, and the day as should be. Even the nightclub scenes were as dark as one would expect in real life without compromising the ability to see the actors and actresses play their part in the scenes there, with audio of their conversations not swallowed in the din of the music from the nightclub in the background. There were no shadows or images of the behind-the-scenes crew on walls or even in mirrors adjacent to the scene, neither were there accidental opening of doors, as you would find in some Nollywood flicks, which I am sure the editors may fall upon, yet refuse to properly edit.
4. Subtitling is a major flaw area for Nigerian movies, especially in the Yorùbá language section. Many of the still photos of these are often found trending on Nigerian twitter handles, Facebook pages and blogs authored by Nigerians. Though, Shuga was done majorly in English, there were aspects where pidgin English, and the vernacular (in the Hausa, Yoruba and Igbo) of Nigerian local languages were freely but sparsely used. Those scenes had subtitles done for them, and I had and found no cause to hold Shuga to ransom there.
These four here highlighted are the major areas I noticed (amongst many others that don't easily come to mind right now) where Shuga had an edge over most of what is put out by Nollywood. Although I know that there are also stables that put out quality movies (Mainframe Pictures for instance), I continue to have issues with storylines even with better picture and sound quality as you would find with Kunle Afolayan's movies amongst a few others, as there are many distractions that tend to dilute the message in some of these better movies from Nollywood, something that the producers of Shuga appeared to have taken nail-biting care to avoid, to my wide-eyed cheer and applause.
I would love to see more of what I saw in Shuga in Nigerian movies, sitcoms and soap operas going forward. Especially with the current producers, directors, writers, and the works to show that something has been learnt from the many years of "hands on", trainings and retrainings (if they have been undergoing such), even further education preferably abroad in reputable film institutes. Failure to do this will spell doom for Nollywood, despite the overflowing confidence practitioners in the industry have because of the huge size of the industry, as well as the large following and recognition it currently garners and enjoys, not just within Nigeria or Africa, but worldwide. Civilizations in time past, have at one time or the other disappeared, even empires fell and ceased to exist, a complacent Nollywood cannot stop what will come to it, if it fails to redirect its step for the better.
'kovich
noesis: FOUR THINGS NOLLYWOOD MUST LEARN FROM SHUGA http://madukovich..com.ng/2015/10/four-things-nollywood-must-learn-from.html?m=1 Very accurate @ OP. There are some Nollywood actors that are just too recycled in certain roles, miss the likes of Pete Edoiche. Then the stories are recycled and can be baseless at times, especially man Yoruba movies that make Juju too common. |
TV/Movies › Re: Superman Vs Hulk (your Opinion) by rapmike(m): 10:53pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Souljeezy: hulk will win cos de more he's beaten,the angrier he gets,the stronger he gets... I give it to Superman. He will just lift Hulk and carry him to space, that's the end. At OP, I don't buy the super intelligence you gave Superman. He is intelligent, but not Super Intelligent. |
Romance › Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by rapmike(m): 10:14pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Then destroy all links to those 'friends' that lure you in. The whole process won't be complete without this. Every link to lesbianism, whether porn or social networks, destroy them. If you are friends with them on social media unfriend them ( at least for now). Change phone numbers if possible. Make all the blockades.
Why I said that is because those friends will be the links to you returning to it, that's the plain truth. You might be able to handle them as acquaintances or mere 'friends' but don't bring any of them close, unless they want to change too.
Then finally use the Word Of God on those lesbian thoughts, because they will come! They will want to press you in, but you must resist and even if you fall, pick yourself up and move!
As I said previously, if you sincerely want this 'homosexuality' thing to go and not coming to make Public announcement, then to be frank it will be a long ride. But with all I have managed to advice you on and God showing himself for you, you can make it! He did it for me and he can do it for you. Mind you, all those guys telling you to have sex with a guy knows nothing about it.
Good bye and God bless @ esthersolomon00 |
Romance › Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by rapmike(m): 10:02pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
After all this above, you need to meditate on the word of God. As in seriously because this is when the battle becomes serious. Those ladies will try over and over and over to get you by their side, please stand on your ground. If you stumble ( which may happen) pick yourself up and continue on your path from dealing away with lesbianism. Many people who eventually 'became' homosexual give up at this point. This part needs the Word of God and Your Will aligning to it.
The Word of God is for you to set down mental blockades and beliefs which from your story has been inserted very long ago and has became a mighty wall that I know that God can pull down.
Be patient here, because you may have it difficult following it after a while. Moreover, this is where your counselor does a lot of work, encouraging you to quit it, giving you useful advice ( that's why I gave those conditions), and support you in prayer and every other means.
Note this, that it will not disappear overnight. It may take months or years (yes years), but don't be discouraged and give up, carry yourself up and continue. This is where your Will and determination is needed. |
Romance › Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by rapmike(m): 9:47pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
rapmike: Now am here.
First of all, I advise you give your life to Christ. That was the start point for me and for me, that's not negotiable. And really give it to him this time, not give and take. Be confident and believe in him.
Secondly, realize its a problem, not your nature. This is as much as spiritual as it is psychological. May not have the time to explain this totally but the thing is this: if you want to believe that you are homosexual, then you are, take it or leave it. I know there are situations when doubt will come in, but stick to it long enough, those doubts will disappear from your mind. This is a fact about all things, and what many people see as declaration of homosexuality or 'coming out of the closet' is actually accepting that its true. Some NLanders will even encourage you to accept it but think about this: are you accepting it because they say so or you chose to accept it, no matter what anything or anyone says? Will come back soon. Thirdly, you can't tackle this on your own( from the evidence I see). You need the help of a counselor. By a counselor I mean these things must be present in them: (1) He/She must be spirit filled and bible practising, that is the person is not just any member you meet or any pastor. PLEASE THE CHARACTER IS IMPORTANT! Because some loud-mouthed fools will start telling the whole church and then you won't have the mind to do the other stuffs I may say here. (2). It must be someone that you can trust with every detail of your life. As a piece of advice (which I hope works) meet pastors that mentor people, especially youths like you. Trust me, if him can mentor a couple of youths without any public announcement of their privates lives, he/she may be able to handle yours, or direct a person that can do that. (3) Please don't go to a judgemental person, nor someone who can't control his/her body/emotions. Best, go to a pastor that is accountable to someone higher than him/her. (4) Lastly, go to someone you are comfortable with,that you can tell everything without fear or suspicion. If the other points are in place, you will be able to know this by your intuition. Sorry, but I have to take a break again. |
Romance › Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by rapmike(m): 9:34pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
rapmike: Hello,saw this late.
First of all, I understand you very well, have been there sometime before and am back out of it. The fact about this is its difficult to talk about and difficult to deal with also. If you really want to deal with this, I assure you that you are in for a long ride, not discouraging you but being factual with you.
First of all, from all I could gather, its both spiritual and psychological. So I may add some spiritual stuff to it (if you can't handle that, please just pick what you can handle but keep in mind that I used all these to get myself out of these issue).
Then the two aspects will be intermixed, so don't expect one aspect to be dealt with separately from the other.
Let me make a new post. Now am here. First of all, I advise you give your life to Christ. That was the start point for me and for me, that's not negotiable. And really give it to him this time, not give and take. Be confident and believe in him. Secondly, realize its a problem, not your nature. This is as much as spiritual as it is psychological. May not have the time to explain this totally but the thing is this: if you want to believe that you are homosexual, then you are, take it or leave it. I know there are situations when doubt will come in, but stick to it long enough, those doubts will disappear from your mind. This is a fact about all things, and what many people see as declaration of homosexuality or 'coming out of the closet' is actually accepting that its true. Some NLanders will even encourage you to accept it but think about this: are you accepting it because they say so or you chose to accept it, no matter what anything or anyone says? Will come back soon. |
Romance › Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by rapmike(m): 9:18pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
esthersolomon00: Hello Nlders,
I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum. So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.
To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks
As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.
There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling. Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?
I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.
THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex
And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then., , I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.
Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.
Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.
I've prayed I've also cried my eyes out I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same. Someone should pls tell me what else to do...
Lalasticlala Hello,saw this late. First of all, I understand you very well, have been there sometime before and am back out of it. The fact about this is its difficult to talk about and difficult to deal with also. If you really want to deal with this, I assure you that you are in for a long ride, not discouraging you but being factual with you. First of all, from all I could gather, its both spiritual and psychological. So I may add some spiritual stuff to it (if you can't handle that, please just pick what you can handle but keep in mind that I used all these to get myself out of these issue). Then the two aspects will be intermixed, so don't expect one aspect to be dealt with separately from the other. Let me make a new post. |
Literature › Re: Bloody theresa (fictional Thriller) by rapmike(m): 12:42pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Have not been that well in the past few days, so have not continued for a while. Will rejoin you soon. |
Education › Re: Juju Scare In LASU by rapmike(m): 7:33am On Oct 28, 2015 |
dmostcheerful: If you don't call Igbos u won't comment. with this your silly comment you and igbos who is now shameless. inferior thing like you. Abi o! Wonder if LASU is in the east now. |
Celebrities › Re: Uche Jombo And Her Cute Son In Adorable New Photo by rapmike(m): 6:58am On Oct 28, 2015 |
Chestar5: yes ma , happily married  Noooo! Na she I wan marry b4 na!
Now shey I go con focus on Rukky or Ebube? |