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Crime › Re: Missing Egbeda Clock Repairer's Scary Encounter With Ritualists by Rapmoney(m): 3:11pm On Nov 03, 2017
grin
Celebrities › Re: Joke Silva, Peace Hyde, Others Unveiled As Influencers For 2017 ELOY Awards by Rapmoney(m): 11:21am On Nov 01, 2017
Kobicove:
Nothing happened to Peace Hyde...the naughty guy is just imagining what he would like to 'do' to her in za oza room lipsrsealed
How you take know my mind? huh Be like say you be magician wink
Celebrities › Re: Joke Silva, Peace Hyde, Others Unveiled As Influencers For 2017 ELOY Awards by Rapmoney(m): 11:18am On Nov 01, 2017
janellemonae:
What happened to her?
She make sense! cheesy
Celebrities › Re: Joke Silva, Peace Hyde, Others Unveiled As Influencers For 2017 ELOY Awards by Rapmoney(m): 9:55am On Nov 01, 2017
Una see this Peace Hyde ehn...make I no just talk sef...see ehn...make I no kukuma talk! grin
Christianity Etc › Re: Evil Bird Monitoring A Man's Destiny Killed In Benin Today by Rapmoney(m): 1:50pm On Oct 28, 2017
UbanmeUdie:
It is alright to have an opinion but it is insane to have a stupid one.
Must you force people to hold same beliefs as you? huh Using abusive words on people who disagree with you clearly shows how unintelligent, myopic and parochial you are!!! SMH.
Celebrities › Re: Mr Latin, Toyin Tomato, Faitha Balogun Become Ambassador Of Olokun Festival (Pic by Rapmoney(m): 10:51am On Oct 27, 2017
Toyin Tomato? huh
Celebrities › Re: Aso-Ebi For Oritse Femi & Nabila Fash Wedding: For Ladies N40k And N25k For Men by Rapmoney(m): 2:23pm On Oct 26, 2017
huh
Romance › Re: 5 Things Ladies Look Out For In You When You Turn 30 by Rapmoney(op): 9:25am On Oct 26, 2017
Benita27:
Op, you're right on the aforementioned, but these are the superficial. If you scratch a little deeper; psychological maturity is what I look out for in these set of guys...how he behaves, his reaction in certain situations, and general mindset. Can't deal with an overgrown kid.
Yeah, but the list is inexhaustible.
Romance › Re: 5 Things Ladies Look Out For In You When You Turn 30 by Rapmoney(op): 9:20am On Oct 26, 2017
ArchangeLucifer:
You left out Satanists.

That's an affront.
You are one?
Romance › 5 Things Ladies Look Out For In You When You Turn 30 by Rapmoney(op): 8:30am On Oct 26, 2017
Guys: Things Ladies Look Out For In You When You Turn 30

The age of 30 is very significant in the life of a young man in our society. There's a certain consciousness than young men tend to experience when they get close to this age. There's also a silent ritual of deep reflections that's attached to it. Trying to pick a soulmate and make a headway in life begin to come to play clearly like never before. At this stage, there are certain things that ladies want in you. Please, this post is not for guys who are still striving hard to get pink lips to impress little slay queens.

1) A GROWING OR STRONG FINANCIAL BASE: I'm not against ladies going for young men with a stable financial background. Every responsible and hardworking lady deserves a man with a growing or strong financial base. She probably has a blueprint of how she wants her family to be. Don't blame her. I only frown at lazy and visionless young ladies who hunt for the already-made. At 30, a woman wants to see you doing something worthwhile that brings income. If your case is the opposite, sorry, you will need to do more! As a man, it's a shame to depend on a woman for finance. It clearly makes you a kid!

2) FREEDOM FROM MATERNAL STRINGS: Now, take this as a practical test from me. At one time, take out 15 minutes to talk to a lady who admires you about your mum. Tell her how your mum influences your life. On another occassion, do same about your dad. See which one makes her slightly uncomfortable. I bet you, the first would do. Women know how their emotions work. They know their extent of influence in a man's life. The female specie of humans mostly make decisions based on emotions rather than rationality. It's a common trait. As it is in your girl, so it is in your mum; they are women! At 30, women want to know whether you are still a puppet to your mother. She wouldn't want your mum's decisions to be binding in her matrimonial home! Among all your family members (extended members inclusive), your mother will be the greatest concern to that woman that considers you her partner.

3) PERSONAL SPACE/A KNOWN ADDRESS: This is another thing women look out for when a guy approaches 30. They want to date a man that lives somewhere, not a cloud!!! You can't just be hovering around. You can't be at Okezie's place today, Teguolo's place tomorrow and Ademola's place the day after tomorrow. Ogbeni, where your house dey? Which street? Which area? huh Abi you be spirit? Don't even think of hotel, except you are dealing with a runs girl and looking up to a one-night-stand!

4) MATURE DRESS SENSE AND GENERAL APPEARANCE: This is one very important thing women look out for when you begin to approach 30. This shouldn't be a time to be chasing pink lips or adorning yourself with clothes that are suited for teenage guys! Nice clothes fitting for your stage in life should be appropriate. Shirts should look neat and ironed. You only deserve a presentable woman when you, yourself is presentable too.

5) RELIGIOUS INCLINATIONS: This is one of the most hypocritical notions I've come to discover in recent times but we should save that for another day. When you approach 30, women (especially, Nigerian women) want to know your religious inclinations. That's because we tend to be too religious in this part of the world. When a girl starts probing into your religious backround, she probably wants to be serious with you. At 30, you should be open and sincere in revealing your religious beliefs, be you a Christian, Muslim, Bhuddist, Nihilist, Atheist, native doctor or magician! Whoever wants to stay or go will. It all depends on the woman's beliefs and outlook on life.

Good morning folks!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Two Women Who Murdered Kim Jung Un's Brother Heavily Escorted To Airport(Photos) by Rapmoney(m): 10:58am On Oct 24, 2017
huh
Celebrities › Re: Pretty Mike Acquires Buys Mercedes GLE 450 Worth N36 Million by Rapmoney(m): 10:38pm On Oct 23, 2017
A.M.I.L. - All Money Is Legal.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 5 Negative Characters Most Nigerian Employers Exhibit by Rapmoney(op): 10:08am On Oct 21, 2017
gbzed:
Self employed sure pass.

But not everybody can b self employed cos who will do the work?
Not everyone can be self-employed but everyone can start doing something about their future now.
Jobs/Vacancies › 5 Negative Characters Most Nigerian Employers Exhibit by Rapmoney(op): 8:53am On Oct 21, 2017
5 Negative Characters Most Nigerian Employers Exhibit

This post lists typical attitudes most Nigerian employers exhibit, especially, in organisations where the boss is the sole-proprietor. The gospel truth is that labour is very cheap in Nigeria. The extreme cheapness of this labour has humbled so many young graduates to accept and tolerate unnecessary and harsh policies that have succeeded in enslaving them. No matter where you find yourself today, never lose focus on building your personal dreams. You cannot be TRULY satisfied in life building another man's dreams in a situation where you work as a slave! It's a basic fact; you can take that to the bank!

1) NOT PAYING WORKERS ON TIME: Some employers are not humans! Yes, not all employers are humans. Some are worse than Monster Caliban in the popular drama, 'The Tempest' by Shakespeare. How can you owe employees for months with no explanations as to what the reason for the delay is? And on Sunday, na you go first reach church, come go front seat go sidan with white starched native! Your family members eat and live well but have you asked yourself how family members of your workers are living? Your employees, especially, the hardworking ones, are the engine of your organization; they are your team members, not your slaves. Pay them on time or pay them off if you can't continue with the business! Oga boss, no be by force o!

2) THEY WANT YOU TO WEAR DIFFERENT SUITS TO WORK BUT YOUR SALARY IS 40K!!! : I curse poverty! Oga boss, why are you so wicked? huh I mean, why you be like this sef? How can you pay a graduate 40k monthly and still want him/her to change suits and wear fly coporate clothes to work? Do unto others as you would want them do to you. It's a natural law.

3) THEY GIVE YOU LOADS OF WORK THAT IS BEYOND YOUR CAPACITY: Most one-man organisations, especially private schools, are typical of this. I almost got trapped in a private school, where I was nearly killed with work some years back. My first day at work left me wondering whether it would be wise to resume the next day. How can one person teach Civic Education Jss1-3, CRS Jss1-3, Government SS1-3, Literature-In-English SS1-3 and Social Studies Jss 2&3? huh Even if I be Aristotle sef!!! Una wan give person pikin madness? Not to talk of the lengthy lesson notes on top cabin biscuit salary ! The principal called me the next day, asking why I didn't resume work but I told him he was calling a wrong number!

4) THEY SLASH YOUR PAY WITHOUT EXPLANATIONS: Many employers will just slash your pay with no explanations, yet they want you to do your best. One employer even told me that I should do 'his best' and not mine when I told him: 'Sir, I will do my best'. Meanwhile, I was being owed two months arrears with previous slashing and slicing here and there as if my salary was finger chop bread! Abeg, wetin man do man, my people? huh

5) NOT REWARDING HARDWORKING EMPLOYEES: You may never know what you have till you lose it. Most Nigerian employers always fail to reward hardwork among their employees. Reward people who go extra miles to see that goals and targets are met. If you lose them, you may never get their exact replacements. When you water your crops, they flourish and produce fruits but when you don't, you know the rest.

I was listening to 'Better (Remix)' by Oritsefemi ft. Vector and the rapper (Vector) said: 'Oritsefemi...How I wan respect the boss wey no dey pay?/How you wan enjoy salary wen the pay no dey tay?'. #WORD
Romance › Re: Seven Kinds Of Ladies Around A Broke Guy by Rapmoney(m): 12:39am On Oct 06, 2017
Nice one, emusmith!
Romance › Re: Before You Fall In Love. by Rapmoney(m): 12:27am On Oct 06, 2017
cool
Politics › Re: Landlord To Evict Lai Mohammed's Ministry In Abia For Failure To Pay Rent by Rapmoney(m): 11:53am On Oct 04, 2017
Pay your gaddem rent now or you are thrown out!!!
Education › Re: Where Are Our First-class Graduates And Professors? by Rapmoney(op): 10:43am On Oct 02, 2017
omoelerin1:
I want to believe you are not a half-baked but a fully- baked, then what are you doing? Where is your innovation? where is your contribution? Who tells you that those guru in technology are professors/first class grad? Did you know majority of them are drop-outs? Are those Arab project managers professors or graduates?
Oga, if you read the post very well, you would have observed that I was even trying to show that there is no correlation between the little indigenous technology we have and 'outstanding' degrees obtained by some folks. I didn't pin-point Arabs that supervise project works as professors or compulsorily, graduates! Don't attack the messenger, attack the message! You are almost contradicting yourself.
Education › Re: Where Are Our First-class Graduates And Professors? by Rapmoney(op): 10:31am On Oct 02, 2017
ToZaraWithaZ:
Rapmoney, nice write-up. You spoke the plain truth, and I agree with you.

The MAIN problem is that ordinary schools, especially the ones in Africa, are designed to churn out people who can read and write, haven't set their ambitions too high, and will be able to fit into the working world where they will carry out a menial and bureaucratic function for average pay.

There are so many people with astonishing potentials, but have had them killed because of the education system. One of the worst mistakes the state can make is to shovel all children, no matter their differences, into "one size fits all" schools where they get a standardised curriculum that is never tailored to any child's particular needs and talents. If you provided everyone on earth with a one-size-fits-all set of clothes, most would look terrible, while, for a lucky few, they would be a perfect fit. So, it is with education. For a few, the education system is just right - for everyone else it's a lesser or greater disaster.

The students with the best grades are often not the most intelligent ones, but the ones with the best short-time memory or best at rote, robotic learning. After an exam, they usually forget most of the material.

That's why, like you said, it's the outsiders, the non-conformists, the freethinkers, the rebels and heretics who find the system nauseating, that tend to create anything worthwhile.

Education ought to be about discovering what children are good at, and what they're not. If you teach mathematics to a person who has no mathematical aptitude, you will shatter their confidence and self-esteem. Don't keep making people do things for which they have no glimmer of talent. It's pointless, counter-productive and psychologically damaging, and in the end, their real talent remains undiscovered and unexplored.
Thanks. Wonderful analysis.
Education › Re: Where Are Our First-class Graduates And Professors? by Rapmoney(op): 10:15am On Oct 02, 2017
ivolt:
@Rapmoney, this is a very good question.

The answer lies in Nigeria's priority.
As you know that scientific development is largely dependent on money
We don't have enough money for food and health(allegedly), so R&grin is
relegated to the back room.

What is even surprising is the mindset of many Nigerians even the learned
ones, I can see some posters already blaming Britain for the problem we face
when the same britain colonised singapore, malaysia and South Africa, yet
some seemingly literate people think that britain hid the
"true education" from Nigerians.

Until our schools start encouraging thinking instead of linguists-only and the
government stop mismanagement, the first class and professors will
continue to do what their predecessors are doing, collecting salaries and
getting by while blame continues to be passed around.
You are correct. That's a sensible observation. All the same, I think Britain didn't colonize South Africa; South Africa was colonized by the Dutch.
Education › Re: Where Are Our First-class Graduates And Professors? by Rapmoney(op): 9:36am On Oct 02, 2017
oluwamitomisin:
OP and commenters in support of him/her, all I could read here is some form of hatred for a particular set of people- first class holders and professors.

Mind that you are a graduate of whatever class you got from the higher institution also, and the burden is on all to improve our society at large. Stop being inferior!!!

I wish I have more time to reply y'all.
I don't think you read the first paragraph of my post because if you did, you would have sounded differently. Don't take it personal; truth hurts. By the way, the atmosphere surrounding the post has nothing to do with superiority or inferiority.
Education › Re: Where Are Our First-class Graduates And Professors? by Rapmoney(op): 9:29am On Oct 02, 2017
Nukilia:
@Desyner is not correct with the abusive words used on HND graduates. We have smart guys who have HND and are doing great. I guess the problem is with the idea of everyone trying to get a certificate and they don't know what to use the knowledge acquired for in the society.

When an Engineer becomes a comdeian and people hail him because he/she is making money, then you know there's problem with the system.

When a biochemistry graduate start making money from frying "Akara" then his pastor will tell him that frying "Akara" is his calling.

We have lots of problem in this our country, and all will be solved the day our universities and polytechnics review their curriculum and get enough funding for research and direct application of result to national problem.
Thanks for understanding.
Education › Re: Where Are Our First-class Graduates And Professors? by Rapmoney(op): 12:29am On Oct 02, 2017
Desyner:
What's the use of a brilliant mind that's subject to dull retærded illiterates? You can have a First class and still be under a smelly illiterate with HND because everything is by quota arrangement. Let's restructure the hole.
I tell you today, there are so many young and intelligent folks out there labouring under the weight of other folks who are clear examples of mediocrity.

On the other hand, I don't think being a holder of HND makes one an 'illiterate' or educationally inferior as you stated.
Education › Re: Where Are Our First-class Graduates And Professors? by Rapmoney(op): 12:22am On Oct 02, 2017
Phinity318:
of course, I will use ur Nl moniker, I assume.
wink
Education › Re: Where Are Our First-class Graduates And Professors? by Rapmoney(op): 11:43pm On Oct 01, 2017
Phinity318:
Permission to Kofi Alhaji Rapmoney
That's if you are acknowledging the author of the post.
Education › Re: Where Are Our First-class Graduates And Professors? by Rapmoney(op): 10:48pm On Oct 01, 2017
tosyne2much:
This is very insightful oga Rapmoney
Bro, thanks. I appreciate.
Education › Re: Where Are Our First-class Graduates And Professors? by Rapmoney(op): 5:06pm On Oct 01, 2017
CC: Richiez, Fynestboi, Olawalebabs
Education › Where Are Our First-class Graduates And Professors? by Rapmoney(op): 5:01pm On Oct 01, 2017
For those folks who love throwing stones at people due to hidden tribal, religious, family or pure blind sentiments, I write this post without any bias. If you have a first-class graduate or a professor in your family or you are one, don't take this personal, even if I know that your sentiments are irrelevant and remove nothing from or add nothing to the basic truth!

From independence to our present day, Nigeria as a country has been churning out first-class graduates from different universities that are scattered across the country like the creeks of Calabar. Often times, we are greeted with news headlines on newspapers, television, radio and online media such as: '45 Bagg First-Class From Migwor University' or '38 Graduate With First-Class From University of Vrendo'. Now, I ask, where are these first-class graduates? What have they been able to contribute to and achieve in science, art, technology and other facets of life? Is it that their 'intelligence' was only expressible on thick papers called certificates?

How come we still can't manufacture wrist-watches even with all our first-class graduates and professors in Engineering?

How come we have the raw materials to construct roads, yet we need some Arab fellows with a pass in National Diplomas to supervise road construction projects in Nigeria?!!! Where are our first-class graduates in Civil Engineering?

Where are all the project works that were defended in school before graduation? huh Probably resting on those old dusty cockroach and rat-infested shelves as usual

Our agricultural productivity is very low in many areas, yet we have been churning our first-class graduates and professors from various faculties of Agriculture in different tertiary institutions (universities and polytecnics).

Most private universities in Nigeria award first-class degrees as if they were oranges, kuli-kuli, biscuits or bubble gums. Each time these universities dish out their usual rounds of first-class degrees, it reminds me of how our aunties and uncles used to hand us many sweets, biscuits and gums during their children's birthday parties in the early 80's. To be sincere, I've met some first-class graduates from these schools who didn't even know the main difference between a university and a polytecnic. They couldn't impress me!

Most of the indigenous products we use in this country are the handwork and brainchild of folks who obtained technical knowledge from technical institutions and other sources within and outside Nigeria.

Those that studied abroad and bagged first-class degrees and the professors who were tutored abroad usually come back home with no significant contribution in science, art, technology and other areas, irrespective of the fact that most of them studied under scholarships or grants.

Until the educational system in Nigeria is over-hauled, we are going to witness more and more half-baked and quarter-baked first-class holders and professors who are products of a system that promotes mediocrity at the expense of value and quality.

The government of Poland spends about 3% of its annual budget on RESEARCH, just research alone (NOT EDUCATION). Don't we have so-called professors in government? What is their significance?

Romance › Re: Zimbabwean Man Hangs Out With Prostitute, She Shares Pics With Wife As Blackmail by Rapmoney(m): 5:10am On Sep 29, 2017
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Politics › Re: Cabal: Osinbajo Is Pmb’s Closest Confidante – Garba Shehu by Rapmoney(m): 10:44pm On Sep 26, 2017
CornelG:
That is the evidence of working with a Man of God especially a product of Daddy G.O #PastAdeboye unlike the likes of Atiku/Namadi and others. My Hero and My Role model @Osinbajo please keep it up Sir!!! More Grace!!!!!
Another religiously blinded Nigerian! With this, I clearly see why Nigeria is what it is.

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