₦airaland Forum

I already know.

Reason why he was saying all those craps.

Aonkuuse:
I can see these people are really pained. Ma what can you say about your romance with Obasanjo

Face the topic and leave irrelevant issues.

Government of Ojuju Calabar! Useless government.

uboma:
Which one be swallow again?

I visit the restaurant and the waitress says, there is Rice, Beans, Porridge Yam and swallow.

I ask, is there any food one will eat that won't be swallowed eventually?

The slang 'swallow' has come to stay for so many Nigerians.

Back to the topic, Starch with Banga soup is my number one especially when I travel home. Away from home, Amala with Ewedu and some stew, pounded Yam with vegetable, semovita with egusi goes for me. I can have any of these once in two days at least. Not a daily affair for me.

As you mention starch, I know say you be from my side. Urhobo wadoo! Oniovo mee, mavo?

junkiesneverdie:
They should learn to mind their business enough of this holier-than-thou attitude...

Do you even have a single sense left in your brain?

actoor:
Max....
24hours except I no dey this Obodo Naija...

You dey vex o! This means taking swallow is a daily activity

Mariangeles:
Forever !

I believe you.

Akpu, we die here!

Swallow comes in different forms depending on your location and preferences. Eba, Akpu, Amala, Semo, Tuwo, Starch are all examples of swallow.

For me, my favourite is akpu. The maximum I can stay without swallowing akpu is 2 days (that's 48 hours). I can take akpu as breakfast, lunch and dinner as far as the soup is good and there are many animals (meat or fish) in it.

I even prefer to swallow akpu on festive days when most people opt for rice.

Recently, the size of 50 Naira akpu has been decreasing and it is giving me sleepless nights!

If I no eat akpu a day, all my body go dey shake like Mama Akpomedaye grinding machine.

Folks, how many days can you go without taking swallow?

simonlee:
if you like buy lollipop for all the kids in Asia,you'll never win our hearts!
the one TRUE GOAT remains Ororo himself CR7.
So....

Lol! As dem blast you, you just run. You no show face for the thread again o!

Sotay somebody even call you Simon the Non-entity! Chai! Dem fall your hand for here, no be small.

Gowon's ethnic group suffers in the hands of Fulani terrorists! Nemesis is catching up with him. Weldone FFK.

Is this not the same onila on NL who posts craps?

MiztaBobiGentle:
Okay now I understand were you are coming from. Just take note that my family is not same as yours okay. They don't need help because they are already enjoying the grace of God upon the entire family.

Your family no need help? Nothing person no go see for Nairaland.

Jamesbally:
Another PAINED Biafran.

Your mumu too much. Face the topic and leave irrelevant issues!

Na wa! Why didn't you just pay a runs girl and ease yourself of the sexual urge instead of molesting a child? You go suffer well well o!

pansophist:
My young bro, take heart. The sad truth is, she has found someone better, and you should accept it even if you do not feature in the picture. It's about emotional maturity and letting this just be.

Your next step is to give yourself time, as time has a way of healing things. You'll pass through it, and you'll like yourself better after this. I experienced something you passed through when I was 18, and felt even worse than you, but I was naive, innocent, and didnt understood the timeless truth of female nature, keeping attraction, and stimulating the relationship sustainably. Looking back those times, I could see clearly the mistake I made, and I've refined myself to a point that such could not happen again. And in the unlikely scenario that it does, well, a replacement is around the corner. You should do the same.

It seems to me that your relationship with her is your job, you specialized in loving her and treating her as the best thing, while ignoring your own personal growth. Listen attentively, women DO NOT want to be your goal. They want to be part/beneficiary of it, not the goal. You treated her nice and gave her everything to the best of your ability and probably didn't focus on your growth, and compete with other men in the free world.

You were too available, making you appear as someone with female scarcity, with no option and not a real catch. Also, pursuing her even after her formal declaration for relationship withdrawal is something that men with no options do. You cannot beg a woman into a relationship with you, it's an instant attraction killer. You attract and keep her with the lifestyle you've built for yourself, and the man you've developed yourself to be.

Remember the biblical story of when God told Adam (after eating the forbidden fruit from Eve), that henceforth he would toil the ground for food and survival, and cursed Eve that she will suffer doing child birth? The true meaning of this story is that as a man, you have to be out there hustling, pursuing your goal and fulfilling your dreams, as no woman want to be for a man that is not out there toiling the ground.

She dont want to cry during child birth for man with no purpose, and be amother to his kids. Whether you believe in this story or not, you may comb any other religion, culture, science, and just observe the world around you, you would see that your value as a man is by being resourceful. You're almost depressed (that's if you're not), because you are not pursuing things in the real world that would make her wonder why you do not call her always, that even if she breaks up with you, you're too busy achieving and breaking through to even feel an inch of her jilting you.

That even if she breaks up with you, in the back of mind, she knows there are younger and far beautiful women out there waiting to take her place, and will question herself if she can get a man in the same calibre as you. Do you think Davido will be worried if Chioma decides to leave him? Davido will laugh at her because he knows that she will be dead lucky to meet a man in his status, and she knows this as well. In every relationship, many young boys are clouded with feelings and love without understanding the power dynamics that is ever present and playing in the background.

I hope you get well, but remember this, you will never loose women chasing money (interpret it as goals, achievements, purpose etc), but you'll always loose money chasing women. Goodluck young man.

This is really a deep one. You have expressed yourself wisely...great wisdom.

globemoney:
When will this fat weeping governor concentrate on governance and stop sponsoring media propaganda on nairaland and Facebook

It's OEPHIUS he is using on Nairaland.

It's no news. We know.

Op, these are disturbing photos. Do the needful.

Stealing from someone who was trying to survive? Some humans are really terrible! E no end there, you come still kill am join...e no go better for una, I swear.

Biritiko:
Igbos will not be happy about this

You don't really make use of your brain.