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"worrying" does not cause permanent high blood pressure as narrated by the OP, it's diet related. Red meat, fatty food, sugary stuff, alcohol, etc but some Doctors won't tell you.

They want their business going on.

Maximos7:
Simple. Stop over worrying. Can your anxieties move an object or change the weather ?

You are obviously a sl'ow brain if you think I am from the east. I am Ogoja, I live in Calabar.

I wouldn't shy away from the truth even if it affects me. Truth is always not palatable to "useful id'iots".. Credit to FFK

Throwback:
Very interesting narrative.

I promise to give your opinion more visibility on this forum.

That will help many that are not Igbos to decide voting Obi or not, because what you have vomited is from a very deep reservoir of bigotry.

Sadly, your type are the engine room of Obi’s campaign that is camouflaged as a national revolution of those who want to change Nigeria.

Us'eless speech from a u'seless idiot. Corrupt Reno

Looser. You jettisoned zoning because it's the turn of South East in PDP. Selfishness is killing PDP. God of the Igbos always fights for them.

See how the betrayers are fighting each other.

See the sorry state of Nigeria because of the way the treated Igbos. Abiola won but it was canceled because he said he could do without Igbos.

North is in tatters because of the innocent pregnant women and children killed during the pogroms in 1967, etc etc.

All that rise up against Igbos shall fall, this is the eternal decree of the Almighty God of creation

That's how people impersonate people and commit e'vil

Agents of e'vil. Whether you like it or not, Nigeria must be rescued from you e'vil men.

Peter Obi is the answer to Nigeria problems. We need him

We warned Nigerians in 2015 but they didn't listen. Now, another opportunity for eight years of more poverty and death with the two deadly parties or a life, recovery and prosperity plus hope which Peter Obi represents.

Choose wisely. We have warned you again

Is this the only option left? I don't think so.

Have you thought about innocent people that may be victims of the bombing?

What of "Ebubeagu", it's not strong anymore?

Don't kill your people but go ONLY after the criminals who are kidnapping, burning and butchering fellow Igbos and innocent people please

Why did he cancel it? Igbos killing and burning down Igboland and thinking they are doing Buhari, what a stupid way of fighting for freedom!!

So far, out of one hundred and twenty five policemen they killed, only twelve were non Igbos. Use'less cri'minals fighting for freedom for you. Have your ESN alias unknown gunmen got tired of butchering and eating Igbos?

Are they tired of kidnapping, robbing and burning down Igbos?

You are wise. The foolish sons do not reason like you. They usually obey the lies, deceptions and manipulations by their mother or anyone and they engage in isolating their father and disobey him.

Anyway, unknown to such sons, they are already having curses hanging on their neck. At the appropriate time, their lives shall be sorry and miserable.
This applies to natural fathers and sons

We thank God for you.

New contract signed. From now, Nigeria can not be islamized, Muslim Muslim ticket is not bad, CAN is unreasonable, etc etc.

Stomach directs his emotions and writings.

A grand hypocrite at its worst

Deji is PDP crusader, a bitter childish petty talkative type. We Nigerians now know who he really is. Stupidity at its peak

Truth is life. I and many of my friends (non ibos) support Peter Obi and will definitely vote for him. We have our PVC ready

Until you hear from the husband, never believe all you hear from those daughters of Eve. You have no idea how horrible they can be at close range in marriage, not friendship experience. Don't condemn men until you have experience

Felimax:
Presently, equally battling with that of my close friend also. They only just separated and I am wondering why some men can be so heartless.

She has three boys for my friend and I am wondering what those boys will grow up to be with the kind of parenting they are been exposed to. People should learn I beg.

Had a colleague at DPR far back, a senior management officer who was killed by his two sons in cold blood, they did not pity him that he is crippled.

Men please, if you cannot marry her when the breast are no longer gorgeous and attractive don't go close at all. Women never stays the same, they will always be lots of changes.

My major concern is the life of those kids with epileptic parenting system. I feel for them.

Until you hear from her husband, don't demonize the man yet. You ain't married and have no idea how terrible those daughters of Eve really are at close range. Marriage will open your eyes

SteveDGreat:
I am emotionally down honestly. If not that I am hearing this from her, I won't believe that a Man could be this cold towards his wife.

This lady is my one and only best friend. As a matter of fact, I was nursing plans to marry her but man never make it. We never had sex.

Well, she got married and our conversation slow down. I deliberately slow it down so as to respect her marriage.

One day I decided to call, the husband picked and warned me never to call her again. Omoh I was shocked.

Days after she called and apologized and explained how the man has completely changed and is maltreating her to the extend of beating her and emotional abuse. We spoke consistently and unfortunately, she left the marriage.

She came to my city was staying with her elder brother. We spoke for some time and I went off cos I didn't want to get too close so as not to attract emotional feelings.

Well, after some months, she blocked me from reaching her. For 9 months we haven't been in touch.

Yesterday she sent me a chat with a strange phone Facebook that I should give her my number. Since Yesterday, she has been pouring her emotional trauma on me.
Her marriage is hell. Emotional abuse, insults, beating.

As I am typing, she is still talking on phone. She is done with the marriage and wants to leave but she is scared of her son that's 1 year and 2 months old.

I really feel bad for her and don't even know how to help her.
It is painful. She is my best friend.

They probably don't have Fulanis in key positions of power there. Congrats to them

That's for those who are perishing and of heavy heart. Not for genuine Christians and Muslims

Deji has finally been exposed as an extremely corrupt individual hiding under the guise of human rights activist for these years. A petty double mouthed desperate fellow.

Every deceit has expiry date. His true nature has come up.

Police authorities are increasingly multiplying robbers inadvertently.

He may be following the laws guiding the disciplined organization but he should watch it. Let him look for alternatives punishments instead of outright dismissing a trained in arms and other security secrets persons.

This is never done like that in civilized world.

The rate he is going, he may wipe out all the junior ranks in the institution.

Dismissing his personnel to please the public is not a wise decision at all. Even if the trained dismissed personnels don't go into full scale crime because of hunger, they may get involved in helping evil people in the society

This was exactly how the romance between the serpent and Eve started. It wasn't one day thing. The family friendship lasted long and then... The tragedy. Adam failed to protect his wife, probably ignorant of the natural weakness, pliability and gullibility imbedded in women, he thought his wife could never fall for the serpent. The rest was history when one of his two boys had the gene gotten from the illicit sex with the serpent.

You are responsible for any adultery your wife gets into or has already got into because you are stupid and blind to not notice the indices.

I won't say more

grop1040:
Hi guys,

Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife.

So I'm 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.

He's bossy and very vulgar plus he's controlling, everybody knows him for that, he was married 13 years ago, however after his family relocated to the USA, he later found
out that his 3kids aren't his, the marriage ended like that, ever since then he's been traumatized, emotionally and any other way one can describe him as. Sometimes in order to at least feel that children presence around him, he would ask me to have my children come over to his place for some days, and I could witness how that really helped him over time, but then I noticed the absence of his wife started making him familiarize with my wife in certain odd manners which I was not really down with.

For example, if he comes to our house, most times comes around with a friend, either female or male, my wife seems not to be the attache type who would sit with us in the living room, she will rather be upstairs in the room, I have witnessed cases where he will shout at her, saying how can everybody be here and ur there upstairs?

There was even a time when one of the visitors he came with sighed and made face in a way that defined, wow, "was that necessary". Or times when he will ask her to cook stew for her, if she forgets or probably didnt want to do it because she knew it isnt her duty, she will be yelled upon, you'll here things like, where
is the egusi i told u to make, even the one you made last time, u didnt put enough this and that

Now yall might think am a dullard or a simp, or someone too relaxed as gentle and as patient as I am, I be original demon, if I start my madness, the result will end in eternal damage, and our family background from my mums side where this my brother was born, we tend to uphold unity over adversity, so when things like this occur, mum would rather have us calm and not fight so unity can continue.

So sometimes last year, the major issues started grooming that made me start to think if there was something going on with my step and my wife, it started with when the kids were with him, so madam and I were suppose to go for outing, so we decided to branch at his place to check up on the kids, on getting there while in his living room, he said to my wife "I like your hair" she responded thanks, he was like are u guys going out, I was like yea am taking her out, next thing she asked my madam, so when are we going on
our own outing? I shrugged and didnt understand where that came from, though she didnt answer him.

While we were leaving, I was waiting for her to bring up the topic and put it to me that why did ur brother say such a thing, even if its a joke, its too expensive, but she didnt, I brought up the topic, and she was like shes surprised too that she never thought he would say such a thing.

5 days later, we had a family party in his house, my other brothers, cousins and my mum, my children were there, while the
caterer were cooking outside, and we were all in his living room drinking, he opted to get some meat to dish and give everybody to at least be chewing something, he served it round but when it got to my wives turn, the one he already bit off from was what he gave her, funny thing is, it was only my mum and myself that saw the scene, my wife was not aware, that was when I knew something could be going on.

Afterwards, I put the ish through to my wife, she acted disgusted and said she cant blv he would do such, that although my mum already called her to say the same thing. So I asked details of what she discussed with my mum, she said my mum advised her that whenever he calls her, she shouldnt pick, that when he knows its obvious that shes avoiding his call, he probably would want to report to her, and then she will now break the silence of what she my wife have been experiencing with him thus her refusal to pick his call.

So I called my mum and I was like being calm, patient and cooperating with the useless policy of the family doesnt mean that the recent things happening won't seat any longer with me, that am gonna have to confront him and put him in his place. My mum begged me and begged, cos she's 76 years old, I considered and I had no choice but to cooperate with her advise.

The funny thing is, after this whole ish, I asked her that if he calls, will you pick, she answered yes I will, but I will have to see what he has to say first to know if I will continue the conversation or not, I was like for real? You must be kidding me, it means something that I am not suppose to know of is happening, she was like oh well its ur fault, why didn't u confront him instead of listening to ur mums advise.

Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.

Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening
that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction.

That's the bitter truth. If Nigerians make another fatal mistake they made in 2015 by voting APC or PDP which are birds of a feather, Nigeria is gone to abyss

Let PDP sink into oblivion. They are APC breakouts, same men of the coven.

Only Peter Obi will survive the judgement of God and the wrath of youths in Nigeria

Stop advising your enemies when they are making mistakes, it's for your good and gain

Best reply to a selfish ambitious man who enabled the greatest devastation, disaster, distress, destruction, economic woes, youth hopelessness and despair Nigeria ever experienced.

Nigerian civil war era is better than the klllings being witnessed today because a man wanted to be called a president.

When murderers are praising a subject, it tells you all you need to know about the fellow.

Deji is a frustrated corrupt entity that masquerade as human rights activist.

He is so obsessed with Peter Obi matters that he he is losing his senses of decorum.

He is working for pd--pigs at a cost of millions of naira which PDP is sharing to all celebrities.

His headaches is because Obi does not give him shishi. Let go and.... Repent

Tinubu. He hated Nigerian youths much and packaged a disaster who would destroy all their dreams in life. Funny enough, the "lazy youths" are defending their killers and preparing for another eight years of total "new level" pro max of deaths, economic woes, bl00d letting, destruction and frustration

This is a black man that was mistakenly born in evil forest called Africa. God bless him for having a great conscience like the whites.

A typical black man hates all God's creatures

She needs serious deliverance before she marries again otherwise whoever she marries again will die certainly. There are many causes of this. If you want to know the reasons, ask me

For better Ni'geria, choose Peter Obi. It's not about Obi, it's about the youths of this nation, their future and that of their children

Demons